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Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids
#23691393 - 09/29/16 05:54 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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I was at the library and there was a mom and her 2 kids using a computer. One of her kids was giving the other shit for fucking around and kept saying loudly (not yelling, it wasn't even rude) "stop it,.stop it!". The mom starts giving her ( the non-instigator) shit, simply because she was embarrassed her kid was acting up. This bagged eyes, miserable woman made her feel like complete shit and humiliated her in front of the whole library. She was only lik 8 years old. It was her brother that was being the dick and intstigating her. She later broke down crying, it was the saddest thing.
Just want to vent here. Is this reasonable grounds to have acted up and humiliated the woman? I wanted to explode on her.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Hobozen]
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This kind of human crapping I see almost every month . The shitty thing is it's unless it's abuse you can't do anything about it
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I could have though. Might have gotten thrown into a psych ward but it would have been worth it.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Hobozen] 7
#23691452 - 09/29/16 06:06 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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moral of the story: don't have children
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Hobozen]
#23691514 - 09/29/16 06:19 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Story of my life
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: demiu5] 2
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it is hard when you feel called to help, but don't know HOW you CAN help.
It is a struggle to watch it happen, similar to how it's a struggle to watch someone fail in public (such as stuttering while delivering a speech); you don't know how to remove the uncomfortable feeling from the situation. This situation is different, though, because the person affected is in more of a victim role, and this is why you felt motivated to act.
But HOW to act is puzzling. What is acceptable socially? What is required to satisfy your morality? I fly under the radar, and probably would not interject in this situation, but I understand your frustration. Generally, the way I choose to help is to be the best person I can be, and influence others through my kind approach to people, things, situations, ideas, etc. It is more of a long-hustle than an instant-gratification hustle, but it is what works for me and satisfies my conscience (overall). It is also helpful to remember that you cannot help everyone, and sometimes it is not in your best interest to lay yourself out there
I hope you can release the stress from this situation, and also come to a conclusion as to how you can help in a similar situation in the future.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: mnj]
#23691611 - 09/29/16 06:35 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Moms don't usually know how to raise boys. Or kids for that matter.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: mnj] 1
#23691620 - 09/29/16 06:37 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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>I hope you can release the stress from this situation, and also come to a conclusion as to how you can help in a similar situation in the future.
Hearing your guys' responses helps to ease, that's why I made this thread. Your response was especiallu relieving (seiously). Shroomery usually delivers.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Hobozen]
#23691677 - 09/29/16 06:49 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Hobozen]
#23691694 - 09/29/16 06:54 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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You must be an only child. One kid getting the other in trouble for nothing is like, one of the oldest sibling games ever. Did you ever watch Home Alone? It's practically a documentary.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Morel Guy] 6
#23691697 - 09/29/16 06:55 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Morel Guy said: Moms don't usually know how to raise boys. Or kids for that matter.
Your mom, maybe. This is incredibly false as a sweeping generalization.
OP: as a general rule, when thinking about approaching people you don't know about their parenting in public, don't do it. If there's no abuse, physical or emotional, but it's just a parent reprimanding their child, don't get involved. You don't know the parent, you don't know the child, and you don't know the circumstances, best to just MYOB. I know you might want to, it might bother you not to, but it's absolutely not your place to get involved.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Burke Dennings]
#23691716 - 09/29/16 06:58 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Bullshit.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Morel Guy]
#23691741 - 09/29/16 07:03 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Burke Dennings]
#23691762 - 09/29/16 07:06 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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How many mom's with zero money, no education and no man can raise a kid to their expectations? It is easy for a woman with funds to raise a kid when everything can be purchased.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Morel Guy] 1
#23691779 - 09/29/16 07:11 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Well, that's different from what you said initially. You said that mothers don't usually know how to raise kids, which is very different from saying that some mothers don't have the capital to raise kids in an optimal setting. You don't even know what you're arguing. 
Anyway, I'm sorry your mother was so inept, but that doesn't mean that there aren't millions of amazing moms in just the USA. Generalizing is dumb, when you're wrong.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Burke Dennings]
#23691790 - 09/29/16 07:12 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Bullshit
Take away the funds and not one modern mom can raise a kid to their ideal and will be desperate.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Morel Guy]
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I guess the children of the destitute are just paying their "karma bill", according to your own logic, huh?
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Burke Dennings]
#23691819 - 09/29/16 07:19 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Where do you get that?
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Morel Guy]
#23691830 - 09/29/16 07:22 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Morel Guy said: Take away the funds and not one modern mom can raise a kid to their ideal and will be desperate.
You just described a country run by Democrats.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Morel Guy] 1
#23691834 - 09/29/16 07:23 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Haha, you don't remember your infamous "karma bill" theory? Wouldn't surprise me if you didn't; even you ignore your senseless drivel. Check your ratings for a refresher.
