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    #23649568 - 09/16/16 05:04 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Yesterday during the heatwave here in Holland I saw an Arab man walk the street barefoot. I saw a few Dutchmen walk and bicycle around without a shirt. There's this fashion among youths that their pants sag down. Women are fighting for their right to breastfeed their baby when and where the want.

I applaud all this. I welcome it. We as a society are losing our irrational inhibitions. The prudishness and excessive shyness. This is a liberation from the yoke of bodyshaming that we as a society carried.

It should be OK to skinnydip in the river and grocery shop in your bathing suit in a heatwave. A fat person should be able to walk around shirtless without people "feeling disgusted"or "shaming him" from his natural body. Handicapped people should be able to not wear their prosthetics in public and not be offended if a child gawks and points in fascination. Old ladies should find pride in and acceptave for their many wrinkles. Maybe in time it should be OK to be seen naked if weather and circumstance call for it without people thinking sexual thoughts or getting upset.

One spearhead of this is women breastfeeding their babies in public. Why not? Its the healthiest thing that can be for that baby to get the right food and get it in time and that mom can give it to them without a sense of danger or hiding away. Yes, babies pick that up, they monitor their surroundings like Terminators looking for approval, disapproval, hierarchy, danger and things to learn.

Why not? Why should people be made to feel ashamed for their bodies, because they dont resemble the photoshopped models in the media. Be real and be proud. Be unashamed.

Take it from me. I'm the fattest guy in the swimming pool. I use this to my advantage by making splash dives so epic its like a dolphin smacking down in the water again. I'm confident, I play in the water without worry whether people think I should be ashamed of my body or wonder about my IQ. I learned to be confident of my body and I lost all my social phobia and the body dysmorphic dysphoria that kept me in hiding most my life. People CHEER my confidence, it makes them feel better about their own insecurities to see a greatly obese guy be so confident, cheerful and funloving.

Its really like that, and its like that for YOU TOO. People react more strongly to the way you carry yourself than your bodily imperfections.

Ladies, breastfeed your babies! People, conquer a pride and confidence in your body and a peace with the bodies of others.

ENJOY LIFE!
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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Asante] * 3
    #23649588 - 09/16/16 05:38 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

To each their own. :shrug:
I wear house slippers when I grocery shop, does that count?

I should probably get a pair of these.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Asante] * 1
    #23649604 - 09/16/16 06:02 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

The large city I live near has an officially recognized public clothing optional beach, which I think is pretty good progress. It's one of only two such beaches in the whole country though. That's been official since the early 2000s, and female topless equality in this province was won in a court case a few years before that IIRC. Breastfeeding rights go back further I think but I'm not sure of the details.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: psi] * 2
    #23649607 - 09/16/16 06:05 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

We have to unlearn people to get offended or repulsed by things that are not really their business.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Asante] * 1
    #23649632 - 09/16/16 06:27 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Yeah "live and let live" goes a long way. "Your business is my business" was a big part of how some terrible evils by totalitarian states were accepted, at the risk of Godwin'ing up this thread at this early stage.



It's weird though, some ideological nudists will just kind of do the same thing in the other direction and judge people negatively for wearing clothes. There was a news story this summer at the beach I mentioned where nudists were putting up their own signs implying nudity was mandatory, and challenging people as they arrived to remove their clothes. If the project has become so successful that there's overcrowding, (regardless of what people are wearing), why not do something productive and campaign for the city to give its blessing to "unofficial" beaches elsewhere?

https://www.thestar.com/news/gta/2016/07/20/hanlans-point-nudists-want-beach-goers-to-bare-all.html


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Asante] * 4
    #23649641 - 09/16/16 06:36 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Yes, let's just devolve as a civilized society. Hopefully pretty soon I can just shit on the street corner like a feral animal.

Jesus Christ dude, we wear clothes in public for health reasons you know?

Last thing I want to see is some chick pull her saggy tits out and let her child start sucking on them while I'm eating in a restaurant, damn.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: MightyWhite] * 3
    #23649649 - 09/16/16 06:45 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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Last thing I want to see is some chick pull her saggy tits out and let her child start sucking on them while I'm eating in a restaurant, damn.




So do you think that should outweigh the child's need to eat? You presumably have the ability to look in another direction.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: psi] * 2
    #23649660 - 09/16/16 06:51 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

The mother presumably has the option to feed her kid somewhere else, presumably in a private setting.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: MightyWhite] * 1
    #23649669 - 09/16/16 06:55 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Either way, it isn't your business.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: psi] * 3
    #23649678 - 09/16/16 07:01 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

In regards to body shaming, I'm not entirely against it and never will be.







Almost no one wants to see shit like this. Trying to force people to accept your body when you're wearing shit like that, in that body, is never going to work. You're at the exact opposite end of the spectrum from model or stripper, so stop trying to dress like one. Sometimes your body isn't your choice and almost everyone has stuff they would like to change but can't.. What you wear however, is always your choice. "I'm just wearing the clothes I have". Find some new ones.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: psi]
    #23649684 - 09/16/16 07:05 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Right, it may not be my business. But common decency and respect towards other people is the core of civilized society, we aren't a pack of wild bonobos.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Shroomslip]
    #23649686 - 09/16/16 07:05 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Lol what's with the video asante


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Shroomslip]
    #23649693 - 09/16/16 07:06 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Shroomslip] * 1
    #23649695 - 09/16/16 07:07 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

I don't want to see cars. I don't want to inhale their exhaust fumes nor run the risk of beig ran over by them.

So.. does the fact that I dont want to see cars mean you can't ride one?

