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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: CookieCrumbs]
#23692252 - 09/29/16 09:12 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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I like hearing ppl r not having kids wish it would catch on in the hispanic culture,their gonna destroy the planet with overpopulation,them and india and china
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Morel Guy]
#23692255 - 09/29/16 09:13 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Dark_Star said: Thanks for my proving my point. You've just shown what you're worth in this thread, and it's not much.
27,421 worthless moments on the shroomery.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: 5150]
#23692257 - 09/29/16 09:14 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Partly why I think it's a really bad time to make babies.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: CookieCrumbs]
#23692264 - 09/29/16 09:16 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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CookieCrumbs said: I imagine its more difficult than ever to raise kids. So many conflicting morals and standards. Both parents working. Children 'learning' all kinds of things they shouldn't from the internet or their friends on the internet. I don't think I'd be a horrible mom, I just think now, with the state of the world as it is, it's a bad time to try and properly raise a child to have a good life.
i tend to agree with that sentiment.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: CookieCrumbs]
#23692279 - 09/29/16 09:21 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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I look at philly and baltimore and just can't believe all the kids that get produced,what kind of life will these ghetto children have?
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: akira_akuma]
#23692285 - 09/29/16 09:22 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: akira_akuma]
#23692304 - 09/29/16 09:29 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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akira_akuma said: OP: there are no miserable parents, just miserable people.
all parents fuck up all their children (at least a tiny bit).
it's the fact of life that nothing is perfect, and it's not the way you were raised to be.
I hear what youre saying but you cant denounce this as "all parents fuck up all their children." I admit I haven't been very specific but trust you me,.this mother deserved a verbal beatdown.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: CookieCrumbs]
#23692313 - 09/29/16 09:31 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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CookieCrumbs said: My brothers tormented me as a kid. Very often if they ever got in trouble it was "stop making your sister scream." cuz I was the inconvenient one. And for whatever reason I was obsessed with being 'good' so I never acted out, was always quiet, to the point that I had very few friends growing up and I let people hurt me without a word, lest I be inconvenient. There was one time when I was 10 years old and feeling horribly overwhelmed and I was trying to get my parents to let me stay home from school and started crying and, very clearly remember saying "I just want to die" so they screamed at me and told ME to call them instead and shoved the phone in my face. I think I went to school. So I was a very good little girl. Well behaved and inconspicuous, never made any trouble and did what I thought all adults everywhere wanted me to do. All until my mid teenage years when I inexplicably snapped like a rubber band.
Love my parents but they should not have had kids. I dunno if they should have married either.
My parents should not have had kids either
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Hobozen]
#23692744 - 09/30/16 12:19 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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well shit if all these bad parents never had kids we wouldn't have people like cookiecrumbs posting in this forum spreading all kinds of positivity.
who are we to condemn life?..
op, i was at the library many years ago, and there was this one special needs girl, she looked around my age at the time, anyway she was sitting at a table with her guide and some others special needs kids, and like as i walked by she looked at me and smiled and then let out the loudest fart ive ever heard to this day.. she laughed it off and i had to get the fuck outta there pronto cuz i was gonna lose it
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: pirate-blues]
#23692757 - 09/30/16 12:28 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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pirate-blues said: A couple nights ago I saw a guy holding a boombox blasting music while on a peaceful evening stroll with his baby mama and his baby in a stroller.
what were they playing?..
it'd be cool if they were blasting some sphongle, specifically this track:
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Hobozen] 2
#23692829 - 09/30/16 01:19 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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This bagged eyes, miserable woman made her feel like complete shit and humiliated her in front of the whole library. She was only like 8 years old...
Parental behavior can adversely effect a child's development, to such as degree as to cause neurosis
Neurosis (rage, depression, anxiety, etc) isn't a biological defect ("mental illness") but a developmental disorder
Parents often put huge pressures on children. Sometimes exerting smothering love and/or intimidation.
Parents sometimes instill great fear in their children and demand constant devotion.
Sometimes a child is forced to take sides in a battle between parents.
Some parents cultivate an environment of tyranny (as in this case) and glorification.
In such environments, children become insecure, apprehensive, isolated and resentful.
These kids don't develop normal self-respect and often suffer later in life with depression and addiction.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: pirate-blues] 4
#23692843 - 09/30/16 01:33 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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pirate-blues said: A couple nights ago I saw a guy holding a boombox blasting music while on a peaceful evening stroll with his baby mama and his baby in a stroller.
