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Repertoire89
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Disowning family
#23716650 - 10/07/16 03:06 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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What would it take for you to disown a family member? Does that change based on whether they're your parent, sibling, cousin or child?
Would you disown Ted Bundy?
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It would have to be like murder of a family member or something.
Peeps are awesome and I'd blow teds brains out!
Edited by impatientguy (10/07/16 03:13 PM)
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complete and all encompassing selfishness, a complete lack of gratitude
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I disowned mine a long time ago. Blood doesnt amount to fuck all if there isnt any loyalty to back it.
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Bodhi of Ankou said: I disowned mine a long time ago. Blood doesnt amount to fuck all if there isnt any loyalty to back it.
goddamn straight!!!!!!!!
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Repertoire89
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I agree Bodhi, there's one I outright disown for being a useless POS, and I don't associate with my cousins / uncles / aunts.
There are 9 people I consider family, another 2 dozen or so who mean nothing
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Re: Disowning family [Re: ruaware]
#23716848 - 10/07/16 04:08 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Remember that Harvard swimmer or whatever who served 3 months in prison for rape? I remember his father was basically defending him, saying it was only "20 minutes of action" or some shit.
I was like, "HAH, if that were MY son, I'd whoop his motherfucking ass so hard, he'd be BEGGING to go to jail instead!" 
I'm dead serious too. If I had a son and I found out he committed rape or seriously disrespected and violated some girl or some shit, I would beat the fuck out of that motherfucker. Who the fuck he think he is...
I'd be like, "Boy, you did WHAT?!" *KAPOW!!!!!* Crack!! Right to the cheek-bone! Death by TKO!!!
I literally fantasize about having a son just so I could keep his ass in line. Like "TRY ME, ya trifling ass bitch." LMAO
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Re: Disowning family [Re: Crystal G]
#23716854 - 10/07/16 04:13 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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That is interesting

It would be terrible to have to disown one of your kids though, they're a pretty hefty investment in time, money and empathy
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I like to think of life as one giant family and I think disowning is rarely necessary or justified. Estrangement is another matter however 
But take the Ayahuasca prison program in Brazil for example, murderers and rapists are being iven aya and having powerful revelations that allow them to really see the terrible things they have done in a new light which makes then want to be better people. Clearly not everyone is capable of that but we will never know unless we try and rehabilitation certainly beats keeping our prisons packed...
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Re: Disowning family [Re: Crystal G]
#23717037 - 10/07/16 05:09 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Crystal G said: Remember that Harvard swimmer or whatever who served 3 months in prison for rape? I remember his father was basically defending him, saying it was only "20 minutes of action" or some shit.
I was like, "HAH, if that were MY son, I'd whoop his motherfucking ass so hard, he'd be BEGGING to go to jail instead!" 
I'm dead serious too. If I had a son and I found out he committed rape or seriously disrespected and violated some girl or some shit, I would beat the fuck out of that motherfucker. Who the fuck he think he is...
I'd be like, "Boy, you did WHAT?!" *KAPOW!!!!!* Crack!! Right to the cheek-bone! Death by TKO!!!
I literally fantasize about having a son just so I could keep his ass in line. Like "TRY ME, ya trifling ass bitch." LMAO 
that could be a funny movie, just a mom that beats the shit out of her son, kickboxing style, when he gets out of line.
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My entire family has basically disowned by dad, me included. He's just a horrible human being. He had custody of my two younger brothers until CPS took them away and gave them to my mom (which wasn't a whole lot better in a lot of ways). My dad used to abuse the shit out of the youngest of them but never really did anything to the older one. He broke bones and threw him through walls and shit. That's only scratching the surface on why he's a terrible person though. To make matters worse, he's never accepted responsibility for any terrible thing he's ever done. He's never really apologized or tried to make amends. Years after he lost custody he went all devout Christian and just expects that he's been forgiven, not just by God by but the family as well. He acts all shocked when he learns that no one has forgiven him.
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Forgiveness is a pretty big subject itself
What would it take to forgive someone like that? Would they have to save you from a zombie infestation?
Or must he live forever alone
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There is no forgiveness for him as far as I'm concerned, not anymore at least. I have a whole different set of issues with him aside from him just being a general piece of shit. I tried to forgive him and have him be a part of my life and stuff, it's just not possible.
