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I lost my best friend today :(
    #23772106 - 10/26/16 01:26 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

We were so close...

we were fighting the past week because of her abusive boyfriend. Yesterday we literally just made up. Everything was good... Then today I get SERIOUS threats from this abusive boyfriend cunt.

As much as I care for you... I know I need to let you go. I fucking had to tripped balls to come to understanding after much pain. Its just not worth it.

I just feel so bad for her... hes fucked up her life so much... like im talking: cheating, hitting, emotional abuse, the full shabang.

She said I was the only person who truly cared for her in her life. Yet shes just to damaged now... She just cant help herself go crawling back to him.

Our last words were pleasant... but I didnt really get to say goodbye.

Ill miss you darling... Maybe we shall see each other again... some sunny day.

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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: kakashi68] * 2
    #23772111 - 10/26/16 01:30 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

Some people have to learn things the hard way:shrug:


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: OhMrJohnson]
    #23772136 - 10/26/16 01:56 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Some people have to learn things the hard way:shrug:




Well said.

Some people need to live it to actually learn the lessons.

Sorry for your best friend. U may reconnect in the future u never know. She may one day wake up and realize whats happening to her :shrug:


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: LogicaL Chaos] * 1
    #23772530 - 10/26/16 08:05 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

I dont understand. Is your friend dead or just somewhere else on the planet?


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #23772607 - 10/26/16 08:33 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

:heart: From Finland....Sometimes things happen for reason.
I have allways liked your flow on the forum.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: LeningradCowboy] * 6
    #23772622 - 10/26/16 08:37 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

Many women like abusive men, he's fucking her and your not OP. Next time stop trying to save the world and mind your own business.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: LeningradCowboy]
    #23772624 - 10/26/16 08:38 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

<3 from the Netherlands, too.
I've been there, buddy.. sometimes there's just nothing you can do to help someone.

If you can, go out drinking or smoking with a buddy. It'll help a little.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Turtletotem]
    #23772637 - 10/26/16 08:43 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

You could always become friends with the bastard, take him to the nearest zoo, and he could just happen to fall into a pit with a dangerous animal....


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: kakashi68] * 3
    #23772640 - 10/26/16 08:44 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

CUCK
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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: spirit_shadow] * 3
    #23772655 - 10/26/16 08:50 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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I dont understand. Is your friend dead or just somewhere else on the planet?




She's fine. In fact she's probably like right down the damn street from OP. He's just high and all emotional and shit. Once he sobers up he'll probably forget he even posted this shit and will be talking to her again by tomorrow.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Niffla]
    #23773650 - 10/26/16 03:21 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

The boyfriend controls the shit out of her life. He controls who she sees. Hes making threats against my safety... like yea... not worth...

He full on goes through ALL her messages. She was just a friend, I wasnt trying to get with her. I just cared about her alot. Hes fucking psychotic, and gets way to paranoid jealous.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: kakashi68]
    #23773870 - 10/26/16 04:34 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

Get a gun. If you are not good with guns get a laser sight properly installed on your gun


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #23773903 - 10/26/16 04:44 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

no room for nuance here clearly. You know a woman you aren't fucking? Lol what loser
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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Ezuma]
    #23773913 - 10/26/16 04:46 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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no room for nuance here clearly. You know a woman you aren't fucking? Lol what loser
:smokinacandycane:




shes 18, has a kid, crim boyfriend, attachment issues... yea nah... m8 thats just a trainwreck.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: kakashi68]
    #23773974 - 10/26/16 05:01 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

I was referring to the responses such as 'cuck' or qman's post
I don't know you or your situation but sounds like you're right to accept you can't help her, and you just gotta let her realize on her own her life is shit. Or not. There's only so much you can or should do :hug:


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: qman]
    #23774006 - 10/26/16 05:11 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Many women like abusive men, he's fucking her and your not OP. Next time stop trying to save the world and mind your own business.




Exactly, wasnt it rhizomorph was was posting about his captain save a hoe exploits a little while ago. Same thing, and that girl was even worse off then the one in OP. Full on beatings, thrashed in front of their kid, still said she loved him. You're better off cutting your loses and looking for something else dude, because even though she says all this shit, at the end of the day shes always gonna go right back to him and be bouncing off his dick before the days through. Nothings ever going to change that.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: spirit_shadow] * 1
    #23774007 - 10/26/16 05:11 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Get a gun. If you are not good with guns get a laser sight properly installed on your gun




OP lives in the poop streak down under.  He's been brain washed to be scared of guns, so that's not an option.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
    #23774029 - 10/26/16 05:21 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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qman said:
Many women like abusive men, he's fucking her and your not OP. Next time stop trying to save the world and mind your own business.




