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zathras
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Mushroom Cultivation and Significant Others.
#23690455 - 09/29/16 12:40 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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I have been a very happily alone space cadet for some years now and live the room that I cultivate in. I recently had the luck of having a woman enter my life and well I think we are hitting it off pretty well. I am not currently growing since I am going on a trip for a bit but she has an idea about what I do. The thing is I had been planning (pre-girl) to step up my game when I got back and see how far we can take this thing. This is still my plan whether or not the girl is into it. So I guess I am asking, how many of you cultivators have significant other's that know about your little hobby? Do you keep it a secret from them? How many relationships have ended because well the mushrooms do come first? I'm thinking about being 100% honest and just telling her "I am going to grow a lot of mushrooms, if that bothers you maybe this relationship is not for us." She knows I'm in some kind of heavy game but I don't think she realizes how deep a weird head can get after years of drug use and production alone in a room. I hope this post in on topic, thanks in advance!
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bodhisatta 
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Re: Mushroom Cultivation and Significant Others. [Re: zathras]
#23690461 - 09/29/16 12:41 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Did you have a cultivation question?
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nobody83
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Re: Mushroom Cultivation and Significant Others. [Re: bodhisatta]
#23690479 - 09/29/16 12:48 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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zathras
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Re: Mushroom Cultivation and Significant Others. [Re: nobody83]
#23690488 - 09/29/16 12:51 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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I guess not, sorry this was probably the wrong forum. Still don't know when to post here. I'd be ok with this getting moved to my journal or deleted.
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mushboy
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Re: Mushroom Cultivation and Significant Others. [Re: zathras]
#23690831 - 09/29/16 02:22 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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well your asking if you should keep cultivation a secret from a lady friend..
if shes 'just a girlfriend' then who cares? if shes more than that then its up to you about growing and all
my wife is a dope smoker but not a tripper.
whenever i show her the mush she makes the same face...
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PortabellaFella 1
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Re: Mushroom Cultivation and Significant Others. [Re: mushboy]
#23690911 - 09/29/16 02:55 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Lol. Tell her what you do. This way if you guys get serious, and she decides later that she doesn't like it, you can always say " I've done this since well before and while we were dating, why is it a problem now?" Then again I've been married and with my wife for 16 years, my judgement may be skewed.
the answer to your question is no, you should never pick a booger and then touch your cakes.
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Edited by PortabellaFella 1 (09/29/16 08:38 PM)
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CultiV8
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Think about the future - if you are "stepping up your game" / "growing a lot of mushrooms", do you want her to have that information combined with your address if things go south? I've seen the chillest of lady-friends fly off the handle at the end of relationships. In the extreme emotions that can come with romance, one phone call could be all it takes to get you arrested. My suggestion is to never give anyone that power over you.
Then again, hiding a big operation can put a lot of strain on the relationship. It's a tricky question, one that deserves some serious thought and one that we can't help you with all that much.
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spongegar
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Re: Mushroom Cultivation and Significant Others. [Re: CultiV8]
#23690989 - 09/29/16 03:25 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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I live together with my girl, I have my sgfc almost next to the bed, all she has to do is fan and mist it when I'm at work, that's all. She thinks pins look disgusting, but really likes the look of huge shrooms.
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mushboy
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Re: Mushroom Cultivation and Significant Others. [Re: spongegar]
#23691063 - 09/29/16 03:53 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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if you have a sgfc SHE doesnt even need to fan!
i bet she likes the big mush no offense
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azur
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Re: Mushroom Cultivation and Significant Others. [Re: CultiV8]
#23691186 - 09/29/16 04:44 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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CultiV8 said: Think about the future - if you are "stepping up your game" / "growing a lot of mushrooms", do you want her to have that information combined with your address if things go south? I've seen the chillest of lady-friends fly off the handle at the end of relationships. In the extreme emotions that can come with romance, one phone call could be all it takes to get you arrested. My suggestion is to never give anyone that power over you.
Then again, hiding a big operation can put a lot of strain on the relationship. It's a tricky question, one that deserves some serious thought and one that we can't help you with all that much.
This
Keep it to yourself. You've already forgotten rule #1 op. Obviously, if it does develop into a serious relationship, then you may have to tell her. But definitely not right now.
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RyeJar
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Re: Mushroom Cultivation and Significant Others. [Re: azur]
#23691245 - 09/29/16 05:07 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yeah. Ever had a bad breakup? If you ever did something stupid that pissed her off bad enough you could be pretty fucked.
Even if you dont do anything stupid some girls are crazy. The odds of you doing something stupid or her being crazy is probably pretty high.
