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Bruces222
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Trolling and desperate adds
#23814880 - 11/09/16 01:27 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'm new here and don't know what "trolling" is , and am I allowed to post my desperate add here ? We can't hook up for drugs here but can we try to hook up for sex here ?
-------------------- In the end only 3 things matter. How much you loved , how gently you lived and how gracefully you let go of things not meant for you.
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Jokeshopbeard
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Re: Trolling and desperate adds [Re: Bruces222]
#23814991 - 11/09/16 02:38 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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I didn't know what trolling was until recently either. It's explained in depth here:
Internet Troll
I see no reason why, if you became friendly with someone here, you couldn't meet up and become physical with them. But it's not the place to write up a dating type profile looking for sex or a relationship; of course you could, but it would shortly be removed. There's hundreds of dating sites out there if that's what you're looking for.
This sub is to discuss sexuality and relationships in all their aspects - the highs, the lows, the conundrums, etc. In essence, a place for sharing, and seeking advice, not for trying to find a mate. But stick around long enough and you'll sure make friends - I've made loads in the years I've been here.
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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Bruces222
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Ok , I'm not a troll then , no worries there. Posting on a dating website that your looking for like minded people who enjoy tripping doesn't fly well at all. I thought a like minded web site would be the best place to look for like minded people. Oh well
-------------------- In the end only 3 things matter. How much you loved , how gently you lived and how gracefully you let go of things not meant for you.
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Jokeshopbeard
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Re: Trolling and desperate adds [Re: Bruces222]
#23816458 - 11/09/16 02:45 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Well of course you can't say out and out you like tripping, but you can gently hint at it, and you can see from reading other peoples profiles if they're the kind that might be open to it. Subtext. Talk of adventure and exploration. You can even spot from peoples photo's if you've a keen eye if they're the type to trip... IMO.
Also, bear in mind that in general, far less women trip than men. I started a thread in the Philosophy forum about that fact once, don't recall coming to a definitive conclusion why, but it is what it is.
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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2shoes
The anti-agar



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Not to thread jack but I love your post jsb. I enjoy reading your very honest down to earth replies. Glad your a fixture around here
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Jokeshopbeard
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Re: Trolling and desperate adds [Re: 2shoes]
#23817409 - 11/09/16 07:32 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Hey thanks so much for saying that 2shoes. You know that's literally the 2nd time anyone has complemented me for what I do here in the 8-9 months since I've been a mod?? I've taken a shit ton of flak since I got the flag, but it makes it all worth it when I know that someone in the community here can feel the vibe I work so hard to keep. Especially in S&R & P&MW-B.
I'm a complete team/community guy at heart, and I'd do anything I can to make sure the people that visit those subs know that they will not be judged, trolled, or made to feel bad in any way.
Although I sometimes resent the anonymity and lack of contact of the internet, in a place like S&R, I feel it allows us to share our deepest thoughts much easier than we could face to face, and thus grow to be better, happier, more confident people.
Thank you again, so much.
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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sudly
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Re: Trolling and desperate adds [Re: Bruces222]
#23819609 - 11/10/16 12:14 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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I would think if you advertise psychedelics as something you value then randoms on dating sites etc will hope to use you for drugs.
I think psychedelics are something you can bring up in discussion once you've met someone and have gotten to know them a bit first.
-------------------- I am whatever Darwin needs me to be.
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Shining Cosmos
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Re: Trolling and desperate adds [Re: sudly]
#23819792 - 11/10/16 01:12 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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You're not going to be able to find what your looking for online. Do it the hard way. Go out and meet people. Or meet a normal girl that you can introduce psychedelics to.
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2shoes
The anti-agar



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just be you OP.
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Jokeshopbeard
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Re: Trolling and desperate adds [Re: 2shoes]
#23820169 - 11/10/16 03:43 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Man I wish women took psychedelics. I tried to whittle down why they don't once in PS&P. Some interesting theories came out, but it really does seem that men have a much greater tendency to trip.
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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Shining Cosmos
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Op could easily find a normal girl and show her the way. My girl is very normal but through me sharing my experiences she wants to try it.
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littlespider
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<woman who trips! Would like to meet: Someone who was interested and understood/wanted to do it together/tollerates it without drama.
I always assumed you where female jokeshop. I appreciate your post's too
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Jokeshopbeard
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And women will often follow you in your passions, for a while, whatever they are. But unless they're of the mindset that they're into the same passions (like exploring altered states) before you met, I wouldn't expect it to last more than a couple of years. I've seen it myself plenty and heard it spoken of anecdotally plenty.
For whatever reason, tripping just doesn't seem to interest the feminine mind as it does the masculine (generalisation of course). I dunno, the deeper I go in my explorations, the more I find very very few people at all like travelling deep inwardly. I've taken plenty along for the ride, but they rarely ever pursue it past the first couple of times.
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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Jokeshopbeard
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Re: Trolling and desperate adds [Re: littlespider] 1
#23820238 - 11/10/16 04:01 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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littlespider said: I always assumed you where female jokeshop. I appreciate your post's too 
Fuck me, that's the first time that's happened. You wouldn't say that if you saw me; I'm about as masculine as they come. It's kinda nice though, I've worked a lot on cultivating empathy over the years, it's obviously worked. Thanks for saying LS.
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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littlespider
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Not you then no. Must pay more attention!
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Jokeshopbeard
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No, more like this:

on this kind of bike:

I was growing my hair long for the 2nd time in that pic, but I've shaved it all off again and am doing the beard thing now instead. Age has taken it's toll, and my lovely long thick blond locks didn't come back 2nd time round. Chick in that pic you posted has great hair though.
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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sudly
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I've tripped shrooms with a few women. I think it's just about being knowledgeable and keeping good vibes around the topic and experience of psychedelics.
Small doses no more than 2g are good for introductory experiences.
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I've taken plenty along for the ride, but they rarely ever pursue it past the first couple of times.
I find that's because they don't have access to their own psychedelics.
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Bruces222
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Re: Trolling and desperate adds [Re: sudly]
#23820495 - 11/10/16 05:46 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'm cool with her useing me for drugs ! I mean how much could she possibly do and how often ? For the people I trip with there is never a charge , I'm happy to share the fruits of my labor. I'm not looking for a wife just someone to have a good time with who can handle her shit. I'd agree though , men like to trip way more than women do. I don't think they can or know how to deal with what they see when they look inward.
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Jokeshopbeard
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Re: Trolling and desperate adds [Re: Bruces222]
#23820589 - 11/10/16 06:16 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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I've found over the years that the people that seem to like tripping the least are those that always like to feel like they're in control. Two prime examples are two of my best mates - one a very successful business man, massively into coke, and the other the eldest brother of a big family in a West Indian community - a well respected father of three. I know them both very well, and I know that feeling in control is imperative to their feeling of wellbeing.
And surprise surprise, when we've tripped on anything heavy together (tryptamines, rather than phens) they fucking hated it. I don't know if that's anything to do with why women trip less, I might try and dig up that old thread I started about it in a min, hungry now.
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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LackToast
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Re: Trolling and desperate adds [Re: Bruces222] 2
#23820681 - 11/10/16 06:38 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Count me as a nother poster who likes what you say and do around here jsb. You're alright in my book. Also you look damn good, aren't you in your 40s or something?
Anyways OP I think you have a pretty good handle on the situation. Most women don't find introspection through ethonogens a worthwhile endeavor. Some might do it when they are younger but most women who do drugs like to dance and party at raves, not sit under the stars and contemplate life.
But if that's what you want, good luck, there's definitely some cool hippie chick's out there, but I'd wager they're like 1% of the female population.
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