Exactly, wasnt it rhizomorph was was posting about his captain save a hoe exploits a little while ago. Same thing, and that girl was even worse off then the one in OP. Full on beatings, thrashed in front of their kid, still said she loved him. You're better off cutting your loses and looking for something else dude, because even though she says all this shit, at the end of the day shes always gonna go right back to him and be bouncing off his dick before the days through. Nothings ever going to change that.




Yea I know, ive accepted I cant help her... but doesn't make it right ey... She has such a good soul under all the shit shes had to deal with.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
    #23774036 - 10/26/16 05:24 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Quote:

qman said:
Many women like abusive men, he's fucking her and your not OP. Next time stop trying to save the world and mind your own business.




Exactly, wasnt it rhizomorph was was posting about his captain save a hoe exploits a little while ago. Same thing, and that girl was even worse off then the one in OP. Full on beatings, thrashed in front of their kid, still said she loved him. You're better off cutting your loses and looking for something else dude, because even though she says all this shit, at the end of the day shes always gonna go right back to him and be bouncing off his dick before the days through. Nothings ever going to change that.




It's true, some women seek and embrace abusive relationships with men, SJW's can't compute this reality, what else is new?


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: qman]
    #23774044 - 10/26/16 05:27 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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qman said:
Quote:

Bodhi of Ankou said:
Quote:

qman said:
Many women like abusive men, he's fucking her and your not OP. Next time stop trying to save the world and mind your own business.




Exactly, wasnt it rhizomorph was was posting about his captain save a hoe exploits a little while ago. Same thing, and that girl was even worse off then the one in OP. Full on beatings, thrashed in front of their kid, still said she loved him. You're better off cutting your loses and looking for something else dude, because even though she says all this shit, at the end of the day shes always gonna go right back to him and be bouncing off his dick before the days through. Nothings ever going to change that.




It's true, some women seek and embrace abusive relationships with men, SJW's can't compute this reality, what else is new?




pft
of course it's true, they're damaged people and it's sad but I for one, as a raving moonbat if not a sjw, still think it's their choice to make :shrug: is that not after all, the point of feminism? Feels odd when I agree with ya qman


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Ezuma]
    #23774082 - 10/26/16 05:36 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Ezuma said:
Quote:

qman said:
Quote:

Bodhi of Ankou said:
Quote:

qman said:
Many women like abusive men, he's fucking her and your not OP. Next time stop trying to save the world and mind your own business.




Exactly, wasnt it rhizomorph was was posting about his captain save a hoe exploits a little while ago. Same thing, and that girl was even worse off then the one in OP. Full on beatings, thrashed in front of their kid, still said she loved him. You're better off cutting your loses and looking for something else dude, because even though she says all this shit, at the end of the day shes always gonna go right back to him and be bouncing off his dick before the days through. Nothings ever going to change that.




It's true, some women seek and embrace abusive relationships with men, SJW's can't compute this reality, what else is new?




pft
of course it's true, they're damaged people and it's sad but I for one, as a raving moonbat if not a sjw, still think it's their choice to make :shrug: is that not after all, the point of feminism? Feels odd when I agree with ya qman




Of course it's their choice to make, if being physically, mentally and sexually dominated by an abusive male is what they desire, let them be.

In fact, some take it to the absolute limit, the intensive care unit or death.

I'm sure cops become immune to this stuff after they arrive for the 20th time and see the woman all bloody from her weekly beat down, only to defend the actions of her abuser.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: qman]
    #23774121 - 10/26/16 05:46 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

of course. However if you happen to know said woman closely it would be a different matter, that's why I think the OP isn't completely whack I mean friends try to help each other out all the time. But if she doesn't see the problem and he's tried, he's just gotta give up he's done all he can reasonably be expected to do, and she is within her rights to be an idiot and it's best to leave it at that :shrug:


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: qman]
    #23774127 - 10/26/16 05:48 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Ezuma said:
Quote:

qman said:
Quote:

Bodhi of Ankou said:
Quote:

qman said:
Many women like abusive men, he's fucking her and your not OP. Next time stop trying to save the world and mind your own business.




Exactly, wasnt it rhizomorph was was posting about his captain save a hoe exploits a little while ago. Same thing, and that girl was even worse off then the one in OP. Full on beatings, thrashed in front of their kid, still said she loved him. You're better off cutting your loses and looking for something else dude, because even though she says all this shit, at the end of the day shes always gonna go right back to him and be bouncing off his dick before the days through. Nothings ever going to change that.




