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Alyssa
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Jokeshopbeard said: How many long term relationships have you had in your life Alyssa?
None.
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Re: I give up pursuing women [Re: Alyssa] 1
#23620736 - 09/07/16 04:56 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Nemmies said: just drive a semi nice car and the panties will be droppin
Won't work on me. Gold diggers are traitors to our gender.
I feel you are the quintessential traitor to your gender. You say things like your gender is superior ,all men are terrible and much more hate towards males specifically. That's not progressive and it's not fair. It would revert back to the 50s except the men being housewives that get no life, identity or equal value with your partner. All because the Man/Woman of the house has such an over inflated ego and self importance that they consider their partner inferior.
A progressive fair view is to respect,care,listen and make everything equal. I always listen as much as I talk. I cook my gfs their favorite meals or bring them a single rose to work just because it wasThursday . And she'd also listen and take me to a place I casually mentioned I wanted to go but really never had been to Hollywood blv before that . Anyway point is, relationships whether it be friends or a romantic relationship SHOULD be completely equal and treat each other as such. It absolutely has to be a two way street or it's very unfair to one person . I respect my gfs more then I respected myself at times. So you saying all men are dicks isn't right or fair. I treat my girlfriends/lovers amazingly. And even my female and male platonic friends.
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Re: I give up pursuing women [Re: Alyssa] 1
#23620740 - 09/07/16 04:59 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Well then perhaps you are in no position to resent that women (or men; it seems obvious he is talking about the seeking of, or being in, relationships but as seems to be your proclivity, you've just jumped on the gender train) are a cause of 'distraction' or 'complication'.
FYI, I've had three long term relationships, each lasting 3-4 years, with the most recent being my wife, who has been in rehab for the last 13 months. We've had to cut contact in order to free ourselves of the distractions and complications that come of being in a relationship so that we can both heal.
Relationships, at any level (I've also played polyamorous, and many other levels between) are a massive drain on our emotional resource. When one needs to really work on oneself, one is likely to make far better progress when not focusing on a partner.
Perhaps you take this for granted, or perhaps you are simply naive to this fact due to your lack of experience, but please understand that he was not being chauvinistic or shitting on your gender (as was Grylls). He's just making a point that he needs to work on himself, as I have been doing these 7 months past of celibacy (my longest since 18 - I'm 32 now). It really does pay off. But maybe you're just used to always having the space to work on yourself and don't know the flipside of how much you can lose yourself when you're heavily focused on the opposite sex.
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Alyssa
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Jokeshopbeard said: Well then perhaps you are in no position to resent that women (or men; it seems obvious he is talking about the seeking of, or being in, relationships but as seems to be your proclivity, you've just jumped on the gender train) are a cause of 'distraction' or 'complication'.
FYI, I've had three long term relationships, each lasting 3-4 years, with the most recent being my wife, who has been in rehab for the last 13 months. We've had to cut contact in order to free ourselves of the distractions and complications that come of being in a relationship so that we can both heal.
Relationships, at any level (I've also played polyamorous, and many other levels between) are a massive drain on our emotional resource. When one needs to really work on oneself, one is likely to make far better progress when not focusing on a partner.
Perhaps you take this for granted, or perhaps you are simply naive to this fact due to your lack of experience, but please understand that he was not being chauvinistic or shitting on your gender (as was Grylls). He's just making a point that he needs to work on himself, as I have been doing these 7 months past of celibacy (my longest since 18 - I'm 32 now). It really does pay off. But maybe you're just used to always having the space to work on yourself and don't know the flipside of how much you can lose yourself when you're heavily focused on the opposite sex.
Well, he should have said relationships then, instead of women. Equating female human beings in general with relationships is wrong.
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Re: I give up pursuing women [Re: morrowasted]
#23620886 - 09/07/16 06:18 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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You got no game bruh
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Re: I give up pursuing women [Re: Alyssa]
#23620893 - 09/07/16 06:23 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Alyssa said: Well, he should have said relationships then, instead of women. Equating female human beings in general with relationships is wrong.
Now you're just splitting hairs. Do you realise how irrationally you come off saying that? It's fucking semantics, who really gives a fuck?? We both know what he was getting at.
Actually maybe you don't. Maybe you should go and seek some relationships so you can know what it's like first hand? You'll certainly learn a lot of things about yourself you didn't know before, I don't know a single person who's been committed to one, or finding one, that hasn't.
