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Grenwolf
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Asking a girl to trip with me?
#23619540 - 09/06/16 08:02 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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So, there's this chick I'm kind of into. We were talking for a while today and I discovered that she's interested in psychedelics, but has never taken them. I heard from a friend of hers that my interest in her is mutual. I'm planning on asking her to maybe come trip with me the next time I see her. So, should I just ask her to come trip with me? How do I make it clear that it's not just a trip but a date kind of thing as well. Also, what kind of trip should it be? I generally like to go on hikes when I trip, would that be a good location for her first time as well as our first time being alone together in a situation like this? Thoughts appreciated
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Re: Asking a girl to trip with me? [Re: Grenwolf]
#23619583 - 09/06/16 08:14 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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What kind of trip should it be? Idk, maybe like a sexy trip or something.
Don't just ask her to come trip though man. Asking girls stuff is a huge turn off. If you aren't the kind of person to just sneak a dose into her (preferred route) then you should learn sign language, or do an interpretative dance. Bitches love that shit. Bonus points if you wear a shirt with her name on it.
Locations? Just tell her about a totally trippy place way way out in the woods somewhere. The most secluded one ever. Tell her there's weed and shrooms growing out there. But youu can only see it if you get naked. <not the graem i meant to summon but I'll go with it.
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DmTree
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Re: Asking a girl to trip with me? [Re: Grenwolf]
#23619585 - 09/06/16 08:15 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Plan it out and be at a house or somewhere she feels safe and in control. And keep the dose low.
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LuzaW
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Re: Asking a girl to trip with me? [Re: Grenwolf]
#23619588 - 09/06/16 08:15 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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to make it clear to her that it's a date, tell her that you'd like to take her out on a date. people do stuff on dates - movies, dinner, ball game, etc. instead of those usual things, tell her you'd like to trip. it's that simple.
but it could also be tricky and possibly get weird. tripping on a first date might be a little heavy and awkward if you're both kinda into each other and kinda nervous about it too. OTOH, it could be a perfect way to kick off a new relationship.
maybe a non-tripping first date to get past the jitters and whatnot followed up with a tip together if the first date goes well.
good luck!
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Peyote Road
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Re: Asking a girl to trip with me? [Re: LuzaW]
#23619604 - 09/06/16 08:19 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yeah I wouldn't recommend asking someone to trip for a first date, you need to get to know each other a bit first. Otherwise you will feel uncomfortable and awkward when the psychedelic breaks down your ego defenses.
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DmTree
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Re: Asking a girl to trip with me? [Re: Peyote Road]
#23619615 - 09/06/16 08:23 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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LuzaW said: to make it clear to her that it's a date, tell her that you'd like to take her out on a date. people do stuff on dates - movies, dinner, ball game, etc. instead of those usual things, tell her you'd like to trip. it's that simple.
but it could also be tricky and possibly get weird. tripping on a first date might be a little heavy and awkward if you're both kinda into each other and kinda nervous about it too. OTOH, it could be a perfect way to kick off a new relationship.
maybe a non-tripping first date to get past the jitters and whatnot followed up with a tip together if the first date goes well.
good luck!
Solid advice.
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Re: Asking a girl to trip with me? [Re: DmTree]
#23619638 - 09/06/16 08:31 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sounds like something special is gonna go down, proud of you bro good luck
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JesusDaMartian
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TRUE STORY
Years ago I worked at a clothing store. There I met a girl . She was hot, trippy, and special. I started talking to her and got her number. We talked nightly on the phone. One day I invited her to trip with me ( I told her we would go to the hookah bar and candy flip. ) She had never tried acid and was very excited. We started at the hookah bar and on our way up we found a cab and told him to take us to the beach.
The cab driver who played old 1950s music in his old yellow crown victoria dropped us off at a dead end road with an inlet to the ocean. The waves crashed against the seawall in the black of night. We were peaking ofn 3 hits of acid each and some molly. We were both scared as we were in an unfamiliar place with no co-rdination and blurred vision. I was cold. I held her hand and helped her to a garden we found two blocks over. We sat on a bench , drank water and calmed down together. Vision returned.
We walked across the beach and marveled at the psychedelic starscape together. We saw the future and it was a storm hiding a paradise just like the trip.
We walked over to the real beach entrance 9 blocks away This trip fuled a passionate romance. We traveled to Chile together and enjoyed a lot. The sex is amazing still. Now we have a son -
In the passed we've been on and off but now we are working on our family. Not everything was perfect. But Im not telling you this story to say you should or shouldnt do it with this girl. Im just sharing my experience about how one trip with a girl changed my life forever.