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With my face against the floor I can’t see who knocked me out of the way. I don’t want to get back up but I have to so it might as well be today. Nothing appeals to me no one feels like me, I’m too busy being calm to disappear. I’m in no shape to be alone contrary to the shit that you might hear. You can't wake up, this is not a dream. You're part of a machine, you are not a human being With your face all made up, living on a screen. Low on self esteem, so you run on gasoline
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Repertoire89
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That's understandable
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Re: Disowning family [Re: Crystal G]
#23717514 - 10/07/16 07:36 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Crystal G said: Remember that Harvard swimmer or whatever who served 3 months in prison for rape? I remember his father was basically defending him, saying it was only "20 minutes of action" or some shit.
I was like, "HAH, if that were MY son, I'd whoop his motherfucking ass so hard, he'd be BEGGING to go to jail instead!" 
I'm dead serious too. If I had a son and I found out he committed rape or seriously disrespected and violated some girl or some shit, I would beat the fuck out of that motherfucker. Who the fuck he think he is...
I'd be like, "Boy, you did WHAT?!" *KAPOW!!!!!* Crack!! Right to the cheek-bone! Death by TKO!!!
I literally fantasize about having a son just so I could keep his ass in line. Like "TRY ME, ya trifling ass bitch." LMAO 
So you fantasize about having offspring just so you can abuse them? That's pretty sickening...
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I don't think I could ever disown my family, even if they did some really horrible stuff, I wouldn't agree with what they did, but I don't think I would disown them.
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Re: Disowning family [Re: Lucis]
#23717558 - 10/07/16 07:47 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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What if a family member went Guantanamo bay on you for 6 months?
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Lucis
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What does that mean exactly?
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Re: Disowning family [Re: Lucis]
#23717598 - 10/07/16 08:00 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Fennario said: What does that mean exactly?
If one of them tortured you for 6 months
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I only have my immediate family. It would take a lot. Money could never tear us apart no matter how much. They could even kill my dog (I don't have one) and I'd still love them. It'd probably have to be something severe like one of them fucking my wife (if I had one) or something like that. I don't know. Friends come and go but family is all you have.
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Repertoire89 said:
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Fennario said: What does that mean exactly?
If one of them tortured you for 6 months
They would only be torturing themselves in the long run, I rise above such trivial matters. If they tried to destroy me, they would effectively destroy themselves. Become something greater than human, become a God, all this pain is an illusion.
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Celestial Traveler said:
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Crystal G said: Remember that Harvard swimmer or whatever who served 3 months in prison for rape? I remember his father was basically defending him, saying it was only "20 minutes of action" or some shit.
I was like, "HAH, if that were MY son, I'd whoop his motherfucking ass so hard, he'd be BEGGING to go to jail instead!" 
I'm dead serious too. If I had a son and I found out he committed rape or seriously disrespected and violated some girl or some shit, I would beat the fuck out of that motherfucker. Who the fuck he think he is...
I'd be like, "Boy, you did WHAT?!" *KAPOW!!!!!* Crack!! Right to the cheek-bone! Death by TKO!!!
I literally fantasize about having a son just so I could keep his ass in line. Like "TRY ME, ya trifling ass bitch." LMAO 
So you fantasize about having offspring just so you can abuse them? That's pretty sickening...
I'm trying to raise the next generation of men, unlike a lot of parents out there who hold a "boys will be boys" attitude, I take sexual crimes seriously. The issue of consent is going to be a topic I will make sure they take very seriously once they hit puberty.
I ain't going to be no mama's boy that defends her son every time he gets into an argument with a girlfriend, steals, or does something else he shouldn't be doing. Some parents truly think that their kids can do absolutely no wrong, which is exactly why you end up with shitty kids who disobey and disrespect school teachers, because parents nowadays even defend their kids when they get in trouble at school! Are you trying to raise a little MAN, or are you planning on coddling and breastfeeding a baby forever?
Edited by Crystal G (10/07/16 08:58 PM)
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Re: Disowning family [Re: Crystal G]
#23717778 - 10/07/16 08:51 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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I didn't think you wanted kids
But yeah, rape is be bad.
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Re: Disowning family [Re: Crystal G]
#23718097 - 10/07/16 11:09 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Crystal G said:
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Celestial Traveler said:
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Crystal G said: Remember that Harvard swimmer or whatever who served 3 months in prison for rape? I remember his father was basically defending him, saying it was only "20 minutes of action" or some shit.