Anyway, OP, sorry for all this crap in your thread. I hope you find a way to come to terms with your library incident.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Morel Guy]
#23691836 - 09/29/16 07:23 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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The truth is the kids will grow up to be what biology gave them the tools to acquire. Sadly we are not all born equal. Some people were born predestined to live a live very much more difficult. Not like many other people who have all the genetic tools and financial resources to prosper.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Morel Guy] 4
#23691915 - 09/29/16 07:48 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Morel Guy said: Moms don't usually know how to raise boys. Or kids for that matter.
I've seen a lot of really stupid things on this board over the years, but this is up there. So much fail in that quote. 
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Dark_Star]
#23691931 - 09/29/16 07:52 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Oh your broke ass mom sells a lot of ass and get's the kids an education?
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#23691937 - 09/29/16 07:53 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Thanks for my proving my point. You've just shown what you're worth in this thread, and it's not much.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Dark_Star]
#23691942 - 09/29/16 07:56 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Dark_Star said: Thanks for my proving my point. You've just shown what you're worth in this thread, and it's not much.
27,421 worthless moments on the shroomery.
I bet all your moms made cookies all day while your daddies toiled away at the old jobbie job
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Burke Dennings]
#23691972 - 09/29/16 08:04 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Morel Guy said: Moms don't usually know how to raise boys. Or kids for that matter.
Your mom, maybe. This is incredibly false as a sweeping generalization.
OP: as a general rule, when thinking about approaching people you don't know about their parenting in public, don't do it. If there's no abuse, physical or emotional, but it's just a parent reprimanding their child, don't get involved. You don't know the parent, you don't know the child, and you don't know the circumstances, best to just MYOB. I know you might want to, it might bother you not to, but it's absolutely not your place to get involved.
This was emotional abuse, there's more to the story I can't put into words right now. This little girl broke down crying in the wide open library floor and it was obvious her mom was a viscious irrational cunt. This wasn't strict discipline, it was irrational and.abusive.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Morel Guy]
#23691980 - 09/29/16 08:07 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Morel Guy said: The truth is the kids will grow up to be what biology gave them the tools to acquire. Sadly we are not all born equal. Some people were born predestined to live a live very much more difficult. Not like many other people who have all the genetic tools and financial resources to prosper.
Bullshit
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Hobozen]
#23691984 - 09/29/16 08:08 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Morel Guy said: The truth is the kids will grow up to be what biology gave them the tools to acquire. Sadly we are not all born equal. Some people were born predestined to live a live very much more difficult. Not like many other people who have all the genetic tools and financial resources to prosper.
Bullshit
How so?
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Morel Guy]
#23691989 - 09/29/16 08:10 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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A couple nights ago I saw a guy holding a boombox blasting music while on a peaceful evening stroll with his baby mama and his baby in a stroller.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Morel Guy]
#23691997 - 09/29/16 08:12 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Kids won't grow up to be what biology gave them... I agree with some of your post though. Some are genetically advantaged.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: pirate-blues]
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pirate-blues said: A couple nights ago I saw a guy holding a boombox blasting music while on a peaceful evening stroll with his baby mama and his baby in a stroller.
Kid's gonna turn into a pimp.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Hobozen]
#23692010 - 09/29/16 08:15 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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He seemed like he was rebelling a bit because he kept trying to stand up and dad was yelling at him to sit down, so who knows maybe he'll become a microbiologist instead just to appease his inner rebel.
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Some is genetics and some is environment. There is nothing else. Many kids are born with poor genetics and poor parents. Rich republicans aren't gonna solve that.
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pirate-blues said: He seemed like he was rebelling a bit because he kept trying to stand up and dad was yelling at him to sit down, so who knows maybe he'll become a microbiologist instead just to appease his inner rebel.
He'll.probably rebel by wanting to become an even.bigger gangster
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Hobozen] 2
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My brothers tormented me as a kid. Very often if they ever got in trouble it was "stop making your sister scream." cuz I was the inconvenient one. And for whatever reason I was obsessed with being 'good' so I never acted out, was always quiet, to the point that I had very few friends growing up and I let people hurt me without a word, lest I be inconvenient. There was one time when I was 10 years old and feeling horribly overwhelmed and I was trying to get my parents to let me stay home from school and started crying and, very clearly remember saying "I just want to die" so they screamed at me and told ME to call them instead and shoved the phone in my face. I think I went to school. So I was a very good little girl. Well behaved and inconspicuous, never made any trouble and did what I thought all adults everywhere wanted me to do. All until my mid teenage years when I inexplicably snapped like a rubber band.
