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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Shroomslip]
#23651225 - 09/16/16 06:44 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Unless it's actually harming me, them or someone else I usually just keep said opinions to myself because why bother
So then why bother sharing your opinion here about obese people wearing tiny clothes? Is it hurting you or someone else? You must have something more going on inside to worry about?
Your opinion wasn't what caught my attention, just the way you presented it that gave off a superior kind of vibe and I just wanted to argue it. Which I'm fully capable of setting aside.
I've had a lot of friends that said the same kind of stuff and it was always really gut wrenching to hear. Wasn't affecting them in any way until they allowed it to.
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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: nooneman]
#23651233 - 09/16/16 06:48 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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nooneman said: Fuck yeah man, right on. I feel lucky that I live in a place that's close to events like folsom street fair and other stuff that allows people to experience both nudity and sexuality without any of the shame or stigma that's gone along with it for so long. It's really liberating to be at an event of any kind in which nudity and sexuality is celebrated rather than looked down upon.
Big girls and big guys being nude is fine. If you don't like it, don't look. Lots and lots of men and women are into big girls or big guys, so the whole "no one wants to see that" thing is BS. Plus the human body is still the human body. It just doesn't get that bad even at the extremes. If you actually saw big men and women walking around nude, it wouldn't be nearly as bad as you're picturing it in your mind.
I strongly disagree. I WAS obese and I found my body disgusting to look at. That was a part of my motivation to lose weight and become healthier. I it also depends on what you mean by "big".
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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: NotTheDevil]
#23651246 - 09/16/16 06:54 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'm a large man and if I trimmed up I'd still have huge shoulders, visible lats and a barrel chest. I'd just look like shit. I didn't like being ultra fit, no point maintaining something you don't like. I'll stick at 220 on a 34/36 waist. I'm "morbidly obese", but built like a tank, so whatever. Got a great case of body dysmorphia growing up as the fat kid (in 4th grade I got ushered to my 8th grade "home room" on first day of school) but I bet this falls by the wayside since they're all fucking fat and gross now.
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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: NotTheDevil]
#23651252 - 09/16/16 06:56 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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I think people should have to wear clothes in public. Otherwise butt juice will be all over everything and everyone will get pink eye or worse. I don't care about breast feeding or sagging pants. I don't care if people get naked at the beach either as long as they aren't grossly overweight. 2 years ago I was at an intersection, on my way to the beach, and a lady that was about 60 crossed the road. She had to weigh over 300lbs, covered in sweat, and she was wearing a bikini. It was so disturbing that I got dizzy and almost puked. After that I called it a day and went home and it still makes me sick to think about it. I bet if I posted a picture of it I would catch a ban from one of the mods.
It's easy to say just don't look, but once you've already looked, you can't unlook.
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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: 1234go]
#23651267 - 09/16/16 06:59 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Like I said it's a bit different here. Why do I say any of the stuff I post here? If I only ever said here what I would say in person I'd probably have about 300 posts. In person I am a man of very few words. I can't remember his name but there was a scientist famous for almost never speaking and going to great lengths to say whatever he had to in the minimum amount of words possible and his friends named the act of doing that after him. That's me in person.
The best I can really do to honestly answer your question is hypothesize that I come here to relieve myself of my usual shell and experience life's social interactions from the other side. I'm not an activist, I don't grow, hell I don't even use weed or alcohol anymore. The only reason I'm still on this site is for the community. Even I don't know for sure why that appeals to me.
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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Asante] 1
#23651281 - 09/16/16 07:05 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Stop. Don't ever tell a woman to put away her breasts.
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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Shroomslip]
#23651282 - 09/16/16 07:06 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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You should be more like you are in person.
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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Adden] 3
#23651288 - 09/16/16 07:08 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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You should be more like you are in your made up stories.
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With my face against the floor I can’t see who knocked me out of the way. I don’t want to get back up but I have to so it might as well be today. Nothing appeals to me no one feels like me, I’m too busy being calm to disappear. I’m in no shape to be alone contrary to the shit that you might hear. You can't wake up, this is not a dream. You're part of a machine, you are not a human being With your face all made up, living on a screen. Low on self esteem, so you run on gasoline
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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: demiu5]
#23651289 - 09/16/16 07:08 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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demiu5 said:
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Stop. Don't ever tell a woman to put away her breasts.

