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Oh what a day! What a lovely day!!!
    #23788637 - 10/31/16 01:39 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

Best day in a while so I thought I'd share :heart:

It was glorious. Was trying to get to the library to study some (and meet girls, this is totally on my daily list to do, stay open, stay sharp, play the game if opportunity shows) and before I even got there, things started happening.

On bicycle, just left my street, I see amazing girl walking the other way, we have interesting eye contact. I keep going a bit, then stop, think "No way, not this early" but I scan internals, feel the magnetism, feel her energy flowing through my head and decide hello, we're doing this, TRUST that it will work. I pedal back, first convo line just comes to me from above, in real time (Do you live here, are we neighbors or are you just visiting) and go for it.

She nearly got away, as she got on a muddy street, she was walking I was riding, but terrain removed my speed advantage, then the road was blocked by construction work taking place, I had to think super fast, move like the wind. I caught up to her just as she entered her yard, and said hi, dropped the line, worked like a charm. She smiled, we chatted for a bit, exchanged contact info, will see what comes of it.

From that moment on I was SO CHARGED the rest of the day, I felt exactly like this vid below, and was literally thinking and saying this in my head, as I was pedaling my bike and smiling/grinning like a complete maniac :lol:



Still on way to library, I meet librarian girl I had a thing with, we blocked each other on FB in the end, but today I decided to patch things up again, make peace, so I turn, we chat, things are going awesome. Oh what a day :lol:

Again I get into maniac grin mode, and all this "I am awaited!" stuff from Fury Road goes through my head at max volume. I mean I have no headphones or music on, just ear plugs to keep out the traffic noise, yet having a complete blast, my head was a complete party, with helium balloons and chimps and everything :lol:



A bit later, I am literally in front of the library. As I am smiling and breathing heavily from the intense pedaling, I am heard and noticed by another girl just sitting on a bench with her friend. I scan, I see, I see her see me, looking several times as I do some circles with my bike, ice breaker convo line comes from above, (What have you noticed? I've seen you look, what have you noticed?) and wham, it works like a charm again. After minor indecisive hesitation, she starts telling me she noticed my breathing, then my accent, am I from England an so on. Nice convo develops. I'm an artist she's an artist, we both draw, and YES she has her sketchbook with her, as I do mine.

I pull it out right then and there (so to speak :rofl: ) and I show her mine she shows me hers. We spend at least a good 20-30 minutes talking, laughing, exploring symbols from the sketchbooks (aliens, magic, wizardry, subconscious, her fear of snakes when she was a kid, my interest in snakes and reptiles as symbols for devilish temptation - my SB is full of reptiles, lizards, lizard-men and dinos). Exchanged contact details, wham, done deal again.

Finally there, in the library, in 5 minutes girl shows up that I really liked last year, we were flirting for a bit but had some differences, then more recently I met her while she was drunk, and I don't vibe well with alcohol, totally blew each other off. This time however, today, we both felt that there's magic in the air, we patch things up, goes awesome.

Not attached to outcome on any of these, I believe that both the shroom and the Bible sayeth to be present in all we do and not worry for tomorrow (Matthew 6:34) for tomorrow shall take care of itself. Just wanted to share the kind of unpredictable stuff that can happen when we just charge up with energy and good vibes before going out, trusting that intuition and magnetism that the shroom teaches us to use :laugh:


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Re: Oh what a day! What a lovely day!!! [Re: They] * 1
    #23788688 - 10/31/16 02:00 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

It's breeding season or shall I say fast approaching.  Lady's looking to stay warm over the winter.


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Re: Oh what a day! What a lovely day!!! [Re: Morel Guy]
    #23788836 - 10/31/16 02:45 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

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Morel Guy said:
It's breeding season or shall I say fast approaching.  Lady's looking to stay warm over the winter.



Well, for me it's breeding (or at least mating dance) season all year round, since this is my spiritual path. I feel that playing the mating game (and playing it all the way, deeply) IS a path towards spiritual evolution. Also mental, physical, staying healthy and thriving in general.

