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DabsAndTabs


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What Would You Do?
#23738734 - 10/14/16 10:48 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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So...
I got a new job recently. I had two rounds of training, tonight being my second night of training.
I came to find out earlier tonight, someone from my past works here as well. This person, I was not expecting to see, nor ever wanted to cross paths with again.
Some background: this person, I believe has some major screws loose. I've known them for about 10 years. This guy has been on the wrong path for quite sometime. Bad drug abuse, B&E's, robbing people, etc.
About 4 years ago, this delusional brain dead ex-airduster junkie SWORE I snitched on him when he got caught with a good amount of nugs. (I could go on a tangent fully explaining this part, but basically he copped from me, yet got caught with double what I had given him.) Yet in his twisted mind, he placed blame on me without any sorts of proof to back up his false claims.
After he got caught and straight up told me he was going to exact his revenge he made a move on me 5 or 6 months after the incident, once he got out of county. I got set up and jumped really badly. It was 10000% for no reason. I have never dropped names. I never have and never will. I was friends with this kid all throughout high school and even middle school too.
I hadn't seen him since the incident until tonight.
He shot me shitty looks with his dead fucking eyes all night. It threw me off my training game real bad and just plain made me feel uncomfortable.
What would you do? Confront this guy again after 4 years and try to talk sense into him? Or just leave, find another part-time gig.
I'm in a really good place in my life now. No more court troubles, almost done with college after fucking up for so long... I don't need this guy making me take two steps back, but I am the optimistic type of person that believes people are capable of change. Though, with how the vibe was tonight... I'm not sure how much changing he's done. I'm pissed, it's not like I can talk to my managers about this, then it would essentially be like snitching. So yeah, help? lol some opinions would be nice. I'm about to cut my losses with this place...
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Repertoire89
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Depends how good the job is, if its entry level I would just leave. This coming from someone who has a handful of enemies.
You should have reported the incident where he assaulted you.
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Nobler Hino
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Give him a cyanide cup cake and say no hard feelings here bro
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DabsAndTabs


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Its entry level, yeah. I'm leaning towards finding something else.
I have training again tomorrow. He'll probably be there again as well.
I even got the vibe of him already shit talking me to the other employees because one kid who was really personable and nice towards me yesterday was quiet towards me today. I saw them talking quite a bit.
Sucks that I sunk almost $200 in work clothes just to quit this place 2 nights later. I don't wanna feel like this fool has control over my situation, but I'm aware enough to realize this may be the start to something bad if I have to share a space with this dude and work with him.
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Repertoire89
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Any possibility of being able to get a refund on those work clothes?
Ime the biggest factor to make or break a job, has been coworkers. Starting out a job with some POS like that would be a no-go
Already spent years working with assholes
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Catch him in the bathroom, unkeister your shiv from your anus, commence to stick him full of holes but nothing lethal, let him know you love it when his girl calls you big poppa.
Seriously though, don't worry about it, don't let this guys bad vibes ruin your new job, outwork the cunt.
I would wait and see how things go.
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DabsAndTabs


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I was so hyped to finally end my recent job hunt. It's just a bummer having to go back out right as I got my foot in the door somewhere again.
But I agree, I couldn't do this every other day. Especially given who this is... I know the chance of squashing anything is slim to nil. Can't argue extreme delusion & arrogance.

Fennario, I couldn't even focus on learning. He did some damage to me when he jumped me (mental & physical), it's a huge mental scar. I generally get along with everyone I come across and do not have to resort to violence.
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azur
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Quit being a bitch. Walk up to dude and tell him you never ratted on him and you should be pissed that he trashed your name. But you're willing to let it go and it'd be great if we can be cool.
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Re: What Would You Do? [Re: azur]
#23738894 - 10/15/16 12:04 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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azur said: Quit being a bitch. Walk up to dude and tell him you never ratted on him and you should be pissed that he trashed your name. But you're willing to let it go and it'd be great if we can be cool.
Sounds like a great way to have a shitty drama-filled time
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azur
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Not really. I was in a similar situation years ago. And I did what I just suggested. Dude and I are cool as shit now.
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Re: What Would You Do? [Re: azur]
#23738902 - 10/15/16 12:08 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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I can see how it would work out, but it depends on the person and circumstances
Personally I'm too tired of bullshit to deal with it on a voluntary basis And its unlikely I would drop something like that and be fine with that person
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Well in an alternate reality where murder was legal I would kill that guy
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Re: What Would You Do? [Re: azur]
#23738911 - 10/15/16 12:14 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Lol I appreciate your bluntness, azur.
There's no getting through to this guy. This dude thinks I got him a felony. He's brain dead from incestial parents (kidding) & shitty drugs- I can't reason with him. I know you've met someone with that arrogance. Fuck a PF Chang's anyways lolol.
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Lucis
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Quote:
DabsAndTabs said:
Fennario, I couldn't even focus on learning. He did some damage to me when he jumped me (mental & physical), it's a huge mental scar. I generally get along with everyone I come across and do not have to resort to violence.
RIght on man, I was just joking about stickin him in the bathroom, just trying to cheer you up I guess.
But if it's a huge mental scar, then I would find new employment.
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DabsAndTabs


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Re: What Would You Do? [Re: Lucis]
#23738959 - 10/15/16 12:45 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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haha I know you were, I'm just saying I'm a "Words > Fists" kinda guy in general!
Having a gun pulled and cocked on me wasn't even as traumatic as that jumping. I was blind sided so badly.
Edited by DabsAndTabs (10/15/16 12:46 AM)
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Nobler Hino
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Why dont you carry a gun?
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To each their own. Wisdom says let it go and let him be a hater. The alcohol says cut his tongue off and feed it to him.
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DabsAndTabs


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Re: What Would You Do? [Re: YaMoonSun]
#23740386 - 10/15/16 04:33 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Well I ended up quitting.
Somehow a couple of the managers found out last night there was bad blood between me and this dude so when I went to resign the head manager already knew a little of the situation. He had spoken to the guy I dislike about it before I came up to resign, but it would still be an awkward and potentially bad situation so I cut my losses with the place.
Im content with the decision I guess.
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Nonviolent method...Get the dudes phone number and sign up for every college or anything for that matter and use his number and name to tell them to call back asap.
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Repertoire89
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Good luck finding a new job man
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