EDIT: Apart from Webster.
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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Alyssa
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Seriously_trippin said: I feel you are the quintessential traitor to your gender. You say things like your gender is superior ,all men are terrible and much more hate towards males specifically. That's not progressive and it's not fair. It would revert back to the 50s except the men being housewives that get no life, identity or equal value with your partner. All because the Man/Woman of the house has such an over inflated ego and self importance that they consider their partner inferior.
A progressive fair view is to respect,care,listen and make everything equal. I always listen as much as I talk. I cook my gfs their favorite meals or bring them a single rose to work just because it wasThursday . And she'd also listen and take me to a place I casually mentioned I wanted to go but really never had been to Hollywood blv before that . Anyway point is, relationships whether it be friends or a romantic relationship SHOULD be completely equal and treat each other as such. It absolutely has to be a two way street or it's very unfair to one person . I respect my gfs more then I respected myself at times. So you saying all men are dicks isn't right or fair. I treat my girlfriends/lovers amazingly. And even my female and male platonic friends.
You obviously don't understand my point of view. Yes, males have inferior intelligence, but they are still capable of love given enough female influence. Some males have had a lot of female influence in their lives and are as a result very feminine. I like these males. I have a feminine male friend who I treat divinely. You're right, I don't think everything is equal, but I assess everyone on an individual basis without prejudice.
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Re: I give up pursuing women [Re: Alyssa] 1
#23620903 - 09/07/16 06:29 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Alyssa said: Yes, males have inferior intelligence, but they are still capable of love given enough female influence.
Oh fuck off. What an absolute load of horseshit.
Humans are humans. We all have varying traits and tendencies. You're doing so much harm to the gender divide you so despise and consistently rail against with statements like that. It's disgustingly hypocritical.
You're just being part of the problem, and not part of the solution. I'm done.
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Re: I give up pursuing women [Re: Alyssa] 4
#23620904 - 09/07/16 06:31 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Seriously_trippin said: I feel you are the quintessential traitor to your gender. You say things like your gender is superior ,all men are terrible and much more hate towards males specifically. That's not progressive and it's not fair. It would revert back to the 50s except the men being housewives that get no life, identity or equal value with your partner. All because the Man/Woman of the house has such an over inflated ego and self importance that they consider their partner inferior.
A progressive fair view is to respect,care,listen and make everything equal. I always listen as much as I talk. I cook my gfs their favorite meals or bring them a single rose to work just because it wasThursday . And she'd also listen and take me to a place I casually mentioned I wanted to go but really never had been to Hollywood blv before that . Anyway point is, relationships whether it be friends or a romantic relationship SHOULD be completely equal and treat each other as such. It absolutely has to be a two way street or it's very unfair to one person . I respect my gfs more then I respected myself at times. So you saying all men are dicks isn't right or fair. I treat my girlfriends/lovers amazingly. And even my female and male platonic friends.
You obviously don't understand my point of view. Yes, males have inferior intelligence, but they are still capable of love given enough female influence. Some males have had a lot of female influence in their lives and are as a result very feminine. I like these males. I have a feminine male friend who I treat divinely. You're right, I don't think everything is equal, but I assess everyone on an individual basis without prejudice.
That's cute. Say, sugartits, my beer's gettin' warm over here and my sandwich ain't gonna make itself.
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Op, you were supposed to perform the one arm pull up on video and paste it to your okcupid bio
Fricking dood?!
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Alyssa
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Alyssa said: Well, he should have said relationships then, instead of women. Equating female human beings in general with relationships is wrong.
Now you're just splitting hairs. Do you realise how irrationally you come off saying that? It's fucking semantics, who really gives a fuck?? We both know what he was getting at.
Actually maybe you don't. Maybe you should go and seek some relationships so you can know what it's like first hand? You'll certainly learn a lot of things about yourself you didn't know before, I don't know a single person who's been committed to one, or finding one, that hasn't.
EDIT: Apart from Webster.
I believe that his use of the word women to mean relationships reveals an underlying misogyny. To me it's obvious that he has conflated the 2 concepts. Semantics are important because every word comes from the speaker's conscious or subconscious mind. Misogyny is often consciously covered up but it comes out subconsciously and I call it when I see it.
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Re: I give up pursuing women [Re: Alyssa]
#23620915 - 09/07/16 06:36 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Men, on average, are smarter than women. As well as more physically able. Don't deny science because you're butthurt about your sex.
