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I might have gotten a girl pregnant...
#23777594 - 10/27/16 05:38 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Long Story. Bare with me.
In march of this year, I began working at a screen printing shop. I loved it from the moment I started and knew that the job was meant for me. About two weeks into working there I met a girl. Lets call her T. She happened to be working with me randomly one day. I didnt think much of the encounter until I began to open up to her. I told her that I had been going through a strange time in my life. I told her that my friends mother had just been murdered that week. She opened up to me and shared that her good friends sister had commited suicide. I could tell she was a caring and actually very cute girl.
I began to visit her on break. We would talk until we realized it was already the end of our break and I would rush back to my station. I could tell I was getting very interested in T. Within the next couple weeks I asked her out. At first I could tell she wasnt sure if it was a good idea, but I could also tell that she was interested in me as more than a friend. She said we could hang out at her house. This is less than a month into meeting her. I come over, act very proper, don't make a move. We watch a movie and I head home after I give her a big hug.
The next week at work we are hanging out on break and I invite her to a movie. She says that she has a boyfriend and that theyve been together for 4 years. I immediately feel bad. I like this girl. Alot. She's smart, funny, and so adorable. I tell her that's fine that she has a boyfriend and I'd still like to hang out. She agrees.
Eventually, we begin to have sex. She flirts with me constantly and I like it, so I dont see a problem. I have a bad habit of not backing off when I should, and when I did actually make attempts to not visit her on these breaks at work, she would text me and say that she misses me. I think she likes the attention, and that Im new and exciting to her. She must not feel the same when she first began to date her boyfriend. I keep visiting her and often ask her to come over.
We keep having sex. Fast forward to now, October. We have been having unprotected sex since may or june. She calls me on the weekend crying, saying that she is pregnant. T asks me if I came in her, which I will fully admit I did not. She asks me about pre-cum and if I could have gotten some in that way. I tell her its likely. I tell her that its going to be ok.
I immediately think its mine and am not sure if she's been having unprotected sex with her boyfriend. When I ask her, she says that she has sex with him without a condom. I think ok, now there is a 50/50 chance that its my kid.
When I tried to discuss with her the possibility of getting an abortion, she does nothing, says nothing. She is a church going christian and I believe her religious beliefs are holding her back from making that kind of decision.
I can tell that she is going to keep this baby. She told her boyfriend and her mother as soon as she told me. Now there is a 100% chance she will be having this kid. I dont know if I will be able to get her to take a paternity test once she has the baby. Im not sure how im going to be able to cope with the possibility that it is my child. I never thought it would get this far.
My main thought now is, What if that child is mine. I wont be able to act as a father to my own offspring, and that boyfriend of hers will be fathering a kid that might not be his. I am ashamed and disgusted in retrospect of my actions and wish I can take this all back. I hope somehow that I found out if the child is mine.
Thanks for reading, I just need an outlet. I will never tell my family about this and only my closest friends will ever know this about me.
Edited by GeorgieBoy (10/27/16 05:41 PM)
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: GeorgieBoy] 1
#23777611 - 10/27/16 05:42 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Well what do you expect to happen if you don't use protection.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: koods]
#23777627 - 10/27/16 05:47 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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koods said: Well what do you expect to happen if you don't use protection. 
This girl has been the only person that I have had sex with on a weekly basis. I couldnt stand having the condom on and she didnt seem to mind when I told her I didn't want to wear one. I wasnt fully aware of the likelihood of her becoming pregnant.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: koods] 1
#23777629 - 10/27/16 05:48 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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She has a boyfriend who she likely has regular unprotected sex with, more commonly than you. I don't know how regularly you two have been having sex, but chances are it's more likely she's doing it more regularly with her boyfriend.
Fact is, you didn't cum inside her, and it's actually very difficult to get pregnant from pulling out if you are doing it properly. Pulling out is like 94% effective or something if you are doing it properly. If you may have gotten a little bit of cum inside of her accidentally, this increases your chances of pregnancy.
So, based on the information you have given, I would say it's more like a 10% chance it's yours, 90% chance it's her boyfriend's.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Crystal G] 4
#23777659 - 10/27/16 05:56 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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lol that sucks
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: sanchothestoner] 1
#23777676 - 10/27/16 06:00 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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sanchothestoner said: lol that sucks
classic sancho answer. just dont be fucking stupid man, they made protection for a reason. I feel for you just because i know what that situation is like but i dont really feel bad because like....come on.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: GeorgieBoy] 3
#23777677 - 10/27/16 06:00 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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I pretty much only feel sorry for T's boyfriend.