Accept my fat body or look the other way but dont try to infringe on my right to  have one.

Should I be banned from the pool for being unappetizingly fat? I don't think so.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Asante] * 1
    #23649700 - 09/16/16 07:09 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

I'm not infringing on your rights. You have every right to be fat, just as I have every right to criticize you for being fat and going to the grocery store in a tube top and booty shorts. Don't like it? Wear something else. Or are you just a hypocrite who doesn't understand "rights" is a two way street?


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: MightyWhite] * 11
    #23649701 - 09/16/16 07:09 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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Last thing I want to see is some chick pull her saggy tits out and let her child start sucking on them while I'm eating in a restaurant, damn.




I'm always surprised to read something like this.  I mean, I get it, to an extent: I'm not a fan of the sagging pants that Asante celebrates in the thread title, because I'm not crazy about looking at a bunch of men's asses in certain situations.  But breastfeeding serves a function.  Like, the most healthy, natural thing shared between a mother & infant.  I cannot for the life of me understand why women should be forced to breastfeed in restrooms or some kind of privacy booth because someone can't stop looking at what offends them.  When I see the sagging pants, I just don't look.  It wouldn't ruin my meal or my day. 

And these anti-breastfeeding folks are always like "she whipped out her saggy tits!"  I've never seen that.  Every woman I've ever seen breastfeeding in public does it rather discreetly.  Women commonly wear special shirts & bras that have flaps that open, exposing a small portion of boob & nipple, which is then covered by a baby.  You can hardly see any teat, so stop acting like some woman just ripped off her shirt like Hulk Hogan & is sitting there naked from the waist up.  I'm not even going to address the "saggy breasts" body shaming component of this. 

No offense Mighty White, but I kinda suspect that a lot of you vocal anti-breastfeeding-in-public sorts have unresolved mommy issues.  See a therapist.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: MightyWhite]
    #23649706 - 09/16/16 07:12 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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Right, it may not be my business. But common decency and respect towards other people is the core of civilized society, we aren't a pack of wild bonobos.




Not everyone will agree on how to define those though. For me, a big part of mutual respect is minding my own business where appropriate.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Asante]
    #23649711 - 09/16/16 07:14 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Also for what it's worth, I'm no model myself. I am over weight. Not obese but definitely not slim or chiseled. I dress appropriately so I couldn't give a fuck less about what some random stranger thinks of my body.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Asante] * 1
    #23649713 - 09/16/16 07:15 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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Should I be banned from the pool for being unappetizingly fat? I don't think so.




No, but you should be grateful that you didn't get banned from the pool for swimming with oozing, pustular wounds.  That was kinda messed up.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: psi] * 2
    #23649724 - 09/16/16 07:21 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Is it anybody's business except mine if I drop my pants and start jerking my dick while you're ordering your appetizers at dinner?


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Burke Dennings]
    #23649726 - 09/16/16 07:21 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Haha, no offense taken, Burke.

It's just my opinion that public breastfeeding is fairly classless.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Burke Dennings] * 2
    #23649731 - 09/16/16 07:23 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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I cannot for the life of me understand why women should be forced to breastfeed in restrooms or some kind of privacy booth because someone can't stop looking at what offends them.




Seriously, public bathrooms are so unsanitary and disgusting, feeding a baby in there is all sorts of gross.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Burke Dennings]
    #23649741 - 09/16/16 07:28 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Burke I write vividly, it was nowhere near as horrible as the mental image it evoked to you. It wasn't a bannable offense.

Far more disturbing was a trail of about 100 feet of menstrual blood on the white tiles from a woman who had an accident and didnt realize it.

THAT was gross - me I just had some small unsightly spots that hurt like hell.

I wasn't Bitten by a Rat-Monkey at the Zoo or anything.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: MightyWhite]
    #23649744 - 09/16/16 07:30 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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I cannot for the life of me understand why women should be forced to breastfeed in restrooms or some kind of privacy booth because someone can't stop looking at what offends them.




Seriously, public bathrooms are so unsanitary and disgusting, feeding a baby in there is all sorts of gross.






Word.


Quote:

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It's just my opinion that public breastfeeding is fairly classless.





To me your signature is fairly classless.

I bet you weren't breastfed as a baby and now hold a grudge.


I'm gay! Breasts are cute. What business have you, a straight man, being offended by breasts. Its for the baby, not you :nicekitty:


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Burke Dennings]
    #23649745 - 09/16/16 07:30 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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Asante said:

Should I be banned from the pool for being unappetizingly fat? I don't think so.




No, but you should be grateful that you didn't get banned from the pool for swimming with oozing, pustular wounds.  That was kinda messed up.



Clothes, discrimination, and being grossed out by unhealthy looking people are a natural human defense against disease, and our empathy is supposed to be to. If some asshole hadn't gone to go to the public pool with their warts when I was a little kid, I wouldn't have them now. If people with infections of the skin covered their skin infections there wouldn't be as many dangerous bacteria all over everything. If people with std's stopped having there would be almost no std's. But no, everything has to be about how they feel, they don't want to be ashamed of their bodies and they're willing to ruin other people's body image to feed their own egoes.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Asante]
    #23649757 - 09/16/16 07:36 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Alright, cool.  Based on your description of the doctor's shocked reaction, I had imagined something that might shock even a doctor- something like large weeping flesh wounds.  Real pyogenesis.  Glad to hear that wasn't the case. 

