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Anonymous #1

Date a chick with a 1 year old baby?
    #23663667 - 09/20/16 11:27 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

So theres this beautiful girl who i work with and i cant help but want to try going out with her. Im really attracted to her.

Downside is that she has a 1 year old baby, ive never dealt with a kid before and since the kids only 1 it makes me wonder if id be getting deep into drama between her ex and such.


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Anonymous #2

Re: Date a chick with a 1 year old baby? [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #23663883 - 09/21/16 12:44 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Fuck that pussy but dont get into a relationship. She just wants someone to help pay for her baby, dont be the next sucker.

Think about it bro do you really wanna take care of some other dudes kid while shes just using u as child support?

Not worth it.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Date a chick with a 1 year old baby? [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #23664021 - 09/21/16 02:47 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Once the kid is potty trained it wouldn't be that bad.  Kids are hilarious, and if she's independent and hot, AND getting child support, where's the downfall? 

I mean I am not stable enough to take care of a child, but not all single moms want a dude taking care of their kid, some just want the dick, and some want the kid to have the bio dad be dad.  This is very situational.


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Anonymous #2

Re: Date a chick with a 1 year old baby? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #23664718 - 09/21/16 11:09 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Your right its very situational but imo in the end the woman always wants whats best for her kid. Thats always the priority; It's all instinct, she knows her baby will eat better and live better with you(the op) bringing in more money.
In the end you will just end up being child support, regardless of if shes getting money from the bio.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Date a chick with a 1 year old baby? [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #23666710 - 09/21/16 10:53 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

You have a point.  That's why I stay away from women with kids. I barely make enough money to support myself and my pets, I can't imagine have a crazy chick on my ass about how I need a better job.  Not like that hasn't ever happened, but they didn't have kids, just wanted to go on more vacations and eat fancier.  I dunno though, I feel like some moms are amazing mothers and their kids could end up being well behaved and downright hilarious.  Most kids are rotten little shits, but I blame their shitty gold digging mother/


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Anonymous #2

Re: Date a chick with a 1 year old baby? [Re: Anonymous #3] * 1
    #23666958 - 09/22/16 01:01 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

#3 in the end your right. And to the OP I think he has your best answer.

This is far too situational of a situation for anyone to give you real feedback.

Follow your gut and your heart not your dick and GL.


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Anonymous #4

Re: Date a chick with a 1 year old baby? [Re: Anonymous #2] * 1
    #23668315 - 09/22/16 02:37 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

No way would I date a chick with a kid. I don't want 50% or less attention in a relationship.


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Anonymous #5

Re: Date a chick with a 1 year old baby? [Re: Anonymous #4] * 1
    #23668716 - 09/22/16 04:58 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Keep it casual and you're fine man, but she wont want casual, she'll want you to commit to the long term, which is helping raise, feed, and shelter her kid.  Not your kid, her kid.  But I have met many a guy who is happy to throw away their money and time on other peoples problems, so maybe thats your thing.  And if it is, more power to you friend.

Be careful with confusing mild infatuation and/or lust with anything that has meaning, a full sack really messes with a male mind.  Im not young anymore, and I still have to force myself to recognize these things for myself even now.

I dont like kids, or ever really want to be around one again for any reason, so take that in mind with my opinion, but I still love having sex with moms, I find them very sexy(probably some primal thing)

I hope you find what you want, pleasant vibes.


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Anonymous #6

Re: Date a chick with a 1 year old baby? [Re: Anonymous #5]
    #23672212 - 09/23/16 08:43 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Be careful OP.  If you get close to her and the kid, and then the relationship ends, it can cause a lot of pain for both the kid and you.

Since the kid is a baby it can be harder to gauge how responsible she is with it.  If the kid was like 4 or 5 and she introduced you to the kid quick/early in the relationship I'd run.  Meeting the kid is something that should be done when you guys are very serious about each other.


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Anonymous #7

Re: Date a chick with a 1 year old baby? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #23672319 - 09/23/16 09:25 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

I probably would, just depends on how much I liked the girl.

Of course there are other variables here, but I would have to know what type of girl she was before committing to anything serious.  I think being honest with this fact from the beginning of the relationship, would be helpful.


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Anonymous #8

Re: Date a chick with a 1 year old baby? [Re: Anonymous #6]
    #23677055 - 09/25/16 03:16 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #6 said:
Be careful OP.  If you get close to her and the kid, and then the relationship ends, it can cause a lot of pain for both the kid and you.

Since the kid is a baby it can be harder to gauge how responsible she is with it.  If the kid was like 4 or 5 and she introduced you to the kid quick/early in the relationship I'd run.  Meeting the kid is something that should be done when you guys are very serious about each other.




This is a big thing.  I dated a girl who had a 1 year and we are still together 7 years later and now have a 2 year old of our own.  It can work but it could also be a mess it's just different from person to person.

But the main thing is if you get in a semi serious or serious relationship and spend any decent amount of time with the kid he is going to get attached to you then if something happens say a year or so down the road it could really devastate the kid.

My gfs kid whose 8 now only has ever known me as dad his biological father hasn't seen him since he was 4 months old. About 3 years ago we went through a rough patch and nearly split up.  He was 4 at the time and I pretty much decided long before that that I would raise him even if things didn't work with the gf.  That rough patch was really hard and confusing for him he would visit me every other day or so, so we still spent time together, but if I would have left forever it would have devastated him.

The kids feelings should be your number 1 concern when deciding to get involved with or start a serious relationship with.  It may be possible she only wants a fling and that could possibly work out ok but you just never know.

Just keep in mind that babies feelings and how he could be affected im the moment or even later in life.  One more thing then I ll shut up.  If you do spend time with her kids he could get way more attached to you then you realize.  Sometimes it doesn't seem like their  much interested in you but in fact really really are.  Good luck.  Tread cautiously.


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Anonymous #9

Re: Date a chick with a 1 year old baby? [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #23689387 - 09/29/16 06:27 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

Just use her for her the pussy, no big deal, looks like someone else already did.


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Anonymous #5

Re: Date a chick with a 1 year old baby? [Re: Anonymous #9]
    #23689551 - 09/29/16 07:38 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

A good man wouldnt do that.  Women shouldn't be viewed as objects that way.

It is easier to try to use a woman alone with a child, she can be vulnerable, feeling lost and desperate while she struggles to right her life and create the best for her offspring.  Thats why the first date or two with them feels more like a job interview, than the excitement we feel when kids aren't involved.

We seem so unable to view each other as the individuals we are.  Shes someone's mother, someone's daughter, someones best friend.  When I wonder how it would have been for my mom to walk in her shoes, it hurts my heart to imagine that wonderful loving woman possibly being lied to and taken advantage of by someone who just wants to get laid.

Thats not some lame emo way of looking at the world.

I know that whatever I do in this life, if I can tell my mother what I did and feel no shame in my heart, than what I did was not wrong. 

I'd be so ashamed to tell her I ever took advantage of a woman like that, used a woman like that.  I think she'd be ashamed of herself for what I did.



Youve been given alot of good info in this thread OP, but what you need to do is ask your heart, listen closely, and dont listen hurriedly. It is an important answer, and important answers are never short.


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