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yeah its fucked man. im a big dumb dumb.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: trees] 1
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trees said: I pretty much only feel sorry for T's boyfriend.
and dont be fucking another dudes girl man, you got what you deserve
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: GeorgieBoy]
#23777685 - 10/27/16 06:01 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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If I was you, I'd need to know if the kid was mine. If she refused to have the paternity tested, I would petition the court for a paternity test. She would be legally obligated to have the test done, and that way I could either put the matter to bed or be a father, but I wouldn't be able to handle not knowing. You should convince her to legally establish paternity first, but if she refuses to handle this situation like an adult, you might consider going through available legal channels.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Crystal G]
#23777689 - 10/27/16 06:02 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Crystal G said: She has a boyfriend who she likely has regular unprotected sex with, more commonly than you. I don't know how regularly you two have been having sex, but chances are it's more likely she's doing it more regularly with her boyfriend.
Fact is, you didn't cum inside her, and it's actually very difficult to get pregnant from pulling out if you are doing it properly. Pulling out is like 94% effective or something if you are doing it properly. If you may have gotten a little bit of cum inside of her accidentally, this increases your chances of pregnancy.
So, based on the information you have given, I would say it's more like a 10% chance it's yours, 90% chance it's her boyfriend's.
makes me feel a bit better. I still feel 100% responsible for my own actions, but thanks for cheering me up a bit. Also hope the cock hunting is going well.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: GeorgieBoy]
#23777703 - 10/27/16 06:04 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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I have nothing of substance to add, and am just boosting my post count and fake internet points by saying this, but nice sig.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Crystal G] 1
#23777704 - 10/27/16 06:05 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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I agree with crystal, if you know you didn't cum in her chances are the baby isn't yours. I know the likely hood that it can happen but like crystal said they are probably having a lot more sex
you have to be careful with girls who sleep with multiple guys, it seems like this happens often. Usually she freaks out and tells the boyfriend about the side dick. BF gets mad and leaves, side guy gets stuck with the whole situation and feels bad and sticks around. Finds out later the kid wasn't his and has already been around long enough to consider the kid his. Idk I've seen this to many times, poor girls who aren't on birth control or believe in abortion.
I don't get when they talk about their religious beliefs holding them back when they aren't supposed to have sex before marriage in the first place lol.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Burke Dennings]
#23777705 - 10/27/16 06:05 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Burke Dennings said: If I was you, I'd need to know if the kid was mine. If she refused to have the paternity tested, I would petition the court for a paternity test. She would be legally obligated to have the test done, and that way I could either put the matter to bed or be a father, but I wouldn't be able to handle not knowing. You should convince her to legally establish paternity first, but if she refuses to handle this situation like an adult, you might consider going through available legal channels.
I dont want to ruin her life through all that shit. I'd rather let her get on with what was already coming. I was a force that came out of nowhere for her. I want to make this as smooth as possible, and if that means if she refuses so be it. I just have to move on and start worshipping male contraception.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: GeorgieBoy] 1
#23777719 - 10/27/16 06:07 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Fuck that shit you deserve to know if you are the father or not.
Don't be such a fucking pushover. She doesn't get to decide if you know or not. Thats just wrong.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: SuperFly]
#23777721 - 10/27/16 06:08 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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SuperFly said: I agree with crystal, if you know you didn't cum in her chances are the baby isn't yours. I know the likely hood that it can happen but like crystal said they are probably having a lot more sex
you have to be careful with girls who sleep with multiple guys, it seems like this happens often. Usually she freaks out and tells the boyfriend about the side dick. BF gets mad and leaves, side guy gets stuck with the whole situation and feels bad and sticks around. Finds out later the kid wasn't his and has already been around long enough to consider the kid his. Idk I've seen this to many times, poor girls who aren't on birth control or believe in abortion.
I don't get when they talk about their religious beliefs holding them back when they aren't supposed to have sex before marriage in the first place lol.
RIGHT?! If you are going to church every goddamn sunday than maybe you should believe in fucking marriage before sex! She could have blown me off the second I started talking to her.
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Boomer The Great said: Fuck that shit you deserve to know if you are the father or not.
Don't be such a fucking pushover. She doesn't get to decide if you know or not. Thats just wrong.
dude trust me I am going to make a point of finding out. She is a kind person so I think it could happen...
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#23777726 - 10/27/16 06:09 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Burke Dennings said: If I was you, I'd need to know if the kid was mine. If she refused to have the paternity tested, I would petition the court for a paternity test. She would be legally obligated to have the test done, and that way I could either put the matter to bed or be a father, but I wouldn't be able to handle not knowing. You should convince her to legally establish paternity first, but if she refuses to handle this situation like an adult, you might consider going through available legal channels.
I don't know... I feel really conflicted about this.
On the one hand, I understand OP needs to know whether the baby is his. On the other hand, he would be breaking up a family that might have otherwise been able to give that baby a good life.
This would be wrong of OP to do, especially if he is not able to financially, physically, and emotionally care for the baby. I wouldn't encourage OP to go this route unless he is completely willing to step up to the plate if it turns out the kid is his.
But if he's just going to say "Eh you know what, I'm not ready" and flake out on his responsibilities once he finds out it's his, then no he should not petition for the paternity test. That would be a dick move to do, all because you "had to know."
