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Atreyu
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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Meownap]
#23690997 - 09/29/16 03:28 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Meownap said: I know that other good people exist because I'm one of those good people, so I'd rather find someone willing to change for the better. After dating so many people in their 20s I've learned that they don't change easily, so now I'm talking to an 18 year old who is interested in spirituality and psychedelics and I'm hoping to introduce them to the world I reside in
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Meownap said: Does anyone else suffer from falling super hard for people? I'm constantly in and out of relationships because I see so much good in certain people but then they always end up being bad people so I leave. It's taking quite a toll on my psyche because I become afraid to get too close to women now in fear that I'll fall in love then break my heart again.
We are at a crossroads of transcendence and dogma. Our conversations with other lifeforms have led to an unveiling of hyper-cosmic consciousness. Throughout history, humans have been interacting with the totality via molecular structures. "Consciousness consists of four-dimensional superstructures of quantum energy. “Quantum” means a maturing of the consciousness-expanding."If you have never experienced this quantum leap on a cosmic scale, it can be difficult to exist. Have you found your circuit? The dreamscape is calling to you via meridians. Can you hear it?
The temporal differential we call wakefulness is the cosmic interaction of subatomic particles operating in the quantum field, the (quantum)leap represents a fundamental universal constant that we can only speculate upon in the macro scale of wave form frequencies.
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Atreyu
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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Atreyu] 1
#23691656 - 09/29/16 06:45 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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http://sebpearce.com/bullshit/
New age bullshit generator was the author of my last post.
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Burke Dennings
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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Atreyu] 2
#23691672 - 09/29/16 06:49 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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I once used that thing to make a post like the one above, and imachavel responded to it with like 1000 words of his own thoughts on it, lol.
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1234go
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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Meownap]
#23691671 - 09/29/16 06:49 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Meownap said: Does anyone else suffer from falling super hard for people?
Tends to happen when we're lonely.
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The5thElement
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I've been crushed twice in my life, the last relationship was of 7 years and that wrecked me. Seriously, I'd rather be in physical pain then emotional.
It took a few years to find someone again, and I love her but I definatly resisted it for a while before giving in and telling her.
Life is better with love, definatly. It takes losing someone you love to truly feel pain, I almost don't want to have children in fear of losing them. Even loving someone again is scary but I can only imagine a worse fate, living without ever letting someone inside again. If I have learned anything it's that life is definatly better with someone by yourside, and one day you will lose them regardless and if you're still breathing at that moment then you need to accept it, and move on. Don't dwell on it, if you have to try to get back to them and if they reject you move on. You have to let go of it.
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pirate-blues


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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Meownap] 1
#23692056 - 09/29/16 08:23 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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You sound like my best friend.
I think she sees people who struggle or deal with demons and not only does she see the good but she sees a bit of herself in them as well.
She also has some major daddy issues.
It has caused problems and constantly being drawn to toxic people will ruin your life if you don't stop. Not only that but you get acclimated to that vicious cycle and that toxic attitude is contagious dude, it spreads to you and it can cause issues in future relationships.
I however, have the opposite issue, where I have a hard time truly opening up and trusting people I feel like I'm just layers on top of layers and while some have gotten closer than others, no one's really gotten to know me fully, I think. I hate being this way, and while I'll never be the sort to easily fall in love, I'm trying to learn how to trust/let people in a bit easier - I'm not even like a super quiet person, and I feel like I strive to genuinely connect to people, but I also just feel like I've got a lot of walls up and that friendly chatty exterior is almost a protective mask(but it's not fake, swearsies!)
My friend and I have a lot to learn from each other
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Jokeshopbeard
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pirate-blues said: I have a hard time truly opening up and trusting people I feel like I'm just layers on top of layers and while some have gotten closer than others, no one's really gotten to know me fully, I think.
I met up with a friend in the city tonight for a few hours who is this way. She's found her guy, but doesn't wanna open those layers for fear she might lose a best friend. Any advice PB?
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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pirate-blues


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Self growth is all about stepping outside your comfort zone, tell her it might be scary, and she probably won't feel ready at all but she will not grow as a person in this facet if she doesn't learn to take that risk eventually and if she is waiting for a time when she feels 'ready', she'll be waiting a long time because I find with everything : action precedes motivation.
Ultimately I think it comes from feeling different, and as a result, often alienated even if you're surrounded by friends and people and even if they're people that seem to 'get you'. When you really open up and find a love connection as a person like that it feels so rare and amazing, but if she starts opening up more she'll realize that humans are so very alike(and this comes as a relief to me, honestly, people tell me I'm weird all the time meaning it to be a compliment and over time it's just become an insecurity) and she'll realize she's not alone and there are many out there worth opening her heart and mind up to, even if it's more of a passing ship in the night sorta deal, it'll get easier.
I say ask her what's really holding her back and why she doesn't feel ready right now in her life, because I guarantee she has an answer to that.
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The5thElement
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Ya I definatly put up walls now, It's hard to open up fully to people. I duno, being dragged through all this stuff really puts relationships into perspective and people in general really- I wont go into details but most people arn't good freinds, at least the people I've met. Tough times usually makes people not want to stick around, the good one's decide to though.
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zZZz
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u think u got probs, I can't even open up on a forum where nobody knows me irl..
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Jokeshopbeard
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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: zZZz]
#23692260 - 09/29/16 09:15 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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zZZz said: I can't even open up on a forum where nobody knows me irl..
I thought the point of 'a forum where nobody knows me irl' was to open up??
I must fail at forums...
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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Re: Falling in love too easily [Re: Atreyu] 1
#23692400 - 09/29/16 09:57 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Atreyu said: http://sebpearce.com/bullshit/
New age bullshit generator was the author of my last post.
I think Akira uses one of those, a gibberish generator of some kind, enter text and scramble His posts come out like broken radio signals from deep space
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Meownap
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So tonight I helped this girl blast off on dmt. It was good, she likes me a lot more for some reason, but didn't have many words to describe her experience. It ended with me going down on her, that was fun.
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