And I :heart: Brain Dead.  Great movie.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: NotTheDevil]
    #23649760 - 09/16/16 07:36 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

STD's get spread most of the time, because people are unaware they have them. It's unlikely that somebody intentionally spreads a disease--it does happen, and people are usually charged with a crime in this case. But a lot of diseases like chlamydia or HPV or herpes, or HIV, or hepatitis, are asymptomatic. You might not show any symptoms for sometimes years.

Because the truth is, somebody can look perfectly healthy and still carry plenty of diseases.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: NotTheDevil]
    #23649763 - 09/16/16 07:38 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

NotTheDevil, its little kids who infect public pools with warts, not adults. Its generally kids being steaming piles of infection because their parents who generally lack in raising them also lack in taking care of tyheir health because they are busy busy busy making enough money so they can afford daycare. Madness.

I got myself inoculated against Hepatitis A + B and upgraded my DTP shot for Tetanus, Diphtheria and Polio because I visit a public pool.

Yes, by all means wear flipflops at a public pool or you get warts AND athletes foot. Not from adults. (wear natural rubber ones, like Havaianas, because natural vulcanized rubber is antiseptic and the common foan flops just tend to harbor microorganism colonies)


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Asante]
    #23649769 - 09/16/16 07:40 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

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To me your signature is fairly classless.




Can we not do this for just one thread, please?  It'd be awesome if this discussion made it more than one page without turning into a debate about racism.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Burke Dennings]
    #23649780 - 09/16/16 07:44 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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Alright, cool.  Based on your description of the doctor's shocked reaction, I had imagined something that might shock even a doctor- something like large weeping flesh wounds.  Real pyogenesis.  Glad to hear that wasn't the case. 

And I :heart: Brain Dead.  Great movie.





Nonono there wasnt any infection going on but he could tell by the degree of wound irritation that it must hurt like hell, which it did. It wasnt infected at all.

I used Dettol to desinfect (note the Braindead reference) and he reminded me politely that that, though very effective, is a kind of refugee camp/frontline last resort thing to do because of the sting and the availability of milder antiseptics. I chose Dettol though cause it kills just about anything but you, its as broad spectrum as veterinary iodine.

As you know from the pepper plugging, I can be OK with pain if I feel that it serves a higher purpose. It was quite irritated but entirely uninfected.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Asante]
    #23649791 - 09/16/16 07:50 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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NotTheDevil, its little kids who infect public pools with warts, not adults. Its generally kids being steaming piles of infection because their parents who generally lack in raising them also lack in taking care of tyheir health because they are busy busy busy making enough money so they can afford daycare. Madness.

I got myself inoculated against Hepatitis A + B and upgraded my DTP shot for Tetanus, Diphtheria and Polio because I visit a public pool.

Yes, by all means wear flipflops at a public pool or you get warts AND athletes foot. Not from adults.



You definitely get it from adults too where I live. Because the adults running these places and teaching kids to swim don't have them do things like wear flipflops. And also, people here just don't give a fuck about infections and barely even seem to know what bacteria and viruses are, let alone how to not spread them. Plus all the adults who, while they do care, simply don't have the energy to try. Our educational system sucks.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: NotTheDevil]
    #23649833 - 09/16/16 08:14 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Seriously, I advise anyone to get the Hepatitis A+B vaccination. Once you got the inoculations and they take you are set for life, so its a onetime nuisance.

Viral hepatitis can be very infectious and its a fact of life that every now and then we involuntarily get in unsanitary situations.



Apart from the hospitalization and obvious health effects, once you got infected with a bad case of Hep your drug career is over, you will forever have to mind your liver with anything you ingest.

Kids nowadays get it in the vaccination program in many countries but for especially our somewhat older members that wasnt the case.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: NotTheDevil]
    #23649845 - 09/16/16 08:20 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

I don't like the sagging pants nonsense, it's a deliberate form of disrespect and I don't need to see anyone's underwear.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Asante] * 1
    #23649846 - 09/16/16 08:21 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Especially true for hepatitis B, that one can be contracted through sharing snorting straws. You can even get it if an infected person handles your food.

I remember having to get the vaccine to work in the food industry.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: qman]
    #23649861 - 09/16/16 08:27 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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I don't like the sagging pants nonsense, it's a deliberate form of disrespect and I don't need to see anyone's underwear.





I can understand that you feel disrespected if someone moons you, but if someone walks around saggin' to show off his CK's you feel disrespected?


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    #23649892 - 09/16/16 08:48 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

I fully support sagging pants and breastfeeding. Tight African male asses in their prime & free titty all day? I'll take it.


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    #23649900 - 09/16/16 08:50 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

:lol:

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    #23649902 - 09/16/16 08:50 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

:wink:

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    #23649913 - 09/16/16 08:56 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Its the same with smoking weed or people using heroin in public.

I visited a chapel many years ago with my mother and in the back there was a homeless person smoking heroin off of tin foil as a gratuitous incense contribution to the ambiance.

He wasnt disruptive, just doing his thing in private.

Neither my mother and I were offended, religiously or otherwise. Why should we? That was his thing, he was harming no one, he was getting all peaceful in a place of meditation. So? Why must homeless heroin users always be hunted down and hated on? Live and let live.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Adden]
    #23649932 - 09/16/16 09:07 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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I fully support sagging pants and breastfeeding. Tight African male asses in their prime & free titty all day? I'll take it.




Have you ever seen the Booty Warrior talk about sagging pants? It's hilarious. "Y'know, they got this style where they sag their pants past their butt. They call it some sort of gangsta style, and you know, it's SEXY, to us, right? If you dress like that somebody be all up in yo butt" :lol: 





(This is also the same guy that is based off that prison episode in Boondocks too by the way.)