It's true, some women seek and embrace abusive relationships with men, SJW's can't compute this reality, what else is new?




pft
of course it's true, they're damaged people and it's sad but I for one, as a raving moonbat if not a sjw, still think it's their choice to make :shrug: is that not after all, the point of feminism? Feels odd when I agree with ya qman




Of course it's their choice to make, if being physically, mentally and sexually dominated by an abusive male is what they desire, let them be.

In fact, some take it to the absolute limit, the intensive care unit or death.

I'm sure cops become immune to this stuff after they arrive for the 20th time and see the woman all bloody from her weekly beat down, only to defend the actions of her abuser.




I dunno I disagree that they WANT to be abused. Its just thats all they know. Like they think thats normal, because there parents fucked them up. Like yes at that moment thats what they want. For whatever is going in there head. That gives them "stability", attention and allows them to survive in the world.

But yes... it cant go on forever and you cant make someone want to change. They just gotta figure it out by themselves.

Is it so wrong that I dont want to see my best friend in pain...


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: kakashi68]
    #23774143 - 10/26/16 05:53 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

you're human, and have a capacity for empathy and that is not wrong. Just try not to worry about it any more than you already have, as clearly your worrying won't change her mind. Maybe she will come to realize the guy's no good, maybe not, but either way I think you're probably right to cut your ties and not let it drain you any more than it already has


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Ezuma] * 1
    #23774154 - 10/26/16 05:57 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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you're human, and have a capacity for empathy and that is not wrong. Just try not to worry about it any more than you already have, as clearly your worrying won't change her mind. Maybe she will come to realize the guy's no good, maybe not, but either way I think you're probably right to cut your ties and not let it drain you any more than it already has




Yea theres no way I could have done this without LSD... That trip was fucking magical... helped bring out some of my issues aswell. There was just this moment in the trip where I could just feel me letting her go.

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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: kakashi68]
    #23774162 - 10/26/16 06:00 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

good on you, try to let this thread be the end of it then, and go be happy. There's too many unfortunates out there to let yourself get hung up trying to save them all. You seem like a good guy though
trip on brother
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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: kakashi68]
    #23774170 - 10/26/16 06:03 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Yea I know, ive accepted I cant help her... but doesn't make it right ey... She has such a good soul under all the shit shes had to deal with.





Hey man sorry about your friend, :heart: from the U.S.. It's really tough to accept a limitation, but limitations are a part of life. Without them, we would be pure energy expanding at an infinite rate through space and... well.. are we.. that? Idk. getting side tracked.

Anyways, sometimes the best thing to do is let someone go, but you can always keep your values, compassion and principles alive in your heart. Maybe you will see here again some day and have a laugh about how she finally escaped that fucked up situation. :sun:


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: kakashi68] * 2
    #23774172 - 10/26/16 06:03 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

Hey if you are looking for a new best friend I have terrible judgement and will always let you down when you need me.  I know you go for that :shrug: think about it.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: moonrockmushy]
    #23774279 - 10/26/16 06:44 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

I will also never be there for you when you're in need, and I'll always hold it against you if you're not sympathetic to my self destructive behavior


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Herbologist]
    #23774304 - 10/26/16 06:52 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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spirit_shadow said:
Get a gun. If you are not good with guns get a laser sight properly installed on your gun




OP lives in the poop streak down under.  He's been brain washed to be scared of guns, so that's not an option.




plus, murder can put u in prison as well.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: LogicaL Chaos] * 1
    #23774316 - 10/26/16 06:55 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Hey if you are looking for a new best friend I have terrible judgement and will always let you down when you need me.  I know you go for that :shrug: think about it.



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Herbologist said:
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spirit_shadow said:
Get a gun. If you are not good with guns get a laser sight properly installed on your gun




OP lives in the poop streak down under.  He's been brain washed to be scared of guns, so that's not an option.




plus, murder can put u in prison as well.




I actually own guns... so plis go away.

She just gave the best hugs... they made the world alright :frown:


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: kakashi68] * 3
    #23774329 - 10/26/16 07:00 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

Op secretly wants to bang this girl and thinks being her emotional tampon will win him her golden vag but unfortunately her abusive BF fucks her better and she's not willing to part with the grade A dick she's getting.



