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Anonymous #1
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Re: When everyone thinks you're gay but you're not interested in men? [Re: Enjoywho]
#23729230 - 10/11/16 07:16 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Thanks for supportive words.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: When everyone thinks you're gay but you're not interested in men? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#23729927 - 10/11/16 11:25 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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I feel your pain Anon.
I exercise, am good looking, listen to lots of dance music, so people assume I am a massive homosexual because of those things, and I am not possessed with a rage to bury my penis in vagina as most guys are.
I don't care what they think, it's my life, not theirs. They just hate me, because they ain't me.
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Re: When everyone thinks you're gay but you're not interested in men? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#23729992 - 10/11/16 11:53 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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It's because of the way I walk. And I'm talkative but sometimes I just don't. Don't worry about it. It is what it is. I didn't choose how I walk and I clear 10 miles a day not including work.
Your going through a ton of nonsense in your head. Trust me I've been there. Did 30 days in jail and if got called a fag every day. I don't really have a true answer to this but what your describing is exactly how I felt.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: When everyone thinks you're gay but you're not interested in men? [Re: Enjoywho]
#23730028 - 10/12/16 12:21 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Ah.
Well I'm one of those people, you know, I don't give a shit about people's qualities I just love them. Come and hang with me.
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Re: When everyone thinks you're gay but you're not interested in men? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#23747881 - 10/18/16 04:04 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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I feel like you guys could be taking ownership of this more
Like seeing it as a great thing
Flaunting it, even
I mean, like I've already said, I don't have physical sex anymore, but there's something about guys with that gay vibe that's so hot
And if you've sucked a dick or two while you were trying to figure yourself out, or worn girl clothes, that's even hotter.
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Re: When everyone thinks you're gay but you're not interested in men? [Re: 100_the_cat]
#23749420 - 10/18/16 04:18 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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I have fucked so many girls probably as they think oh he's gay. Let me tell him all my secrets. Nope. I used it as a giant ruse. I have no love for these hos.
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Re: When everyone thinks you're gay but you're not interested in men? [Re: Enjoywho]
#23749718 - 10/18/16 06:08 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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You don't enjoy secrets?
What if they're thinking you're gay, but in a good way?
Have you ever experienced the transformation of an insult into a compliment?
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Re: When everyone thinks you're gay but you're not interested in men? [Re: 100_the_cat]
#23750401 - 10/18/16 09:35 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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I enjoyed they're secrets to get 2 in one night. Manipulation is always key.
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Re: When everyone thinks you're gay but you're not interested in men? [Re: Enjoywho]
#23768833 - 10/25/16 01:44 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Well good luck to anyone having these issues.
Ultimately life is perfect and it's just conditioning that makes them issues.
In a perfect world, ya know... we'd not have to make threads like these.
And it's a perfect world, some people just get trapped by conditioning.
Make yourself the priority and if you have an issue with yourself get to work on why, how. Because "other people" are so distant if you are cool with yourself. A very, very distant second on whether or not you are lovable.
And see that as you are you are perfect.
If a mod could lock the thread so it doesn't get bumped that would be great, as I don't really have anything further to discuss. Just wanted to give these last words to anyone not feeling brave enough to discuss this.
Just do what you want people.
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Re: When everyone thinks you're gay but you're not interested in men? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#23769116 - 10/25/16 06:56 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Anonymous said:
And it's a perfect world, some people just get trapped by conditioning.
I am horrible at keeping up with threads, but this is an interesting topic.
I believe that people do get caught in conditioning, and then go with it eventually because they just figure "fuck it" it's easier to go with something and be happy, then to keep getting pestered their whole life. I don't know what that means about the persons mind though, why they would go with something they might not be down with, I haven't the faintest idea what's going on there psychologically speaking.
Perhaps people just get burnt out and realize they can never be happy unless they cave in and do what they're being conditioned too, I don't understand this thinking though, because if someone tries to gain control over a part of myself, I don't cave in I get angry at the situation, and do everything in my power to work against it without having an outburst of anger, internalize the anger into energy and use that energy to overcome the negativity.
I have a cousin that is probably gay, he's admitted to other family members of sleeping with a guy, and feeling the same emotions he supposed to feel for a woman, for a man. His mom treats him like shit because she doesn't want a gay son due to their Christian upbringing. I think he's slowly being conditioned away from being what he is (gay) to being straight, and I think this will have a negative impact on his psyche in the long run, because you can't run from yourself, you will internalize those negative feelings and they will show themselves in certain ways, they will effect your mental health, and your physical health unless dealt with properly.
It's really sad conditioning like this exists.
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Re: When everyone thinks you're gay but you're not interested in men? [Re: Lucis]
#23769179 - 10/25/16 07:48 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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This is kinda off topic but i think a girl who has a similar form of schizophrenia could connect with you much better. Its a very misunderstood condition and for people who have never experienced it its kinda hard to comprehend.
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Re: When everyone thinks you're gay but you're not interested in men? [Re: Anonymous #3]
#23769204 - 10/25/16 08:09 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: This is kinda off topic but i think a girl who has a similar form of schizophrenia could connect with you much better.
What does schizophrenia have to do with this topic? I don't understand what you mean, can you please explain?
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Re: When everyone thinks you're gay but you're not interested in men? [Re: Lucis]
#23771771 - 10/25/16 10:46 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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I think he was referring to me, and it's sorta true. I am not really crazy any more though. I was nuts before, but it's turned into the mystic dimensions. Well that's how I see it.
If they actually knew what I was experiencing and what I had influence over, they'd label me completely helpless. But it's beautiful, and it's right. The society is infantile.
So yeah, I don't know. As long as she showers, I guess. haha.
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Re: When everyone thinks you're gay but you're not interested in men? [Re: Lucis]
#23771801 - 10/25/16 10:55 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Fennario said: It's really sad conditioning like this exists.
Very much so, I hate society for making men feel this way for being attracted to the same sex. Yet, it's much more OK for women to do so?
It is indeed a perfect world, it just seems the majority of people are lazy and cowardly. Breaking a paradigm takes bravery, and strength, above all else.
Much easier to just conform though ey? It strikes me more and more lately non-conformity is a lonely path, so I get why many don't take it, but IMO it's fear and laziness that drive people to conform.
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Re: When everyone thinks you're gay but you're not interested in men? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#23772222 - 10/26/16 03:13 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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When you think about it, society is just conditioning, none of it necessarily based on truth, just needs.
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