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Alyssa said: Yes, males have inferior intelligence, but they are still capable of love given enough female influence.
Oh fuck off. What an absolute load of horseshit.
Humans are humans. We all have varying traits and tendencies. You're doing so much harm to the gender divide you so despise and consistently rail against with statements like that. It's disgustingly hypocritical.
You're just being part of the problem, and not part of the solution. I'm done.
Well, the ancient Chinese said the feminine is the dark side. I'm just reversing the yin-yang.
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Re: I give up pursuing women [Re: Webster10]
#23620929 - 09/07/16 06:44 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Webster10 said: Men, on average, are smarter than women.
Source? I didn't think so. We're smarter because we have the same number of neural connections crammed into a smaller space. Our brains are more efficient because they contain less matter but not less connections. Intelligence is limited by the speed of neural signals. It's like a computer chip, make it smaller with the same number of internal connections and it goes faster. The patriarchy oppresses us, so our output is reduced. That says nothing about our natural capacity.
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Re: I give up pursuing women [Re: Alyssa]
#23620940 - 09/07/16 06:50 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Webster10 said: Men, on average, are smarter than women.
Source? I didn't think so. We're smarter because we have the same number of neural connections crammed into a smaller space. Our brains are more efficient because they contain less matter but not less connections. Intelligence is limited by the speed of neural signals. It's like a computer chip, make it smaller with the same number of internal connections and it goes faster. The patriarchy oppresses us, so our output is reduced. That says nothing about our natural capacity.
Source for your claims? Seems like made up bullshit. I know my claim to be true, and don't feel the need to provide a source. Maybe your more tightly packed brain can research and figure it out on your own
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Re: I give up pursuing women [Re: Alyssa] 4
#23620941 - 09/07/16 06:50 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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10 to 1 Alyssa eventually catches a good deep down dirty dickin and chills the fuck out
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Re: I give up pursuing women [Re: Webster10]
#23620953 - 09/07/16 06:58 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Alyssa said:
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Webster10 said: Men, on average, are smarter than women.
Source? I didn't think so. We're smarter because we have the same number of neural connections crammed into a smaller space. Our brains are more efficient because they contain less matter but not less connections. Intelligence is limited by the speed of neural signals. It's like a computer chip, make it smaller with the same number of internal connections and it goes faster. The patriarchy oppresses us, so our output is reduced. That says nothing about our natural capacity.
Source for your claims? Seems like made up bullshit. I know my claim to be true, and don't feel the need to provide a source. Maybe your more tightly packed brain can research and figure it out on your own
Ha! You "know your claim to be true"? Based on what? Personal experience comparing oppressed females to dominating males? The patriarchy, like I said, reduces our output; we have to swim against the current while it just moves you along. My claim is based on pure logic, it makes perfect sense, you're just too misogynist to accept it.
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Re: I give up pursuing women [Re: Alyssa]
#23620984 - 09/07/16 07:16 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Alyssa said:
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Webster10 said:
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Alyssa said:
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Webster10 said: Men, on average, are smarter than women.
Source? I didn't think so. We're smarter because we have the same number of neural connections crammed into a smaller space. Our brains are more efficient because they contain less matter but not less connections. Intelligence is limited by the speed of neural signals. It's like a computer chip, make it smaller with the same number of internal connections and it goes faster. The patriarchy oppresses us, so our output is reduced. That says nothing about our natural capacity.
Source for your claims? Seems like made up bullshit. I know my claim to be true, and don't feel the need to provide a source. Maybe your more tightly packed brain can research and figure it out on your own
Ha! You "know your claim to be true"? Based on what? Personal experience comparing oppressed females to dominating males? The patriarchy, like I said, reduces our output; we have to swim against the current while it just moves you along. My claim is based on pure logic, it makes perfect sense, you're just too misogynist to accept it.
No, my claim is based on multiple peer reviewed studies, all published in reputable scientific journals. Your claim comes from imagination, is not based on logic whatsoever, and is just some more fantasy land bullshit
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Re: I give up pursuing women [Re: Webster10]
#23621023 - 09/07/16 07:33 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Webster10 said: No, my claim is based on multiple peer reviewed studies, all published in reputable scientific journals. Your claim comes from imagination, is not based on logic whatsoever, and is just some more fantasy land bullshit
Now you really need to provide a source, otherwise you're just lying. I'm certain that you're mistaken.
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