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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: luvdemboomers] * 1
    #23774350 - 10/26/16 07:04 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Op secretly wants to bang this girl and thinks being her emotional tampon will win him her golden vag but unfortunately her abusive BF fucks her better and she's not willing to part with the grade A dick she's getting.






it's funny you see consistently, the same group of posters saying this shit. Projecting? Maybe maybe not, either way I'm glad I don't know you guys irl you sound very bitter


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: luvdemboomers]
    #23774368 - 10/26/16 07:10 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Op secretly wants to bang this girl and thinks being her emotional tampon will win him her golden vag but unfortunately her abusive BF fucks her better and she's not willing to part with the grade A dick she's getting.






yea.. someones a bit lonely and bitter I think.

believe it or not girls and guys can be friends... Like I admit... shes attractive and I probs would fuck her... But im mature enough to realise there are other women out there that arnt such a total fucking trainwreck. You cant really fuck a close friend anyway without it getting REALLY wierd.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Ezuma]
    #23774374 - 10/26/16 07:11 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

I'm surprised you don't know anyone like that there are alot out there who think like that even though they are just lashing out like angsty youth who think that they have it all figured out, when they are really thinking in very small terms.  It's endemic everywhere I've been.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: moonrockmushy]
    #23774396 - 10/26/16 07:17 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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I'm surprised you don't know anyone like that there are alot out there who think like that even though they are just lashing out like angsty youth who think that they have it all figured out, when they are really thinking in very small terms.  It's endemic everywhere I've been.




I'm lucky, I tend to cut anyone I don't like out of my life thoroughly
indeed in highschool I met people like that, but after the great purge of graduation I only have to talk to the cool ones :jah:


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    #23774483 - 10/26/16 07:46 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

OP call the cops for the domestic abuse and threats, man up.

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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
    #23774529 - 10/26/16 07:57 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Many women like abusive men, he's fucking her and your not OP. Next time stop trying to save the world and mind your own business.




Exactly, wasnt it rhizomorph was was posting about his captain save a hoe exploits a little while ago. Same thing, and that girl was even worse off then the one in OP. Full on beatings, thrashed in front of their kid, still said she loved him. You're better off cutting your loses and looking for something else dude, because even though she says all this shit, at the end of the day shes always gonna go right back to him and be bouncing off his dick before the days through. Nothings ever going to change that.




I've known both sexes to get into similar situations. I remember thinking women like that can be helped and saved OP at a young age of 18, some women, people, are just batshit insane and crave abuse. Don't waist your time or energy. Literally is a waste.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: OhMrJohnson]
    #23774540 - 10/26/16 07:59 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Some people have to learn things the hard way:shrug:




Pretty much this. I've been in a ton of shitty situations be it addiction or abusive relationships. I wouldn't listen to anybody they were things I had to learn for myself.

Be there when she comes back. Had a good friend I hadn't spoken to in years  in a very similar situation. She kept apologizing and all I said was no worries love. I'm glad your OK. Than acted like nothing had changed.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Sheekle] * 2
    #23774603 - 10/26/16 08:10 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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OP call the cops for the domestic abuse and threats, man up.

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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Sheekle] * 1
    #23774831 - 10/26/16 09:19 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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OP call the cops for the domestic abuse and threats, man up.



Oh FFS, here you go with the snitching again! That's the antithesis of 'manning up' you moron, manning up would be taking a few lads over and breaking this guys arms and legs, and possibly raping his arse, depending on how badly you wanted to fuck him up (physically/psychologically), and making sure to cover your tracks along the way.

Snitching from a distance is bitch behaviour.

No matter what though, intervening without being asked to is bad news all round, no matter what path you take.

@OP - I feel your pain man, I've known similar situations in my time. You can't help someone that doesn't want help, so IMO you're making the right choice by walking away.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
    #23774957 - 10/26/16 10:08 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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OP call the cops for the domestic abuse and threats, man up.



Oh FFS, here you go with the snitching again! That's the antithesis of 'manning up' you moron, manning up would be taking a few lads over and breaking this guys arms and legs, and possibly raping his arse, depending on how badly you wanted to fuck him up (physically/psychologically), and making sure to cover your tracks along the way.

Snitching from a distance is bitch behaviour.

No matter what though, intervening without being asked to is bad news all round, no matter what path you take.

@OP - I feel your pain man, I've known similar situations in my time. You can't help someone that doesn't want help, so IMO you're making the right choice by walking away.




Thanks :smile: But yea... the cops already know this shit pretty well... they have as much chance of helping her as I do.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: kakashi68]
    #23774976 - 10/26/16 10:13 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

I think you should at least keep tabs on her from a distance, make sure she isn't killed by this guy, shit like that happens ..

If you guys truly care about each other, you should try to help her man! It may be difficult, but how can you just give up on her like that? I get it, his threats could be serious and life threatening to you, but still ... idk, I just hate to see this shit happen. If you back off from both of them in response to his threats, you're only enabling him to keep doing the horrible things he's doing, its just wrong.

Make sure she's safe and maybe do something if you can!! I pray for her


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: kakashi68]
    #23774985 - 10/26/16 10:15 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

Knowing the kinda fella you're dealing with here, any intervention is just gonna make things worse, especially for your friend.

