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Out of the loop
#23611821 - 09/04/16 04:08 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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I have like no friends anymore because i became a recluse and stopped keeping up with relstionship and now since every thing is different i dont know how to talk to people.
Ive been in a relationship for that past two years and my partner never really encouraged me to make old friends mew friends and now when i talk to people i feel like i am so lost in where things are now in how face book works.
Any ways how do i talk to old friends and acquaintances to become friends. I am single now but im not looking for a gf just friends amd i perfer girls as friends.
How do i talk to people without the convo dying and how long do i wait after a convo dies to hit that person up again if ever?
Hope i make sense im fucking wasted
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Skellies


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Keep asking them questions about themselves. The trick is to do it without it coming off as an interview. After a few questions you should start asking questions in the form of a statement. For example: "You seem well read, I bet you read a lot of books." This will prompt them to start talking about themselves. If it doesn't work then don't sweat it. They just aren't interested in you and you should move on.
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Crumist
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Re: Out of the loop [Re: Skellies]
#23612262 - 09/04/16 06:36 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Get out of the house, off schroomery and go do shit you enjoy. We aren't, and are incapable of being real friends
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Re: Out of the loop [Re: Crumist]
#23612333 - 09/04/16 06:57 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Well i just made face book and im wondering if its weird tonhit up random people i want to talk to that i know fron a long time ago? I think i will have done ot by the time i get a response here but what ever still i eant to know of in gping about this wrong or not
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Jokeshopbeard
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Re: Out of the loop [Re: Crumist] 2
#23612349 - 09/04/16 07:03 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Crumist said: We aren't, and are incapable of being real friends
I disagree. Many, many IRL friendships have been forged through the Shroomery.
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Anonymous #1
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Aaayyyyeeeee jokeshopbeard!!!! Whats up man whats been up?
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Jokeshopbeard
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Life is real good brother. We'll have ourselves another chat in the next few days. I'm very tired tonight, been a manic weekend and first nightshift (of 12) in the office...
Still, life has been very beautiful of late and filled with love, good people, and kindness. Hope it's the same for you, or at least heading there.
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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Anonymous #1
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I think it might be i got in touch with some old friends and have been trying to keep my mind off things.
Im excited for our next talk man! Cant wait just hit me up here or go ahead and call when you get time on that night shift in the next few days.
Cheers man again i cant wait to hear from ya im happy things are going well for you
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Repertoire89
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Quote:
Jokeshopbeard said:
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Crumist said: We aren't, and are incapable of being real friends
I disagree. Many, many IRL friendships have been forged through the Shroomery.
I wouldn't bother with this place otherwise.
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Anonymous #1
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So i tried hitting up some people i knew on facebook and all the conversations died out and they stopped responding quickly.
I feel hurt by how alone i feel... I would love some advice...
Let me know if i can pm you.
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Skellies


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you can me. I can't guarantee very fast replies tonight though. I'm supposed to be studying.
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Re: Out of the loop [Re: Skellies]
#23623309 - 09/07/16 07:15 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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me too. I'm extremely bored tonight.
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Crumist
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anytime
-------------------- 'I am all for resources being allocated to the widowed single mother of 3, lost husband over seas fighting for our country. I am for vets getting mental health access and resources following war. I am not for free money cause a woman can't close her legs or some chump with low testosterone no going to work cause "i'm sad."' -finalexplosion Nice knowin ya'll! https://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/23904704/vc/1#23904704
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Repertoire89
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NO!
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FruitOfLife
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Totally me. I am way more awesome to talk to, plus I have like 37 facebook friends so I know what I'm talking about
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Rosen_Rot
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Re: Out of the loop [Re: Crumist]
#23624582 - 09/08/16 02:50 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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I have like 430 facebook friends. Only one of them talks to me and she is starting to get really pissed with my depressive attitude she's got her own shit to sort out. Weekends are meaningless unless the family is having a BBQ but the rest I just stay at home and grab an early night. Literally this summer was just biding my time between one paycheque and another. Haven't really had many opportunities to go to events, since events requires you to have friends and I don't have any.
If it makes you feel any better I am not good at making and maintaining friendships. It seems all I do is eventually push people away. I am a great talker though but I never had a set of friends that I kept since childhood and all that jazz. I jumped from one social group to another like a flea until eventually they get sick of me and abandon me. Its happened multiple times, where ''friends'' would just one day stop talking to me, ignore me as if I never existed and the worst part is they never gave any reason
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Crumist said: Get out of the house, off schroomery and go do shit you enjoy. We aren't, and are incapable of being real friends
I can't say I've made real friends here considering everyone is from America. I met one guy on here who lives near me and he has helped me a lot with my cultivation but that's about it. If it wasn't for shroomery I would have turned on the gas and never saw the light of day ever again
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howsyournaggerdoin
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Do you live in germany or the netherlands by any chance ?
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Rosen_Rot
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No, Malta
I look German though, at least that's what the simpletons say
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howsyournaggerdoin
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Well thats a bit too far unfortunately
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