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Connoisseur

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I miss my ex
#23691127 - 09/29/16 04:18 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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A part of me still loves them a lot and always will
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Jokeshopbeard
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How about being grateful for everything they brought into your life and letting them go, as true love always does?
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Connoisseur

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i did, tbh i dont think of them much at this point but a part of me still feels all of that
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The5thElement
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Connoisseur said: A part of me still loves them a lot and always will 
My sentiments exactly. You gotta believe though you're in love with someone from the past, people change.
I feel a little burned from my last ex, just how it all ended. Even though I kinda resent her for it, there's still a part of me that hopes she's doing ok.
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Rosen_Rot
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Connoisseur said: A part of me still loves them a lot and always will 
Me too and it's been months
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It won't go away, but it can be counterbalanced.
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sudly
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Cold hearted apathy is all you need my friends, cold hearted apathy.
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Black_Sunset
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Re: I miss my ex [Re: sudly]
#23705530 - 10/04/16 12:12 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Try writing your feelings out in a journal. I just write what I'm feeling at that moment even though I know it changes but it helps me move one step further. It's hard to untangle the past but time does a lot for us.
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bloodsheen
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Black_Sunset said: Try writing your feelings out in a journal. I just write what I'm feeling at that moment even though I know it changes but it helps me move one step further. It's hard to untangle the past but time does a lot for us.
I have also found this very therapudic. Be sure to make it a physical, handwritten journal. There is something about seeing the words in your own unique style that makes it both so real and also so trivial. Idk why but something about reading your own words back to yourself makes you see it from a different perspective
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Lucis
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If you don't mind me asking, how long have you guys been separated?
The beauty about my ex, we were over before we were over if you know what I mean, nothings worse than being in a walking dead relationship were you're just going through the motions of being a relationship, but the thrill is gone.
Hope you feel better though man.
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Connoisseur

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Re: I miss my ex [Re: Lucis]
#23709632 - 10/05/16 11:26 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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weve been apart roughly half a year now
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Enjoywho
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Jokeshopbeard said: How about being grateful for everything they brought into your life and letting them go, as true love always does?
Bingo. I have little resentments for some. But I told them I'd love them forever. Doesn't necessarily mean you'll be together forever. I wish them all nothing but the best. Why a lot of them I'm still friends with.
What would be the point of not? At one point or another they took a piece of my heart.
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