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Lucis
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Re: Does having homosexual encounters make you better with women? [Re: Lucis] 3
#23758930 - 10/21/16 07:22 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Why I posted this is I had a friend that I did some gay shit with, no butt stuff, just some oral. But for myself I realized that I might go both ways I guess, probably pansexual because that's the most open sexuality I think.
The thing is I don't fantasize about men in anyway, but when it comes to females I get riled up thinking about the smell/taste of their cunt, everything about their odor, movements, the way they smile, everything turns me on. I saw a girl in the coffee shop the other day, she was very skinny, nice long legs, long hair, all I could think about was bending her over so her ass was in the air doggystyle and burying my face in her vag, I was almost getting light headed (hormones?) from wanting to taste her twat.
So, I don't feel urges like that with guys, but would I screw around with my friend again, probably. He would definitely fit the twink label, but would probably be something like a power bottom because he was not a sissy. I am not to informed on all the gay lingo, so forgive me if I come off as ignorant. He made me feel so good about myself, not sexually speaking, but just in general.
I tried to talk to my mom alone about this one day when sharing lunch with her, she didn't say much, but not long after that I was getting teased a bit from my brothers girlfriend, which this has kind of made me not like her because she has no business teasing me about something she has no idea about, and I knew I had been betrayed by my mother, she's like with a lot of stuff, always looking for drama to dish out, but I can't hate on her because her husband died from a gnarly accident some years back and she hasn't really recovered. I want my brother to be happy because I love him, but I don't want him to think I don't like his girl, even though I think she's an asshole for being like that.
Anyway, before that gay experience I was disgusted by the thought of screwing around with a guy, and never entertained the thought, but one day I said fuck it and gave it a go because I felt it was something that would be interesting to experience, and it was. I felt like there was something which changed within me after having some gay experiences with my friend, like I had awoken something within me, and that something could only be described as being feminine in nature.
I could feel this energy seeping from me, and women were almost slayed by it's magnificent power, they were practically laying at my feet, it was wild. I don't know, my gay friend was also a witch, so maybe he's just casting spells my way and they're working, which is why I feel so much power in my being these days.
I have been hesitance to talk about these matters because if you tell someone you did some gay stuff, they can't break free from labeling someone as gay, and trying to emasculate you.
So I am not gay, but I am not straight either, I am love, and I love you all.
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Re: Does having homosexual encounters make you better with women? [Re: Lucis]
#23759322 - 10/21/16 09:41 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Fascinating.
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Re: Does having homosexual encounters make you better with women? [Re: Lucis] 1
#23760062 - 10/22/16 05:58 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Fennario said: I think it's healthy to explore your sexuality, not just think because you're a man you must stick to women, and vice versa. Guys say they would never do some gay shit with another guy because they're manly and only mess with girls, but the only reason they say this is because they're programmed to think this way and scared of experimentation and what it might mean if they enjoy the gay encounter. I mean how can you know if you would like something unless you have tried it?
What if they took a substance and it lowered their guard, then they had a gay session with a friend and were aroused throughout it, then afterwards they can figure out what that meant to them.
But I am curious if having homosexual encounters actually opens up a feminine side in men which allows them to understand women better, that is if they don't have a gay experience and then prefer men afterwards.
What are your thoughts on this?
No dude, tell yourself whatever you want to make yourself feel better about doin queer shit, but I literally am nauseated at the thought/sight of two gay dudes together.I'm talking about a physicAl sickening of my stomach when I see it
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Re: Does having homosexual encounters make you better with women? [Re: Sheekle]
#23760614 - 10/22/16 11:06 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sheekle said: ive never felt i got in touch with my more feminine side or anything after getting jerked off by guys, which i enjoyed
EDIT: Don't be a clown here please.
jokeshop why the god damn hell did u edit my post i was serious
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Lucis
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Re: Does having homosexual encounters make you better with women? [Re: stzacrack] 2
#23761070 - 10/22/16 02:09 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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stzacrack said: No dude, tell yourself whatever you want to make yourself feel better about doin queer shit, but I literally am nauseated at the thought/sight of two gay dudes together.I'm talking about a physicAl sickening of my stomach when I see it
I never felt bad about doing it to begin with, so don't have to tell myself anything. Why would I feel bad about letting a positive feeling overcome me?