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    #23649938 - 09/16/16 09:08 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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Its the same with smoking weed or people using heroin in public.

I visited a chapel many years ago with my mother and in the back there was a homeless person smoking heroin off of tin foil as a gratuitous incense contribution to the ambiance.

He wasnt disruptive, just doing his thing in private.

Neither my mother and I were offended, religiously or otherwise. Why should we? That was his thing, he was harming no one, he was getting all peaceful in a place of meditation. So? Why must homeless heroin users always be hunted down and hated on? Live and let live.




Wish the rest of the world was as open-minded as you, in 'Murrica somebody would have surely called the cops in 30 seconds flat.


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    #23649946 - 09/16/16 09:10 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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    #23649951 - 09/16/16 09:13 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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Its the same with smoking weed or people using heroin in public.

I visited a chapel many years ago with my mother and in the back there was a homeless person smoking heroin off of tin foil as a gratuitous incense contribution to the ambiance.

He wasnt disruptive, just doing his thing in private.

Neither my mother and I were offended, religiously or otherwise. Why should we? That was his thing, he was harming no one, he was getting all peaceful in a place of meditation. So? Why must homeless heroin users always be hunted down and hated on? Live and let live.




Yeah, smoking weed in public is becoming so commonplace today, outside of bars and restaurants, nobody cares.


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    #23649961 - 09/16/16 09:18 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

So would you be OK with sitting on a bench on the park, a homeless person hops on the other end of the bench, leavinjg you enough private space, whipping out the spoon and the bic, the filter and syringe and cooking himself up a proper shot of heroin :heroin: using it and slipping in a peaxceful sunny afternoon slumber?

I just dont see why that should be a problem for me. I'd find it interesting. He'd give me my space, I'd give him his space, we both enjoy the sunshine and birdsong in our own ways.

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    #23649965 - 09/16/16 09:20 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

I'm surprised to hear of breastfeeding not being socially acceptable in Netherlands though. I always assumed a lot of Western European countries were more relaxed about public nudity and things like that. I know France and Germany are, but Netherlands is not?


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Its more relaxed but its still a debate.


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    #23649985 - 09/16/16 09:29 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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Women commonly wear special shirts & bras that have flaps that open, exposing a small portion of boob & nipple, which is then covered by a baby.  You can hardly see any teat, so stop acting like some woman just ripped off her shirt like Hulk Hogan & is sitting there naked from the waist up.





maybe that's the problem, they dont get to see some tittay because some brat has it's head in the way


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    #23649991 - 09/16/16 09:30 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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NotTheDevil, its little kids who infect public pools with warts, not adults. Its generally kids being steaming piles of infection because their parents who generally lack in raising them also lack in taking care of tyheir health because they are busy busy busy making enough money so they can afford daycare. Madness.





This is ridiculous.

Public pools are steaming piles of infection because they are swimming pools.  Otherwise known as stale ponds of water full of piss, shit, and snot, as well as all the infection and disease that comes with all of those bodily fluids..  And who is in charge of keeping it clean?  Joe Bob the pool keeper whose more interested in keeping Chlorine costs at a minimum than anyone's health and well-being..

Blaming other people for getting sick at a public swimming pool is akin to getting an infection from a porti-john and blaming everyone else that took a shit in it..  Some things are disgusting by nature, public pools are one of them.

Here's something, good parents don't allow their children to swim in public pools.  And I would hope that most adults would be smart enough to avoid them..  I mean, what is the appeal?  If a pool doesn't smell like piss, it inevitably smells so much of chemical aroma that it is likely to burn your skin..


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    #23650006 - 09/16/16 09:42 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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So would you be OK with sitting on a bench on the park, a homeless person hops on the other end of the bench, leavinjg you enough private space, whipping out the spoon and the bic, the filter and syringe and cooking himself up a proper shot of heroin :heroin: using it and slipping in a peaxceful sunny afternoon slumber?

I just dont see why that should be a problem for me. I'd find it interesting. He'd give me my space, I'd give him his space, we both enjoy the sunshine and birdsong in our own ways.

Would it be offensive to you?




I think needles and blood does scare people because of health concerns, I would be afraid of stepping on a needle. Smoking it just seems so much more acceptable.


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    #23650008 - 09/16/16 09:43 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Your local pool must be a hellhole or you must be an antiseptic fundamentalist for talking about it like that.

My local pool is nowhere near that dirty. Yes you absolutely get an exchange of skin bacteria if you use a public pool but lets not get overly scared of each other.

Swimming in a public pool is a very pleasant experience and a social event. Don't let the seeds spoil the watermelon - dont let your fears of germs deprive you of mingling with the people of your community.

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Some things are disgusting by nature, public pools are one of them. Here's something, good parents don't allow their children to swim in public pools.  And I would hope that most adults would be smart enough to avoid them..




I can't disagree with you more and I'm glad I don't live with your apparent disgust for your fellow man and community.


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    #23650010 - 09/16/16 09:44 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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We have to unlearn people to get offended or repulsed by things that are not really their business.




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    #23650070 - 09/16/16 10:11 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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Almost no one wants to see shit like this. Trying to force people to accept your body when you're wearing shit like that, in that body, is never going to work. You're at the exact opposite end of the spectrum from model or stripper, so stop trying to dress like one. Sometimes your body isn't your choice and almost everyone has stuff they would like to change but can't.. What you wear however, is always your choice. "I'm just wearing the clothes I have". Find some new ones.