So there's some pretty deep interest toward that stuff here, it's by no means just "a way to get pussy". I don't even care that much about sex either, it used to be the point for me but now is no more. There are far more important things, relating to the game itself, how the moves are made, how convo lines are played, how sincerity or lies are used, how attention is given or not given, focused or dispersed. This will probably make a bit more sense to girls than guys btw :lol:

On days like this one I know I haven't been wasting my time these past years studying all this, putting more energy in it than others put in their business career and hobbies combined :lol:


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Re: Oh what a day! What a lovely day!!! [Re: They]
    #23789039 - 10/31/16 03:46 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

Sometimes it's nice just getting positive attention.  Not getting anyone's hopes up about someone specific but just hope that the world has some love and kindness.


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Re: Oh what a day! What a lovely day!!! [Re: They] * 1
    #23790564 - 11/01/16 07:33 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

Since you call it a game, I'm curious what you think the prize if you win is?


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Re: Oh what a day! What a lovely day!!! [Re: Jokeshopbeard] * 1
    #23791131 - 11/01/16 11:55 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

I came to a conclusion that I rather do marathons than 100m sprints.


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Re: Oh what a day! What a lovely day!!! [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
    #23792058 - 11/01/16 04:50 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

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Jokeshopbeard said:
Since you call it a game, I'm curious what you think the prize if you win is?









So fiery and inspiring, oh, fantastic :heart::heart::heart:

There's also more stuff about health, boosted perception, spiritual awakening, meaning of life, telepathy, art, poetry, but all that just pales in comparison. If you've ever fallen in love and got the girl you've felt the magic, you know what it's about :wink:


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Re: Oh what a day! What a lovely day!!! [Re: They]
    #23792686 - 11/01/16 07:33 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

They said:
If you've ever fallen in love and got the girl you've felt the magic, you know what it's about :wink:



I have indeed, and it was the most life changing event I've ever known. Out of this world, ridiculous, I had no idea it could ever be like this kinda stuff.

But the thing I found is that it only came when I wasn't looking. I too, had been playing that kinda game prior to her coming into my life, but it yielded no life changing results. It was more like scratching an itch that felt really fucking good, and taught me a few valuable lessons. What it didn't do, was turn my whole world upside down, introduce me to the 'god' I had always denied, and teach me what unconditional love is.

Something in my gut tells me that if I ever want to find anything like that again, the thing that I must avoid is dedicating my energy to the game - instead I need to dedicate it to myself so that when/if she comes into my life again I'm ready for it.

I was only partially ready this time round, which is why she's now stuck in rehab and has cut contact with me after several suicide attempts, and I've lost everything I once had here so am preparing to start a new life on the other side of the world.

That's why I wondered what your prize would be. I've spoken to only 4 people (myself included) in my whole life who know what it is to have a relationship like that, and I know a lot of different people and all about the types of relationships they've had (as you can imagine, it's one of my favourite subjects). There seems to be a few unanimous qualities that identify such a relationship:

1. It came up when they least expected it; i.e they were in another relationship already or were single and not looking
2. When around that person, they experience a lot of things like synchronicity, boosted perception, spiritual awakening, meaning of life, telepathy, etc
3. The person that they had that kind of relationship with always seems to have tendencies to be emotionally, of physically flighty

I was a member of another forum for some time which was dedicated to this phenomenon, so whilst I never spoke with these people personally, the symptoms I mention above have been proven to be quite quantifiable.

With this kind of relationship, they seem to be especially hard to maintain over a long period, unless you're fully ready and know what to expect. And IMO, you can't learn that playing the game in 'normal' relationships - the rulebook just goes out the window with these 'magical' ones.

If I believed it would bring me a greater chance of achieving that level of connection with someone again, I'd dedicate myself deeply to study of the game. But I can't see how the rewards are worth the effort after having known 'the magic' one.


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Re: Oh what a day! What a lovely day!!! [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
    #23792955 - 11/01/16 08:44 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

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2. When around that person, they experience a lot of things like synchronicity, boosted perception, spiritual awakening, meaning of life, telepathy, etc



These are the rewards we reap if we play the real game (the magical game).

Please be very clear what game we're talking about here. I don't mean just regular "find some human to mate with" pick-up game. I mean the universal, magical, passion-based intuition-based game, I call it the bird game precisely to signal to myself that it's NOT what most humans are down here playing. In the magical game you're only in part trying to woo some female. Much deeper than that, you're looking to connect with Network, Source, as it expresses itself through that female and yourself. If you put in a ton of observation and really boost that perception, you can hear what the Other is saying to you, through the symbols and gestures that come up in this dance, this interaction.