I hope you don't take this the wrong way, but you being made physically sickened by the site of two people in love, seems weak to me. If someone has found love, then I believe you should be happy for them, who cares what they choose, why would that have such a negative impact on your mind?
I am not trying to be rude, I am trying to understand why that would have such a negative impact on you, it's not your life, so why would it have such an impact as to make you physically upset? You don't think that's a bit strange to be physically sickened by such things? Sure it might not be your cup of tea, but to be physically sickened by others choices seems like a major psychological problem to me. I could understand someone feeling sickened if someone was into something which promoted abuse, like having sexual encounters with animals or children, or anything that didn't have a choice and truly understand the possible outcomes of having such encounters, but to feel so poorly over seeing competent people in love, seems strange.
The only thought I had, was I realized why all those hedonistic ancient cultures thought their wine fueled pansexual orgies were fun, to let ones guard down, and experience new things which help you understand things about yourself, is liberating.
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Re: Does having homosexual encounters make you better with women? [Re: stzacrack] 2
#23762301 - 10/22/16 09:10 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sounds like homosexuality is a real problem for you must be your overwhelming masculinity.
Ever read Nausea by Camus? Now that's some deep shit. Nauseated by objects, humanity, the feeling of self... unfolding into a single awakening of joy...
but no, you just can't handle the thought two human beings who share the same kind of genitals kissing each other. Lol.
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Re: Does having homosexual encounters make you better with women? [Re: Chakra Shock]
#23765162 - 10/23/16 07:41 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yes, having sex with another man does make you better with women. Why? Because you can see what it's like to have sex with a man! You can understand what is great about men and what isn't, and you will probably come to find that men are terrible in bed. At least I did. That allowed me to sympathize with women and totally boosted my confidence because I know how to be infinitely better than the competition.
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Re: Does having homosexual encounters make you better with women? [Re: Lucis]
#23808507 - 11/07/16 02:52 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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OP, how did this encounter happen? Was it your idea? Seems like a delicate thing to even raise.
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Lucis
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Re: Does having homosexual encounters make you better with women? [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#23808519 - 11/07/16 03:11 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Why does it seem like a delicate thing to raise? I think looking at such an act as delicate, says a lot about how people need to relax regarding such matters.
It's not a delicate thing, it's over and done with, and confirmed the fact of my preference for females. It's not unheard of for people to want to explore themselves, some are just willing to explore the outer reaches of their minds, which others will only go so far before they hit a wall, I didn't care about that wall, because what if there was something to be learned which was past that wall, then I had to break on through and find out for myself.
I wanted to approach the matter like Alfred Kinsey, to see what I could learn from having such an encounter, to see what I was possible of, to see my reaction to such a thing before and after, and from doing so I have a better understanding of myself, it's that simple.
I think people often make sexuality some complicated thing, like they're just afraid of what they might be capable of, or what their fetishes might be, or that they might enjoy something new to them, I wanted to know for myself, and I found out.
Most slaves never push their boundaries, they just continue on being slaves because that's all they know and that's good enough for them as long as they have food in the stomachs and a roof over their heads, but what if they pushed those boundaries and became free? I think stepping out of our comfort zones to be beneficial.
Don't misinterpret what I am saying though, I don't think you should do anything which would harm another person, harm a child, or harm an animal. If you're exploring your sexuality, then you should do so with those that are of proper maturity, and know what they're getting themselves into, and understand what the possible outcomes are.
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Re: Does having homosexual encounters make you better with women? [Re: Black_Sunset]
#23810539 - 11/07/16 06:18 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Black_Sunset said: That allowed me to sympathize with women and totally boosted my confidence because I know how to be infinitely better than the competition.
You don't need to have sex with a man to learn, and be boosted by what you describe. All it takes is talking to lots of women about their sexual encounters with men, and yes, you soon realise that most men are shit in bed, and why, and so learn not to make the same mistakes.
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Re: Does having homosexual encounters make you better with women? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#23839370 - 11/16/16 04:20 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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For anyone who thinks they might be gay they should try kissing a man first before jumping in. I found it totally fucked up. haha.