Ew, I've never seen you be so crass.
You sound like a teenager trying to get a reaction with strong words and a harsh opinion.

Maybe they're not trying to force anything on anyone. Maybe they're just wearing what makes them feel good and they couldn't care less what you think.


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    #23650095 - 09/16/16 10:23 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Then let them continue not caring :shrug:. I dunno what to tell you, everyone has an opinion. I don't say anything to these people or make faces or even take pictures of them to point and laugh at with friends or for whatever reason people do take pictures of these strangers. However, I'm definitely not going to be leaping in to their defense, behind a keyboard or in person if someone else does it. They bring it on themselves. I kind of highly value personal responsibility. If they wanna wear that shit and don't care what people think or say, fine. If what people think or say hurts them, maybe they should make better choices in the future.


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    #23650103 - 09/16/16 10:27 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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Why not? Why should people be made to feel ashamed for their bodies, because they dont resemble the photoshopped models in the media. Be real and be proud. Be unashamed.








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    #23650111 - 09/16/16 10:30 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

people can do whatever in public as long as I can stare, point and take pics


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    #23650116 - 09/16/16 10:32 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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Shroomslip said:I don't say anything to these people or make faces or even take pictures of them to point and laugh at with friends or for whatever reason people do take pictures of these strangers.
However, I'm definitely not going to be leaping in to their defense, behind a keyboard or in person if someone else does it. 






But you'll leap to insult them, behind a keyboard, when someone supports them?  Lol. Whatever, dude.

Well I'm glad you're not making faces at least, proud of you for that one.


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    #23650157 - 09/16/16 10:50 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

I didn't insult them. I just said almost no one wants to see that. Same could be said about a guy walking around Wal-mart with 7 dildos hanging out of his ass or a puke orgy. I mean I guess you could see it as an insult but you make it sound like I'm calling them disgusting ugly fatties or something when I've kept my opinion on any one of them individually to myself. I generalized a group of people and stated a far less specific opinion on that group.

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    #23650205 - 09/16/16 11:11 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

I'm on my phone, & quoting is a PITA so just gonna respond without quotes.

@ pris:  hella agreed, on both accounts.  But I wonder why it embarrasses some folks to see a new mother nursing an infant.  I never thought of it one way or the other before my son was born.  When I would see it, it'd just be like watching any other person eat.  Now that I've been a parent for over 1.5 years, it reminds me of all the amazing shit moms do & I'm happy for the mother and child.  Which is kinda gay, but I've come to peace with the fact that parenting has softened me up a lot.  So it looks like at this stage of my life I have a pro bias towards public breastfeeding, but  I just don't understand how it's so upsetting to some people.  I wish someone who doesn't like it would take a moment to explain their views to me.

@ Asante:  hella disagreed about using heroin in public.  Now, I'm a big proponent of "each to his own", particularly when it comes to victimless crime, but my argument against public heroin use is that if everyone is just allowed to cook up & slam a shot of dope wherever they want, it normalizes that behavior.  If I lived in a city like the ones in the Grand Theft Auto games, a city that has no children, this wouldn't be an issue to me.  But I definitely don't want my son growing up thinking that banging heroin is as normal or accepted as drinking a beer (which you're generally not allowed to do openly on the streets either, with some exceptions).  I get that it's my job to educate him to make the right choices, but it'd be a lot of mixed messages if I told him he shouldn't do that, and then he sees people doing it all over.  Yep, I am playing the pearl-clutching "won't someone think of the children" card.


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    #23650284 - 09/16/16 11:44 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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@ pris:  hella agreed, on both accounts.  But I wonder why it embarrasses some folks to see a new mother nursing an infant.  I never thought of it one way or the other before my son was born.  When I would see it, it'd just be like watching any other person eat.  Now that I've been a parent for over 1.5 years, it reminds me of all the amazing shit moms do & I'm happy for the mother and child.  Which is kinda gay, but I've come to peace with the fact that parenting has softened me up a lot.  So it looks like at this stage of my life I have a pro bias towards public breastfeeding, but  I just don't understand how it's so upsetting to some people.  I wish someone who doesn't like it would take a moment to explain their views to me.




Basically, people who are ACTUALLY exposed to breastfeeding view it as normal.

All the males I know that had sisters or cousins in the household that were pregnant and breastfeeding pretty much view it as normal and beautiful.

It's funny, because it's usually males who are the ones getting offended and telling women to cover up their breasts or go breastfeed elsewhere. It's almost like they're insinuating that breasts are men's property.


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    #23650299 - 09/16/16 11:49 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

I see your point, but I don't think it's only guys who were exposed to breastfeeding that find it normal.  Growing up, I didn't see any of it in my day to day vicinity.  I grew up with my immediate family, and no extended family around.  So pretty much all the breastfeeding I ever saw was randos in public, until my own friends started having kids.  While growing up around it definitely would create an acceptance, it's not the only way.


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    #23650376 - 09/16/16 12:19 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

I think those that are offended by it is mostly due to lack of education. Breastfeeding in general takes a lot of time and dedication. I dont think many people realize how difficult it can be to consistently produce milk. Imo one should expect a woman to breastfeed in public when in our own country we have a severely short maternity leave and incredible lack of paternity leave. So expecting a woman to always find a "private space" or go to a bathroom just to feed her kid is ridiculous and forcing her to is even more ridiculous.


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    #23650530 - 09/16/16 01:29 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

I think it's crazy just how insane some people react to feeding babies too.

Like this dude, thinks breastfeeding is so wrong but sees nothing wrong with getting so hostile and angry in front of children and scaring them.