I was like, "HAH, if that were MY son, I'd whoop his motherfucking ass so hard, he'd be BEGGING to go to jail instead!" 
I'm dead serious too. If I had a son and I found out he committed rape or seriously disrespected and violated some girl or some shit, I would beat the fuck out of that motherfucker. Who the fuck he think he is...
I'd be like, "Boy, you did WHAT?!" *KAPOW!!!!!* Crack!! Right to the cheek-bone! Death by TKO!!!
I literally fantasize about having a son just so I could keep his ass in line. Like "TRY ME, ya trifling ass bitch." LMAO 
So you fantasize about having offspring just so you can abuse them? That's pretty sickening...
I'm trying to raise the next generation of men, unlike a lot of parents out there who hold a "boys will be boys" attitude, I take sexual crimes seriously. The issue of consent is going to be a topic I will make sure they take very seriously once they hit puberty.
I ain't going to be no mama's boy that defends her son every time he gets into an argument with a girlfriend, steals, or does something else he shouldn't be doing. Some parents truly think that their kids can do absolutely no wrong, which is exactly why you end up with shitty kids who disobey and disrespect school teachers, because parents nowadays even defend their kids when they get in trouble at school! Are you trying to raise a little MAN, or are you planning on coddling and breastfeeding a baby forever?
You're using "consent" as an excuse to justify your sadistic fantasy.
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Re: Disowning family [Re: Lucis]
#23718134 - 10/07/16 11:24 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Fennario said:
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Repertoire89 said:
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Fennario said: What does that mean exactly?
If one of them tortured you for 6 months
They would only be torturing themselves in the long run, I rise above such trivial matters. If they tried to destroy me, they would effectively destroy themselves. Become something greater than human, become a God, all this pain is an illusion.
Sounds like the lyrics to some metal song
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Hippocampus said:
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Fennario said:
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Repertoire89 said:
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Fennario said: What does that mean exactly?
If one of them tortured you for 6 months
They would only be torturing themselves in the long run, I rise above such trivial matters. If they tried to destroy me, they would effectively destroy themselves. Become something greater than human, become a God, all this pain is an illusion.
Sounds like the lyrics to some metal song

All its missing is a long loud guttural scream at the end!
-------------------- Don't worry about me, I've got all that I need. And I'm singing my song to the sky You know how it feels, With the breeze of the sun in your eyes. Not minding that time's passing by I've got all and more, My smile, just as before. Is all that I carry with me I talk to myself, I need nobody else. I'm lost and I'm mine, yes I'm free
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Celestial Traveler said: You're using "consent" as an excuse to justify your sadistic fantasy.
It's a teenage boy. Teenage boys are not the weak, fragile little minds whose worlds would crumble at a little rough and tumble. To call it "abuse" is very far-fetched. Let me guess, you're among the next generation of pussies.
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Re: Disowning family [Re: Crystal G]
#23719185 - 10/08/16 11:43 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Crystal G said:
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Celestial Traveler said: You're using "consent" as an excuse to justify your sadistic fantasy.
It's a teenage boy. Teenage boys are not the weak, fragile little minds whose worlds would crumble at a little rough and tumble. To call it "abuse" is very far-fetched. Let me guess, you're among the next generation of pussies.
But it would be appropriate to treat a teenage girl that way? You seem to be in the current generation of morons. Disciplining a child for violating another human being is not abuse, but you actually look forward to having a justification to inflict violence. It seems that you would be disappointed if you had a son that did not need to be taught that lesson in the first place. I hope you never have a son.
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i was estranged from my family for three years after my divorce. i had to move in with them and it brought all of the unsettled business from my formative years to the surface (that is too much to type and not really important anymore). the long and short of it is that i concluded that i didn't need them. but living a life without them was agony.
oddly enough, i had a +5 psychedelic experience that led me to forgive them one afternoon when i had set out to dose to work out some of my anger issues. i called my mother the next morning and now it's been two years of seeing each other.
everyone's situation is different, but i can't live without my family. it would take a lot to disown someone in my immediate family.
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Quote:
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Would you disown Ted Bundy?
No, and i'd never cooperate with the state against family either.
I can't say the same for them but that's ok.
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