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Where to people meet women after college?
#23664263 - 09/21/16 07:16 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Honest question?
I mean there's bars. But i drink like once a week these days And then there's work. But I work in software it's mostly a bunch of dudes
I guess I just need to force myself to go to bars more
In college it's almost hard not to meet new women
EDIT: For those of you who are adults not in college, where you meet your current gal/wife? Where did you meet you previous gals/wives?
Edited by topdog82 (09/21/16 08:34 AM)
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#23664319 - 09/21/16 07:54 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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High school court yards
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: plasma] 1
#23664345 - 09/21/16 08:13 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Aren't you the same guy who bragged for a long time about perfecting "the game"?
Come on you womanizer, you.
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: plasma]
#23664348 - 09/21/16 08:13 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Coffee houses?
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#23664358 - 09/21/16 08:20 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: spirit_shadow]
#23664373 - 09/21/16 08:28 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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John Nada said: Linkedin
career advice and chill
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spirit_shadow said: Coffee houses?
this is actually pretty helpful. I definitely spend a significant chunk of my time in coffee houses on the weekends
I am about to graduate in a year. And from what I know/understand the answer is just bars, work, and "you just learn to get laid less". If thats the reality I have to deal with then I guess thats what it is
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: topdog82] 1
#23664381 - 09/21/16 08:34 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Isn't everyone online now? Get swiping.
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: topdog82] 1
#23664399 - 09/21/16 08:41 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Ya need ta expand yer horizons, amigo. Think about it, amiga, there's so much to do in this world! You never know when you'll meet someone. But here's the thing: the more you grasp for something, the farther away it gets.
I'm not saying having the desire to meet someone is a bad thing, but if you're approaching the subject of your desire anxiously, you will be tense and unprepared for opportunities which arise naturally. Also, what kind of relationship do you want?
If you just want to get laid, get swiping.
If you want a relationship, like a really dope, let's love each other and travel to distant planets right before the Earth blows up kind of relationship, then I suggest completely letting go of your attachments and simply living to your fullest potential, at which point you will undoubtably come into contact with others who will help you on your way!
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#23664541 - 09/21/16 09:56 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'll tell you where not to meet them On the shroomery
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: ModestMouse]
#23664577 - 09/21/16 10:09 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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College campuses. just dont tell anyone you've graduated, or tell them youre getting a phd in something.
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: mt cleverest]
#23664585 - 09/21/16 10:13 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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YOu meet women the same way our parent's did. At the discotheque
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: ModestMouse] 1
#23664766 - 09/21/16 11:31 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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I usually just meet them while I'm skiing, scuba diving, rock climbing... etc.. Start doing cool shit and you'll meet cool people worth a meaningful relationship. Swing dancing (not that I can dance for shit) is also a great way to meet women.
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: falsereality]
#23664784 - 09/21/16 11:37 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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I took a swing dancing class and I was a hot commodity as a straight male, there were so many more women they just flocked to me. I can't even dance very well, but that kind of close physical interaction breaks down walls and you can be talking beyond minor small talk and building something in no time. Go to dance classes where there is couples dancing and you really can't not meet some ladies.
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mapleleafmarijuana said: I took a swing dancing class and I was a hot commodity as a straight male, there were so many more women they just flocked to me. I can't even dance very well, but that kind of close physical interaction breaks down walls and you can be talking beyond minor small talk and building something in no time. Go to dance classes where there is couples dancing and you really can't not meet some ladies.
Yup. Exactly my experience too. My cousin actually got me into it. I met this chick at a swing dancing class and she invited me out to a ranch her family owns, she ended up shooting an AK-47 off the backseat of an ATV while I was driving like 40mph past the target backdrop. No bullshit.
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: falsereality]
#23664836 - 09/21/16 11:54 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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falsereality said:
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mapleleafmarijuana said: I took a swing dancing class and I was a hot commodity as a straight male, there were so many more women they just flocked to me. I can't even dance very well, but that kind of close physical interaction breaks down walls and you can be talking beyond minor small talk and building something in no time. Go to dance classes where there is couples dancing and you really can't not meet some ladies.
Yup. Exactly my experience too. My cousin actually got me into it. I met this chick at a swing dancing class and she invited me out to a ranch her family owns, she ended up shooting an AK-47 off the backseat of an ATV while I was driving like 40mph past the target backdrop. No bullshit.
Im taking dancing classes immediately, that sounds fun!
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: falsereality]
#23664840 - 09/21/16 11:56 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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The internet pretty much the only way besides bars.
You could try to get involved in a group. Like mushroom hunting or another thing that you find interesting.
