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Anonymous #1

Losing faith in women of my age * 1
    #23655478 - 09/18/16 12:08 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

I've always had lots of love to give and loved female companionship.

I didn't start dating until 16 (19 now) and in the three relationships I've had during that time, I've been cheated on, emotionally manipulated, and have always left feeling heavy disappointment in myself and the other person. This has also left me with some trust issues.

In the last month since I broke up with my ex, I've seen many women my age, at least those who I have significant interactions with, consistently display incredible selfishness and disloyalty.

These experiences have disheartened me a lot and left me really depressed.


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Re: Losing faith in women of my age [Re: Anonymous #1] * 4
    #23655899 - 09/18/16 02:32 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

That's a real bummer man, I'm sorry you have been through so much over the past few years.  You will notice a significant difference in maturity as you age..  But, selfish people aren't going extinct any time soon, and you will continue to encounter them forever..  I think what you get better at with age is the ability to identify people that you are compatible with, be it romantically or otherwise.  As for right now, if the people that you surround yourself with are not living up to your expectations, maybe its time to venture out and meet some new and different people.  I assure you, even at the age of 19, there are women who are worth your trust.  I know its hard to trust anyone after you have given it to the wrong person, however, its MORE heart-breaking to withhold your trust from the right person; be very careful not to become jaded.


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Anonymous #1

Re: Losing faith in women of my age [Re: Mojo]
    #23655916 - 09/18/16 02:39 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Thanks brother, I appreciate those words.

Determining the individuals you will not be compatible with is something I feel I have gotten better at with age and I'm sure that it will continue to improve, just as I'm sure myself and others will mature significantly in the years to come.

Perhaps it's generational too, I personally feel as if my generation is generally less concerned with issues of loyalty than those that came before.


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Re: Losing faith in women of my age [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #23657721 - 09/19/16 04:33 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Young girls are immature and not very loyal/trustworthy.

Maturity comes with age :shrug:

Im sure there is SOME teen girls who are faithful and good partners, but those are rare.


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Re: Losing faith in women of my age [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #23687531 - 09/28/16 04:54 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

DO YOU KNOW WHAT ITS LIKE DO YOU DO YA !!!!! DO YA!!!! FUCKIN SITTING HERE FLIPPIN THRU FUCKING SKANKY TRY HARD FUCKING BITCHES ON TINDER FUCKIN DO YA!!! FUCKIN!!! AHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! FUCKING NEED TO GET LAID SOON OR IM GONNA IM GONNA AHHHHH!!!!! U KNOW WHAT IS LIKE TO FUCKIN NOT FUCK IN FUCKIN 5 PLUS YEARS. HUH HUH DO YA. SOMEONE JUST PUT ME OUT OF MY MISERY NOW. FUCK MAN. DUDE THIS CANT BE HAPPENING WHAT DID I DO IN MY LIFE TO DESERVE THIS BEING A GOOD PERSON DOES NOTHING IN THIS DAY N AGE YOU GOTTA BE A REAL FUCKHEAD YA KNOW WHAT I MEAN MAN HAHA YA I THINK MAYBE WELL IF YOU DONT SORRY. OOPS SORRY THIS IS UNCALLED FOR... YA REALLY. IT IS MAN. JUST STOP NOW. OKAY IM SORRY. PEACE MAN. OP GOOD LUCK


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Re: Losing faith in women of my age [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #23687746 - 09/28/16 06:00 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

OP you heart seeks loyalty. Be true to yourself and you will invite more loyalty and honesty into your life. You'll find people(women) who will be honest with you in relationships and things will workout. Just stick to the plan. Age is a factor but I've met plenty of women 16-20 who are honest with their partners.


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Re: Losing faith in women of my age [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #23704137 - 10/03/16 04:00 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Perhaps it's generational too, I personally feel as if my generation is generally less concerned with issues of loyalty than those that came before.



Yeah, I don't think its young people, I think its our generation. Its kinda sad but I think basically what happens is the women of our generation just do w/e the fuck they want for like 10-15 years, screwing people over and being a generally awful person, until eventually they realize they're a dried up husk of a human being and just want somebody to fill them with something other than semen.

Which frankly, if I had the social freedom to sleep around like the women of today do, and I had the power to sleep with almost any person I chose (as 50%+ of women do), I would probably also be a pretty awful person.

That being said, humanity as a whole is fucking disguisting so maybe its easier to just contribute it to that


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Re: Losing faith in women of my age [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #23704355 - 10/03/16 05:05 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

Bitches ain't nothing but hoes and tricks.

All you've got to do is focus on loving yourself because unless you love yourself you won't be able to truly love another.


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Re: Losing faith in women of my age [Re: sudly]
    #23704541 - 10/03/16 06:09 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

Enjoy your youth. Sow your oats. They will whether you do or not.


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Re: Losing faith in women of my age [Re: Vahunter] * 1
    #23704551 - 10/03/16 06:12 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

There are people out there for all of us.


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Re: Losing faith in women of my age [Re: sudly]
    #23705464 - 10/03/16 11:32 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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sudly said:
There are people out there for all of us.



Fuckin' A. Amongst the ~3.7 billion of them out there, I think the odds are pretty well stacked in ones favour of there being a partner out there that's just right.

Finding them is a different matter entirely. I have my thoughts about that, but I'll leave 'em out for the time being.


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Re: Losing faith in women of my age [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #23709052 - 10/05/16 06:54 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

To be honest, I actually agree with you OP. There aren't many girls in their late teens, or even early twenties who aren't confused about who and what they are; who are reflective, thoughtful and sincere. It's a shame.

I also happen to think that there aren't many guys out there of the same age group who have the above qualities, so this isn't directed solely at females. I'm in my mid twenties and feel like I've only been thinking clearly, or near clearly, for the past year or so. I'm sure I'm not alone in that category either.

Do you have an aversion to dating slightly older girls? Like 24+... Remember, 19 and 20 year olds have only been adults for maybe a year.. or two..? You're born, you're a tiny drunk retard, you go to school, you have no idea what you're doing, you get a sudden rush of hormones and grow a bit, you find yourself with a horny 13 year old brain, with a hairy taller body, you finish highschool, and then you have A WHOLE TWO YEARS with functioning adult physiology and faculties to figure out the entire world... What are you expecting? You've got to give people a little time to be confused and unsure of themselves, and fake.

None of this isn't to say you definitely won't find a great girl your age, it's just that the younger a person is, the lower the probability will be that they have a mature mind. Best of luck kiddo.


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Re: Losing faith in women of my age [Re: secondorder]
    #23709284 - 10/05/16 09:01 AM (7 years, 3 months ago)

The dating pool has always been and will always be shit.  People have an agenda.


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Re: Losing faith in women of my age [Re: Vahunter]
    #23710349 - 10/05/16 03:47 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

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Vahunter said:
Enjoy your youth. Sow your oats. They will whether you do or not.



I read "show your cats". I like that idea more. OP you should adopt a bunch of cats and post them all over the internet. Anon 2 thats what you should do too. Buy your pussy :cookiemonster:


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Re: Losing faith in women of my age [Re: CookieCrumbs]
    #23729348 - 10/11/16 08:05 PM (7 years, 3 months ago)

I disagree with sudly. You will find her. She is real and she will make herself known when appropriate. As a 33 year old I never played games. The only relationships I had that lasted was when I didn't put out for months. Just saying....


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