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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Ezuma]
    #23774082 - 10/26/16 05:36 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Many women like abusive men, he's fucking her and your not OP. Next time stop trying to save the world and mind your own business.




Exactly, wasnt it rhizomorph was was posting about his captain save a hoe exploits a little while ago. Same thing, and that girl was even worse off then the one in OP. Full on beatings, thrashed in front of their kid, still said she loved him. You're better off cutting your loses and looking for something else dude, because even though she says all this shit, at the end of the day shes always gonna go right back to him and be bouncing off his dick before the days through. Nothings ever going to change that.




It's true, some women seek and embrace abusive relationships with men, SJW's can't compute this reality, what else is new?




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of course it's true, they're damaged people and it's sad but I for one, as a raving moonbat if not a sjw, still think it's their choice to make :shrug: is that not after all, the point of feminism? Feels odd when I agree with ya qman




Of course it's their choice to make, if being physically, mentally and sexually dominated by an abusive male is what they desire, let them be.

In fact, some take it to the absolute limit, the intensive care unit or death.

I'm sure cops become immune to this stuff after they arrive for the 20th time and see the woman all bloody from her weekly beat down, only to defend the actions of her abuser.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: qman]
    #23774121 - 10/26/16 05:46 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

of course. However if you happen to know said woman closely it would be a different matter, that's why I think the OP isn't completely whack I mean friends try to help each other out all the time. But if she doesn't see the problem and he's tried, he's just gotta give up he's done all he can reasonably be expected to do, and she is within her rights to be an idiot and it's best to leave it at that :shrug:


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: qman]
    #23774127 - 10/26/16 05:48 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Many women like abusive men, he's fucking her and your not OP. Next time stop trying to save the world and mind your own business.




Exactly, wasnt it rhizomorph was was posting about his captain save a hoe exploits a little while ago. Same thing, and that girl was even worse off then the one in OP. Full on beatings, thrashed in front of their kid, still said she loved him. You're better off cutting your loses and looking for something else dude, because even though she says all this shit, at the end of the day shes always gonna go right back to him and be bouncing off his dick before the days through. Nothings ever going to change that.




It's true, some women seek and embrace abusive relationships with men, SJW's can't compute this reality, what else is new?




pft
of course it's true, they're damaged people and it's sad but I for one, as a raving moonbat if not a sjw, still think it's their choice to make :shrug: is that not after all, the point of feminism? Feels odd when I agree with ya qman




Of course it's their choice to make, if being physically, mentally and sexually dominated by an abusive male is what they desire, let them be.

In fact, some take it to the absolute limit, the intensive care unit or death.

I'm sure cops become immune to this stuff after they arrive for the 20th time and see the woman all bloody from her weekly beat down, only to defend the actions of her abuser.




I dunno I disagree that they WANT to be abused. Its just thats all they know. Like they think thats normal, because there parents fucked them up. Like yes at that moment thats what they want. For whatever is going in there head. That gives them "stability", attention and allows them to survive in the world.

But yes... it cant go on forever and you cant make someone want to change. They just gotta figure it out by themselves.

Is it so wrong that I dont want to see my best friend in pain...


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: kakashi68]
    #23774143 - 10/26/16 05:53 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

you're human, and have a capacity for empathy and that is not wrong. Just try not to worry about it any more than you already have, as clearly your worrying won't change her mind. Maybe she will come to realize the guy's no good, maybe not, but either way I think you're probably right to cut your ties and not let it drain you any more than it already has


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Ezuma] * 1
    #23774154 - 10/26/16 05:57 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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you're human, and have a capacity for empathy and that is not wrong. Just try not to worry about it any more than you already have, as clearly your worrying won't change her mind. Maybe she will come to realize the guy's no good, maybe not, but either way I think you're probably right to cut your ties and not let it drain you any more than it already has




Yea theres no way I could have done this without LSD... That trip was fucking magical... helped bring out some of my issues aswell. There was just this moment in the trip where I could just feel me letting her go.

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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: kakashi68]
    #23774162 - 10/26/16 06:00 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

good on you, try to let this thread be the end of it then, and go be happy. There's too many unfortunates out there to let yourself get hung up trying to save them all. You seem like a good guy though
trip on brother
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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: kakashi68]
    #23774170 - 10/26/16 06:03 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Yea I know, ive accepted I cant help her... but doesn't make it right ey... She has such a good soul under all the shit shes had to deal with.





Hey man sorry about your friend, :heart: from the U.S.. It's really tough to accept a limitation, but limitations are a part of life. Without them, we would be pure energy expanding at an infinite rate through space and... well.. are we.. that? Idk. getting side tracked.