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: trees] 6
#23777729 - 10/27/16 06:10 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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You started fucking her even after she revealed she was in a four year relationship?
I stopped reading after that. I think you're a fucking scumbag for doing that, I cannot fathom why you would pull such a cuntish move, given you had prior knowledge. I have zero sympathy for men that cannot control themselves for the sake of a fuck when there's millions of other single women out there. And FWIW, I've had several women in that situation come on to me, one of whom was the hottest girl that has ever come on to me, but at least I kept my conscience clear, as hard as it was when I had a solid 9.5 begging to suck my dick.
How the fuck would you feel if you were in his shoes? I think you deserve whatever comes your way.
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#23777732 - 10/27/16 06:10 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Or you could have been a stand up guy and not fucked around with another mans girl.
Don't put pussy on a pedestal man, should of moved on.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#23777745 - 10/27/16 06:13 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Jokeshopbeard said: You started fucking her even after she revealed she was in a four year relationship?
I stopped reading after that. I think you're a fucking scumbag for doing that, I cannot fathom why you would pull such a cuntish move, given you had prior knowledge. I have zero sympathy for men that cannot control themselves for the sake of a fuck when there's millions of other single women out there. And FWIW, I've had several women in that situation come on to me, one of whom was the hottest girl that has ever come on to me, but at least I kept my conscience clear, as hard as it was when I had a solid 9.5 begging to suck my dick.
How the fuck would you feel if you were in his shoes? I think you deserve whatever comes your way.
I decided to go a route im not proud of. You're right I am a scumbag for doing this and can only learn from my actions. I deserve it and can only hope that the baby is the boyfriends.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: GeorgieBoy]
#23777754 - 10/27/16 06:16 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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GeorgieBoy said: dude trust me I am going to make a point of finding out. She is a kind person so I think it could happen...
If she is willing to do a paternity test in secrecy for your sake, you should probably know that you can get paternity tests done while the baby is still inside the womb. Neonatal paternity tests. They cost about $1,000.
In fact, it might be good option for her to get this done ASAP. I know for me personally, if I was in her situation, finding out who the father is would dramatically affect whether I have an abortion or keep the baby.
Like I said though, it's very likely the baby is not yours though. So cheer up.
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Boomer The Great said: Or you could have been a stand up guy and not fucked around with another mans girl.
Don't put pussy on a pedestal man, should of moved on.
some pussy shit imo. there's so many girls out there why would you want to go chase after another guy's. karma
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Crystal G]
#23777772 - 10/27/16 06:21 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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GeorgieBoy said: dude trust me I am going to make a point of finding out. She is a kind person so I think it could happen...
If she is willing to do a paternity test in secrecy for your sake, you should probably know that you can get paternity tests done while the baby is still inside the womb. Neonatal paternity tests. They cost about $1,000.
In fact, it might be good option for her to get this done ASAP. I know for me personally, if I was in her situation, finding out who the father is would dramatically affect whether I have an abortion or keep the baby.
Like I said though, it's very likely the baby is not yours though. So cheer up.
I've looked into pre-natal testing and I just dont think it will work out. She is without a doubt keeping the baby. Thoughts of uncertainty is all that she will know for 9 months. When that baby arrives she will have the option of finding out.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: GeorgieBoy]
#23777779 - 10/27/16 06:23 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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You absolutely should find out paternity dude. If it's your kid, she's got no legal right to keep you from your child. You may have to fight for it, but I think you should find out.
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Don't put pussy on a pedestal man, should of moved on.
some pussy shit imo. there's so many girls out there why would you want to go chase after another guy's. karma
I completely agree man. I kept trying to back off and she would want to hang out even more. I wanted her too so I just ignored the fact.
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Burke Dennings said: You absolutely should find out paternity dude. If it's your kid, she's got no legal right to keep you from your child. You may have to fight for it, but I think you should find out.
I will try. I have put my own philosophy into question while doing this. I have to rebuild my life now.
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GeorgieBoy said: I decided to go a route im not proud of. You're right I am a scumbag for doing this and can only learn from my actions. I deserve it and can only hope that the baby is the boyfriends.
I applaud you for recognising this. We do all make mistakes, after all, and your admittance of your mistake is admirable, provided you commit to not making the same mistake ever again. Cause a lot of people are gonna get hurt here.
I don't know if you've ever been in a long term committed relationship, but in future please try and put yourself in the shoes of the poor bastard you are going to cause HUGE amounts of emotional suffering to, because of your actions.
Life has a way of punishing such acts IME, so you'll likely suffer badly for such a heinous act in due course, but it will be worth it if you use the momentum that suffering can provide to pay your dues and make up for this in any way you can.
Good luck.
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GeorgieBoy said: I decided to go a route im not proud of. You're right I am a scumbag for doing this and can only learn from my actions. I deserve it and can only hope that the baby is the boyfriends.
I applaud you for recognising this. We do all make mistakes, after all, and your admittance of your mistake is admirable, provided you commit to not making the same mistake ever again. Cause a lot of people are gonna get hurt here.