Love my parents but they should not have had kids. I dunno if they should have married either.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: CookieCrumbs] 1
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OP: there are no miserable parents, just miserable people.
all parents fuck up all their children (at least a tiny bit).
it's the fact of life that nothing is perfect, and it's not the way you were raised to be.
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People are just inherently fucked up.
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I am at high levels of fuck up 
Probs not having kids tho.
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even more so, yes. that's why, even the most perfect parent, will not know how to live up to their children's expectations, if they are set too high. no parent is perfect, inherently, because they are all too human; children too. chastisement is silly, but when it comes to raising kids, it's a matter of control and discipline.
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I imagine its more difficult than ever to raise kids. So many conflicting morals and standards. Both parents working. Children 'learning' all kinds of things they shouldn't from the internet or their friends on the internet. I don't think I'd be a horrible mom, I just think now, with the state of the world as it is, it's a bad time to try and properly raise a child to have a good life.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: CookieCrumbs]
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I like hearing ppl r not having kids wish it would catch on in the hispanic culture,their gonna destroy the planet with overpopulation,them and india and china
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Morel Guy]
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Dark_Star said: Thanks for my proving my point. You've just shown what you're worth in this thread, and it's not much.
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Partly why I think it's a really bad time to make babies.
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CookieCrumbs said: I imagine its more difficult than ever to raise kids. So many conflicting morals and standards. Both parents working. Children 'learning' all kinds of things they shouldn't from the internet or their friends on the internet. I don't think I'd be a horrible mom, I just think now, with the state of the world as it is, it's a bad time to try and properly raise a child to have a good life.
i tend to agree with that sentiment.
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I look at philly and baltimore and just can't believe all the kids that get produced,what kind of life will these ghetto children have?
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all parents fuck up all their children (at least a tiny bit).
it's the fact of life that nothing is perfect, and it's not the way you were raised to be.
I hear what youre saying but you cant denounce this as "all parents fuck up all their children." I admit I haven't been very specific but trust you me,.this mother deserved a verbal beatdown.
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CookieCrumbs said: My brothers tormented me as a kid. Very often if they ever got in trouble it was "stop making your sister scream." cuz I was the inconvenient one. And for whatever reason I was obsessed with being 'good' so I never acted out, was always quiet, to the point that I had very few friends growing up and I let people hurt me without a word, lest I be inconvenient. There was one time when I was 10 years old and feeling horribly overwhelmed and I was trying to get my parents to let me stay home from school and started crying and, very clearly remember saying "I just want to die" so they screamed at me and told ME to call them instead and shoved the phone in my face. I think I went to school. So I was a very good little girl. Well behaved and inconspicuous, never made any trouble and did what I thought all adults everywhere wanted me to do. All until my mid teenage years when I inexplicably snapped like a rubber band.
Love my parents but they should not have had kids. I dunno if they should have married either.
My parents should not have had kids either
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Hobozen]
#23692744 - 09/30/16 12:19 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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well shit if all these bad parents never had kids we wouldn't have people like cookiecrumbs posting in this forum spreading all kinds of positivity.
who are we to condemn life?..
op, i was at the library many years ago, and there was this one special needs girl, she looked around my age at the time, anyway she was sitting at a table with her guide and some others special needs kids, and like as i walked by she looked at me and smiled and then let out the loudest fart ive ever heard to this day.. she laughed it off and i had to get the fuck outta there pronto cuz i was gonna lose it
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: pirate-blues]
#23692757 - 09/30/16 12:28 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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pirate-blues said: A couple nights ago I saw a guy holding a boombox blasting music while on a peaceful evening stroll with his baby mama and his baby in a stroller.
what were they playing?..
it'd be cool if they were blasting some sphongle, specifically this track:
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Hobozen] 2
#23692829 - 09/30/16 01:19 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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This bagged eyes, miserable woman made her feel like complete shit and humiliated her in front of the whole library. She was only like 8 years old...
Parental behavior can adversely effect a child's development, to such as degree as to cause neurosis
Neurosis (rage, depression, anxiety, etc) isn't a biological defect ("mental illness") but a developmental disorder
Parents often put huge pressures on children. Sometimes exerting smothering love and/or intimidation.
Parents sometimes instill great fear in their children and demand constant devotion.
Sometimes a child is forced to take sides in a battle between parents.
Some parents cultivate an environment of tyranny (as in this case) and glorification.
In such environments, children become insecure, apprehensive, isolated and resentful.
These kids don't develop normal self-respect and often suffer later in life with depression and addiction.
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#23692843 - 09/30/16 01:33 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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pirate-blues said: A couple nights ago I saw a guy holding a boombox blasting music while on a peaceful evening stroll with his baby mama and his baby in a stroller.