If she has a hint of what you do its already too much man. Tell her you quit doing it. Say you quit when you went on your trip and never picked it back up. honestly. she doesn't need to know.
Edited by RyeJar (09/29/16 05:08 PM)
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dankington
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Re: Mushroom Cultivation and Significant Others. [Re: RyeJar]
#23691345 - 09/29/16 05:39 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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RyeJar said: Yeah. Ever had a bad breakup? If you ever did something stupid that pissed her off bad enough you could be pretty fucked.
Even if you dont do anything stupid some girls are crazy. The odds of you doing something stupid or her being crazy is probably pretty high.
If she has a hint of what you do its already too much man. Tell her you quit doing it. Say you quit when you went on your trip and never picked it back up. honestly. she doesn't need to know.
Excellent advice. Maybe say you got an edible kit from home depot, or fungi perfecti. Downplay it, and say it's done. If you get engaged or something, you'll have to be careful and reveal tactfully.
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RyeJar
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Re: Mushroom Cultivation and Significant Others. [Re: dankington]
#23691470 - 09/29/16 06:10 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Plus if she is eventually going to need to come over to your room it really isnt a good idea to grow. If you just have to grow and have her over maybe do some invitro tampanensis bags stuffed into a recess of your closet and clean up all evidence when you do any work. Dont have your supplies all over the place. Leave bags be for 6-12 months and harvest truffles. Truffles are really inconspicuous as well. It may be odd looking to the casual observer but for the most part they fly under the radar when it comes to normal laymen.
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Wicked Burn

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Re: Mushroom Cultivation and Significant Others. [Re: zathras]
#23691641 - 09/29/16 06:40 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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zathras said: I have been a very happily alone space cadet for some years now and live the room that I cultivate in. The thing is I had been planning (pre-girl) to step up my game when I got back and see how far we can take this thing. This is still my plan whether or not the girl is into it.
Your answer is simple. You live in the room and you are going large scale regardless of what the girl wants you to do. Since you live in the room, there is no fucking way you can hide it.
You gotta drop the girl. Make sure you're real nice about it too. Do not piss her off.
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Re: Mushroom Cultivation and Significant Others. [Re: azur]
#23691681 - 09/29/16 06:50 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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azur said:
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CultiV8 said: Think about the future - if you are "stepping up your game" / "growing a lot of mushrooms", do you want her to have that information combined with your address if things go south? I've seen the chillest of lady-friends fly off the handle at the end of relationships. In the extreme emotions that can come with romance, one phone call could be all it takes to get you arrested. My suggestion is to never give anyone that power over you.
Then again, hiding a big operation can put a lot of strain on the relationship. It's a tricky question, one that deserves some serious thought and one that we can't help you with all that much.
This
Keep it to yourself. You've already forgotten rule #1 op. Obviously, if it does develop into a serious relationship, then you may have to tell her. But definitely not right now.
Well put. Brodown on the lowdown.
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Buger
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Re: Mushroom Cultivation and Significant Others. [Re: seagypseas]
#23691690 - 09/29/16 06:53 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Tell her, observe the outcome, ha.
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nobody83
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Re: Mushroom Cultivation and Significant Others. [Re: Buger]
#23691962 - 09/29/16 08:01 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Fuck bitches
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PortabellaFella 1
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Re: Mushroom Cultivation and Significant Others. [Re: nobody83]
#23692090 - 09/29/16 08:31 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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when they mess with ya grow, they gots ta go
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Boogieman47
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Id never tell a chick im doing illegal activities most of my partners are locked up because they trusted their woman too much they also were waayyy deeper into the game but still women talk too much period it could be said to a friend of hers who tells another friend whose boyfriend/husband is a cop or a theif
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wtfcrazymofo
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Re: Mushroom Cultivation and Significant Others. [Re: nobody83]
#23692119 - 09/29/16 08:37 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Teach her to grow some dicks bro
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Re: Mushroom Cultivation and Significant Others. [Re: wtfcrazymofo]
#23692188 - 09/29/16 08:53 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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I started growing mushrooms while I was with my girl, so she and my sister are the only people in the world who know I grow mushrooms outside of this website. That already is 2 too many women that know about this delicate scenario but they are people I'd be willing to trust with the info. If it were up to me no one on the planet would know but that's not how it goes. If I was growing before I met her, no way would I ever walk her into my expanded grow op and say "hope you're ok with this" 
This isn't something you can trust with a fling. It's your life, so you have to protect it. But if you've already hinted and given yourself away it's too late to keep something that big hidden.
Idk your situation from a paragraph but unless you are confident in your abilities to hide this from her without her finding out while you have your fun...... My advice is chose whether to pursue the girl or the mush and not both
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