Do you live in 1992?
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Hobozen] 1
#23693055 - 09/30/16 06:03 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Hobozen said: I was at the library and there was a mom and her 2 kids using a computer. One of her kids was giving the other shit for fucking around and kept saying loudly (not yelling, it wasn't even rude) "stop it,.stop it!". The mom starts giving her ( the non-instigator) shit, simply because she was embarrassed her kid was acting up. This bagged eyes, miserable woman made her feel like complete shit and humiliated her in front of the whole library. She was only lik 8 years old. It was her brother that was being the dick and intstigating her. She later broke down crying, it was the saddest thing.
Just want to vent here. Is this reasonable grounds to have acted up and humiliated the woman? I wanted to explode on her.
I have seen it a LOT and it does sadden me, because most of the time the kids aren't doing anything remotely wrong it's just the parents that can't be bothered dealing with it. When I went to stay with my aunt, her husband suddenly yelled at their daughter at the table when eating, saying 'sit up straight and eat properly!' (My cousin who is 5)
I was fucking annoyed because what 5 year old should be made to feel below standards at dinner?? She cried and inside I cried too.
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I have neighbors downstairs who sometimes scream at their two young girls for an hour straight.
I'm talking angry screaming, at the top of their lungs. Sometimes the screaming starts at 6:00 AM.
The young girls are constantly crying. The more they cry, the more the parents scream.
I am totally serious - the name of the 7 year old is "Patience". She's a very sweet kid.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: RJ Tubs 202]
#23696384 - 10/01/16 06:28 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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RJ Tubs 202 said: I have neighbors downstairs who sometimes scream at their two young girls for an hour straight.
I'm talking angry screaming, at the top of their lungs. Sometimes the screaming starts at 6:00 AM.
The young girls are constantly crying. The more they cry, the more the parents scream.
I am totally serious - the name of the 7 year old is "Patience". She's a very sweet kid.
Report them to child welfare services or kill the parents.
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: RJ Tubs 202] 1
#23696460 - 10/01/16 07:32 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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RJ Tubs 202 said: I have neighbors downstairs who sometimes scream at their two young girls for an hour straight.
I'm talking angry screaming, at the top of their lungs. Sometimes the screaming starts at 6:00 AM.
The young girls are constantly crying. The more they cry, the more the parents scream.
I am totally serious - the name of the 7 year old is "Patience". She's a very sweet kid.
One of my students was a 7 year old girl named Patience  This was a few years ago though
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: RJ Tubs 202] 1
#23698506 - 10/01/16 09:43 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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RJ Tubs 202 said: I have neighbors downstairs who sometimes scream at their two young girls for an hour straight.
I'm talking angry screaming, at the top of their lungs. Sometimes the screaming starts at 6:00 AM.
The young girls are constantly crying. The more they cry, the more the parents scream.
I am totally serious - the name of the 7 year old is "Patience". She's a very sweet kid.
Oh the irony
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Re: Miserable parents.. I feel sorry for their kids [Re: Morel Guy]
#23698866 - 10/02/16 12:27 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Dark_Star said: Thanks for my proving my point. You've just shown what you're worth in this thread, and it's not much.
27,421 worthless moments on the shroomery.
I bet all your moms made cookies all day while your daddies toiled away at the old jobbie job
momma raised 4 boys on her own working full time here. dad was a deadbeat for the most part and was mostly out of the picture.
sounds like you need to resolve some issues with your own mother.
i wish people would get a slight education about development and psychology before being allowed to have kids. some people never really have a chance.
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My mom raised two girls and me. Dad was older and lost his job due to the oil boom falling apart and loving the booze. They divorced around his mom passing. Mom worked over time and was stressed. She took it out on us kids. The kids I knew to have great lives and parents grew up to be well adjusted adults with shallow senses. The typical folks that find life easy. They never knew suffering and intend to keep it that way. I have zero in common with people like that.
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Reminds of a line from tod in the parenthood(1989):
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Well, it depends on the man. I had a man around. He used to wake me up every morning by flicking lit cigarettes at my head. He'd say, "Hey, asshole, get up and make me breakfast." You know, Mrs. Buckman, you need a license to buy a dog, or drive a car. Hell, you need a license to catch a fish! But they'll let any butt-reaming asshole be a father.
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