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Re: Don't know where else to talk about it all [Re: RJ Tubs 202]
#23643664 - 09/14/16 02:31 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'll say it again, that POS should be taken out back and shot like a rabid dog.
Yes, that's a common notion.
We'd rather damn and condemn someone than consider their humanity.
You know whats a much more common notion?
Being a pushover, and letting scum get away with murder out of fear and indecision. Our civilization is filled with these vermin, because they see the weakness around them and take advantage of it.
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Re: Don't know where else to talk about it all [Re: Repertoire89]
#23644053 - 09/14/16 08:29 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Person knows it's dangerous to swim with sharks, but they want to do it anyway and think they will be ok, when the sharks bite them they boohoo for attention, you swam with sharks, what did you expect would happen, sure they might have been docile for 90% of the time, but they're sharks, use your head.
Now we are dealing with people here, so I understand that the guy involved is not off the hook, and I am not being callous to OP's feelings, just trying to put things into perspective.
When you deal with people with mental disorders it's a bit like being around something wild, most times things will be OK for you, but there's the chance that you might get bit.
Choose your partners wisely is all I am saying.
Now if the guy is just randomly a wife beater because that's who he is, that's really messed up, but having been around enough people with mental disorders, I understand the majority of them are unstable, and relationships bring this out.
On a side note, I am curious what OP is trying to get out of this post, because feelings like this, if not dealt with in the proper way, can go onto be detrimental to future relationships.
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Re: Don't know where else to talk about it all [Re: Repertoire89]
#23644179 - 09/14/16 09:31 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Our civilization is filled with these vermin, because they see the weakness around them and take advantage of it.
Comparing OP's boytoy to say someone like Dennis Rader is no comparison, people like Rader were downright insane and might be a good candidate for the label of vermin, truly perverse in thought and action, and would take advantage of people in the most horrendous ways.
I hardly think that OP's guy is vermin, probably just misunderstood because of being autistic, perhaps you should read about how autistic minds work, before assuming someone is taking advantage of another for nefarious purposes. I am not saying that what he did is acceptable in anyway, but when dealing with autistic people, or anyone with a mental health disorder, one must tread carefully.
It's easy to jump on the simian mindset bandwagon and try to pummel someone for their apparent lack of a sound mind, but what does that solve, how does that benefit anyone? I suggest we all work together to fix the system, which is broken.
Rise above your human inclination for violence to fix problems, and be something greater, recognize the light in all.
Autistic people should probably stick to relationships with other autistic people, depending on where they are on the spectrum. I think those that are closer to the Asperger's/High Functioning autism, might be able to have relationships with neurotypical individuals.
Anyway, sorry to ramble, but I just feel like people that have mental health disorders should be understood better, and it's interesting stuff.
I am sounding like a broken record, I really am sorry for your pain and suffering OP, I really hope you find what you're looking for, and this experience has not damaged your spirit in anyway which will have a negative impact on your future relationships. 
Edited by Lucis (09/14/16 09:38 AM)
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Re: Don't know where else to talk about it all [Re: Lucis]
#23644282 - 09/14/16 10:21 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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What she gets out of it?
Not attention, as you assumed, but rather that weird satisfaction decent people get, when they admit that others were right from the start.
I might make such a post in my first thread about opioids, when I'm done with them.
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Re: Don't know where else to talk about it all [Re: Lucis]
#23644758 - 09/14/16 02:14 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Fennario said: It's easy to jump on the simian mindset bandwagon and try to pummel someone for their apparent lack of a sound mind, but what does that solve, how does that benefit anyone? I suggest we all work together to fix the system, which is broken.
Rise above your human inclination for violence to fix problems, and be something greater, recognize the light in all.
I genuinely don't care what motivated the guy Putting a bullet in his head would stop him from beating on any other women
He'll get a another chance in another life time But as far as I'm concerned he doesn't deserve one in this life
"The system" has nothing to do with his perversion Just a walking mistake which needs to be culled
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Re: Don't know where else to talk about it all [Re: Repertoire89]
#23644769 - 09/14/16 02:20 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Don't get me wrong guys, I'm not an angry person, I don't beat women
I've followed guys who were harassing women to stop them from doing anything I'm no christian, and don't believe in letting someone off the hook so they can get away with doing it again
And yeah, the next woman, child or animal might not survive his subnormal out lashes
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Re: Don't know where else to talk about it all [Re: Bonidee] 1
#23645039 - 09/14/16 03:47 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I remember the original thread....It was Sprinkles that offered the GTFO advice....she was obviously right....whooda thunk?
Anyway, put that shit behind you and start living again. Take control of your life back.
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Re: Don't know where else to talk about it all [Re: Thayendanegea]
#23645538 - 09/14/16 07:00 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Dang, just saw this thread for the first time. Moved to a totally different country!?! That takes guts, so whats stopping you from calling it quits and heading back to the states?