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    #23650536 - 09/16/16 01:33 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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I didn't insult them.
I mean I guess you could see it as an insult but you make it sound like I'm calling them disgusting ugly fatties




What did you mean by "opposite end of the model/stripper spectrum"? Unique? Different?


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    #23650537 - 09/16/16 01:33 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Post a picture of your naked body to help people come closer to non-judgemental acceptance.

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    #23650544 - 09/16/16 01:36 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Haha, I like in that video when that woman in the green tells him to not look, and dude says, "who are you, my mother?"  Goes back to the point I made earlier about this all being connected to mommy issues.

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    #23650555 - 09/16/16 01:40 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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Your local pool must be a hellhole or you must be an antiseptic fundamentalist for talking about it like that.

My local pool is nowhere near that dirty. Yes you absolutely get an exchange of skin bacteria if you use a public pool but lets not get overly scared of each other.

Swimming in a public pool is a very pleasant experience and a social event. Don't let the seeds spoil the watermelon - dont let your fears of germs deprive you of mingling with the people of your community.

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Some things are disgusting by nature, public pools are one of them. Here's something, good parents don't allow their children to swim in public pools.  And I would hope that most adults would be smart enough to avoid them..




I can't disagree with you more and I'm glad I don't live with your apparent disgust for your fellow man and community.




I am not sure where your neurons got crossed, but you have just pushed your very own opinion onto me.

Let's not forget what I was responding to:

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NotTheDevil, its little kids who infect public pools with warts, not adults. Its generally kids being steaming piles of infection because their parents who generally lack in raising them also lack in taking care of tyheir health because they are busy busy busy making enough money so they can afford daycare. Madness.





Who now has an apparent disgust for your fellow man?  You do.  Not me, I was attempting to point out the opposite.  I am merely saying that getting upset at your fellow man (as you and NotTheDevil did), when partaking in an activity that resembles bathing with unknown numbers of people is ridiculous..  The onus of blame is not on the people, it's on the activity.  Which means you have no one to blame but yourself, because you decided the activity was worth the risk..

My post was not meant to emphasize my own view of swimming at a public pool.  It was meant to emphasize your illogical thinking.  But I will spell it out for you.  Making a decision to partake in a communal activity that literally combines the germs of hundreds of people. and then slandering your fellow man (AS YOU DID) for making it that way, makes absolutely no logical sense.  In short, if you get sick at a pool, its your fault, not a child's fault.  Take some responsibility for yourself.


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    #23650556 - 09/16/16 01:41 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

You know very well what's meant by that and it's no more an insult than "almost no one wants to see that". Actually it's pretty much directly linked to that statement seeing as if plenty of people wanted to see that, then there would be plenty of models and strippers that looked like that.


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    #23650567 - 09/16/16 01:48 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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Haha, I like in that video when that woman in the green tells him to not look, and dude says, "who are you, my mother?"  Goes back to the point I made earlier about this all being connected to mommy issues.

:freud:




Generally speaking, hatred of women and disrespect of women almost always stems back to a mother. Basically they hate women because they tend to view their mother in a negative light.

And if it's not a mother, it's an ex who they feel really bitter and vindictive over, because they felt used or humiliated or diminished or whatever in their relationship.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Crystal G]
    #23650571 - 09/16/16 01:49 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)



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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Shroomslip]
    #23650630 - 09/16/16 02:20 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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Shroomslip said:Sometimes your body isn't your choice and almost everyone has stuff they would like to change but can't.. What you wear however, is always your choice. "I'm just wearing the clothes I have". Find some new ones.




Sometimes our thoughts aren't our choice. What we say however, is always our choice.

"I'm just expressing the opinions I have". Find some new ones. They're selfish.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: 1234go]
    #23650647 - 09/16/16 02:25 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Like them, I choose not to.

I dunno why you wanted to turn this into a thing anyways. I have an opinion (and not a very unpopular one, either) one you seem to have taken very personally and I'm not really sure why. Do you know someone who is morbidly obese and regularly goes out in public in a thong and tank top or something? Is it you? :ohyou: I mean I'm sorry if I stepped on your toes or something.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Asante]
    #23650658 - 09/16/16 02:29 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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Let's all just get naked.




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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Asante]
    #23650696 - 09/16/16 02:42 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Fuck yeah man, right on. I feel lucky that I live in a place that's close to events like folsom street fair and other stuff that allows people to experience both nudity and sexuality without any of the shame or stigma that's gone along with it for so long. It's really liberating to be at an event of any kind in which nudity and sexuality is celebrated rather than looked down upon.

Big girls and big guys being nude is fine. If you don't like it, don't look. Lots and lots of men and women are into big girls or big guys, so the whole "no one wants to see that" thing is BS. Plus the human body is still the human body. It just doesn't get that bad even at the extremes. If you actually saw big men and women walking around nude, it wouldn't be nearly as bad as you're picturing it in your mind.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Shroomslip]
    #23650703 - 09/16/16 02:44 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Not obese myself, no friends come to mind.
You usually sound pretty intelligent, so I was little taken back I suppose.