I don't know if you've ever been in a long term committed relationship, but in future please try and put yourself in the shoes of the poor bastard you are going to cause HUGE amounts of emotional suffering to, because of your actions.
Life has a way of punishing such acts IME, so you'll likely suffer badly for such a heinous act in due course, but it will be worth it if you use the momentum that suffering can provide to pay your dues and make up for this in any way you can.
Good luck.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: GeorgieBoy] 1
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GeorgieBoy said: I strayed away from my romantic ideals and it came back to ruin me.
I hear ya man, I have suffered through a very hard lesson in that also. After my wife left (it's a very long and sad story, full of suicide attempts, alcoholism, abuse, etc - she had the most beautiful soul, but she was so damaged) I went a bit fucking nuts and strayed from my romantic ideals. Played the polyamorous game for a while, which is nice because it allows for multiple partners and total honesty, and the arrangement provided more sex than I could shake a stick at, with one partner it was actually, physically alone, the best I've ever had.
But there was no real connection. I've had connection is sex that I can only alike to the most perfect state of union between yourself, your partner, and 'god'. Never knew such a thing was possible. I tried to fill the whole that left in me with quantity, without working on the emotional bonding that brings the quality. All it did, really, was leave me feeling hollow afterwards. Like I was just betraying myself. So I broke it all off months later and have been celibate for 10 months now - the longest I've gone without for 14+ years - as I feel life has made it absolutely apparent that breaking my romantic ideals for sex does more harm than good. And I also know that the kind of person that will fulfill them again will only come into my life if I'm NOT looking for them.
It's so fucking hard. I'm a really sexual person and I feel like 'life' has taken one of the things I love most about being alive away from me. I can feel an angry child stomping around inside me when I think about it, petulant and annoyed because his father has refused to let him have it for now. Plus I'm scared. Because I dunno when that person might again come into my life - it could be 10 years or 10 months.
I've total faith they'll come when the time is right though, the more I've worked at connection with myself and life the more I've noticed that the right kind of people, who will help guide your life the right way, will just appear. It's come to the point the last few months that people have started to just approach me - I end up in deep conversations with strangers more and more frequently as I work on healing my wounds, opening myself up, and over and above everything else, showing love and compassion to myself and others. I'm far from the only person I've known this to happen to - my therapist, amongst other people I've met, know of this phenomenon, and it's the most life changing thing I've known by far in my 32 years here.
What it seems to all stem from; the healing and the huge benefits that follow, is learning how to really love myself. And that means, as fucking hard and painful as it is when I feel such a strong pull to just cave in, not breaking my ideals.
You seem like a good guy man so I hope this turns out as best as possible, for you and all involved. But please take a little of what I've said here and mull it over. It's a clusterfuck alright, but you have to learn what you're not, before you can learn what you are, and you can use the force of emotion you must be feeling right now to push towards changing your future actions to find out who you are deep down. I think it's pretty likely you'll find a good person in there, but it's hard work to shed the fucking layers of hurt.
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Long Story. Bare with me..
it doesnt have to be, you could have just said "fucked girl, now she's all knocked up"
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GeorgieBoy said: I strayed away from my romantic ideals and it came back to ruin me.
I hear ya man, I have suffered through a very hard lesson in that also. After my wife left (it's a very long and sad story, full of suicide attempts, alcoholism, abuse, etc - she had the most beautiful soul, but she was so damaged) I went a bit fucking nuts and strayed from my romantic ideals. Played the polyamorous game for a while, which is nice because it allows for multiple partners and total honesty, and the arrangement provided more sex than I could shake a stick at, with one partner it was actually, physically alone, the best I've ever had.
But there was no real connection. I've had connection is sex that I can only alike to the most perfect state of union between yourself, your partner, and 'god'. Never knew such a thing was possible. I tried to fill the whole that left in me with quantity, without working on the emotional bonding that brings the quality. All it did, really, was leave me feeling hollow afterwards. Like I was just betraying myself. So I broke it all off months later and have been celibate for 10 months now - the longest I've gone without for 14+ years - as I feel life has made it absolutely apparent that breaking my romantic ideals for sex does more harm than good. And I also know that the kind of person that will fulfill them again will only come into my life if I'm NOT looking for them.
It's so fucking hard. I'm a really sexual person and I feel like 'life' has taken one of the things I love most about being alive away from me. I can feel an angry child stomping around inside me when I think about it, petulant and annoyed because his father has refused to let him have it for now. Plus I'm scared. Because I dunno when that person might again come into my life - it could be 10 years or 10 months.
I've total faith they'll come when the time is right though, the more I've worked at connection with myself and life the more I've noticed that the right kind of people, who will help guide your life the right way, will just appear. It's come to the point the last few months that people have started to just approach me - I end up in deep conversations with strangers more and more frequently as I work on healing my wounds, opening myself up, and over and above everything else, showing love and compassion to myself and others. I'm far from the only person I've known this to happen to - my therapist, amongst other people I've met, know of this phenomenon, and it's the most life changing thing I've known by far in my 32 years here.
