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Unfolding Nature Shop: Unfolding Nature: Being in the Implicate Order

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Anonymous #8

Re: GF Lied to me about being trans [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #23655316 - 09/18/16 10:52 AM (7 years, 4 months ago)

I wondered why no one told you, as this subforum is rather predestined to yield honest and thus sometimes hard answers.

You need to stop fooling yourself. You are obviously holding up lots of illusions to make yourself feel better, while they actually keep you from changing your situation, since Acknowledgement is the first step of change.
Aknowledgde that you never had her as a girlfriend, you weren't even dating and that the majority of the bond and closeness you felt was an illusion of yours.

I don't ask you to be hard on yourself, but goddamn stop lying to yourself, you're already believing yourself - it's obvious.

More things than people believe can be changed. Go out as much as you can and do something about the things you desire, instead of fantasizing that you already had them!!


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Anonymous #1

Re: GF Lied to me about being trans [Re: Anonymous #8]
    #23655504 - 09/18/16 12:17 PM (7 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #8 said:

Aknowledgde that you never had her as a girlfriend, you weren't even dating and that the majority of the bond and closeness you felt was an illusion of yours.






That's closer to truth that I would have admitted months ago but it is not true. We did have a bond. I didn't have feelings for her because of how I imagined she was but because of how she was. Her personality attracted me. Not how she said or implied she looked. It takes a whole fuckload of effort I know she doesn't have in order to pretend to mesh with someone so well.


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