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Anonymous #1
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A Girl back East
#23729782 - 10/11/16 10:39 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Hey, I'm a college junior.
Right before I came back to school, I got back on snapchat. This girl messaged me and we hit it off but I haven't seen her in a couple years. We snap and shit everyday. I think she's cute, we're really relate-able, similar sense of humor -- we share the same sentiments.
At school I've been going to parties and just breaking out of my shell. I used to have crippling anxiety but this year has really helped to get me out of that-- went to my first college party (been having a blast) I have friends etc... good future, whatever.
My issue now is that I'm very attractive, and I've been told I'm charming and cute, but on the inside... some days I feel dull and boring... and other days I feel like I'm the absolute shit.
I'm just really bad at small talk, like normal dude talk... I'm in touch with my feminine side. I could give less of a fuck about anything most people want to talk about (getting fucked up, sports, the latest pop-culture, etc), I like doing my own thing. I wish I was more relate-able but 
ANYWAY: the point of this thread is I'm already getting anxious about going back home. I'm like the physical embodiment of "still water is always deep" and I'm super attractive (not to sound like a douche, I swear I'm not but I just want to get the point across because it's part of the problem) so girls are always coming on to me but I don't feel special enough to merit the attention. It's weird, when I'm by myself I actually feel most empowered. As soon as I have a girl talking to me I feel pressured and hate it until I'm finally left alone.
I'm just pretty anxious about coming home because this GIRL BACK EAST is like me, super cute and seems to genuinely share life views with me... or at least the text version of me. I've always been better with words and jokes on paper, and I'm worried that I won't live up to who I am in person. I'm exactly the same person, but my anxiety acts like a wall that blocks me from being me.
Cool thanks.
Whatever you have to say, please put it down... anything
Edited by Anonymous (10/11/16 10:51 PM)
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Anonymous #2
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Anonymous said:
I'm just really bad at small talk, like normal dude talk... I'm in touch with my feminine side. I could give less of a fuck about anything most people want to talk about (getting fucked up, sports, the latest pop-culture, etc), I like doing my own thing. I wish I was more relate-able but 
People start talking about what Trump said, and some new pop song, and here I am trying to explain how I dosed a ton of shrooms and opened a portal to some Dr. Seuss land where the truffula trees were so beautiful. Awkward is an understatement.
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FruitOfLife
Professional Package Handler


Registered: 05/21/12
Posts: 4,832
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You think about stuff to much. Just be yourself and you'll find the right woman who likes you for you. If you're already attractive then that should be a big confidence booster for you. Don't worry about talking about pop culture shit or current events. Just talk about what you want to talk about which conveys passion and thats what women love.
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