There's something called 'frustrated'.
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Re: Does having homosexual encounters make you better with women? [Re: Jokeshopbeard] 2
#23839867 - 11/16/16 07:32 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Black_Sunset said: That allowed me to sympathize with women and totally boosted my confidence because I know how to be infinitely better than the competition.
You don't need to have sex with a man to learn, and be boosted by what you describe. All it takes is talking to lots of women about their sexual encounters with men, and yes, you soon realise that most men are shit in bed, and why, and so learn not to make the same mistakes.
Let me refute your disagreement with my analogy. If a man studies chocolate ice cream, learns the properties and asks 100,000 people what it's like to experience chocolate ice cream, does he know what it's like to taste it?
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Re: Does having homosexual encounters make you better with women? [Re: Black_Sunset]
#23840239 - 11/16/16 10:11 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yeah but like, not everyone is interested in trying the chocolate ice cream.
Furthermore, sometimes understanding the idea of something is enough to make a decision based on whether or not it's for you. That's part of trusting and knowing yourself: gravitating towards that which is genuinely attractive to you.
Not all men are going to feel any sort of interest in a homosexual experience, and that's okay, but waaaaay more would experiment with it if there wasn't as much of a societal judgment against it.
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Re: Does having homosexual encounters make you better with women? [Re: Chakra Shock] 1
#23840358 - 11/16/16 11:04 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Chakra Shock said: Yeah but like, not everyone is interested in trying the chocolate ice cream.
Furthermore, sometimes understanding the idea of something is enough to make a decision based on whether or not it's for you. That's part of trusting and knowing yourself: gravitating towards that which is genuinely attractive to you.
Not all men are going to feel any sort of interest in a homosexual experience, and that's okay, but waaaaay more would experiment with it if there wasn't as much of a societal judgment against it.
Sure, you don't need, as a man, to have sex with another man to know that it's not for you. However, what I'm trying to say is that how can you KNOW what it's like to have sex with a man if you never try? I've had a mixed bag of experiences with men, as limited as they are, but once I tried going down on a guy I better understood the experience women have going down on me. That's the kind of thing I love in life, to step into someone else's shoes and see life for the first time from one of it's infinite perspectives.
Edit: So in response to OP I'd ultimately say no, having sex with another man doesn't make you better at having sex with women. For some people like me, you might glean some wisdom from an experience but in the grand scheme of things it doesn't add much. I would recommend trying it, though
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Re: Does having homosexual encounters make you better with women? [Re: Lucis]
#23840484 - 11/17/16 12:34 AM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Fennario said: But I am curious if having homosexual encounters actually opens up a feminine side in men which allows them to understand women better, that is if they don't have a gay experience and then prefer men afterwards.
What are your thoughts on this?
Surprisingly almost all the gay guys I've had sex with were incredible in bed, really good at oral, much better than the standard heterosexual male.
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Re: Does having homosexual encounters make you better with women? [Re: Crystal G]
#23841649 - 11/17/16 12:47 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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Crystal G said:
Surprisingly almost all the gay guys I've had sex with were incredible in bed, really good at oral, much better than the standard heterosexual male.
I have known many girls to say that.
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Re: Does having homosexual encounters make you better with women? [Re: Lucis] 2
#23842347 - 11/17/16 03:58 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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There is nothing more masculine than 2 men fucking
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Re: Does having homosexual encounters make you better with women? [Re: shaggyp] 1
#23843369 - 11/17/16 08:35 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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shaggyp said: There is nothing more masculine than 2 men fucking
It's true. Put a bunch of gay guys in a single house together and man it'd be FILTHY. Sex all the time, it'd be like animals going at it. Guys are the biggest sluts.
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Re: Does having homosexual encounters make you better with women? [Re: shaggyp]
#23843420 - 11/17/16 08:49 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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shaggyp said: There is nothing more masculine than 2 men fucking
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Re: Does having homosexual encounters make you better with women? [Re: shaggyp]
#23843648 - 11/17/16 10:08 PM (7 years, 2 months ago) |
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shaggyp said: There is nothing more masculine than 2 men fucking
What about three men fucking? That's like 50% more masculine.
Edited by Anonymous (11/17/16 10:09 PM)
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