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I have an opinion (and not a very unpopular one, either)




Not unpopular at all, good call. There's a lot of visually sensitive and intolerant bros/gals in the world.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: 1234go]
    #23650747 - 09/16/16 03:07 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Like I said, I have an opinion, I have lots of them. There's probably a couple more in there you're not very fond of. I've known a couple of people who fit the generalizations I've made and was friends with them. Pretty much everyone I've ever known has done things or had opinions I vehemently disagreed with. Unless it's actually harming me, them or someone else I usually just keep said opinions to myself because why bother (here it's a bit different, if someone is really hurt/bothered by what I've said when we probably don't even live in the same state, I'd say they more to worry about than than my opinions). I'm capable of setting that stuff aside. Hopefully you are too. You're a cool dude, would hate to start clashing with you all over the place just because of today's events.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Asante]
    #23650867 - 09/16/16 04:08 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

people will be people, some will look down on you, and you will look down at others, but do i think they should be locked up or physically assaulted for it?, hell no!

as long as yall are not hurting people or banging trannies in public u should be free to do anything u like. although that doesnt mean there wont be any consequences for ur actions, even if they are mutual..


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: zZZz] * 1
    #23650938 - 09/16/16 04:38 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

What's the difference in those things and me jacking it on the street corner?


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: nooneman]
    #23651008 - 09/16/16 05:18 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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Fuck yeah man, right on. I feel lucky that I live in a place that's close to events like folsom street fair and other stuff that allows people to experience both nudity and sexuality without any of the shame or stigma that's gone along with it for so long. It's really liberating to be at an event of any kind in which nudity and sexuality is celebrated rather than looked down upon.

Big girls and big guys being nude is fine. If you don't like it, don't look. Lots and lots of men and women are into big girls or big guys, so the whole "no one wants to see that" thing is BS. Plus the human body is still the human body. It just doesn't get that bad even at the extremes. If you actually saw big men and women walking around nude, it wouldn't be nearly as bad as you're picturing it in your mind.



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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: ThatKidWithTheFace]
    #23651142 - 09/16/16 06:14 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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What's the difference in those things and me jacking it on the street corner?




Are you talking to zzzz or are you asking what the difference between breastfeeding and publicly jerking off is?  Because I can tell you, if you don't know.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Mojo]
    #23651205 - 09/16/16 06:34 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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Your local pool must be a hellhole or you must be an antiseptic fundamentalist for talking about it like that.

My local pool is nowhere near that dirty. Yes you absolutely get an exchange of skin bacteria if you use a public pool but lets not get overly scared of each other.

Swimming in a public pool is a very pleasant experience and a social event. Don't let the seeds spoil the watermelon - dont let your fears of germs deprive you of mingling with the people of your community.

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Some things are disgusting by nature, public pools are one of them. Here's something, good parents don't allow their children to swim in public pools.  And I would hope that most adults would be smart enough to avoid them..




I can't disagree with you more and I'm glad I don't live with your apparent disgust for your fellow man and community.




I am not sure where your neurons got crossed, but you have just pushed your very own opinion onto me.

Let's not forget what I was responding to:

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NotTheDevil, its little kids who infect public pools with warts, not adults. Its generally kids being steaming piles of infection because their parents who generally lack in raising them also lack in taking care of tyheir health because they are busy busy busy making enough money so they can afford daycare. Madness.





Who now has an apparent disgust for your fellow man?  You do.  Not me, I was attempting to point out the opposite.  I am merely saying that getting upset at your fellow man (as you and NotTheDevil did), when partaking in an activity that resembles bathing with unknown numbers of people is ridiculous..  The onus of blame is not on the people, it's on the activity.  Which means you have no one to blame but yourself, because you decided the activity was worth the risk..

My post was not meant to emphasize my own view of swimming at a public pool.  It was meant to emphasize your illogical thinking.  But I will spell it out for you.  Making a decision to partake in a communal activity that literally combines the germs of hundreds of people. and then slandering your fellow man (AS YOU DID) for making it that way, makes absolutely no logical sense.  In short, if you get sick at a pool, its your fault, not a child's fault.  Take some responsibility for yourself.



I was like 6-7 years old...

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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Shroomslip]
    #23651225 - 09/16/16 06:44 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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Unless it's actually harming me, them or someone else I usually just keep said opinions to myself because why bother





So then why bother sharing your opinion here about obese people wearing tiny clothes? Is it hurting you or someone else?
You must have something more going on inside to worry about?

Your opinion wasn't what caught my attention, just the way you presented it that gave off a superior kind of vibe and I just wanted to argue it.
Which I'm fully capable of setting aside.

I've had a lot of friends that said the same kind of stuff and it was always really gut wrenching to hear. Wasn't affecting them in any way until they allowed it to.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: nooneman]
    #23651233 - 09/16/16 06:48 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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Fuck yeah man, right on. I feel lucky that I live in a place that's close to events like folsom street fair and other stuff that allows people to experience both nudity and sexuality without any of the shame or stigma that's gone along with it for so long. It's really liberating to be at an event of any kind in which nudity and sexuality is celebrated rather than looked down upon.

Big girls and big guys being nude is fine. If you don't like it, don't look. Lots and lots of men and women are into big girls or big guys, so the whole "no one wants to see that" thing is BS. Plus the human body is still the human body. It just doesn't get that bad even at the extremes. If you actually saw big men and women walking around nude, it wouldn't be nearly as bad as you're picturing it in your mind.



I strongly disagree. I WAS obese and I found my body disgusting to look at. That was a part of my motivation to lose weight and become healthier. I it also depends on what you mean by "big".


