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ThatKidWithTheFace
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Why am I lasting longer?
#23846908 - 11/18/16 09:59 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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So, I'll just say it, I've always been a bit of a minute-man. It's been an issue for as long as I can remember. But with my new ol lady it was ridiculous.
Not to be crass, but she's so tight I was lucky to get four or five good pumps in before having to distract myself. I never made it five minutes.
Then the other day, it just changed. Now I'll go as long as want without it being an issue. I don't understand, nothing's changed about our sex life, she still turns me on as the day I met her, she's still just as tight. So what gives?
I mean, I'm not really complaining. My lady is enjoying herself more than ever. I'm overall happy. But she thinks there's something wrong with her, which is not the case.
Do y'all have any ideas about what could be causing this?
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[quote]Sheekle said: [quote]ThatKidWithTheFace said: Is this the same aunt that fucks dogs?[/quote] u bet ur ass it is.[/quote]
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Anonymous #1
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You're more comfortable so you're not getting worked up for as long. Maybe you feel more connected and really want to please her? Less foreplay? Smoking more weed? Less weed?
There are probably lots of reasons, but if you're using condoms then just make like you busted, eat her out a bit, then take her for 'round 2.' That will make her feel better. She probably thinks you're losing interest for some reason. That's obviously not the case, but sometimes the best way to convince skepticism of the truth is to straight up lie. 
Round 2 bro.
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ThatKidWithTheFace
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Thanks so much, man
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[quote]Sheekle said: [quote]ThatKidWithTheFace said: Is this the same aunt that fucks dogs?[/quote] u bet ur ass it is.[/quote]
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Jokeshopbeard
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I think it's a confidence thing. I've never had problems with being a 'minute-man', but I know many that do/have, and even though I didn't I still used to really question my 'staying power' nonetheless. I like sex to be an experience that goes on for hours and hours and hours, not something that is ended by something I can't control, which it once was.
But there came a point, somehow intertwined with maturity, where I realised it just wasn't a problem at all to decide on when I cum - I can go on as long as I like, even forgoing orgasm entirely without concern, as long as I know my partner is satisfied.
I guess self knowledge and self control probably play a big part in this too.
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