Sad truth of the matter is that she's obviously got some deep, unresolved psychological shit that's keeping her in a relationship like that, and only lots of self exploration, reading and therapy would cause her to wake up and see what's really going on. I lost my wife for similar reasons; some people are so fixated on being in a pattern of abuse, that they cannot understand a life without it. As I am not an abusive man in any way, she ended up tearing our whole relationship to pieces because it didn't fit in with the paradigm through which she viewed life.

She's something like 14 months in rehab now, and it'll probably take another dozen years for her to undo the harms that were done to her through childhood abuse. As you have, I have had to walk away from her to protect myself.

And yeah, cops are ok for cleaning up the mess, but they're never gonna be there at the exact moment you need them.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: lonelypsychonaut]
    #23775017 - 10/26/16 10:21 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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you should try to help her man!



I think this is very bad advice, personally.

People trying to help without being asked for it cause a huge amount of problems in this world. Aside of that immutable truth, in this specific case you also have the dangers of physical harm coming to OP or his friend, from a man who is obviously extremely unstable.

OP's friend isn't being held captive, she could get away if she really wanted to, there are plenty of services which could make this happen, and if she did want to, and wanted help, things would be be different.

But from what OP says she doesn't sound like she's intending on leaving this abusive man, as many women in abusive relationships don't. I've broken up fights several times when I've seen a man hit a woman on the street, putting myself in danger to do so, only to have the woman turn on me once. I also know anecdotally, women often go back to their abusers. Men also, but being the physically stronger gender we have the upper hand in this regard.

The psychological damage that causes this kind of behaviour is never straight forward.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
    #23775020 - 10/26/16 10:23 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

world's full of buncha crazy psychos

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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Sheekle]
    #23775031 - 10/26/16 10:26 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

I know... I was just about to give her some of this LSD I took hoping it would unlock her mind... But I guess its to late now...

I will still fb stalk her to see how shes doing though :P


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: kakashi68]
    #23775269 - 10/26/16 11:59 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

Yeah, sounds like you just gotta play mega safe so that her BF don't catch it. I'm sure you know them well enough to devise a plan which would allow you to communicate without leaving an electronic/paper trail. Self destructing messages are a thing these days!!

Unfortunately they don't do it as dramatically as on Mission Impossible...


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: kakashi68]
    #23775316 - 10/27/16 12:22 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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I know... I was just about to give her some of this LSD I took hoping it would unlock her mind... But I guess its to late now...

I will still fb stalk her to see how shes doing though :P





Whats the malfunction in your brain man, leave her alone - drop it, and get your mind right. Maybe you should back off LSD too. And don't be giving this chick any drugs, dude finds out, it sounds like he will come fuck your day up. And your most likely going to dwell on this until one of 3 things happen..

1) you keep fucking with her, dude catches wind, kills you AND her,
2) you worry about YOURSELF and do you, and drop this chick like a fucking hot potato,
3) she leaves him, realizes how abusive he has been, and she falls in love with you (not happening).

So there are your choices. You pick which scenario plays out in your mind the best. If the guy has already told you to leave her the fuck alone, you should. I'm just telling you, there are people that will take it to the next level. You see it on the news EVERY.SINGLE.DAY. Don't become that guy, guy.

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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Exceed19_2000]
    #23775332 - 10/27/16 12:32 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

I think you're taking his post a little seriously Exceed. I dunno if you read the whole thread, but OP has already made his mind up.

I'm not sure how frequently you've dealt with similar situations in your life, but I've dealt with a few, and certainly a good few people like the dude described in OP. kakashi saying he's gonna look in on facebook from time to time out of concern for the friend he has (wisely IMO) decided he must walk away from is a pretty far cry from making 'stalking' a 'hobby'.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
    #23775378 - 10/27/16 12:54 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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I think you're taking his post a little seriously Exceed. I dunno if you read the whole thread, but OP has already made his mind up.

I'm not sure how frequently you've dealt with similar situations in your life, but I've dealt with a few, and certainly a good few people like the dude described in OP. kakashi saying he's gonna look in on facebook from time to time out of concern for the friend he has (wisely IMO) decided he must walk away from is a pretty far cry from making 'stalking' a 'hobby'.




Surely you jest, the internet is all serious business!

First, look at HIS words. He didn't say "check on", he said FB STALK. So, you can twist that around to mean what you like, but that's what he said.

I was taking it as the OP is coming on here, complaining about a girl (as a friend), who has Stockholm Syndrome, and he wants the best for her, but still wants to check in after being threatened by her boyfriend. Is almost smart enough to leave her alone, then threw in the STALK on her FB at the end.