As soon as you switch from magical game to regular "so what do you do" normal human verbalizing, the game starts losing strength, leaking and losing magic, so to speak. It cracks and fades. It can be rekindled if you know how, and in fact there are always these two opposing forces, to get the voltage up and make things magical, or to get it down, to dissipate voltage and make things blah, but safe.

Above and beyond the regular human courtship game, there's a much deeper thicker thing at play, potentially, IF the partners involve dare tread there. It has to do with telepathy, silence, intimacy, eye contact, skin contact, breathing and in general, leading and not wasting electric energy. Body voltage.

MOST humans I've seen on this Earth are engaged in keeping things safe, dissipating voltage, or not paying attention when the other is dissipating it.

Over some months / years of learning the true game, I've noticed how they do it, and I've found techniques to turn things magical, but as you can imagine most females I've met have been quite afraid of them. THey'll kiss, mate, do the regular things that they're used to, but most often they will NOT meditate close to me, emotional issues come up for them (from their own past, karma) that will get them basically to go restless and crazy.

Terence McKenna spoke of something, he alluded to this idea that we may well find some things that the human body was always capable of, but nobody thought to do them. That once we find how it's done we'll think "OF COURSE! Why didn't we think to do this before?" But there it will be.

And I think I've found it, or am very very close to finding it, cracking it wide open.

It connects trips, mating, orgasms, nutrition, silence, sound, meditation, Ayahuasca (as distinct from "regular" trips, shrooms and the like) and so you see a large number of things have to come into play at once, for this fire to spark and take hold. But when it does, ZANG!!! :laugh:

It is an art or science, that spans in the interdisciplinary space between many different fields. I've started to be able to do it, but I suspect it'd take A LOT to explain it, pass it on to others. Good news is that it seems to transmit well via demonstration, so the more I practice it out there, among the others, the more they pick up on the moves and start to remember how the magical game is played, how it's done :smile:

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3. The person that they had that kind of relationship with always seems to have tendencies to be emotionally, of physically flighty



You mean like this? :lol:



I've seen this exact behavior in human females, often with huge disconnects in their heads, as to what they think they will do (if you ask verbally, from a distance or over the phone) and what they actually do, when you get close and are in fact high-voltage (from shrooms or meditation).

Generally the impulse the fearful partner gets (not necessarily female, but whoever is more low-voltage) is to play waiting games. They'll say "wait", postpone, if their phone is on they will subconsciously attract delays, interruptions, if you're in public dogs kids or strangers will show up to interrupt, it's absolutely crazy. Initially I was getting very angry about these things, but now I'm just looking in amusement just how patterns repeat themselves or in what form the interruptions come.

Eventually I'll likely have to write a book explaining these principles just because it would take far too long to verbally tell these things (explain the game) to every single female I meet.

All humans can play these magical games, just like they can meditate and reach enlightenment, or learn martial arts or study and be some fancy profession, architect or surgeon or airplane pilot. They CAN do it, but most humans simply choose not to, bewildering as it may seem.

You'd do well to decide your own level of involvement in this field, because the more we talk about it here, the more the info will come out. The more you zone out into other convos, the more it will remain dormant. I'll work on it on my end, but you and the rest of the world will not hear about it in this way and at this time.

The avoidance and waiting games aren't just between males and females in courtship dances. They can show up whenever a convo or piece of info threatens to unlock levels of your own energy that you're not ready for. Since I've been playing with this info for a while, I've seen some really weird behavior from peeps, the more magical things get.

Oh and you've asked in the other thread how long I've been at this. More actively probably since I started tripping, so 2010-ish, maybe 2008 even, but looking back I keep seeing small changes and events that slowly nudged me in this direction. More recently (last year) I've started to remember past lives that were also involved in this exact field (Aztec Eagle Knight, as well as many medicine man / shaman / wizard / brujo incarnations) and so one could argue that I've been a lot longer at this, and now I'm just regaining long lost memories, so that my full skills and abilities kick in.