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Re: Don't know where else to talk about it all [Re: Repertoire89]
#23657490 - 09/19/16 12:34 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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You know whats a much more common notion?
Being a pushover, and letting scum get away with murder out of fear and indecision.
Our civilization is filled with these vermin, because they see the weakness around them and take advantage of it.
You're living a fantasy if you believe you can stop "scum". Good luck with trying to control people!
Calling people names inflates your ego, but leaves you with an inability to relate to them as humans.
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Re: Don't know where else to talk about it all [Re: RJ Tubs 202]
#23657651 - 09/19/16 03:13 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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RJ Tubs 202 said:
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You know whats a much more common notion?
Being a pushover, and letting scum get away with murder out of fear and indecision.
Our civilization is filled with these vermin, because they see the weakness around them and take advantage of it.
You're living a fantasy if you believe you can stop "scum". Good luck with trying to control people!
Calling people names inflates your ego, but leaves you with an inability to relate to them as humans.
Violence is a part of life, it has nothing to do with ego.
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Re: Don't know where else to talk about it all [Re: Bonidee] 1
#23657736 - 09/19/16 04:46 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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sounds awful Bonidee.
That guy was a real asshole. Weird that the other member called it in that other thread when u mentioned he had autism. Never could predicted that.
And its interesting u said that some girls leave guys who seem nice for the "asshole" they want. makes sense now that some girls might be afraid of long term "nice guys" cause of their two-faced personality.
I think for a lot of people, living with another person of the opposite sex brings both the best and worst out of someone. People can really get on each others nerves. Your story is quiet common. A guy and girl meet, love each other but once they move into eachothers place (or a new place) together, people change and now that partner has a dark side u didnt know about untill living with them.
With time, u will trust other guys and feel comfortable around them. In the meantime, i would avoid them and try to rebuild a normal life, coping with your tramatic memories.
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Re: Don't know where else to talk about it all [Re: Repertoire89]
#23663804 - 09/21/16 12:13 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Violence is a part of life, it has nothing to do with ego.
When a terrorist ignites a bunch of bombs or shoots down a crowd . . .
What motivation might there be? What fuels the motivation of mass killers?
When a wife kills her husband because he cheated, what's at the root of her motivation?
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Re: Don't know where else to talk about it all [Re: RJ Tubs 202]
#23663816 - 09/21/16 12:16 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Violence is a part of life, it has nothing to do with ego.
When a terrorist ignites a bunch of bombs or shoots down a crowd . . .
What motivation might there be? What fuels the motivation of mass killers?
When a wife kills her husband because he cheated, what's at the root of her motivation?
Irrelevant
You're defending a piece of shit
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Re: Don't know where else to talk about it all [Re: Repertoire89]
#23663833 - 09/21/16 12:25 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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It appears you have nothing to contribute to the subject.
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Re: Don't know where else to talk about it all [Re: RJ Tubs 202]
#23663868 - 09/21/16 12:39 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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When a terrorist ignites a bunch of bombs or shoots down a crowd . . .
What motivation might there be? What fuels the motivation of mass killers?
So you sympathize with terrorists as well as woman beaters?
Some contribution.
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Re: Don't know where else to talk about it all [Re: Repertoire89]
#23663918 - 09/21/16 01:09 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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We can hate people who suffer and cause pain, or we can have compassion.
Each of us must choose which path to take.
No matter what, hate only creates more hate.
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Re: Don't know where else to talk about it all [Re: RJ Tubs 202]
#23664031 - 09/21/16 02:57 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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RJ Tubs 202 said: We can hate people who suffer and cause pain, or we can have compassion.
Each of us must choose which path to take.
No matter what, hate only creates more hate.
I'm not in whatever cult you're preaching
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Re: Don't know where else to talk about it all [Re: Repertoire89]
#23664034 - 09/21/16 02:59 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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he does have a point: hate creats more hate. But some people hate without comprimize. So what else to do but hate them back?
Some rapists and murderers feel zero sympathy for their actions.
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Re: Don't know where else to talk about it all [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
#23664049 - 09/21/16 03:17 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anger is just another emotion, I'm not overly concerned about it.
Different actions merit differing responses, there's a time to be forgiving and a time for violence, as much as there are inappropriate times for violence.
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Re: Don't know where else to talk about it all [Re: LogicaL Chaos] 1
#23664051 - 09/21/16 03:19 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm definitely with RJ on this. I mean, that's not to say I live like that; sometimes my emotions get the better of me and cause me to act in unwise ways, like all of us. But all of the hate that came out up top of this thread aint doing any good for anyone. The dude in OP needs help, not hate, and I can't imagine all the slinging around about how much people wanna fuck the guy up is helpful to OP either.
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