I'm thinking this motherfucker ALMOST got it. He almost understood. Then threw that shit in there.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Exceed19_2000]
    #23775461 - 10/27/16 01:47 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

Meh, I don't do social media apart from this place, so it could just be a matter of semantics.

I mean, don't get me wrong, I think it would be better for OP and all involved to stay 100% emotionally detached, but he's a human, and I don't think many of us are able to do that.

I get his concern, and I still think he could find a way to communicate with his friend, but it'll have to be foolproof with a nutcase like that just waiting to find evidence that he's been in touch with her.

I think he's been quite good about it. I'd wanna break the cunts legs, personally.


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    #23775596 - 10/27/16 04:28 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Meh, I don't do social media apart from this place, so it could just be a matter of semantics.

I mean, don't get me wrong, I think it would be better for OP and all involved to stay 100% emotionally detached, but he's a human, and I don't think many of us are able to do that.

I get his concern, and I still think he could find a way to communicate with his friend, but it'll have to be foolproof with a nutcase like that just waiting to find evidence that he's been in touch with her.

I think he's been quite good about it. I'd wanna break the cunts legs, personally.




Yea believe me I want to fucking slit the cunts throat.

But yea... its just an expression. I just want to make sure nothing super serious has gone wrong.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: kakashi68]
    #23775635 - 10/27/16 05:11 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

1. stock up on food and water
2. shot her a text if shes down to fuck
3. camp out in your house and wait for bf
4. when you hear him entering your house shot him
5. in court claim that he was assaulting you

This only works if hes actually dumb enough to break into your house but might just be a matter of provoking him enough


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: howsyournaggerdoin]
    #23775654 - 10/27/16 05:31 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

That also only works if you don't live in a place like australia... No guns buddy. OP should really cut the white knight bullshit, there is nothing but negativity to gain from interaction with this girl. Not all women are reasonable innocent little angels some are batshit crazy like I'm guessing this girl is. Probably is licking the boyfriends asshole after telling OP he socks her.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Mescalean]
    #23775676 - 10/27/16 05:48 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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OP should really cut the white knight bullshit, there is nothing but negativity to gain from interaction with this girl. Not all women are reasonable innocent little angels some are batshit crazy like I'm guessing this girl is. Probably is licking the boyfriends asshole after telling OP he socks her.



You're fucking well out of line saying that. You know next to nothing of this situation and then you go and make sweeping assumptions like that, finishing your post by adding insult to injury. You're obviously a moron devoid of a) compassion, b) wisdom, and c) any knowledge of human psychology, so perhaps you should keep your mouth shut when it comes to such delicate matters as this.

Just thinking about our previous interactions, I recall you being very good at making uninformed and sweeping assumptions, so if that's what you strive for in this life then I suggest you give yourself a pat on the back for a job well done.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Mescalean]
    #23775707 - 10/27/16 06:25 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Hey if you are looking for a new best friend I have terrible judgement and will always let you down when you need me.  I know you go for that :shrug: think about it.



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OP lives in the poop streak down under.  He's been brain washed to be scared of guns, so that's not an option.




plus, murder can put u in prison as well.




I actually own guns... so plis go away.



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That also only works if you don't live in a place like australia... No guns buddy.



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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: kakashi68]
    #23775716 - 10/27/16 06:35 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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The boyfriend controls the shit out of her life. He controls who she sees. Hes making threats against my safety... like yea... not worth...

He full on goes through ALL her messages. She was just a friend, I wasnt trying to get with her. I just cared about her alot. Hes fucking psychotic, and gets way to paranoid jealous.




I'm not really sure men and women (heterosexual) can really be "just friends".  There may be an oddball case here or there.  I don't want to argue that point really. 


You should take a good look at yourself and what you think you get from this relationship with her.  It must be really valuable to you if you are to keep it despite the jealousy and mistrust you claim this guy has.  It's kinda gross actually, maybe you should just not.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: RiverDweller1]
    #23775727 - 10/27/16 06:41 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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I'm not really sure men and women (heterosexual) can really be "just friends".



I used to think this when I was younger. As long as you've either had sex previously and stopped, or make a solid vow to never have sex, it can work just fine.

I couldn't have female friends in my early/mid 20's cause I was too sexually precocious - I had no self restraint. But I've got plenty of female friends now.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
    #23775742 - 10/27/16 06:54 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

doesn't having had sex with someone sorta cancel out the "just friends"?  That's more like just friends now that we fucked and aren't compatible.....


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: RiverDweller1]
    #23775769 - 10/27/16 07:18 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

It's been my experience that men who pummel women are chumps. They got a loud bark and a tough stance with other men but when it comes right down to it they get scared.