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: NotTheDevil]
    #23651246 - 09/16/16 06:54 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

I'm a large man and if I trimmed up I'd still have huge shoulders, visible lats and a barrel chest. I'd just look like shit. I didn't like being ultra fit, no point maintaining something you don't like. I'll stick at 220 on a 34/36 waist. I'm "morbidly obese", but built like a tank, so whatever. Got a great case of body dysmorphia growing up as the fat kid (in 4th grade I got ushered to my 8th grade "home room" on first day of school) but I bet this falls by the wayside since they're all fucking fat and gross now.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: NotTheDevil]
    #23651252 - 09/16/16 06:56 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

I think people should have to wear clothes in public. Otherwise butt juice will be all over everything and everyone will get pink eye or worse. I don't care about breast feeding or sagging pants. I don't care if people get naked at the beach either as long as they aren't grossly overweight.

2 years ago I was at an intersection, on my way to the beach, and a lady that was about 60 crossed the road. She had to weigh over 300lbs, covered in sweat, and she was wearing a bikini. It was so disturbing that I got dizzy and almost puked. After that I called it a day and went home and it still makes me sick to think about it. I bet if I posted a picture of it I would catch a ban from one of the mods.

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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: 1234go]
    #23651267 - 09/16/16 06:59 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Like I said it's a bit different here. Why do I say any of the stuff I post here? If I only ever said here what I would say in person I'd probably have about 300 posts. In person I am a man of very few words. I can't remember his name but there was a scientist famous for almost never speaking and going to great lengths to say whatever he had to in the minimum amount of words possible and his friends named the act of doing that after him. That's me in person.

The best I can really do to honestly answer your question is hypothesize that I come here to relieve myself of my usual shell and experience life's social interactions from the other side. I'm not an activist, I don't grow, hell I don't even use weed or alcohol anymore. The only reason I'm still on this site is for the community. Even I don't know for sure why that appeals to me.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Asante] * 1
    #23651281 - 09/16/16 07:05 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Shroomslip]
    #23651282 - 09/16/16 07:06 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

You should be more like you are in person.


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    #23651288 - 09/16/16 07:08 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

You should be more like you are in your made up stories. :loldongs:


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: demiu5]
    #23651289 - 09/16/16 07:08 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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Stop.  Don't ever tell a woman to put away her breasts.









Yep never let that free titty go to waste man. Or the downblouses. :thumbup:

And I dunno about you guys, but when I see me a nice titty, I'll "photoshop" the kid out of my mind and see a gorgeous woman playing with her nipple.

But then it's like fuck it I bet she's tired and now she's gotta feed her kid and there's the Internet at home.


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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Adden]
    #23651323 - 09/16/16 07:20 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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I'm a large man and if I trimmed up I'd still have huge shoulders, visible lats and a barrel chest. I'd just look like shit. I didn't like being ultra fit, no point maintaining something you don't like. I'll stick at 220 on a 34/36 waist. I'm "morbidly obese", but built like a tank, so whatever. Got a great case of body dysmorphia growing up as the fat kid (in 4th grade I got ushered to my 8th grade "home room" on first day of school) but I bet this falls by the wayside since they're all fucking fat and gross now.



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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Burke Dennings]
    #23651786 - 09/16/16 11:06 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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@ pris:  hella agreed, on both accounts.  But I wonder why it embarrasses some folks to see a new mother nursing an infant.  I never thought of it one way or the other before my son was born.  When I would see it, it'd just be like watching any other person eat.  Now that I've been a parent for over 1.5 years, it reminds me of all the amazing shit moms do & I'm happy for the mother and child.  Which is kinda gay, but I've come to peace with the fact that parenting has softened me up a lot.  So it looks like at this stage of my life I have a pro bias towards public breastfeeding, but  I just don't understand how it's so upsetting to some people.  I wish someone who doesn't like it would take a moment to explain their views to me.





because it wasnt something they were exposed to and often times were told it is
shameful. we're taught to hide many bodily functions from the public and this os
one of the many because it crosses into the shame areas that most people are
taught regarding public nudity

I'm like you, when I was younger I may have been embarrassed by it but as I see it
now it's a necessity, a kid has to eat and for me to be a little put out by a
woman feeding a child is certainly better than being really put out by a crying
baby. being a parent that has never left my kids in daycare or with a baby sitter,
I wouldnt expect other parents to do it either. yes, kids as infants and toddlers
were in restaurants with me, yes, they did sometimes get a little loud but I was
always quick to find a way to end it or remove myself from that situation before
it became a problem for others. breastfeeding is one way to put an end to the noise of a hungry baby


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    #23651795 - 09/16/16 11:12 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

I piss in the parking lot at work all the time to support the cause.


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    #23652013 - 09/17/16 01:54 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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Adden said:
I'm a large man and if I trimmed up I'd still have huge shoulders, visible lats and a barrel chest. I'd just look like shit. I didn't like being ultra fit, no point maintaining something you don't like. I'll stick at 220 on a 34/36 waist. I'm "morbidly obese", but built like a tank, so whatever. Got a great case of body dysmorphia growing up as the fat kid (in 4th grade I got ushered to my 8th grade "home room" on first day of school) but I bet this falls by the wayside since they're all fucking fat and gross now.



umm, pics please.:grin:




You've been chasing my tail for years now.


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    #23652040 - 09/17/16 02:37 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

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tyrannicalrex said:
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Adden said:
I'm a large man and if I trimmed up I'd still have huge shoulders, visible lats and a barrel chest. I'd just look like shit. I didn't like being ultra fit, no point maintaining something you don't like. I'll stick at 220 on a 34/36 waist. I'm "morbidly obese", but built like a tank, so whatever. Got a great case of body dysmorphia growing up as the fat kid (in 4th grade I got ushered to my 8th grade "home room" on first day of school) but I bet this falls by the wayside since they're all fucking fat and gross now.



umm, pics please.:grin:




You've been chasing my tail for years now.


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