What it seems to all stem from; the healing and the huge benefits that follow, is learning how to really love myself. And that means, as fucking hard and painful as it is when I feel such a strong pull to just cave in, not breaking my ideals.
You seem like a good guy man so I hope this turns out as best as possible, for you and all involved. But please take a little of what I've said here and mull it over. It's a clusterfuck alright, but you have to learn what you're not, before you can learn what you are, and you can use the force of emotion you must be feeling right now to push towards changing your future actions to find out who you are deep down. I think it's pretty likely you'll find a good person in there, but it's hard work to shed the fucking layers of hurt.
Thanks Joke,
That makes me feel like I have so much more growing to do. I can't begin to imagine what those shifts in your life have done to you emotionally. You seem like a good person and very wise. I know, someday, you will have a person in your life that brings back those certain feelings. We allow ourselves to get hung up in sadness from time to time. We will bounce back, we have to.
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Long Story. Bare with me..
it doesnt have to be, you could have just said "fucked girl, now she's all knocked up"
Thanks for allowing me to share my story with others pris. Promise im not looking for a pity party!
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: GeorgieBoy]
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I feel for ya. the bad part is you're fucking with a chick that has a boyfriend, that cant say anything good about her or her christian values
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Prisoner#1]
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Technically there's nothing against Christianity for cheating on a boyfriend. Having an affair on a husband or spouse, yes. But boyfriend/girlfriend relationships are not considered valid "under god" or whatever. So as long as she's not violating the sanctity of marriage, she technically didn't break any Christian rules.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Crystal G]
#23778896 - 10/27/16 11:54 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Having sexxxxxxxxxxxxxx while unwed to the person yuour bumping ugles with.. in violation
sinner.
i dont know what hppaned here but learn your lesson op
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Joke, you are a truly judgemental piece of shit. The things you tell us about you and then you pass judgement on others. So, the truth is your wife left you because you didn't know how to fuck her properly. She started fucking someone else. You begged her to stay. She left. Now you bad mouth her here. Nice.
Burke, while I definitely agree with you, I agree with crystal more. Say it is T's boyfriend's baby, T will probably dip if this all comes to light, and the baby suffers.
OP, definitely ask her to get paternity testing. If she says no, walk away with a lesson learned. Oh, and get tested. You might not have been the only dick besides her boyfriend's.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: azur]
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Yeah, that's what I'm saying. It sounds to me like OP isn't too interested in being a father or in being in either of their lives. If this is the case, he should really be wise about seeking paternity, because he could be ruining this baby's chance at having a family.
There's really no reason for him to seek paternity if he's just going to dip out and say "peace out." You just ruined a bunch of lives for nothing except for some sick sense of knowledge and satisfaction. Like okay, the baby's yours.... now what? Unless he is going to do something with that knowledge, he did it all for nothing.
If he does seek paternity, he should do it in secret with the girl. And they should form some sort of pact about what to do, in case the baby turns out to be his. But if OP already knows he doesn't want to be, or is unable to be a real father, or even if he MAYBE thinks he might not be there in the long-run, he should not push the issue.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: GeorgieBoy]
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koods said: Well what do you expect to happen if you don't use protection. 
This girl has been the only person that I have had sex with on a weekly basis. I couldnt stand having the condom on and she didnt seem to mind when I told her I didn't want to wear one. I wasnt fully aware of the likelihood of her becoming pregnant.
You didn't think sperm made babies without condoms?
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He probably just means he got lost in the moment and wasn't thinking too heavily about the consequences of pregnancy. It happens to everybody, it's the oldest tale of all time, shit I'm willing to bet half of you were conceived in that way.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Crystal G]
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pretty sure i was conceived after my father had a vascectomy. and my daughter was conceived after my first round of chemotherapy.
my familys sperm is quite defiant
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: ManianFH]
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my familys sperm is quite defiant 
Damn. You sure you're really your dad's kid?
Apparently I was reading an article that estimates something like 10% of children are being raised by fathers who think they are the biological father, but are not.
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It just made me chuckle "I wasnt fully aware of the likelihood of her becoming pregnant."
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Crystal G]
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That's fucked.
@OP: as far as I know most precum doesn't actually contain a significant amount of semen if any, wouldn't worry about it. If anyone has statistically relevant medical literature to contradict this point, I would be interested in seeing it.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Crystal G]
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my familys sperm is quite defiant 
Damn. You sure you're really your dad's kid?
Apparently I was reading an article that estimates something like 10% of children are being raised by fathers who think they are the biological father, but are not.
so you read an article that was titled "women are lying whores"
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Repertoire89]
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I dont have, but the term of significance is misleading here, as one sperm theoretically suffices. So it all boils down to likelihood. While precum does not contain much sperm, it happens that a single shot is fired in the heat of the battle, without a real climax. That happens more frequently to me when the sex is really good and when drugs are involved.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Murzelpfrumpft]
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Murzelpfrumpft said: I dont have, but the term of significance is misleading here, as one sperm theoretically suffices. So it all boils down to likelihood. While precum does not contain much sperm, it happens that a single shot is fired in the heat of the battle, without a real climax. That happens more frequently to me when the sex is really good and when drugs are involved.