Not too long ago, just a few months, I had a female friend that ended up in a similar situation. Her boyfriend, who she has a kid with, was I'm a sabbatical' of sorts in the woods for 3 months. When he came home he be a he and cut off all of her friends. Wouldn't let anyone call her, come over to the house, if you invited her over then he showed up without her, then beat her more.

I knew this women for a long time and she was obedient from fear. He would kill her hands down. Anyways, she had an old friend stop by her house one day and the boyfriend had just left. He had circled around the neighborhood and come back through and when he saw her talking to this women snatched them both by the hair and starting kicking them. I was driving by as this happened in their fron yard and had seen enough. When I got out of the car to confront him he got real bulldog like and make a slurry of threats. I continued to approach and h approached me which gave both women a chance to get away and inside. After standing there quiet for a few minutes while he was yelling and threatening, he finally quieted down enough for me to let him no I have no I'll-intentions toward him or his relationship. She has been a good friend of mine for almost 8 years. I explained if I ever see him touch her again that I would literally end hos life.

They broke up about a month later and hasn't been around since. They still argued after that but he never struck her again. I DO NOT recommend this approach. I grew up fighting and have a lot instincts in a fight. I am not a very large man but I fight well and hard and it is known.

What I'm saying is that there may be someone who will do this, there may not. Who knows, maybe the guy is a true coward and will pull out a knife or a gun. Women, except in very rare cases, do not like being truly abused and do not set out to end up there. However they do not leave until they are 100% committed and ready to leave. Even after I confronted this guy it was another month before she made her decision.

I hope it works out well for you and hear. Fear is a powerful device in a relationship. I wish her safe keeping and I hope you make smart choices in this.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: RiverDweller1]
    #23775804 - 10/27/16 07:38 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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doesn't having had sex with someone sorta cancel out the "just friends"?  That's more like just friends now that we fucked and aren't compatible.....



That's a very black and white point of view. Which I can appreciate, like I said, I've been there. But no, providing everything is handled maturely there's no reason a friendship can't remain, even though there can be occasional times when one can feel the sexual tension rise mildly. Out of my 4 close female friends, one is an ex, the other is an ex FWB, and the other two are both in long term relationships. I'm friends with a few of my friends girlfriends/wives too, but I guess that doesn't really count, since I only know them through my friends.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
    #23775814 - 10/27/16 07:47 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

Whenever I propose that men and women cannot be strictly friends, inevitably one or two men always say pretty much what you are saying. 

"Sure, there's a sexual element that must be kept in check!  Here's how I keep my human chemical response in check....I either have sex and get it over with or I constantly deny my natural responses!!  This is proof positive that there can be a just friends relationship with no sexual element!"

I'm sorta poking fun at you but in a good natured way.  How does what you've just described promote trust with a husband who's wife keeps "male BFF's/friends"?  It doesn't, rather it confirms the statement that women and men cannot emotionally and mentally bond without dealing with some sort of sexual element.  It's just nature.  Emotional connections to other men outside of my marriage would be perceived as a threat to my husband, and rightly so.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: RiverDweller1]
    #23775849 - 10/27/16 08:03 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

Hey look, I wanna fuck every 'viable' (as in of the age range where they could produce a child) female that comes near me. It's instinctual. My body can just tell which women are viable and which are not. It pisses me off, cause in the heart of London it's a massive distraction, or at least it used to a lot more than it does now, because I put a lot of work into dealing with it. But it's still there. Always. It's an inherent part of being a male biological being, and I've come to accept that.

But I don't act on it. I wouldn't dream of fucking someone under the age of 20 because I feel conflicts in maturity would make it immoral. I wouldn't dream of fucking a friends wife because that breach of trust would be morally wrong. I have never cheated on a partner for the same reason, even when faced with temptation.

Now I know, having many male friends, that I'm a bit more morally highly strung in this regard than lots of men. But it doesn't change the fact that, when I'm in the company of 'viable' woman, parts of my animal being, that are outside of my conscious control, know that 'my bits work with their bits'. Doesn't mean I'd ever act on it though. And I know that some women feel this way too. Hell, I've felt the tension from a couple of friends partners before.

But that's like saying, just because I could steal something, I shouldn't go to the shop. I go shopping, I pay for all my shit, the relationship is sound.

Just because I have the physical equipment to fuck a woman, it in no way means that I will.

Separation of our human consciousness from our animal nature is required, and an ability to observe and not react to it, but that in no way means I cannot have a friendship.

Fuck, one of my best male friends, I frequently wanna punch his lights out cause I don't like the way he talks to me and others, but that's just him, and I've been friends with him 17 years. Never wanted to punch another friend. But by utilising self control over the years he's become my oldest and most reliable friend.