I must say we all have this. Several times I've met people, we meditate together or I do some specific bird game activation moves (slaps, pokes, loud howling in forests, hard to verbalizes here but you'd get it if you saw it) and the other person tells me they see visions / memories of temples, sacrifices, drums, altars, dances, generally past life stuff in which we've been together, in some kind of capacity. So I believe we all have a long chain of incarnation that does deal with this, in every single Joe Shmoe nondescript accountant, if you take a convo a few lines in the strange direction, you'll find dragons, demons, magic, wizards, passion, raw internal Kundalini serpent fire trying to erupt. They don't do this, they zone out from it while they're being Joe Shmoe the accountant, maybe for a whole lifetime, but it's right there beneath their thin veil, they're literally riding on it, they're a hellfire magical demon in human skin playing accountant. If I trigger them in just the right way, things invariably come out, or they panic and need to light up to prevent it :wink:


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Re: Oh what a day! What a lovely day!!! [Re: They]
    #23793925 - 11/02/16 08:20 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

In any case, update.

Girl no.1 from the lovely day, just gave me an "idiot yes-no" reply, which is a bit of a bummer, as she was my main target. But it's good, now I will likely post and clarify these dysfunctional passive-aggressive human communication patterns, for the benefit of us all :smile:

Girl no. 2 - no answer, and so since 2 days have passed I'll just quit any online stuff with her, rely solely on spontaneous meeting outdoors. Not saying any malice on her part, she had some tech issues that maybe got in the way.

Girl 3 (librarian) - going OK, we're in contact, but meh, not much interest from my end, for now at least. I prefer the other ones, much younger :smile:

Girl 4 - again 2 days of no response no updates, after she said she'd take me off FB block so we can talk again, so at this point she's literally being a liar, passive-aggressive waiting games. Probably the same idiot yes-no pattern, which would need further clarification. I could of course meet her again, but there's nothing I can do with that kind of crap attitude. More to say about here, but in short she's just choosing safe low energy over high. She has alcohol issues, dating a guy who drinks a lot, hey what do I know, I'm just a fun tripper meditation dude :shrug: :lol:

Yesterday I finally got to make out with a colleague at the massage course I'm taking, so it's going somewhat OK, some hopes there that I can train that human in proper energy usage and have some fun times together, but even there, A TON of stealing activities, energy dispersal, I've had to poke her ribs and squeeze muscles and otherwise discipline her a million times, and still she was reverting back to energy steal patterns. To me, if a bird requires too many pecks over the head to snap out of it, I just lose interest and move on. I measure as a metric "how many times you need to get hit or disciplined before you get your act together" and if that metric is high, it's time to fly :smile:

This is all good practice for attentional and energy work, playing the bird game. Let's see what today brings, as I'm heading out right now :smile:


EDIT - update.

Awesome! Massage course, I gave a colleague a taste of my own brand of Aztec medicine massage and it triggered all kinds of attraction and Kundalini awakenings in here. In us both, as these things being magnetic, if we're close and on the same wavelength we kind of trigger each other.

Oh man, it sparked and sparkled super fresh, she even told the instructor that wow, she's never felt anything like it, whoa :eek: We hugged for a LONG time, super tight, and tomorrow if all goes right we meet again.

This is by the way a married woman, and a different course colleague than the one I kissed yesterday evening. Becoming pretty unpredictable, these connections happening these days :lol:

Maybe this thread fits better in the S&R section of the forum, going to connection techniques, adultery, attraction, that kinda stuff. I decided to make it here as I see a lot of sadness and blocked people, and so this goes to thriving, and the potential for epic fun and socializing in something as simple as going to a massage course. I would imagine especially in the US where stress is rampant, being even a decent massage therapist (not hard to learn) would bring in some fine dinero, as well as great insights into general health :smile:


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Re: Oh what a day! What a lovely day!!! [Re: They]
    #23799018 - 11/03/16 08:28 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

What is a good scenario that describes you playing this 'magical game'. I came here, searching for something referring to telepathy... I'm curious of this game.


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    #23802628 - 11/05/16 07:30 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

There is no game.
Real life is tough.
Stop pretending that you know
your spiritual evolution whatever bullshit.
This is life, those girls have real feelings,
you are exploiting situation. It tells lot about you.
Love is something that you cannot mess with.

Head is not heart.
You should think little more with your heart.