Be safe and in my opinion you should just ask her to share an amazing experience with you . And dont try and fuck while tripping just enjoy the magic together. Sex is best sober anyways. Much love Brother-
-JDM
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Sex while tripping is great. But if your first time having sex together is while tripping you may feel like every other time doesn't compare. So maybe save the trip for a later date? Don't blow your load right away.
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PsycheUltimatum


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Quote:
JesusDaMartian said:
TRUE STORY
Years ago I worked at a clothing store. There I met a girl . She was hot, trippy, and special. I started talking to her and got her number. We talked nightly on the phone. One day I invited her to trip with me ( I told her we would go to the hookah bar and candy flip. ) She had never tried acid and was very excited. We started at the hookah bar and on our way up we found a cab and told him to take us to the beach.
The cab driver who played old 1950s music in his old yellow crown victoria dropped us off at a dead end road with an inlet to the ocean. The waves crashed against the seawall in the black of night. We were peaking ofn 3 hits of acid each and some molly. We were both scared as we were in an unfamiliar place with no co-rdination and blurred vision. I was cold. I held her hand and helped her to a garden we found two blocks over. We sat on a bench , drank water and calmed down together. Vision returned.
We walked across the beach and marveled at the psychedelic starscape together. We saw the future and it was a storm hiding a paradise just like the trip.
We walked over to the real beach entrance 9 blocks away This trip fuled a passionate romance. We traveled to Chile together and enjoyed a lot. The sex is amazing still. Now we have a son -
In the passed we've been on and off but now we are working on our family. Not everything was perfect. But Im not telling you this story to say you should or shouldnt do it with this girl. Im just sharing my experience about how one trip with a girl changed my life forever.
Be safe and in my opinion you should just ask her to share an amazing experience with you . And dont try and fuck while tripping just enjoy the magic together. Sex is best sober anyways. Much love Brother-
-JDM

That is truly inspiring bro, so much love so much adventure, we can all hope one day we catch a glimpse of that, be it temporarily or permanently
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JesusDaMartian
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Yeah South America is awesome and if you went to college in America you get an instant high paying super chill job. Came back to NY to finish school then going back. N in most countries you can grow all the shrooms you like - . Legit though $500 a month gets you a luxury apt in a doorman building , electricity and internet included with a pool on the roof in Santiago Chile.
n Most deff icon is right about sex on tripping. Epic but as a first time may be strange.
JDM
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TheGODSmadeMe
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Tripping on a first date nikka you must be crazzzy. There already akward as fuck not tripping..i would try to hang and talk with her first bro get to know each other so its comfortable...like smoke some weed together first..talk
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howsyournaggerdoin
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It should be fine as long as you dont go overboard on the dosage
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TheGODSmadeMe
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Shes never tripped and they never been on a date...sound like social disaster to me..
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The Mycologist
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TheGODSmadeMe said: Shes never tripped and they never been on a date...sound like social disaster to me..
Unfortunately I think this statement is very true. I think you should try to get used to her a bit before tripping with her. She is going to be anxious if she barely knows you, ...yet.
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truthfull
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Yeah make sure you know her decently well before jumping down the rabbit hole with her course I don't think I had such protections when I was young lol
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AuroraBorealis88
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Re: Asking a girl to trip with me? [Re: Grenwolf]
#23621964 - 09/07/16 01:08 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Tripping while going on a first date? I don't know about that bro.
How well do you guys even know each other? I'd say do date first and trip later.
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fractalsybolism
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Oh man I love it when girls trip with me. We trip so hard.
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AuroraBorealis88
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fractalsybolism
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Did this person possibly mean "Asking a person to trip with me"?
Dude, people are so fucking weird.
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dcthestar
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I love tripping with my wife. Connect on a whole other level!
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Re: Asking a girl to trip with me? [Re: dcthestar]
#23623573 - 09/07/16 08:25 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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When I was in college (1981), it was a Friday night and everyone was planning to trip. A bunch of girls from another dorm came by and they all tripped for the first time. I knew one of them and we started talking.. and soon we were in my dorm room with the door locked. We must have been in there for hours. Funny thing is, all we did was talk. I didn't lay a hand on her. It was the ultimate bonding experience and we didn't even touch. I don't know why... I was pretty timid back then. The ME of now would have had those panties off in no time.
Our alone-time ended when everyone started banging on the door and they wouldn't leave us alone. After that we were a couple and we did all the things couples do.. unfortunately our relationship was cut short when I failed all my classes and had to move back home. We lost touch and I could never find her on the internet, facebook, etc.. I'd love to talk to her again.. 35 years later. She might not be alive anymore.
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