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Anonymous #1
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Lover Forced to Join International Gang...
#23830899 - 11/13/16 11:53 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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So I wrote out a detailed account but I'm terrified somehow I could be traced. here is the tldr low details
Date girl 3 months. Most incredibly passionate relationship of life. We stop dating because external circumstances. 2 years later we start seeing each other. She has just ended 2-year relationship she had after we broke up but is fighting with exbf all day every day. Emotionally abusive man has even raped her. Incredibly manipulative person. I console and coach her out of his trap.
Learn more and more about guy. She says he in a gang and I lol. Over time more and more stories about him getting more strange. She says he has killed people but I disregard because we don't know what he says is true or fake. Then it clicks... It's real and it's big time shit.
Weeks go by he won't let her go. She tries everything...nice at first but fucking terrible later just to get him away from her.
Shit goes down. I can't say details but she is forced to join. I'm not even supposed to know or I would be targeted. She called me to tell me she loves me and that this is goodbye. She joined.
He owns her now. He got what he wanted.
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100_the_cat

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Re: Lover Forced to Join International Gang... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#23834448 - 11/15/16 04:12 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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That's some realness right there
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100_the_cat

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Re: Lover Forced to Join International Gang... [Re: 100_the_cat]
#23834452 - 11/15/16 04:19 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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If you wanna PM me details I've love to hear them
But I understand if you're too terrified to do so
I was in a relationship with a woman who killed 3 people
2 of those were murders she was never caught for
I was too scared to tell anyone but my therapist, who didn't believe me
I struggled with stuff like whether I should go to the cops...wondering if I was breaking some kind of law myself by sitting on her confession. (I never did though...I didn't want to be next)
Told my mom years later...she didn't believe me either, even though she's obsessed with true crime...
Edited by 100_the_cat (11/15/16 04:30 AM)
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Repertoire89
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Re: Lover Forced to Join International Gang... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#23836163 - 11/15/16 04:44 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Anonymous said:
Weeks go by he won't let her go. She tries everything...nice at first but fucking terrible later just to get him away from her.
Literally everything? Is she handcuffed to the radiator?
I could literally just walk out of town anytime if necessary.
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CookieCrumbs
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Re: Lover Forced to Join International Gang... [Re: Repertoire89]
#23836477 - 11/15/16 06:37 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Maybe that's exactly what she did and doesn't want ANYONE from her past to know...?
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100_the_cat

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Re: Lover Forced to Join International Gang... [Re: Repertoire89]
#23836552 - 11/15/16 06:59 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Repertoire89 said:
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Anonymous said:
Weeks go by he won't let her go. She tries everything...nice at first but fucking terrible later just to get him away from her.
Literally everything? Is she handcuffed to the radiator?
I could literally just walk out of town anytime if necessary.
Well that's pretty ignorant
You have to extract yourself carefully from a situation like that
Manipulation works best, IMO
Make them think they deserve better or change your behavior so they lose interest
Then they'll leave you behind without having a reason to hurt you
Some people you can't get away from until a big Pluto transit
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Repertoire89
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Re: Lover Forced to Join International Gang... [Re: 100_the_cat]
#23837557 - 11/16/16 01:58 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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100_the_cat said:
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Repertoire89 said:
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Anonymous said:
Weeks go by he won't let her go. She tries everything...nice at first but fucking terrible later just to get him away from her.
Literally everything? Is she handcuffed to the radiator?
I could literally just walk out of town anytime if necessary.
Well that's pretty ignorant
You have to extract yourself carefully from a situation like that
Manipulation works best, IMO
Make them think they deserve better or change your behavior so they lose interest
Then they'll leave you behind without having a reason to hurt you
Some people you can't get away from until a big Pluto transit
Sure, make the same mistake everyone else makes.
Just fucking leave and stop bitching, if you're not tied up, leave.
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100_the_cat

