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Is my friend fucked? Or will he be okay?
#23668848 - 09/22/16 05:45 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Hey there. Please read all that I typed. It's a complicated situation.
So my good friend recently got charged with three charges:
- Possession of marijuana with intent to distribute - Drug paraphernalia - Maintain dwelling other place
The only other times he has gotten in trouble with the law was when he was underage got charged with possession of a small amount of weed.
Here's the story:
My friend has been using benzos for a while now (xanax, kpins). I know he likes them a lot. He definitely can't control himself with it. He has broken his phone multiple times while high.
He recently moved out of his mom's house and into an apartment with friends. His mom went on vacation for a week and she asked him to watch her house and take care of the dog while she was gone. He did so. The night before his mom was to come back he apparently got really messed up. I imagine it was Xanax and alcohol and weed. He left his mom's at around 2 in the morning to drive back to his apartment. (he apparently hit a curb driving home and fucked up his alignment)
Fast forward to around 8 in the morning. A neighbor walked out of his house and saw that my friend's mom's house had the garage door open and the front door was completely open and no one was home. There were no cars parked at my friend's mom's house, either, since his mom drove to the airport and my friend drove back to his apartment. My neighbor calls the cops because he thought there might have been a robbery.
The cops come and knock on my friend's mom's house and no one answers. They see the door is wide open and just walk in the house. They immediately find two bags of weed (not sure how much, but my friend was getting ounces from a guy at a time), a bong, and two scales.
My friend is notified by another neighbor that cops are at his mom's. My friend eventually comes back to his mom's and confronts the cops. They arrest him and take him to jail. His parents bail him out the next morning.
HERE'S THE KICKER:
My friend apparently confessed to the cops that he also had been sexting an underage girl. (I don't know WHY he confessed this. He honestly is a good person and I think he was just trying to do the right thing) The cops take his phone.
He just had court yesterday and the prosecutor offered him a plea deal. If he confessed to the three charges I mentioned in the beginning then he won't spend time in jail and he will have to work about 5 hours of community service every week for one whole year, as well as attend drug classes. If he is caught with a misdemeanor or felony during that year then he will probably serve time in jail.
The prosecutor didn't know about the underage sexting thing, however.
Since, by law, my friend told the cops about the underage sexting, I think the cops have to seek legal action. If they do then I don't see how my friend can get away from this underage sexting. There are fuckin explicit pics on his phone of this underage girl. The evidence is 100% there.
So, if my friend accepts the plea deal and then gets charged separately with underage sexting then he will be very fucked because he will have violated the plea bargain rules.
My friend's lawyer might try to tell the prosecutor about the underage sexting to see if the plea bargain can be adjusted to accommodate that extra charge, IF the cops charge my friend with underage sexting.
The lawyer say she might fight the three original charges because the cops may have illegally entered my friend's mom's house. Not sure yet, she needs to look at the case more closely.
What do you guys think?
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Edited by lifeiswhatyoumake (09/22/16 05:59 PM)
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Maintain a dwelling that isn't primary residence
How is that a charge?
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I think "your friend" should post this in enlil's ask an attorney thread.
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It may be difficult for them to determine who and how old the girl is if she's in another jurisdiction.
Why don't people lock their phones? Cops can't get in your phone if they don't know the code.
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haha why would he tell them he was sexting an underage girl, or even be sexting an underage girl in the first place
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Re: Is my friend fucked? Or will he be okay? [Re: koods]
#23668877 - 09/22/16 05:55 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sounds like your friend is going to get fucked... he will have a hard time staying sober for the piss tests.
Hopefully a wake up call for him.
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This whole thing stinks to high heaven.
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Re: Is my friend fucked? Or will he be okay? [Re: Great Scott]
#23668922 - 09/22/16 06:11 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'm not sure what is more dumb, texting with an underage girl or admitting that to police.
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lifeiswhatyoumake said: fuckin explicit pics on his phone of this underage girl.
How underage is underage? How old is your pal?
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Re: Is my friend fucked? Or will he be okay? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#23668978 - 09/22/16 06:28 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Obviously fucked and the whole under age thing makes me wonder. Did the cops have Intel regarding an underage or was it just spat out from a retard? Is he within the tolerable age limit of said underage girl? Also in my state intent to sell is a felony. How did he walk from the intent to sell? Also I have learned the hard way that you should if anything illegal is around, lock your door and close the blind and still yet hide your stash!!!
