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Do you hug your best friends?
#23785856 - 10/30/16 03:17 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Do you hug your best friends?
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Re: Do you hug your best friends? [Re: Asante]
#23785864 - 10/30/16 03:19 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Re: Do you hug your best friends? [Re: Asante]
#23785872 - 10/30/16 03:20 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yes, I hug all my friends, as well as most people I meet outside of the professional setting.
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Re: Do you hug your best friends? [Re: Dark_Star]
#23785879 - 10/30/16 03:22 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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I was a non-hugger, I was too shy, but I have come to love it.
Physical affection is not something that was shared in our family and I really missed that.
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Re: Do you hug your best friends? [Re: Dark_Star]
#23785882 - 10/30/16 03:23 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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No. Well first off..i have a wife and son so i dont really have time for best friends.
But if i did have best friends i would hug them but none are open minded enough to hug..they are all alcoholics who never tripped before so they dont get down with that hippy stuff
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Re: Do you hug your best friends? [Re: Dark_Star] 2
#23785883 - 10/30/16 03:23 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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when i meet people in a professional setting i lick their lips when they don't expect it, female or male, boss or employee, i've been doing this for all my 30 years working on wall street and i can't think of a more professional way to greet people. my old boss had a habit of nibbling people's ears upon first meeting them to display his undying eternal love for them
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Re: Do you hug your best friends? [Re: Sheekle] 2
#23785886 - 10/30/16 03:24 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Lick my fucking loins, boy
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Re: Do you hug your best friends? [Re: Asante]
#23785893 - 10/30/16 03:25 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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It depends entirely on the person, some people make it weird, but I think the physical contact is important
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Re: Do you hug your best friends? [Re: Dark_Star]
#23785895 - 10/30/16 03:26 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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I have a Hindu friend who is very physical, touching often. I love that shit. Its how people should be. My family is almost autistic on comparison.
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Re: Do you hug your best friends? [Re: Asante] 1
#23785966 - 10/30/16 03:43 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
Asante said: I was a non-hugger, I was too shy, but I have come to love it.
Physical affection is not something that was shared in our family and I really missed that.
yea I know that feel. My family stiffed me on physical affection. Seriously fucked me up and left me with attachment issues.
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Re: Do you hug your best friends? [Re: Asante]
#23785980 - 10/30/16 03:47 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yes
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Re: Do you hug your best friends? [Re: California]
#23786017 - 10/30/16 03:57 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yes Some are more reserved though For them ill do a bro-hug (awful phrase)
I used to be very anxious about greetings and goodbye's, and still am with some people (my girlfriends parents) but ive come a long way. Physical contact between friends is my only real source of social anxiety
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Re: Do you hug your best friends? [Re: Asante]
#23786031 - 10/30/16 04:01 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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i wish i hugged people more but for some reason i find it too awkward?. or like im just bad at reading social cues or something?.. idk

as a child i used to be very into physical contact with friends (i'd even walk around all day with my arm around my bestie) but i distinctively remember in year 5 or 6 (so i must have been about 12) suddenly physical contact became more taboo.. maybe it was that someone got hurt, or maybe it was that that was the age that boys started flirting with girls and started policing what was or wasnt acceptable..
anywho things started getting weird from that point and have continued thusly ever since
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Re: Do you hug your best friends? [Re: quinn]
#23786050 - 10/30/16 04:06 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Having minimal physical contact with friends is missing out on a good chunk of human connection
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Re: Do you hug your best friends? [Re: ModestMouse]
#23786061 - 10/30/16 04:07 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yeah I hug all my friends.
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Re: Do you hug your best friends? [Re: Asante]
#23786108 - 10/30/16 04:20 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Kind of, its like a half hug where you shake hands and lean in and throw the other arm around each other.
Unless were on mdma, in that case yeah.
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I used to do that. It was a way to feel safe because you've still got your arm in front of you, so the hug doesn't make you as vulnerable. These days I just blatantly hug people. Fully. Especially my close friends.
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I do the SirShroomsAlott method most of the time. Rarely a full hug, but it happens on occasion.
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Re: Do you hug your best friends? [Re: Asante]
#23786164 - 10/30/16 04:36 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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yes
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Re: Do you hug your best friends? [Re: Connoisseur]
#23786167 - 10/30/16 04:37 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Nope I don't really like hugs..
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