If there happens to be sperm, 1 isn't going to be enough. There's a reason people with low sperm counts have trouble having kids
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Repertoire89]
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Murzelpfrumpft said: I dont have, but the term of significance is misleading here, as one sperm theoretically suffices. So it all boils down to likelihood. While precum does not contain much sperm, it happens that a single shot is fired in the heat of the battle, without a real climax. That happens more frequently to me when the sex is really good and when drugs are involved.
If there happens to be sperm, 1 isn't going to be enough. There's a reason people with low sperm counts have trouble having kids
all it takes is one and people with low sperm counts do have kids
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Prisoner#1]
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all it takes is one and people with low sperm counts do have kids
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In a typical ejaculate (about a teaspoon), 250 million sperm are released. But of those 250 million, only hundreds make it as far as the fallopian tubes.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Prisoner#1]
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All it takes is one little swimmer to make it to the egg, and there will be a bun in the oven. Very possible from precum. There's also swimmers chilling in the tubes that didn't make it out during the last nut bust. That's why you're told to blow a few loads outside of a vagina after a vasectomy before raw dogging it.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Repertoire89]
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all it takes is one and people with low sperm counts do have kids
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In a typical ejaculate (about a teaspoon), 250 million sperm are released. But of those 250 million, only hundreds make it as far as the fallopian tubes.
how many sperm does it take to fertilize an egg?
do you believe there are little snipers or monsters or maybe wolves living in a vagina that are picking off the 250 million sperm as they swim by?
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Dark_Star]
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This all sounds pretty greasy.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Prisoner#1]
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all it takes is one and people with low sperm counts do have kids
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In a typical ejaculate (about a teaspoon), 250 million sperm are released. But of those 250 million, only hundreds make it as far as the fallopian tubes.
how many sperm does it take to fertilize an egg?
do you believe there are little snipers or monsters or maybe wolves living in a vagina that are picking off the 250 million sperm as they swim by?
ironic You're talking about 1 sperm surviving what it takes millions of sperm working in tandem to survive
Do you believe in Commando sperm?
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Repertoire89]
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OP's girl is proof of commando sperm.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Dark_Star]
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Poor OP
I hear some people actually do have high concentrations of sperm in their precum
Its important to taste test, if its really salty it has a lot of sperm in it, OP should get on that
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Repertoire89]
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all it takes is one and people with low sperm counts do have kids
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In a typical ejaculate (about a teaspoon), 250 million sperm are released. But of those 250 million, only hundreds make it as far as the fallopian tubes.
how many sperm does it take to fertilize an egg?
do you believe there are little snipers or monsters or maybe wolves living in a vagina that are picking off the 250 million sperm as they swim by?
ironic You're talking about 1 sperm surviving what it takes millions of sperm working in tandem to survive
Do you believe in Commando sperm?
are you telling me that a single cell with no brain is capable of cooperative work, maybe half a million of them could pull back a diaphragm, mayeb around 30 millions could pull out an IUD so that one sperm can get in there and penetrate that egg
maybe it's like salmon, they all just swim in one direction until they make it to a destination. there's no cooperation, just survival of the ones not eaten by the vagina bears
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Prisoner#1]
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are you telling me that a single cell with no brain is capable of cooperative work, maybe half a million of them could pull back a diaphragm, mayeb around 30 millions could pull out an IUD so that one sperm can get in there and penetrate that egg
maybe it's like salmon, they all just swim in one direction until they make it to a destination. there's no cooperation, just survival of the ones not eaten by the vagina bears
You sound like a creationist or flat Earther right now
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Repertoire89]
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are you telling me that a single cell with no brain is capable of cooperative work, maybe half a million of them could pull back a diaphragm, mayeb around 30 millions could pull out an IUD so that one sperm can get in there and penetrate that egg
maybe it's like salmon, they all just swim in one direction until they make it to a destination. there's no cooperation, just survival of the ones not eaten by the vagina bears
You sound like a creationist or flat Earther right now
tell us, how man sperm does it take to fertilize an egg?
tell us how these sperm work together to fertilize the egg?
