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Dev170
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Got weird with my boyfriend
#23694227 - 09/30/16 02:34 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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I took shrooms last night for the first time I was really into my surroundings and what was going on but I was with my boyfriend of 5 years and he was tripping too but I didn't want anything to do with him? I just got a weird vibe and felt like we shouldn't be together. We couldn't kiss eachother we just freaked eachother out. I'm not sure why because I do love him, but the vibes were just so off and misleading?? Does anyone know why
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Re: Got weird with my boyfriend [Re: Dev170]
#23694237 - 09/30/16 02:39 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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I've had something similar happen when me and my ex gf smoked a massive amount of strong weed at a nature park. It's like we could feel the separation between each other and when I went to hug her she just backed off and I got kinda offended by it. Weird, I don't know what to call that, I guess everybody just needs their space when they're really high
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Re: Got weird with my boyfriend [Re: Dev170]
#23694245 - 09/30/16 02:41 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Being around people can be weird on psychedelics. What did you two dose?
Maybe try less next time and do some bonding stuff together.
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Re: Got weird with my boyfriend [Re: Dev170]
#23694252 - 09/30/16 02:46 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Lesson #1 on psychedelics - Don't put too much precedence on shit that pops in to your head. You are high. Thinking stupid shit is half the point.
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Hmm, i only took with one bf many years ago, we did them quite a few times together and other things, we would be stroking each others skin and stuff lol, or busy on our own tripped out missions in diff rooms sometimes hahaha
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Re: Got weird with my boyfriend [Re: Spellbound] 1
#23694385 - 09/30/16 03:38 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Whether it be a significant other or a best friend when tripping sometimes, or even more often than not you may want to be alone and constantly saying in your head "I really wish they weren't here right now it's ruining my trip"! Sometimes solo tripping is the best thing and I personally prefer solo tripping, but will trip with a friend and such also, even though it's not my favorite thing. I wouldn't put any stock into the trip telling you you shouldn't be together or anything like that lol, like I said sometimes you just want to be in your own awesome space and the other person there is ruining it for you 
Being around others while tripping can give a bit of mindfuck like that where you get paradoxical or negative thoughts and vibes from the other person. Tripping is kind of unpredictable so one trip it can be amazing for you guys and another could be bad with various mindfuck etc. It is nice you both trip though and basically enjoyed it outside of some mindfuck or the selfish "i'd be having a much better time if I was alone on this trip" kind of head space
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Yeah I was tripping with someone I know close and I really didn't like them at first. I was struggling trying to hook up my tv and PS4, and they were just sitting there like an idiot, not trying to help. Kinda pissed me off and I got a bad vibe from them. It eventually went away once I started coming down a little and we were having deep conversations.
I really just through the whole thing out of proportion and I almost ended a good relationship. Tripping plays tricks on the mind.
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Re: Got weird with my boyfriend [Re: Kinshino]
#23694443 - 09/30/16 03:55 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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I once had a friend get violent with me on half eighth each. I defused the situation and talked him into a state of relative tranquility. True story.
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Re: Got weird with my boyfriend [Re: sunshine]
#23694835 - 09/30/16 06:06 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sometimes you feel like a nut...sometimes you don't!
Personal experience is every trip is different and you go where it leads you. Actually been where was "expecting" it before hand and it didn't happen so that messed with my mind. Dunno...I prefer to be by myself for the most part during...but sometimes some rides are more up and social and you feel like engaging with ppl....sometimes for hours
Then other times I'm like that at concerts and either I want to talk to everyone or I want them all to leave me alone....all 15K of them! 
All depends on setting and mindset...nothing should be forced or expected...go with the flow
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Re: Got weird with my boyfriend [Re: sunshine] 1
#23694871 - 09/30/16 06:17 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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psychedelics open you up to new levels of awareness. Perhaps you and your boyfriends egos get along well, but there is discord and disharmony at the level of your souls and the mushrooms were bringing that to light.
It could also mean the mushrooms were showing you another take on the relationships or possibly relationships in general. like for instance one thing psychedelics have consistently shown me about relationships is that we have tendency to depend too much on the other person for our happiness.
When we trip shrooms, they take away the illusion that the other person is full filling us and we suddenly remember our existential aloneness. Then we suddenly see the other person in a different light, without the rose colored glasses of attachment we've placed on them
so Id say there are areas of each others souls which have been hidden from each other and are not in-harmony, whether you are harboring harboring hidden resentments, secret thoughts/feelings or simply don't know how to fully open up to each other. Some of the discord maybe related to your own or his own dinner demons and not even have anything to do with the relationship directly.
In short, the mushrooms bring to light what is hidden in the dark of the subconscious.
Its possible on another trip, the mushrooms might show you what is good and beautiful about your relationship and deepen your bond. You never know what will pop up when you trip, but its certainly not all negative.