Anyways, sometimes the best thing to do is let someone go, but you can always keep your values, compassion and principles alive in your heart. Maybe you will see here again some day and have a laugh about how she finally escaped that fucked up situation. :sun:


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: kakashi68] * 2
    #23774172 - 10/26/16 06:03 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

Hey if you are looking for a new best friend I have terrible judgement and will always let you down when you need me.  I know you go for that :shrug: think about it.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: moonrockmushy]
    #23774279 - 10/26/16 06:44 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

I will also never be there for you when you're in need, and I'll always hold it against you if you're not sympathetic to my self destructive behavior


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Herbologist]
    #23774304 - 10/26/16 06:52 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Get a gun. If you are not good with guns get a laser sight properly installed on your gun




OP lives in the poop streak down under.  He's been brain washed to be scared of guns, so that's not an option.




plus, murder can put u in prison as well.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: LogicaL Chaos] * 1
    #23774316 - 10/26/16 06:55 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Hey if you are looking for a new best friend I have terrible judgement and will always let you down when you need me.  I know you go for that :shrug: think about it.



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Get a gun. If you are not good with guns get a laser sight properly installed on your gun




OP lives in the poop streak down under.  He's been brain washed to be scared of guns, so that's not an option.




plus, murder can put u in prison as well.




I actually own guns... so plis go away.

She just gave the best hugs... they made the world alright :frown:


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: kakashi68] * 3
    #23774329 - 10/26/16 07:00 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

Op secretly wants to bang this girl and thinks being her emotional tampon will win him her golden vag but unfortunately her abusive BF fucks her better and she's not willing to part with the grade A dick she's getting.



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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: luvdemboomers] * 1
    #23774350 - 10/26/16 07:04 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Op secretly wants to bang this girl and thinks being her emotional tampon will win him her golden vag but unfortunately her abusive BF fucks her better and she's not willing to part with the grade A dick she's getting.






it's funny you see consistently, the same group of posters saying this shit. Projecting? Maybe maybe not, either way I'm glad I don't know you guys irl you sound very bitter


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: luvdemboomers]
    #23774368 - 10/26/16 07:10 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Op secretly wants to bang this girl and thinks being her emotional tampon will win him her golden vag but unfortunately her abusive BF fucks her better and she's not willing to part with the grade A dick she's getting.






yea.. someones a bit lonely and bitter I think.

believe it or not girls and guys can be friends... Like I admit... shes attractive and I probs would fuck her... But im mature enough to realise there are other women out there that arnt such a total fucking trainwreck. You cant really fuck a close friend anyway without it getting REALLY wierd.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Ezuma]
    #23774374 - 10/26/16 07:11 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

I'm surprised you don't know anyone like that there are alot out there who think like that even though they are just lashing out like angsty youth who think that they have it all figured out, when they are really thinking in very small terms.  It's endemic everywhere I've been.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: moonrockmushy]
    #23774396 - 10/26/16 07:17 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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I'm surprised you don't know anyone like that there are alot out there who think like that even though they are just lashing out like angsty youth who think that they have it all figured out, when they are really thinking in very small terms.  It's endemic everywhere I've been.




I'm lucky, I tend to cut anyone I don't like out of my life thoroughly
indeed in highschool I met people like that, but after the great purge of graduation I only have to talk to the cool ones :jah:


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Ezuma] * 2
    #23774483 - 10/26/16 07:46 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

OP call the cops for the domestic abuse and threats, man up.

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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
    #23774529 - 10/26/16 07:57 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Many women like abusive men, he's fucking her and your not OP. Next time stop trying to save the world and mind your own business.




Exactly, wasnt it rhizomorph was was posting about his captain save a hoe exploits a little while ago. Same thing, and that girl was even worse off then the one in OP. Full on beatings, thrashed in front of their kid, still said she loved him. You're better off cutting your loses and looking for something else dude, because even though she says all this shit, at the end of the day shes always gonna go right back to him and be bouncing off his dick before the days through. Nothings ever going to change that.




I've known both sexes to get into similar situations. I remember thinking women like that can be helped and saved OP at a young age of 18, some women, people, are just batshit insane and crave abuse. Don't waist your time or energy. Literally is a waste.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: OhMrJohnson]
    #23774540 - 10/26/16 07:59 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Some people have to learn things the hard way:shrug:




Pretty much this. I've been in a ton of shitty situations be it addiction or abusive relationships. I wouldn't listen to anybody they were things I had to learn for myself.

Be there when she comes back. Had a good friend I hadn't spoken to in years  in a very similar situation. She kept apologizing and all I said was no worries love. I'm glad your OK. Than acted like nothing had changed.


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Re: I lost my best friend today :( [Re: Sheekle] * 2
    #23774603 - 10/26/16 08:10 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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OP call the cops for the domestic abuse and threats, man up.

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