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Prisoner#1]
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I'd consult medical literature on that, considering I'm not a fertility specialist or involved in the medical field at all
I'm sure it has nothing to do with bears, wolves or commandos however
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Repertoire89]
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Repertoire89 said: I'd consult medical literature on that, considering I'm not a fertility specialist or involved in the medical field at all
I'm sure it has nothing to do with bears, wolves or commandos however
so you dont know the number of sperm required to fertilize an egg, you dont know how these sperms use team work to achieve a collective goal for a single sperm but you attest that I'm the one that sounds like a flat earther
here's a few facts. sperm do not work 'in tandem', weaker sperm die off, the few hundred active sperm tend to survive in the harsh environment of a vagina. they dont work together to overcome obstacles, they dont build bridges, they dont do anything but mindlessly swim.
it takes only one sperm to fertilize an egg, hundreds will make it, nearly all of the others will die long before reaching that egg so when sonmeone has a low sperm count, it's referring to active, live sperm, not the number of actual sperm cells, all it takes is one of those to get to the egg which is why even those with low sperm counts can also father kids
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here's a few facts. sperm do not work 'in tandem', weaker sperm die off
Stopped reading here, you don't know what you're talking about.
I would be interested in seeing some statistically relevant medical literature which contradicts or supports the other medical literature I've studied as an amateur.
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here's a few facts. sperm do not work 'in tandem', weaker sperm die off
Stopped reading here, you don't know what you're talking about.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: GeorgieBoy]
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1. You're a scumbag for the whole cheating with her even though she has a boyfriend thing. Less so since she, at least, isn't married.
2. You're a piece of shit for suggesting that she get an abortion just because YOU are too irresponsible to use protection. You don't want babies? Birth control and a condom will do wonders for that.
3. Good luck, everybody makes mistakes, but hopefully you learned your lesson, on multiple fronts.
Also, based on the fact that you suggested abortion immediately, I am going to assume that you are definitely not ready to be a daddy, and obviously don't give A SHIT about the baby. So why the hell is a paternity test so damn important?
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Repertoire89]
#23779366 - 10/28/16 06:40 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Repertoire89
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Prisoner#1]
#23779381 - 10/28/16 06:47 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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From that article
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For example, abnormal sperm that cannot fertilize may instead function to find and destroy or block competing sperm from other males that also may be making the rounds through a female's reproductive tract.
Sperm battles
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Crystal G]
#23779409 - 10/28/16 07:07 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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For example, abnormal sperm that cannot fertilize may instead function to find and destroy or block competing sperm from other males that also may be making the rounds through a female's reproductive tract.
I've heard this theory in a few different places, the sperm of one male competing against those of another is definitely a thing. Nature is one clever motherfucker.
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Crystal G said: Apparently I was reading an article that estimates something like 10% of children are being raised by fathers who think they are the biological father, but are not.
Definitely come across this fact espoused by several different resources too. Makes sense, from a pure 'survival of the fittest' perspective that a female would find a mate that might have huge amount of resource, but have average genetics, but then would find a way to get impregnated by a different male with superior genetics.
Such things are our animal nature at work. But I think, for the sake of our spiritual and mental health, we need to learn to rise above our animal instincts.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Burke Dennings]
#23779462 - 10/28/16 07:48 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Burke Dennings said: If I was you, I'd need to know if the kid was mine. If she refused to have the paternity tested, I would petition the court for a paternity test. She would be legally obligated to have the test done, and that way I could either put the matter to bed or be a father, but I wouldn't be able to handle not knowing. You should convince her to legally establish paternity first, but if she refuses to handle this situation like an adult, you might consider going through available legal channels.
Exactly, a simple medical procedure and it's foolproof and let's u know everything u need to know
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: GeorgieBoy]
#23779542 - 10/28/16 08:45 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Ya I think I'd jump ship for awhile. Doing someone else's girlfriend is only going to be a complicated mess. Might be yours, might be his, and it might be the milk man's.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Repertoire89]
#23779666 - 10/28/16 10:04 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Repertoire89 said: From that article
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For example, abnormal sperm that cannot fertilize may instead function to find and destroy or block competing sperm from other males that also may be making the rounds through a female's reproductive tract.
Sperm battles

and just prior to that it mentioned that it was only theorized by a few retards doctards
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Brian Jones]
#23779668 - 10/28/16 10:06 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Burke Dennings said: If I was you, I'd need to know if the kid was mine. If she refused to have the paternity tested, I would petition the court for a paternity test. She would be legally obligated to have the test done, and that way I could either put the matter to bed or be a father, but I wouldn't be able to handle not knowing. You should convince her to legally establish paternity first, but if she refuses to handle this situation like an adult, you might consider going through available legal channels.
Exactly, a simple medical procedure and it's foolproof and let's u know everything u need to know
and either way she ends up a single mother
unless op and the boyfriend are a couple of cucks
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Prisoner#1]
#23779721 - 10/28/16 10:40 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Definitely a cuck at this point.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: SuperFly]
#23779815 - 10/28/16 11:34 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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SuperFly said: I agree with crystal, if you know you didn't cum in her chances are the baby isn't yours. I know the likely hood that it can happen but like crystal said they are probably having a lot more sex
you have to be careful with girls who sleep with multiple guys, it seems like this happens often. Usually she freaks out and tells the boyfriend about the side dick. BF gets mad and leaves, side guy gets stuck with the whole situation and feels bad and sticks around. Finds out later the kid wasn't his and has already been around long enough to consider the kid his. Idk I've seen this to many times, poor girls who aren't on birth control or believe in abortion.