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Re: Oh what a day! What a lovely day!!! [Re: Ziu]
    #23802637 - 11/05/16 07:36 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

This forum is for physical and mental wellbeing.
I guess you are acting out for a reason.


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    #23802956 - 11/05/16 10:36 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

Totally agree, it isn't a game. I thought there may have been an underlying meaning... But yeeeaaa


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Re: Oh what a day! What a lovely day!!! [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
    #23804996 - 11/05/16 10:17 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

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I've spoken to only 4 people (myself included) in my whole life who know what it is to have a relationship like that, and I know a lot of different people and all about the types of relationships they've had (as you can imagine, it's one of my favourite subjects). There seems to be a few unanimous qualities that identify such a relationship:

1. It came up when they least expected it; i.e they were in another relationship already or were single and not looking
2. When around that person, they experience a lot of things like synchronicity, boosted perception, spiritual awakening, meaning of life, telepathy, etc
3. The person that they had that kind of relationship with always seems to have tendencies to be emotionally, of physically flighty




3. The person that they had that kind of relationship with always seems to have tendencies to be emotionally, of physically flighty

Is "emotionally, or physically flighty" a positive trait?

"Flighty" means fickle, irresponsible, and lacking stability.

Maybe I missed the point. Wouldn't be the first time!


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    #23805224 - 11/06/16 12:52 AM (7 years, 2 months ago)

I wouldn't say that it's a 'positive trait', but it's part of the experience.

The thing is, a magical relationship does not necessarily fulfill all of our desires, but it aids us in the process of self-realization and awakening to the interconnectivity of all of life. As such, it's challenging. They will usually challenge us in one way or another to our very core. Right now, for quite a few reasons, I'm basically in pieces over a relationship like this.

I wasn't looking for one, I had just gotten over a few years of getting 'played' by girls and unreciprocated courtship, and suddenly, through a simple message over facebook in walks this woman who resonated with an ancient familiarity, memories I did not know I had and mystery all at once. She said she felt the same way around me, too. Synchronicity, telepathy, energetic healing by being around each other... you name it, it all occurred. But then she disappeared as quickly as she had appeared. That, along with other things, has made this one of the most challenging times of my life, but I have grown immeasurably through it.

That's the real treasure of a relationship like that: knowing that I'm better because of it than I ever could have been without it, and that cosmic expression came to me through a human being. There's really nothing more beautiful than that, as far as social interaction goes. I'm trying to just be grateful, but it hurts immensely to think about the fact that we have not gotten to explore this relationship further.... JSB... do you have any advice on how to deal with this feeling?

Seems like you went through something really similar.


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Re: Oh what a day! What a lovely day!!! [Re: Chakra Shock]
    #23808174 - 11/06/16 09:45 PM (7 years, 2 months ago)

Not really ATM CS. I'm not in a great spot right now. I will when I can.

The whole experience caused such immense and sudden growth in every aspect of my being, and once I'd spent about a year of self destructive behaviour getting out of the other side of the pain of losing it/her (which is where most of the growth occurred - between the fits and starts of despair), I spent the next 3 months in an almost constant state of heightened awareness of self, connection with - whatever - higher power exists, as well as with other humans, and sheer and immense joy at being alive, the likes of which I've never known.

However that took a turn for the worse this past week and I've managed to work myself into somewhat of a depressive rut over that time, and I'm still trying to figure out what the root of it is. There's a few possibilities and I'm still trying to hone in on what is. Since the experience I've known highs and lows more intense than I ever imagined possible.

I'll get back to you on it asap. Send me a PM please man; I've got a few to respond to which I just haven't had the emotional or cognitive energy to respond to, for one reason or another, but I'll get round to them eventually; I always do.


@RJ - no, in the people I've spoken to it was definitely not a positive, or desired trait. The other was often referred to as a 'runner' (which is how I've identified people who experience these rare, but oh so similar relationships). With such massive intensity of feelings, the last thing one wants to do is 'chase' - in my discussions with said people this aspect always seems to cause immense pain to the chaser, whether they chase or not. This is definitely not to be confused with the stereotypical 'thrill of the chase' - this kind of relationship seems almost the antithesis of what we consider normal in relationships; i.e. gender seems to have little to do with it - two of the people I've spoken to IRL who know of this phenomenon were female, and two male (including myself). From the sounds of things, CS is another.


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