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Seriously_trippin
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I just did about 16mg Diluadid with some Xanax and dph . I got super high and threw up everything in my stomach . Feels good now. Luckily I also have some good herb callled Barcelona OG . Now I'm all itchy(good kind and watching a show that's always light hearted to me: American Dad. I'm kind of going through a friendship crisis and morals/values vs reality kind of deal. I have always stood for treating women as my equal and the worst relationships I've had have been the ones where I was cheated on.
My best friend of 13-14 years wants to divorce his wife of 2 years before the child they didn't plan will have memory of it. They've been together 4 years and every friend of ours I can think of has been "banned from seeing him on his days off" except for me.because I always agreed with her so I could have time to hang out with our best friends.
He goes to work at 3:30am and gets home around 4pm . Between then and 7pm(the time he has to go to sleep) he has to clean up his wife's daily messes. She yells at him all the time saying if he really loved her he would spend time with her instead of wanting to have friends over. Also he has a decent job but not an amazing job and his wife spends it all on material things or lots of fast food etc. This is where he's going to sound like a terrible person but his wife for the first year pretended to be someone else,she tells him what he can and can't do ,who he can hang out with and constantly tells him he's a bad husband and just settled for her.
Her repetitive belittling ,controlling ,hostile,lack of appreciation and lack of sex before the baby are just a few reasons why he's doing this.He found a woman that does appreciate him and is really hot . So He's cheating on his wife He going to wait a few months after his kid is born to file for the divorce. He should've stopped it a lot sooner then that and he said the reason why was because he was trying to give it a chance. He has every right to divorce her but i think he will get caught and cheating on her is something I'm going to tell him is unacceptable.
So like I said all his friends especially me knew that she dictated his life and he was never happy but to figure this out now 1month before the baby is fucked. I'm going to see if a psychologist friend of the family can talk to him and advise him on how to do this. I asked if he wanted to go the therapy with her or tell her if she doesn't treat him better he will leave her etc. And he said "S_T I'm not telling you were just having problems I'm telling you I've been unhappy for years now and I've made up my mind that we have to divorce now so our child doesn't have to be old enough to remember his parents splitting"
He says he will give her half his paycheck(she doesn't ever work), live near her to see the kid as much as possible and generally still be a dad . I think all his friends will be relieved he can hang out more but I couldn't think of a worse time this is the first time in 13 years of friendship where I was thinking "you're a fucking dbag" . Just wait until you get the divorce and then fuck. It's weighing on my mind heavily and I need to figure out how to talk to him about this . I feel it was wrong
Sorry about how long the post is but this is complicated
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Sorry about how long the post is but this is complicated
i got that part
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Burke Dennings
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Seriously_tripping, I wouldn't let this weigh on your mind so much. The great thing about this situation is that it has absolutely nothing to do with you. It's not your problem, at all, and to make it yours is what's known as "borrowing trouble". So, you're off the hook on that. Phew!
In regards to your friend: yeah, he's wrong to cheat. Always, cheating is wrong. But I've seen you make plenty of posts about his shitty relationship, and I am surprised that you're not thrilled for him to be getting a divorce. That sounds like the best case scenario IMO. It sounds like he's planning to leave the wife, and not the baby, so I don't know what the problem is there. As long as he does everything he can to be a father. Your state is "no fault" when it comes to divorce, so even if his wife finds out about the cheating, it's not going to cost him more than the divorce already would. And I agree with him on waiting a few months before filing; 8 months pregnant is no time to spring it on your child's mother that you're leaving her, and immediately after birth isn't much better either. Tbh, while the cheating is shitty, it sounds like your friend is doing everything else right. You can express to him your opinion on that if you feel it's your place (which it probably isn't), but apart from that, this situation shouldn't contain any stressors to yourself. Be there for your homie through the divorce, I hear it's rough. And be a friend through those early months of new parenthood; that shit is a crazy adjustment. If you can't do those things, best to just walk away. He doesn't need your borrowed trouble on his plate too.
Other than that, everything will work itself out! Be happy for your dude for leaving behind a miserable relationship for a new chapter. 
P.S. idk if it's worth it to mention to him, but if he's leaving his wife to be with the affair partner, it's almost a sure bet that his new relationship will fail too. I hope he's leaving her just to be happy on his own, because it's just about guaranteed that it won't work out with the other woman. Those things never do.