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Re: Lover Forced to Join International Gang... [Re: Repertoire89]
#23837681 - 11/16/16 04:14 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Easier said than done
Especially if dealing with an obsessive stalker type
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Cagney
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Re: Lover Forced to Join International Gang... [Re: 100_the_cat]
#23837705 - 11/16/16 04:37 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Fuck that drama! Life's hard enough as it is....
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Re: Lover Forced to Join International Gang... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#23839442 - 11/16/16 04:41 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Wow, that's terrible, I hope you find better and brighter days soon. That sounds like an incredibly hard time. Only time can heal something like that, since she might really be gone from your life forever. The forces of evil, man, they actually exist, but so long as your spirit doesn't break then the forces of good shall prevail.
It might work to infiltrate a gang in the movies, but in real life, a fight is never as simple as it seems on the big screen.
You could possibly monitor them, trying to stalk them and find an optimal time to rescue her and escape, but that's putting your life on the line.
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Repertoire89
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Re: Lover Forced to Join International Gang... [Re: 100_the_cat] 1
#23839546 - 11/16/16 05:19 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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100_the_cat said: Easier said than done
Especially if dealing with an obsessive stalker type
So instead of leaving you recommend people to stay and play mind games with the dipshit?
Genius. Shitty advice like that gets people hurt. Leave and stay away, get the cops involved if necessary.
Those are the best odds you'll get.
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Re: Lover Forced to Join International Gang... [Re: Repertoire89]
#23839801 - 11/16/16 07:07 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Repertoire89 said:
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Anonymous said:
Weeks go by he won't let her go. She tries everything...nice at first but fucking terrible later just to get him away from her.
Literally everything? Is she handcuffed to the radiator?
I could literally just walk out of town anytime if necessary.
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Repertoire89 said:
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100_the_cat said: Easier said than done
Especially if dealing with an obsessive stalker type
So instead of leaving you recommend people to stay and play mind games with the dipshit?
Genius. Shitty advice like that gets people hurt. Leave and stay away, get the cops involved if necessary.
Those are the best odds you'll get.
Let me clarify. She tried doing a nice break up, and then she had to say hurtful shit that wasn't even true just to hurt him and push him away. It didn't work.
You can't just walk away. They will go into your family's house and kill them all, usually with you there to witness. She had her chance to walk away but she is young and didn't take it. This is how these organizations operate. They leverage their demands by destroying everything that matters to you.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Lover Forced to Join International Gang... [Re: Chakra Shock]
#23839825 - 11/16/16 07:18 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Chakra Shock said: Wow, that's terrible, I hope you find better and brighter days soon. That sounds like an incredibly hard time. Only time can heal something like that, since she might really be gone from your life forever. The forces of evil, man, they actually exist, but so long as your spirit doesn't break then the forces of good shall prevail.
It might work to infiltrate a gang in the movies, but in real life, a fight is never as simple as it seems on the big screen.
You could possibly monitor them, trying to stalk them and find an optimal time to rescue her and escape, but that's putting your life on the line.
ty chakra. I wish it were so easy to save her like some super hero agent. It's her life not mine. I've worked with her for months and she didn't heed my words. Now she is going to pay the price and I feel like this is the end of my work. I'm spent and out of ideas. I take solace knowing she has been through tough shit and I know she will make it out alive. I have a great future and so does my family. I've risked my entire career for her once before.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Lover Forced to Join International Gang... [Re: 100_the_cat]
#23839831 - 11/16/16 07:19 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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100_the_cat said: If you wanna PM me details I've love to hear them
But I understand if you're too terrified to do so
I was in a relationship with a woman who killed 3 people
2 of those were murders she was never caught for
I was too scared to tell anyone but my therapist, who didn't believe me
I struggled with stuff like whether I should go to the cops...wondering if I was breaking some kind of law myself by sitting on her confession. (I never did though...I didn't want to be next)
Told my mom years later...she didn't believe me either, even though she's obsessed with true crime...
These types of people require a lot of energy, huh
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Re: Lover Forced to Join International Gang... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#23839856 - 11/16/16 07:28 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Let me clarify. She tried doing a nice break up, and then she had to say hurtful shit that wasn't even true just to hurt him and push him away. It didn't work.
You can't just walk away. They will go into your family's house and kill them all, usually with you there to witness. She had her chance to walk away but she is young and didn't take it. This is how these organizations operate. They leverage their demands by destroying everything that matters to you.
Is she in the slums of Mexico?
If she's in America or another civilized nation, then its time to call up the FBI, and get her family out of there. Staying is not the lesser of two evils, its an indecisive mistake at any stage.
You don't ask for permission, tell them what you're doing or stop to "say hurtful shit to push him away". Leave, call the FBI if you're that worried, call your family and tell them they need to leave.
This story is old and tiresome, there are bill boards addressing this drama.
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Mo.Sigh.Aw
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Re: Lover Forced to Join International Gang... [Re: Repertoire89] 1
#23858781 - 11/22/16 09:13 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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totally thought she was forced into an international gangbang lol
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Mr.GuessWork
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Re: Lover Forced to Join International Gang... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#23874761 - 11/28/16 10:16 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Sorry, man. I don't think there's any good advice to give here. It sounds like you've done all you can do for her. Maybe she'll get her shit together later in life, and maybe she won't get the chance. Sometimes the best you can do is to learn from the suffering you can't stop. to you for doing what you could. You've got my respect for that, Anon1.
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