Do you live in 1992?
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Hobozen] 1
#23693055 - 09/30/16 06:03 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Hobozen said: I was at the library and there was a mom and her 2 kids using a computer. One of her kids was giving the other shit for fucking around and kept saying loudly (not yelling, it wasn't even rude) "stop it,.stop it!". The mom starts giving her ( the non-instigator) shit, simply because she was embarrassed her kid was acting up. This bagged eyes, miserable woman made her feel like complete shit and humiliated her in front of the whole library. She was only lik 8 years old. It was her brother that was being the dick and intstigating her. She later broke down crying, it was the saddest thing.
Just want to vent here. Is this reasonable grounds to have acted up and humiliated the woman? I wanted to explode on her.
I have seen it a LOT and it does sadden me, because most of the time the kids aren't doing anything remotely wrong it's just the parents that can't be bothered dealing with it. When I went to stay with my aunt, her husband suddenly yelled at their daughter at the table when eating, saying 'sit up straight and eat properly!' (My cousin who is 5)
I was fucking annoyed because what 5 year old should be made to feel below standards at dinner?? She cried and inside I cried too.
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I have neighbors downstairs who sometimes scream at their two young girls for an hour straight.
I'm talking angry screaming, at the top of their lungs. Sometimes the screaming starts at 6:00 AM.
The young girls are constantly crying. The more they cry, the more the parents scream.
I am totally serious - the name of the 7 year old is "Patience". She's a very sweet kid.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: RJ Tubs 202]
#23696384 - 10/01/16 06:28 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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RJ Tubs 202 said: I have neighbors downstairs who sometimes scream at their two young girls for an hour straight.
I'm talking angry screaming, at the top of their lungs. Sometimes the screaming starts at 6:00 AM.
The young girls are constantly crying. The more they cry, the more the parents scream.
I am totally serious - the name of the 7 year old is "Patience". She's a very sweet kid.
Report them to child welfare services or kill the parents.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: RJ Tubs 202] 1
#23696460 - 10/01/16 07:32 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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RJ Tubs 202 said: I have neighbors downstairs who sometimes scream at their two young girls for an hour straight.
I'm talking angry screaming, at the top of their lungs. Sometimes the screaming starts at 6:00 AM.
The young girls are constantly crying. The more they cry, the more the parents scream.
I am totally serious - the name of the 7 year old is "Patience". She's a very sweet kid.
One of my students was a 7 year old girl named Patience  This was a few years ago though
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#23698506 - 10/01/16 09:43 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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RJ Tubs 202 said: I have neighbors downstairs who sometimes scream at their two young girls for an hour straight.
I'm talking angry screaming, at the top of their lungs. Sometimes the screaming starts at 6:00 AM.
The young girls are constantly crying. The more they cry, the more the parents scream.
I am totally serious - the name of the 7 year old is "Patience". She's a very sweet kid.
Oh the irony
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Morel Guy]
#23698866 - 10/02/16 12:27 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Dark_Star said: Thanks for my proving my point. You've just shown what you're worth in this thread, and it's not much.
27,421 worthless moments on the shroomery.
I bet all your moms made cookies all day while your daddies toiled away at the old jobbie job
momma raised 4 boys on her own working full time here. dad was a deadbeat for the most part and was mostly out of the picture.
sounds like you need to resolve some issues with your own mother.
i wish people would get a slight education about development and psychology before being allowed to have kids. some people never really have a chance.
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My mom raised two girls and me. Dad was older and lost his job due to the oil boom falling apart and loving the booze. They divorced around his mom passing. Mom worked over time and was stressed. She took it out on us kids. The kids I knew to have great lives and parents grew up to be well adjusted adults with shallow senses. The typical folks that find life easy. They never knew suffering and intend to keep it that way. I have zero in common with people like that.
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Reminds of a line from tod in the parenthood(1989):
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Well, it depends on the man. I had a man around. He used to wake me up every morning by flicking lit cigarettes at my head. He'd say, "Hey, asshole, get up and make me breakfast." You know, Mrs. Buckman, you need a license to buy a dog, or drive a car. Hell, you need a license to catch a fish! But they'll let any butt-reaming asshole be a father.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Fletcher]
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pirate-blues said: A couple nights ago I saw a guy holding a boombox blasting music while on a peaceful evening stroll with his baby mama and his baby in a stroller.
what were they playing?..
it'd be cool if they were blasting some sphongle, specifically this track:
nah, this was like old school hip hop blasting out of a light up boom box 
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pirate-blues said: A couple nights ago I saw a guy holding a boombox blasting music while on a peaceful evening stroll with his baby mama and his baby in a stroller.
Do you live in 1992?
apparently hahahaha.
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