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Seriously_trippin
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Burke Dennings said: Seriously_tripping, I wouldn't let this weigh on your mind so much. The great thing about this situation is that it has absolutely nothing to do with you. It's not your problem, at all, and to make it yours is what's known as "borrowing trouble". So, you're off the hook on that. Phew!
In regards to your friend: yeah, he's wrong to cheat. Always, cheating is wrong. But I've seen you make plenty of posts about his shitty relationship, and I am surprised that you're not thrilled for him to be getting a divorce. That sounds like the best case scenario IMO. It sounds like he's planning to leave the wife, and not the baby, so I don't know what the problem is there. As long as he does everything he can to be a father. Your state is "no fault" when it comes to divorce, so even if his wife finds out about the cheating, it's not going to cost him more than the divorce already would. And I agree with him on waiting a few months before filing; 8 months pregnant is no time to spring it on your child's mother that you're leaving her, and immediately after birth isn't much better either. Tbh, while the cheating is shitty, it sounds like your friend is doing everything else right. You can express to him your opinion on that if you feel it's your place (which it probably isn't), but apart from that, this situation shouldn't contain any stressors to yourself. Be there for your homie through the divorce, I hear it's rough. And be a friend through those early months of new parenthood; that shit is a crazy adjustment. If you can't do those things, best to just walk away. He doesn't need your borrowed trouble on his plate too.
Other than that, everything will work itself out! Be happy for your dude for leaving behind a miserable relationship for a new chapter. 
P.S. idk if it's worth it to mention to him, but if he's leaving his wife to be with the affair partner, it's almost a sure bet that his new relationship will fail too. I hope he's leaving her just to be happy on his own, because it's just about guaranteed that it won't work out with the other woman. Those things never do.
Thank you Burke this post meant a lot to me and helps tremendously . You're right no matter what I do,I'm not involved in it . I'm very happy he isn't putting up with her shit anymore but I guess I thought he'd consider going to marriage counseling or give his wife an ultimatum. She's 9 months pregnant and they've been married twice. However again you're right, it's not like he doesn't want a part of his child a life. He truly does Also what you said about just having sex is the big reason I'm worried for him vs. falling for this girl. He really seems like he is falling for her.I hope to God he knows it's just sex. He brought her over to meet me and she seems great. Only thing is when he went outside for a cig 3 times I got to talking to her and we have a lot in common. I'm almost positive she was interested in me. She kept saying how nice it was to smoke a bowl with someone
When he went outside I said something she thought was smart and said "That's very wise , L thinks he's so smart sometimes when really he talks out of his ass a lot *giggle*" My answer was something to the effect of "haha yeah well umm I guess sometime he does but for the most part he's a smart guy" . Then she said "yeah hes book smart but when it comes to other things not so much". I think he's so happy to be free he sees this woman as his savior in a way. Just like you say though he's been needing to do this for himself for a long time and I hope he's not trying to overcompensate because that "relationship" would never work out.
After processsing the whole situation I've come to the conclusion that it's great he's leaving his wife and finding women that don't keep him on a leash and frankly treat him like shit. What I'm still worried about though is when he tells her he wants a divorce (hasn't told her yet) I expect her and her family to go apeshit on custody battles and excessive child support. Anyway to fuck with his life they will do it. Her family is extremely wealthy and she is extremely vindictive. They didn't get a prenup and he refuses to go see a lawyer because he will just pay her half of his check every month and it won't go to the courts. I think it's stupid to want a divorce and not get an attorney because it's "too expensive ". He told me the other day she's never going to get a job or doing anything with herself,which is harsh but 100% true. She wants to be a stay at home mom and that wasn't going to happen even if they didn't split up.
Anyway thank you for the advice Burke, unlike 80% of the advice I get, this really does help me
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I Love Lucid said: Coke-fueled scheming, plotting methods of getting my female peers in my bed
So how much roofies did it end up taking?
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Anytime dude, glad to help. 
One bit of advice for your friend though: he NEEDS to lawyer up on this. I'd recommend that even if there wasn't a kid involved, but it's absolutely imperative since there is one. Beyond the actual divorce, he needs an attorney to navigate the child support & custody agreement. It sounds like he wants to forego both of those. That's the worst idea ever. In regards to child support, it's great to want to give the kid half of his money, but he needs to go through the court. They won't force 50% CS, but he can give whatever extra he wants. But if he just gives her money with no agreement, in 5 years (or whenever) she can just claim he never gave his kid anything, and he'll be on the hook for however many years back pay on the CS. That'll cost him so much more in the future than a lawyer would now. Important especially if she's a vindictive bitch like you say.