Yep never let that free titty go to waste man. Or the downblouses. 
And I dunno about you guys, but when I see me a nice titty, I'll "photoshop" the kid out of my mind and see a gorgeous woman playing with her nipple.
But then it's like fuck it I bet she's tired and now she's gotta feed her kid and there's the Internet at home.
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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Adden]
#23651323 - 09/16/16 07:20 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Adden said: I'm a large man and if I trimmed up I'd still have huge shoulders, visible lats and a barrel chest. I'd just look like shit. I didn't like being ultra fit, no point maintaining something you don't like. I'll stick at 220 on a 34/36 waist. I'm "morbidly obese", but built like a tank, so whatever. Got a great case of body dysmorphia growing up as the fat kid (in 4th grade I got ushered to my 8th grade "home room" on first day of school) but I bet this falls by the wayside since they're all fucking fat and gross now.
umm, pics please.
Edited by tyrannicalrex (09/16/16 07:21 PM)
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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: tyrannicalrex]
#23651354 - 09/16/16 07:35 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Burke Dennings]
#23651786 - 09/16/16 11:06 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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@ pris: hella agreed, on both accounts. But I wonder why it embarrasses some folks to see a new mother nursing an infant. I never thought of it one way or the other before my son was born. When I would see it, it'd just be like watching any other person eat. Now that I've been a parent for over 1.5 years, it reminds me of all the amazing shit moms do & I'm happy for the mother and child. Which is kinda gay, but I've come to peace with the fact that parenting has softened me up a lot. So it looks like at this stage of my life I have a pro bias towards public breastfeeding, but I just don't understand how it's so upsetting to some people. I wish someone who doesn't like it would take a moment to explain their views to me.
because it wasnt something they were exposed to and often times were told it is shameful. we're taught to hide many bodily functions from the public and this os one of the many because it crosses into the shame areas that most people are taught regarding public nudity
I'm like you, when I was younger I may have been embarrassed by it but as I see it now it's a necessity, a kid has to eat and for me to be a little put out by a woman feeding a child is certainly better than being really put out by a crying baby. being a parent that has never left my kids in daycare or with a baby sitter, I wouldnt expect other parents to do it either. yes, kids as infants and toddlers were in restaurants with me, yes, they did sometimes get a little loud but I was always quick to find a way to end it or remove myself from that situation before it became a problem for others. breastfeeding is one way to put an end to the noise of a hungry baby
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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Prisoner#1]
#23651795 - 09/16/16 11:12 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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I piss in the parking lot at work all the time to support the cause.
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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: tyrannicalrex]
#23652013 - 09/17/16 01:54 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Adden said: I'm a large man and if I trimmed up I'd still have huge shoulders, visible lats and a barrel chest. I'd just look like shit. I didn't like being ultra fit, no point maintaining something you don't like. I'll stick at 220 on a 34/36 waist. I'm "morbidly obese", but built like a tank, so whatever. Got a great case of body dysmorphia growing up as the fat kid (in 4th grade I got ushered to my 8th grade "home room" on first day of school) but I bet this falls by the wayside since they're all fucking fat and gross now.
umm, pics please.
You've been chasing my tail for years now.
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Re: Public breastfeeding, Saggin' pants, Body Shaming. [Re: Adden]
#23652040 - 09/17/16 02:37 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Adden said:
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tyrannicalrex said:
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Adden said: I'm a large man and if I trimmed up I'd still have huge shoulders, visible lats and a barrel chest. I'd just look like shit. I didn't like being ultra fit, no point maintaining something you don't like. I'll stick at 220 on a 34/36 waist. I'm "morbidly obese", but built like a tank, so whatever. Got a great case of body dysmorphia growing up as the fat kid (in 4th grade I got ushered to my 8th grade "home room" on first day of school) but I bet this falls by the wayside since they're all fucking fat and gross now.
umm, pics please.
You've been chasing my tail for years now.

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