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Falling in love too easily
    #23690111 - 09/29/16 10:52 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

Does anyone else suffer from falling super hard for people?
I'm constantly in and out of relationships because I see so much good in certain people but then they always end up being bad people so I leave. It's taking quite a toll on my psyche because I become afraid to get too close to women now in fear that I'll fall in love then break my heart again.


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Meownap]
    #23690120 - 09/29/16 10:54 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

Define bad.


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: PatrickKn]
    #23690128 - 09/29/16 10:57 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

They say one thing but mean another, they hurt other people for fun, they're narcissistic, they lie and cheat, etc.
all around just shitty individuals.
One of my ex's is a good friend now though because she got into mushrooms and is now vegan, healthy, does community activities, etc.


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Meownap]
    #23690139 - 09/29/16 11:00 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

I tend to get attached quickly, but it doesn't really cause any problems.

Accept it for what it is, thicken your skin up.


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Repertoire89]
    #23690181 - 09/29/16 11:14 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

I know that other good people exist because I'm one of those good people, so I'd rather find someone willing to change for the better. After dating so many people in their 20s I've learned that they don't change easily, so now I'm talking to an 18 year old who is interested in spirituality and psychedelics and I'm hoping to introduce them to the world I reside in


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Meownap]
    #23690195 - 09/29/16 11:17 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

We all reside in the same world....:dumbass:


Jk, you just gotta find the right one. Or wait patiently untill she finds you like mine did.


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #23690204 - 09/29/16 11:19 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

True, but I guess I mean I reside in my own perspective of the world which is vastly different than most. I'm still somehow optimistic even after everything I've been through.
Social media is a curse :frown:


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Meownap]
    #23690205 - 09/29/16 11:20 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

Not trying to be a dick, but it's a self esteem thing 99% of the time.


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Meownap]
    #23690208 - 09/29/16 11:21 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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True, but I guess I mean I reside in my own perspective of the world which is vastly different than most. I'm still somehow optimistic even after everything I've been through.
Social media is a curse :frown:



I couldnt agree more about social media. Just dont give up, love will find you one day. You will most likely get sucker punched by it.


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Near Dylan]
    #23690210 - 09/29/16 11:21 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

Yeah probably. Dunno why I have self esteem issues as I'm decent looking, kinda smart about some things, play guitar well, etc.
I was raised a Mormon though so I probably still have psychological issues from the religious indoctrination


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Meownap]
    #23690218 - 09/29/16 11:24 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Yeah probably. Dunno why I have self esteem issues as I'm decent looking, kinda smart about some things, play guitar well, etc.
I was raised a Mormon though so I probably still have psychological issues from the religious indoctrination



Fuck yeah, chicks dig guitar.... If you play it they will come.


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #23690225 - 09/29/16 11:25 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

I've found that to be true, especially with my style. I pretty much stick to DAEAC#E and play with heavy finger style and harmonics. Open mic night is always a blast.


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Meownap]
    #23690237 - 09/29/16 11:30 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

There you go, now to step it up go to a coffe shop, meet someone, find out some of their fav songs, learn to play one and your golden.


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #23690249 - 09/29/16 11:33 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

Thanks spirit, you're a kind soul :smile:
Time to go to work


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Meownap]
    #23690256 - 09/29/16 11:35 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

Anytime man :highfive1:


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: spirit_shadow]
    #23690267 - 09/29/16 11:38 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

Yea im a head over heels guy too often.


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Meownap]
    #23690421 - 09/29/16 12:33 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

I have a Facebook "friend" (she was a childhood friend, but we haven't seen each other in like 17 years) who falls hard & fast for every guy she dates.  A few times a year, she has a new "love of her life- this time it's for real, everyone!"  And invariably the relationship falls apart in a few weeks or months.  I feel bad for her because it looks really painful.  I know how I've felt when it doesn't work out with someone I cared about a lot, and I can't imagine going through that like 3 times a year.  I think she knows she's getting older and is desperate to get married, but she's got a broken picker when it comes to men, and she doesn't know how to properly protect herself.

But the thing of it that makes me not feel too bad for her is that she KNOWS better.  I can't figure out why she keeps throwing herself headlong into these intense situations when she should just be dating casually & maintaining a healthy distance from the heavy emotions.  I get making a few mistakes, but seriously, it happens so often that it just looks like self-flagellation by now.  Maybe she's incapable of helping herself.  I think she's put a lot of stock into the idea that she's gonna meet Mr. Perfect and just like *that* everything will fall into place in her life. 

Anyway, sorry you go through that, OP.  I don't actually have any advice for you that I'm sure you haven't thought of yourself (be guarded, take it slow, look for happiness in other areas of your life, etc.), I'm just kinda ruminating on the topic.  Good luck.


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: The Moose]
    #23690428 - 09/29/16 12:35 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

I tend to get all puppy dog love too, doesn't happen often, but it does happen.. that's why I smoke weed and do the porn thang every once in a while, cuz it keeps me on my toes, keeps the ears sharp.


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Burke Dennings]
    #23690570 - 09/29/16 01:16 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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I think she's put a lot of stock into the idea that she's gonna meet Mr. Perfect and just like *that* everything will fall into place in her life.



I wonder where that kind of programming comes from.............