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Re: Got weird with my boyfriend [Re: Peyote Road]
#23694886 - 09/30/16 06:22 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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IMO the shrooms were just bad and weak in potency
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the gf and I have had intense bonding experiences any time we trip on any of the substances we've tried. I also like tripping by myself just as much, she on the other hand hates tripping by herself and can't even handle it at this point.
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Re: Got weird with my boyfriend [Re: GPryder]
#23695649 - 09/30/16 10:00 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Me and my wife are the exact same way, we spent the entire trip separated because we didn't feel "right" being around each other.
We truly are best friends, and would rather spend time with one another than anyone else.
Don't let it bother you. Mushrooms are amazing but can be a very weird experience
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Re: Got weird with my boyfriend [Re: Dev170]
#23695781 - 09/30/16 10:43 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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You were tripping, it's completely normal. People react strangely to others when they're tripping. Don't worry about it.
Now, if you seriously reconsidered your entire relationship while tripping, that's one thing, but if you just didn't want to be around him at the time, that's perfectly normal and fine. Don't even worry about it, you were just tripping. Everybody wants to be alone sometimes, and there's nothing wrong with that.
This is one of the reasons why IMO solo tripping is the best.
Edited by nooneman (09/30/16 10:45 PM)
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XLCaps said: Lesson #1 on psychedelics - Don't put too much precedence on shit that pops in to your head. You are high. Thinking stupid shit is half the point.
THIS
Also Your body feels like it's being affected by EVERYTHING. If you have shortcomings with them and just want to be relaxed and don't feel you can relax with them then that would mess with me. I've had this happen before but not when others are on the same drugs. Maybe try lsd with him lol little more glitzy and lovey in my opinion.
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Quote:
AstralAndrew said:
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XLCaps said: Lesson #1 on psychedelics - Don't put too much precedence on shit that pops in to your head. You are high. Thinking stupid shit is half the point.
THIS
Also Your body feels like it's being affected by EVERYTHING. If you have shortcomings with them and just want to be relaxed and don't feel you can relax with them then that would mess with me. I've had this happen before but not when others are on the same drugs. Maybe try lsd with him lol little more glitzy and lovey in my opinion.
I 2nd that idea. LSD is overall a more happier, easier to control experience IMO. Mushrooms tend to give off a dark, out of control vibe if not done in the right setting or with the right intentions.
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Re: Got weird with my boyfriend [Re: Dev170]
#23700391 - 10/02/16 02:03 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Dev170 said: I took shrooms last night for the first time I was really into my surroundings and what was going on but I was with my boyfriend of 5 years and he was tripping too but I didn't want anything to do with him? I just got a weird vibe and felt like we shouldn't be together. We couldn't kiss eachother we just freaked eachother out. I'm not sure why because I do love him, but the vibes were just so off and misleading?? Does anyone know why
because you were on mushrooms
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Re: Got weird with my boyfriend [Re: ballsalsa]
#23700764 - 10/02/16 04:12 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Most people are out of touch with their true self, and so often relationships are build (partly) on a lot of wobbly ideas, psychedelics put that shit into the light and if you don't deal with it, and you resist it, it will wobble into a wild and perhaps uncomfortable ride.
With another person, the tendency to distract yourself is even higher, especially when that was (somewhat) the norm in the relationship anyways, and that doesn't jive well.
These tools are pretty sacred and demanding in that sense, and you should be prepared to be taught and be open to it, part of the deal.
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I feel that a deep mushroom experience is generally about spirit. Physical relations tend to show as prosthetic and we are likely to witness codependency being exposed for its sheer shallowness, which is a fundamental driver of our animalism.
Additionally, people who are very insecure will want to drag in their front (the ego) into the realm where it doesn't belong, so you may have to contend with an apparently, false show. Some people who won't drop the face will sometimes panic and make foolish decisions to convince themselves that they are unaffected - that they are bigger than it.
You are perhaps more likely to find micro dosing a more 'physically' pleasing and social experience.
I don't subscribe to sharing the experience with anyone (yet I have with differing results), though I've recognised and respected that the lower doses and comedown has a romantic, artistic quality which would likely be enjoyed with a close partner.
It's not to say that the experiences I've had with others haven't been productive since I still carry the wisdom about a person close to me, who was exposed for their ill feelings, which I've used to positive effect. I've also salvaged relationships and turned them into fruitful ones. If I were to give a summary, it would be that I've learned that, despite the acts, literally everyone in the world is insecure and they are all expressing it in their own, personal way. Constant showing off of a sports car for example can be akin to a depressed alcoholic, both of which are effects of the same causes, albeit, different in appearance and consequence. Everyone is just milling around in their own way, fumbling around to try and adjoin parts to the puzzle.
When I'm heavily under the influence of mushrooms, I feel absolutely nothing like the person who I'm meant to be and only regard really this identity as a husk. It would be a spiritual lottery for me to somehow click with anyone in the same room as me, unless it was during a comedown or a microdose when effects are subtle.
Edited by Duncan Rowhl (10/02/16 06:29 PM)
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