I see where you're coming from, and I've gone round and round on this topic many times. I couldn't wrap my head around it when I was younger, but since getting married myself, even though I'm no longer with my wife, it all makes sense. It is, after all, simply a question of self control. Perhaps you would feel different if women in the western world had to wear those full muslim burka eye slot cover things - then men would have nothing to see and be tempted by, visual creatures that we are.

Anyway, I gotta shoot off for a bit, but I enjoyed talking about this with you, even though I respectfully disagree with you.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
    #23775862 - 10/27/16 08:12 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

" Perhaps you would feel different if women in the western world had to wear those full muslim burka eye slot cover things - then men would have nothing to see and be tempted by, visual creatures that we are."

No no, that would be like blaming one sex for what both sexes naturally experience.  I am in no way vilifying either sex or you.


Quite the opposite, I'm trying to encourage people to see things for what they are and to operate in that awareness rather than creating hoops and checklists and "boundaries".  And no, I'm not saying boundaries are a bad thing.  This is both about recognizing what attraction is and how it creates itself in our bodies, and holding a level of respect for others' comfort and security.  Everyone is always free to do whatever the hell they want but most don't enjoy the consequences and without a little reality check, continue to make the same mistakes.

thanks for the chat


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: kakashi68]
    #23776350 - 10/27/16 11:16 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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We were so close...

we were fighting the past week because of her abusive boyfriend. Yesterday we literally just made up. Everything was good... Then today I get SERIOUS threats from this abusive boyfriend cunt.

As much as I care for you... I know I need to let you go. I fucking had to tripped balls to come to understanding after much pain. Its just not worth it.

I just feel so bad for her... hes fucked up her life so much... like im talking: cheating, hitting, emotional abuse, the full shabang.

She said I was the only person who truly cared for her in her life. Yet shes just to damaged now... She just cant help herself go crawling back to him.

Our last words were pleasant... but I didnt really get to say goodbye.

Ill miss you darling... Maybe we shall see each other again... some sunny day.

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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Patlal]
    #23776977 - 10/27/16 02:40 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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We were so close...

we were fighting the past week because of her abusive boyfriend. Yesterday we literally just made up. Everything was good... Then today I get SERIOUS threats from this abusive boyfriend cunt.

As much as I care for you... I know I need to let you go. I fucking had to tripped balls to come to understanding after much pain. Its just not worth it.

I just feel so bad for her... hes fucked up her life so much... like im talking: cheating, hitting, emotional abuse, the full shabang.

She said I was the only person who truly cared for her in her life. Yet shes just to damaged now... She just cant help herself go crawling back to him.

Our last words were pleasant... but I didnt really get to say goodbye.

Ill miss you darling... Maybe we shall see each other again... some sunny day.

:makesmecry:




I know this isn't gonna be a popular answer but; this is what cops are for.




are you trolling... or are you seriously that naive?


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Mescalean]
    #23776988 - 10/27/16 02:43 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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That also only works if you don't live in a place like australia... No guns buddy. OP should really cut the white knight bullshit, there is nothing but negativity to gain from interaction with this girl. Not all women are reasonable innocent little angels some are batshit crazy like I'm guessing this girl is. Probably is licking the boyfriends asshole after telling OP he socks her.




he already pointed out he owns guns


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: RiverDweller1]
    #23777001 - 10/27/16 02:47 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Whenever I propose that men and women cannot be strictly friends, inevitably one or two men always say pretty much what you are saying. 

"Sure, there's a sexual element that must be kept in check!  Here's how I keep my human chemical response in check....I either have sex and get it over with or I constantly deny my natural responses!!  This is proof positive that there can be a just friends relationship with no sexual element!"

I'm sorta poking fun at you but in a good natured way.  How does what you've just described promote trust with a husband who's wife keeps "male BFF's/friends"?  It doesn't, rather it confirms the statement that women and men cannot emotionally and mentally bond without dealing with some sort of sexual element.  It's just nature.  Emotional connections to other men outside of my marriage would be perceived as a threat to my husband, and rightly so.




psssh, sure that's common but not all male-female relationships need be sexual, and even if there is on some level lust it doesn't mean it's instantly the primary factor in the relationship

maybe my perspective is different due to having sisters or something but I've had lots of female friends over the years some of whom I was at least attracted to on some level, but a very inconsequential level to my mind, as I never felt it changed the dynamic or that I had to fuck them

there's always room for nuance


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Ezuma]
    #23777311 - 10/27/16 04:05 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

There's no room for nuance in OP's situation (or anyone's who is married).

Respect and trust are just as much about actions as they are feelings of comfort and security.


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