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
    #23690622 - 09/29/16 01:29 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

oh shit yea... i fucking fall for the girls in the deli who smile at me ahahahhhah


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Meownap]
    #23690997 - 09/29/16 03:28 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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I know that other good people exist because I'm one of those good people, so I'd rather find someone willing to change for the better. After dating so many people in their 20s I've learned that they don't change easily, so now I'm talking to an 18 year old who is interested in spirituality and psychedelics and I'm hoping to introduce them to the world I reside in





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Does anyone else suffer from falling super hard for people?
I'm constantly in and out of relationships because I see so much good in certain people but then they always end up being bad people so I leave. It's taking quite a toll on my psyche because I become afraid to get too close to women now in fear that I'll fall in love then break my heart again.







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The temporal differential we call wakefulness is the cosmic interaction of subatomic particles operating in the quantum field, the (quantum)leap represents a fundamental universal constant that we can only speculate upon in the macro scale of wave form frequencies.


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Atreyu] * 1
    #23691656 - 09/29/16 06:45 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

http://sebpearce.com/bullshit/


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Meownap]
    #23691671 - 09/29/16 06:49 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Does anyone else suffer from falling super hard for people?





Tends to happen when we're lonely.


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Atreyu] * 2
    #23691672 - 09/29/16 06:49 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

I once used that thing to make a post like the one above, and imachavel responded to it with like 1000 words of his own thoughts on it, lol.


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Burke Dennings]
    #23691722 - 09/29/16 06:59 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

I've been crushed twice in my life, the last relationship was of 7 years and  that wrecked me. Seriously, I'd rather be in physical pain then emotional.

It took a few years to find someone again, and I love her but I definatly  resisted it for a while before giving in and telling her.

Life is better with love, definatly. It takes losing someone you love to truly feel pain, I almost don't want to have children in fear of losing them. Even loving someone again is scary but I can only imagine a worse fate, living without ever letting someone inside again.
If I have learned anything it's that life is definatly better with someone by yourside, and one day you will lose them regardless and if you're still breathing at that moment then you need to accept it, and move on. Don't dwell on it, if you have to try to get back to them and if they reject you move on. You have to let go of it.


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Meownap] * 1
    #23692056 - 09/29/16 08:23 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

You sound like my best friend.


I think she sees people who struggle or deal with demons and not only does she see the good but she sees a bit of herself in them as well.


She also has some major daddy issues.



It has caused problems and constantly being drawn to toxic people will ruin your life if you don't stop. Not only that but you get acclimated to that vicious cycle and that toxic attitude is contagious dude, it spreads to you and it can cause issues in future relationships.




I however, have the opposite issue, where I have a hard time truly opening up and trusting people I feel like I'm just layers on top of layers and while some have gotten closer than others, no one's really gotten to know me fully, I think. I hate being this way, and while I'll never be the sort to easily fall in love, I'm trying to learn how to trust/let people in a bit easier - I'm not even like a super quiet person, and I feel like I strive to genuinely connect to people, but I also just feel like I've got a lot of walls up and that friendly chatty exterior is almost a protective mask(but it's not fake, swearsies!)


My friend and I have a lot to learn from each other :lol:


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: pirate-blues]
    #23692103 - 09/29/16 08:34 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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I have a hard time truly opening up and trusting people I feel like I'm just layers on top of layers and while some have gotten closer than others, no one's really gotten to know me fully, I think.



I met up with a friend in the city tonight for a few hours who is this way. She's found her guy, but doesn't wanna open those layers for fear she might lose a best friend. Any advice PB?


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Jokeshopbeard] * 1
    #23692137 - 09/29/16 08:41 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

Self growth is all about stepping outside your comfort zone, tell her it might be scary, and she probably won't feel ready at all but she will not grow as a person in this facet if she doesn't learn to take that risk eventually and if she is waiting for a time when she feels 'ready', she'll be waiting a long time because I find with everything : action precedes motivation.


Ultimately I think it comes from feeling different, and as a result, often alienated even if you're surrounded by friends and people and even if they're people that seem to 'get you'. When you really open up and find a love connection as a person like that it feels so rare and amazing, but if she starts opening up more she'll realize that humans are so very alike(and this comes as a relief to me, honestly, people tell me I'm weird all the time meaning it to be a compliment and over time it's just become an insecurity) and she'll realize she's not alone and there are many out there worth opening her heart and mind up to, even if it's more of a passing ship in the night sorta deal, it'll get easier.


I say ask her what's really holding her back and why she doesn't feel ready right now in her life, because I guarantee she has an answer to that.


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: pirate-blues]
    #23692143 - 09/29/16 08:42 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

Ya I definatly put up walls now, It's hard to open up fully to people. I duno, being dragged through all this stuff really puts relationships into perspective and people in general really- I wont go into details but most people arn't good freinds, at least the people I've met. Tough times usually makes people not want to stick around, the good one's decide to though.


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: pirate-blues]
    #23692246 - 09/29/16 09:10 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

u think u got probs, I can't even open up on a forum where nobody knows me irl..


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: zZZz]
    #23692260 - 09/29/16 09:15 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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I can't even open up on a forum where nobody knows me irl..



I thought the point of 'a forum where nobody knows me irl' was to open up??

I must fail at forums...


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Atreyu] * 1
    #23692400 - 09/29/16 09:57 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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http://sebpearce.com/bullshit/


New age bullshit generator was the author of my last post.




I think Akira uses one of those, a gibberish generator of some kind, enter text and scramble
His posts come out like broken radio signals from deep space


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Repertoire89]
    #23692745 - 09/30/16 12:21 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

So tonight I helped this girl blast off on dmt. It was good, she likes me a lot more for some reason, but didn't have many words to describe her experience.
It ended with me going down on her, that was fun.


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