The older you get the harder it is and when you don't drink anymore and move a lot prepare to be lonely as fuck.
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: falsereality]
#23664851 - 09/21/16 12:01 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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mapleleafmarijuana said: I took a swing dancing class and I was a hot commodity as a straight male, there were so many more women they just flocked to me. I can't even dance very well, but that kind of close physical interaction breaks down walls and you can be talking beyond minor small talk and building something in no time. Go to dance classes where there is couples dancing and you really can't not meet some ladies.
Yup. Exactly my experience too. My cousin actually got me into it. I met this chick at a swing dancing class and she invited me out to a ranch her family owns, she ended up shooting an AK-47 off the backseat of an ATV while I was driving like 40mph past the target backdrop. No bullshit.
Im imagining that in HD and it looks badass as fuck.
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: spirit_shadow]
#23664877 - 09/21/16 12:11 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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spirit_shadow said: Im imagining that in HD and it looks badass as fuck.
My cousin *might* have an HD video of it, I know he definitely has pictures. I'll try to find them.
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: falsereality]
#23664896 - 09/21/16 12:17 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: spirit_shadow]
#23664957 - 09/21/16 12:42 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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I look like such a faggot in this picture but whatever. Point is, you can meet some really cool chicks swing dancing.
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#23664962 - 09/21/16 12:44 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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falsereality said: I look like such a faggot in this picture but whatever. Point is, you can meet some really cool chicks swing dancing.

All I see is sweet guns, couple atvs, and open land. I am jealous.
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: Chakra Shock]
#23664984 - 09/21/16 12:52 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Chakra Shock said: If you just want to get laid, get swiping.
If you want a relationship, like a really dope, let's love each other and travel to distant planets right before the Earth blows up kind of relationship, then I suggest completely letting go of your attachments and simply living to your fullest potential, at which point you will undoubtably come into contact with others who will help you on your way! 
This.
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#23665765 - 09/21/16 05:21 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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OP if you really live in Cali then you need to hit the wine bars. 6-7PM swing by for a glass of wine and see what you find. Fridays are good. Asking what they are drinking is an easy in too.
They also have those art classes where everyone paints the same thing that the instructor is teaching and drink wine. Good too.
Rose' all day.
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#23667614 - 09/22/16 10:23 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Jokeshopbeard said:
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Chakra Shock said: If you just want to get laid, get swiping.
If you want a relationship, like a really dope, let's love each other and travel to distant planets right before the Earth blows up kind of relationship, then I suggest completely letting go of your attachments and simply living to your fullest potential, at which point you will undoubtably come into contact with others who will help you on your way! 
This.
I guess it's not really about getting laid. It's more about the feminine energy. Joking and bantering around with women is fun. Sex is also another part of it
But as a software developer most of the ppl in this company are hairy nerdy white and Asian males
Regardless you Bring up some good points. Ironically focusing on that will just push me farther from my goals. But I guess the takeaway is that I need get out and focus on myself more. I'll hit the gym, go to more yoga studios, and just try and spend more time "out there" lol
Any ideas on how to get out more besides drinking and swiping?
Also, my rents didn't meet at the discoteque. They were arranged to marry in some tiny Asian village by some matchmaker before even talking to each other
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: topdog82]
#23667637 - 09/22/16 10:35 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Just be yourself and listen to the universe man. The more you look the harder it is to get. Follow your intuition. Listen.
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: topdog82]
#23667716 - 09/22/16 11:11 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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The more friends you make the more acquaintances you meet. It's a lot easier now with facebook, just go out drinking and talk to people.
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#23667845 - 09/22/16 11:50 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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topdog82 said: I mean there's bars. But i drink like once a week these days And then there's work. But I work in software it's mostly a bunch of dudes
I am genuinely curious about where to meet guys outside of college too.
I wouldn't trust anybody I meet at bars, especially if they're regulars. Seems like you always meet the really seedy type at a bar. Maybe me and everybody else I know has just had a string of bad luck finding them at the bar.
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: Larry Juned] 1
#23667933 - 09/22/16 12:30 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Dude chicks suck bro, they cost a shit load of money and time.
No homo but just go to the gym, get swole, find a gym buddy, and fuck in the showers. It's only gay if you tongue kiss or make eye contact. Plus gay dudes are way cooler, and they get the most girls it's like a damn science.
You ever been to a club with some gay dudes? Ya you may catch some dude grinding on your leg, but the hotties they attract are totally worth it. Plus they come at you thinking you gay so it's a way easier approach cuz their skepticism shield is way down.
Trust me dude going to a wine bar and drinking rose "to meet women" is a hell of a lot gayer and a harder sell then getting a coked out handy-j in da club from the homie  Plus the homie is garaunteed to know more hotties than the middle aged women at a damn wine bar. Think about it......
