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Spellbound
PegasusTheFlyingHorse



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Re: Your friend tells you he will arive slightly after 3. [Re: Seriously_trippin]
#23656700 - 09/18/16 07:11 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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I have a mate who is persistently an hour or more late. Always.
Drives me mad as if i say ill be here at three, im there ten minutes before, we say we will chill have smoke come to my place at 9, 10pm i can still be waiting and really pisses me off sat waiting about on a night off work. Hate it
He is now affectionately known as 'late mate'
-------------------- Mescaline Tea - the one singular occasion of my entire life I cooked for 9 hours The trick is to be yourself, in a world trying to make you like everyone else
 
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ScuDDii
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Re: Your friend tells you he will arive slightly after 3. [Re: Spellbound]
#23656849 - 09/18/16 08:00 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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I know which of my friends are the "laggers" so i plan for them to be late anyways lol
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ScuDDii
Trippin

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Re: Your friend tells you he will arive slightly after 3. [Re: musiclover420]
#23656863 - 09/18/16 08:03 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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oh man if i had a dollar for so called friends exactly like that especially when i just got my new place id be a rich, rich man.
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PartoftheSource
NAUT GUILTY



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Re: Your friend tells you he will arive slightly after 3. [Re: ScuDDii]
#23656996 - 09/18/16 08:54 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Friend-A leaves in a delorian traveling 88 miles an hour towards point-X which is a distance of 60 miles away, while friend-B is currently en route via a greyhound. If friend-B is 27 hours deep in a 28 hour bus ride to point-X, which friend will be the flaky one to arrive late?
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Mental Taco



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Re: Your friend tells you he will arive slightly after 3. [Re: maui]
#23657014 - 09/18/16 09:00 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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An hour late is nothen Op Ive had asshole friends say they are gonna be over in an hour at 8pm So i proceed to start a fire and trip Theydont show up till 12 or 1 i was pissed, happened several occasions Here they got stuck at there pot dealers house so they said
sorry had to reminensce.
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pirate-blues


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Re: Your friend tells you he will arive slightly after 3. [Re: Mental Taco]
#23657201 - 09/18/16 10:19 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yeah..I've literally disappeared off the earth for like a day or two because I got "distracted" on the way to a friends house, and vice versa.
That was acceptable when I was <20 years of age, but I won't put my friend's through that shit and I won't be put through it now, I at least have the decency to text and reschedule or delay(ideally well before we're supposed to meet).
It might seem spontaneous and fun and devil may care, and it certainly did to me at one time, but as soon as I grew up I realized that I was just being an asshole to the people who were wasting their time waiting around for me.
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BANANA.MAN
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Re: Your friend tells you he will arive slightly after 3. [Re: pirate-blues] 1
#23657955 - 09/19/16 06:55 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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It wasnt acceptable when you were under 20. It never was, its always been extermely rude and selfish, you got their hopes and then kept them waiting on you.
I have never in my life told someone i would chill if i wasnt going to and i would never cancel plans without letting the person know no matter how young i was.
Its awesome that you made the change though. Not everybody takes the opportunity to improve themselves like that. Thats a good quality
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pirate-blues


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Re: Your friend tells you he will arive slightly after 3. [Re: BANANA.MAN]
#23668414 - 09/22/16 03:05 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yeah, I realize that now. And I never made plans with people knowing that they would fall through anyways, I was spontaneously rude not deliberately rude - but it's all the same to the person getting flaked on so it doesn't matter anyways.
I think it was more a low self worth thing, part of me just didn't think it was that big a deal and didn't think that they really gave that much of a shit about me so it didn't matter anyways. Suffice to say, I have learned the error of my ways.
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Morel Guy
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Re: Your friend tells you he will arive slightly after 3. [Re: pirate-blues]
#23668461 - 09/22/16 03:20 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Waiting for weed was the worse. When money is on the line and there aren't a lot of options. Plus the risk of being criminal.
-------------------- "in sterquiliniis invenitur in stercore invenitur" In filth it will be found in dung it will be found
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Sanguin3
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Re: Your friend tells you he will arive slightly after 3. *DELETED* [Re: maui]
#23668582 - 09/22/16 03:59 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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BANANA.MAN
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Re: Your friend tells you he will arive slightly after 3. [Re: Sanguin3]
#23668723 - 09/22/16 05:00 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yeah exactly
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