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Re: extreme anger [Re: LunarEclipse]
    #23839221 - 11/16/16 03:39 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

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LRG said:  I would hit someone right in the solar plexus if they attempted to hit me. Or I would smile and say "Kill me."

:huxleyfacepalm:




Try to hit me or kill me. You'll be sorry and watch me do it with a smile on my face either way. Sometimes fools need to be taught a lesson. I might even let you hit me just so that I can mop the floor with you instead of a single blow.


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"Could it be you're afraid of what your friends might say if they knew you believe in God above? They should realize before they criticize that God is the only way to Love."


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Re: extreme anger [Re: LRG]
    #23840642 - 11/17/16 03:25 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

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LRG said:
Quote:

LunarEclipse said:
LRG said:  I would hit someone right in the solar plexus if they attempted to hit me. Or I would smile and say "Kill me."

:huxleyfacepalm:




Try to hit me or kill me. You'll be sorry and watch me do it with a smile on my face either way. Sometimes fools need to be taught a lesson. I might even let you hit me just so that I can mop the floor with you instead of a single blow.




:chillpill:


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Re: extreme anger [Re: LunarEclipse]
    #23841522 - 11/17/16 12:07 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

in case the OP is still checking in ... ?

other considerations involve some subtle differences, in our internal processing:

1) First level
Knowing the differences between feelings and thoughts, and action

2) the 2nd level
how we feel about what we think
how we think about what we feel
how we feel about what we feel
how we think about what we think

3) Whether we identify:
'I am having an angry feeling(s) / fantasies'
vs
'I AM an angry person'

4th level)
Do negative thoughts and feelings, about those emotions we find unacceptable or scary in ourselves, solidify into judgements about ourselves?

to summarize: If we know all thoughts and emotions are normal, and that we never have to act upon them, then we don't have to resist them. And it is resisting that keeps them active.

In popular culture, in the movie 'the 5th element', this is portrayed as part of the plot.

There is also much psychological info and buddhist info that goes into details on all these aspects.

When strong emotion arises, that surprises us with it's intensity, and is out of our previous range of who we think we are it can easily feel scary. Hence the value of understanding the dynamics of human emotions, identification, resistance, & judgement.

Then we can create (perhaps with guidance at first) an allowing non-judgmental  space within to experience feelings as they arise, change, and dissipate.


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Re: extreme anger [Re: LRG]
    #23842996 - 11/17/16 06:40 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

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LRG said:

Don't call people stupid. We're all stupid.




When we call another person "stupid", we're calling ourselves stupid. 

But if we all are nimrods, we should call each other > "average folk"


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Re: extreme anger [Re: RJ Tubs 202]
    #23843015 - 11/17/16 06:44 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

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LRG said:

Don't call people stupid. We're all stupid.




When we call another person "stupid", we're calling ourselves stupid. 

But if we all are nimrods, we should call each other > "average folk"




Can we at least call LRG a C minus?


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Re: extreme anger [Re: LunarEclipse]
    #23843059 - 11/17/16 06:54 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

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LunarEclipse said:

Can we at least call LRG a C minus?





 


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Re: extreme anger [Re: laughingdog]
    #23843746 - 11/17/16 10:52 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

The Abdhidhamma goes into what Laughing Dog was referring to. 

Buddhism teaches psychology without a psyche.  And the Abdhidhamma microscopically analyzes both matter and mind which constitute the complex organic machinery that is man.

Its truly a master teaching, and it is huge, enormous, a compendium of knowledge and reproducible, consistent observations in thoughts, thought-processes, and mental states (which in this field, includes contact, and feelings.) It defines Consciousness and all its shapes and thoughts are analyzed and mainly classified from an ethical stand point.


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Re: extreme anger [Re: The Blind Ass]
    #23851824 - 11/20/16 03:24 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

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The Blind Ass said:

Buddhism teaches psychology without a psyche.




Really interesting way to put it!

I'm going to think about that for a bit.

What does that mean to you?


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Re: extreme anger [Re: RJ Tubs 202] * 2
    #23855070 - 11/21/16 05:43 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

As for my take, I dont find it skillful to take what are only the aggregrates or raw material of what is used to create a sense of self, to be the self. 


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Edited by The Blind Ass (11/21/16 05:49 PM)


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Re: extreme anger [Re: The Blind Ass]
    #23855388 - 11/21/16 07:32 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

And yet, it seems natural to do this until one has an experience that causes one to question it.


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Re: extreme anger [Re: viktor]
    #23859118 - 11/22/16 11:56 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

I've heard teachers say, "You have to loose yourself to find your self."


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Re: extreme anger [Re: RJ Tubs 202] * 1
    #23859283 - 11/23/16 01:19 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

Its like when your looking for the remote but its in your hand already kind of thing.


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