In regards to custody agreements, that's another thing he absolutely must set up through the courts. If he doesn't, they just have a nonlegal verbal agreement, she can take that kid, move across the country, and never contact him again. And even if he does find her, he won't have any legal way to reacquire his child. He'll be fucked.
Tell your friend how important it is that he goes through all the proper legal channels.
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I Love Lucid said: Coke-fueled scheming, plotting methods of getting my female peers in my bed
So how much roofies did it end up taking?
None yet, but I've had no success yet either.
And as we all know, correlation means causation!
Time go to pick up some roofies! Will update back here with the average quantity it took!
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Seriously_trippin
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Burke Dennings said: Anytime dude, glad to help. 
One bit of advice for your friend though: he NEEDS to lawyer up on this. I'd recommend that even if there wasn't a kid involved, but it's absolutely imperative since there is one. Beyond the actual divorce, he needs an attorney to navigate the child support & custody agreement. It sounds like he wants to forego both of those. That's the worst idea ever. In regards to child support, it's great to want to give the kid half of his money, but he needs to go through the court. They won't force 50% CS, but he can give whatever extra he wants. But if he just gives her money with no agreement, in 5 years (or whenever) she can just claim he never gave his kid anything, and he'll be on the hook for however many years back pay on the CS. That'll cost him so much more in the future than a lawyer would now. Important especially if she's a vindictive bitch like you say.
In regards to custody agreements, that's another thing he absolutely must set up through the courts. If he doesn't, they just have a nonlegal verbal agreement, she can take that kid, move across the country, and never contact him again. And even if he does find her, he won't have any legal way to reacquire his child. He'll be fucked.
Tell your friend how important it is that he goes through all the proper legal channels.
I think I will show him this post at some point. He's walking on eggshells with nuclear land mines underneath. He's cheating on her and it's just retarded not to scrimp and save for a lawyer.
Also I'm finding out more about this chick and she's a real super freak. Super bondage rapey things(role play). Although I've seen dat ass,tits and pussy and she's just beautiful . Anyway long story short she wants me to join them next time. Normally I'd say no immediately but they're fucking at my house and she tells him she wants to be gangbanged and shit. She has a hourglass figure + nice big tits but not huge and a pussy that would make any straight man could consider a work of art.
She also told him she wants to be roofied which I think goes too far (she did say this btw I heard it) He told her that is too crazy for even him. And sounds suspicious because she wants her to give her roofies(which we have no idea where to get) and video tape it so she can masterbate when he's not around or whatever the case my E
She says she always want to do whatever he wants to do .She told him she wants to be a sex slave,be in a doggie cage,hogtied,ball gagged(role played of course).The Whole nine yards I'm into that shit but I'm weighing my options.
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Seriously_trippin said: And sounds suspicious because she wants her to give her roofies(which we have no idea where to get) and video tape it so she can masterbate

I'd probably fuck her, not the whole roofie gangrape video thing, but
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Yup, honestly she is too hot to pass on this one but most certainly no knockout drugs will be involved. That's really hardcore .
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Definitely something to do on a trip if ever
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Hey, be careful s_t. Like koods implied, that's a huge red flag. Especially that she wants it taped. Something ever goes wrong, and it'll look like you & your homie drugged and raped her & she has the video evidence. I'm not saying that there's anything wrong with being into stuff like that, but you gotta do it the right way. Idk how this all works, but I know it's a (somewhat) common practice for people in those kinds of extreme sex situations to sign consent forms. Maybe even in the presence of a notary? Not sure of the specifics, but if you're considering this stuff, you're gonna want to do the research on how to legally protect yourself. You know, so you can't get charged with sexual assault and stuff.
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Yeah you're right about that he told her he wouldn't give her drugs and he doesn't want to tape it . She agreed to that. I'm pretty sure she wants the "roofie video" as a sexual thing but it could easily turn into a lawsuit and eternity of ass rape in prison.
So I guess tomorrow is THE day though.She wants to get gangbanged or at least DPed and neither I nor my bro have ever done that before. He's uncomfortable getting random people so she asked me to join because she knows we have been best friends for over a decade. Also while we are fucking her here at my house choking will be off the table or anything that could go bad fast. Any other tips? (I honestly want to know)
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Take pix and vids
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Fuck that koods this calls for a live feed.
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