Never good enough hiding spot.
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If you want to know what I am really thinking, it is that you are SWIM in this scenario.
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Re: Is my friend fucked? Or will he be okay? [Re: moonrockmushy]
#23669050 - 09/22/16 06:52 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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That's what I was getting at. OP is sexting a child.
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Re: Is my friend fucked? Or will he be okay? [Re: Burke Dennings]
#23669076 - 09/22/16 07:07 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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I hope they lock up whoever was sexting kids. There are so many girls that aren't illegal that you or him could sext. Why would you even entertain that thought. Don't hang out with creeps.
Benzo's are lame too. If I blacked out and then came home that morning to find cops, I would play dumb until they told me what has happening. Then I would just say someone must have opened the unlocked door and got high, then left in a hurry.
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Re: Is my friend fucked? Or will he be okay? [Re: Lophosaurus]
#23669124 - 09/22/16 07:21 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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It is unlikely that someone came in got high and left their stash. Was the guy 19 and the girl 16 cause that is legal n Ohio. But some of this shit regarding pics is different. Anyone under 18 and pics or vid is a big no no.
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Re: Is my friend fucked? Or will he be okay? [Re: Lophosaurus]
#23669127 - 09/22/16 07:23 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Knowing the way cops think about these things,they'll probably arrest the girl for the manufacture of child pornography for taking nudes of herself. (And if you think that sounds totally ridiculous... It happens quite often.)
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Re: Is my friend fucked? Or will he be okay? [Re: Morel Guy]
#23669133 - 09/22/16 07:24 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Morel Guy said: It is unlikely that someone came in got high and left their stash. Was the guy 19 and the girl 16 cause that is legal n Ohio. But some of this shit regarding pics is different. Anyone under 18 and pics or vid is a big no no.
Sexually explicit pics of a 17 year old is child pornography. In most states you could legally fuck her, but don't get any pics.
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Re: Is my friend fucked? Or will he be okay? [Re: koods]
#23669145 - 09/22/16 07:27 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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My friend is 23 and the girl is 15.
And no, my "friend" is not me, to whomever was wondering that.
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Uh-huh.
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Re: Is my friend fucked? Or will he be okay? [Re: Burke Dennings] 3
#23669161 - 09/22/16 07:30 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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In that case I'd say fuck him, he deserves what he gets. That shit is way out of line.
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Re: Is my friend fucked? Or will he be okay? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#23669184 - 09/22/16 07:35 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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yaa my friend has been abusing benzos for years now. Definitely has changed him. So sad.
When I asked him if he drove that night while fucked up his response was "I didn't get caught."
That was a horrible response.
I don't support any one who drives fucked up and endangers other people.
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Re: Is my friend fucked? Or will he be okay? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#23669209 - 09/22/16 07:40 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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No getting out of a Pic of an underage girl. In almost every state, your friend will be charged with child molestation/ soliciting a minor for sex. HUGE fuck up!
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lifeiswhatyoumake said: yaa my friend has been abusing benzos for years now. Definitely has changed him.
I'm sure it can/would. The first and only time I abused benzo's I blacked out, threatened to beat my wife (and I have never hit a woman) when she tried to stop me leaving, drove to McDonalds, cashed my car into something, and then woke up in the morning with no memory of it. It was fucking paralysing to hear what an animal I'd become when she told me, and walking out and seeing the big dent (it definitely wasn't a people shaped dent thank fuck, more bollard shaped) in my bumper it really brought it cashing home how dangerous that was.
I never fucked with the stuff ever again. I think if I did (like your friend clearly did) I can't see how I wouldn't totally deserve to suffer for putting others in danger like that.
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Re: Is my friend fucked? Or will he be okay? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#23669243 - 09/22/16 07:51 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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lifeiswhatyoumake said: yaa my friend has been abusing benzos for years now. Definitely has changed him.
I'm sure it can/would. The first and only time I abused benzo's I blacked out, threatened to beat my wife (and I have never hit a woman) when she tried to stop me leaving, drove to McDonalds, cashed my car into something, and then woke up in the morning with no memory of it. It was fucking paralysing to hear what an animal I'd become when she told me, and walking out and seeing the big dent (it definitely wasn't a people shaped dent thank fuck, more bollard shaped) in my bumper it really brought it cashing home how dangerous that was.