I don't get when they talk about their religious beliefs holding them back when they aren't supposed to have sex before marriage in the first place lol.
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I have been in the situation of a girl being pregnant many times. Both parties agreed on abortion (3 that I know of) and the first time I was 17 and she was 18! I have also been told that a kid was mine ten years later by a mutual acquaintance. I do not feel bad for not knowing the truth. This girl had guys sneaking in her window left and right, I mean actually physically sneaking in the window! (that's how I did it, it was her MO). I am 51 and am even more at ease of not knowing if that kid or any other is mine. DO NOT let that fact get to you OP. She is probably fucking at least one or 2 other guys and maybe even another girl! Who knows? Get away and count your blessings and forget about it before a whole slew of drama unfolds.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: tyrannicalrex]
#23779824 - 10/28/16 11:40 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yeah I wouldn't care either, they were already raised by someone else and all my exes have inferior genetics
Sneaking into and out of windows is a rite of passage for American youth
Edited by Repertoire89 (10/28/16 11:51 AM)
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: tyrannicalrex]
#23779833 - 10/28/16 11:48 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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tyrannicalrex said: Get away and count your blessings and forget about it before a whole slew of drama unfolds.
I think that's sage advice. If you can in any way mitigate the suffering that's gonna come from your actions I really think it's the best thing to focus on here. If things start getting legal suffering will ensue.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Repertoire89] 1
#23779865 - 10/28/16 11:59 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Repertoire89 said: all my exes have inferior genetics
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Repertoire89]
#23779890 - 10/28/16 12:08 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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all my exes live in Texas, lol!
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Repertoire89] 1
#23780254 - 10/28/16 02:45 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Repertoire89 said: From that article
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For example, abnormal sperm that cannot fertilize may instead function to find and destroy or block competing sperm from other males that also may be making the rounds through a female's reproductive tract.
Sperm battles

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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Dark_Star]
#23780265 - 10/28/16 02:49 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Pitting sperm against each other would be like pitting ant colonies against each other. Sperm Battles would make a great youtube channel.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Dark_Star] 1
#23780270 - 10/28/16 02:51 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Battlesperm Orgasmaca?
Star/Sperm Whores: The spermatozoa menace?
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: tyrannicalrex]
#23781095 - 10/28/16 07:56 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Why is wrong for a dude to sleep with another dudes gf?.. If it was consensual what does it matter?.. Unless that was his bff's gf then it'd be some different shit..
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: zZZz]
#23781107 - 10/28/16 08:00 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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zZZz said: Why is wrong for a dude to sleep with another dudes gf?
So if it was your girlfriend, and you'd been with her for four years, and then one day you find out that she's been fucking some other dude and had got pregnant by him, you'd just shrug your shoulders and say 'what does it matter?'
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#23781171 - 10/28/16 08:27 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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zZZz said: Why is wrong for a dude to sleep with another dudes gf?
So if it was your girlfriend, and you'd been with her for four years, and then one day you find out that she's been fucking some other dude and had got pregnant by him, you'd just shrug your shoulders and say 'what does it matter?'
I wouldn't blame the dude if my girl acted like an un-loyal slut.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: qman]
#23781177 - 10/28/16 08:30 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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zZZz said: Why is wrong for a dude to sleep with another dudes gf?
So if it was your girlfriend, and you'd been with her for four years, and then one day you find out that she's been fucking some other dude and had got pregnant by him, you'd just shrug your shoulders and say 'what does it matter?'
I wouldn't blame the dude if my girl acted like an un-loyal slut.
amen .... hopefully her bf aint cheating on her and she's taking some kinda revenge
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: qman]
#23781227 - 10/28/16 08:50 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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I wouldn't blame the dude if my girl acted like an un-loyal slut.
Yeah, it's not like OP made any promises to this girl's bf. The cheating is 100% on her. If my girl ever cheated on me with some random guy I never met, I'd focus my anger at her. BUT. Being an affair partner is pretty trashy regardless.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: GeorgieBoy]
#23781280 - 10/28/16 09:10 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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You Should have used the rhythm method.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: zZZz]
#23781302 - 10/28/16 09:16 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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zZZz said: Why is wrong for a dude to sleep with another dudes gf?.. If it was consensual what does it matter?.. Unless that was his bff's gf then it'd be some different shit..
It's really not wrong, it's not his responsibility to stop somebody else from cheating. Besides, there are a lot of different relationship statuses, such as "open" or "married but separated and living in different houses" or "with somebody but ending it any day now," so just because somebody has an S/O it's fine sometimes. You just have to use your judgment depending on the circumstance.
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Re: I might have gotten a girl pregnant... [Re: Crystal G]
#23781314 - 10/28/16 09:21 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Statistical Fact: 95% of women in relationships are unsatisfied in one way or the other. That's why I only go out with married women and other guys girlfriends. Lot's less hassle.
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