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: elax420]
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: topdog82]
#23668202 - 09/22/16 02:02 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Most adult romance forms at work. Also most woman marry a guy younger than them, but not by much.
There are a lot studies on this sort of thing.
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: Starstepper] 1
#23668623 - 09/22/16 04:14 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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if you live in a legal weed state, hit up the budtenders
seriously though if you just treat a girl nice, and not like she's a bag of meat that you wanna piece of (or an object of desire) you'll do fine anywhere you look. Respect is key! The more you talk to women the better you get at it.
Smile at a cutie and if she smiles back try and make small talk, but don't go into with expectations of fucking, and who knows you may get your dick wet if you are lucky.
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: topdog82]
#23668640 - 09/22/16 04:20 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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If you have a dog, hit up the dog park. I see a lot of sexy and probably intelligent women there every day I go.
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: Crystal G]
#23669411 - 09/22/16 08:51 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Alexthegreat said: If you have a dog, hit up the dog park. I see a lot of sexy and probably intelligent women there every day I go.
I need this
@others; I don't smoke weed anymore. I used to daily for years but its stopped being fun so I sort of said "fuck it"
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topdog82 said: I mean there's bars. But i drink like once a week these days And then there's work. But I work in software it's mostly a bunch of dudes
I am genuinely curious about where to meet guys outside of college too.
I wouldn't trust anybody I meet at bars, especially if they're regulars. Seems like you always meet the really seedy type at a bar. Maybe me and everybody else I know has just had a string of bad luck finding them at the bar.
The answers in this thread look like; go to bars a reasonable amount. Get a dog. Try and meet through work (doesn't work for me). try and meet women through friends. Go to the gym/yoga studio/park. I may go running. Just putting yourself out there and not forcing seems to be the best
Theres always being gay. Thats an option. but I am probably just not gonna do that. Sounds fun but its just not me
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: topdog82]
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Dude if you approach women with the sole goal of hooking up/dating, you're either gonna attract some girls you probably won't want attention from in the long run, or struggle severely. Think about when you meet someone who is trying way too hard to impress you, it's a major turnoff. also if you have girl friends (like platonic) they may be into you and you don't even know it. That's how I got my girlfriend, she changed in front of me and it finally clicked she was trying to get me to bang her sometimes we (men) can be pretty fucking dense.
I'm honestly not gay, I just thought that would be funny to post. Being straight up I've only met one dude I would hook up with, probably not full bore sex though as dudes asses kinda gross me out. Ild probably get a handy and maybe some head though
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: elax420]
#23669612 - 09/22/16 10:05 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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no joke, like half of marriages these days start from dating websites
i just now arranged a date from one
theres a lot catfish and shadiness but if you wade through it there are some normal women just doing the same thing you're doing, looking for a normal man to make a connection with
if you're just looking to fuck then get on tinder
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: elax420]
#23669716 - 09/22/16 10:41 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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morrowasted said: no joke, like half of marriages these days start from dating websites
i just now arranged a date from one
theres a lot catfish and shadiness but if you wade through it there are some normal women just doing the same thing you're doing, looking for a normal man to make a connection with
if you're just looking to fuck then get on tinder
I feel most of the girls on there are there for attention or just sluts tryna fuck. My 2 cents
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I'm honestly not gay, I just thought that would be funny to post. Being straight up I've only met one dude I would hook up with, probably not full bore sex though as dudes asses kinda gross me out. Ild probably get a handy and maybe some head though 
hahah Thats one way of getting her point across. Pretty hot way to get the message tho
Anyways, you are right. Imma just watch for signs from girls in my friend group
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: topdog82]
#23669818 - 09/22/16 11:38 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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if you fail at finding places to meet women, maybe you should just hang out with dudes.
btw: women are everywhere.
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: topdog82]
#23670165 - 09/23/16 06:31 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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topdog82 said: Honest question?
I mean there's bars. But i drink like once a week these days And then there's work. But I work in software it's mostly a bunch of dudes
I guess I just need to force myself to go to bars more
In college it's almost hard not to meet new women
EDIT: For those of you who are adults not in college, where you meet your current gal/wife? Where did you meet you previous gals/wives?
With all the GHB you have, I don't even know why you're asking.
Plasma already told you.
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: vandago]
#23671907 - 09/23/16 06:44 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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@vandango: I quit. Shit got out of hand last year
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Re: Where to people meet women after college? [Re: topdog82]
#23672141 - 09/23/16 08:18 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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the cemetary but most of those woman didn't go to college...
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