I never fucked with the stuff ever again. I think if I did (like your friend clearly did) I can't see how I wouldn't totally deserve to suffer for putting others in danger like that.
Wow that is a horrible story! I'm glad you aren't touching the stuff ever again. You got lucky.
Is your wife still with you after that?
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We're not together, no, but it's not because of that incident. It was actually her that ended up in rehab for doing that kind of thing many more times than I did. I fucking hate losing control of my actions like that.
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Re: Is my friend fucked? Or will he be okay? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#23669264 - 09/22/16 07:58 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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As far as benzos I had a friend fall down about 30 steps mixing with alcohol. I just remember taking a piss on the hand rail and him failing all,the way down. He went to the emergency room the next day which is where I got the drug. I never felt shit from the drug but mixed with alcohol they do some things.
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Your23 year old friend is a creep for texting 15 y/o girls
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Re: Is my friend fucked? Or will he be okay? [Re: Sheekle]
#23669289 - 09/22/16 08:10 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yea wait until they are 18 and still mentally immature to go to pound town.
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Re: Is my friend fucked? Or will he be okay? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#23669292 - 09/22/16 08:11 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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lifeiswhatyoumake said: yaa my friend has been abusing benzos for years now. Definitely has changed him.
I'm sure it can/would. The first and only time I abused benzo's I blacked out, threatened to beat my wife (and I have never hit a woman) when she tried to stop me leaving, drove to McDonalds, cashed my car into something, and then woke up in the morning with no memory of it. It was fucking paralysing to hear what an animal I'd become when she told me, and walking out and seeing the big dent (it definitely wasn't a people shaped dent thank fuck, more bollard shaped) in my bumper it really brought it cashing home how dangerous that was.
I never fucked with the stuff ever again. I think if I did (like your friend clearly did) I can't see how I wouldn't totally deserve to suffer for putting others in danger like that.
I call them mind erasers.
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Re: Is my friend fucked? Or will he be okay? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#23669294 - 09/22/16 08:12 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Jokeshopbeard said: We're not together, no, but it's not because of that incident. It was actually her that ended up in rehab for doing that kind of thing many more times than I did. I fucking hate losing control of my actions like that.
Ohh damn. Did she get you to try it or something?
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It's really not something I feel like going into right now man.
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ReposadoXochipilli said: Yea wait until they are 18 and still mentally immature to go to pound town.
23 and 18 is kinda weird but 23 and 15 is substantially weirder
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Re: Is my friend fucked? Or will he be okay? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#23669349 - 09/22/16 08:27 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Jokeshopbeard said: It's really not something I feel like going into right now man.
My bad. Just not sure how to continue this thread any more lol. I guess just wait to see if any one says anything interesting about my friend's situation
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If your friend hasn't been charged with a crime involving child pornography yet, it's probably because his phone never made it into evidence. Some sick cop probably kept it for his personal stash.
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Re: Is my friend fucked? Or will he be okay? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#23669449 - 09/22/16 09:06 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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OP, "your friend" is not only fucked, he is super motherfucking fuckity fuck fucked. There's no chance in hell of him winning in court IMO, he should take whatever plea deal they cut him, enter a drug treatment facility (to get off benzos plus as a show of good faith) and do his time.
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Re: Is my friend fucked? Or will he be okay? [Re: koods]
#23669478 - 09/22/16 09:14 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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koods said: It may be difficult for them to determine who and how old the girl is if she's in another jurisdiction.
lol
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Re: Is my friend fucked? Or will he be okay? [Re: Sheekle]
#23671957 - 09/23/16 07:06 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sheekle said: Your23 year old friend is a creep for texting 15 y/o girls
Ya That part i lost all sympathy i may have had for dude... Sounds like a world class dumbass
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Re: Is my friend fucked? Or will he be okay? [Re: Mental Taco]
#23671968 - 09/23/16 07:09 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Mental Taco said: That part i lost all sympathy i may have had for dude...
Fuckin A. I mean I can respect a couple of years apart round her age, females seem to generally mature faster than males in adolescence, but 15/23? That shit is straight up fucking predatory man. Not OK.
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