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zZZz said: i think u said what u really wanted to say and for that u did the right thing.. but was in the grand scheme of things, was it right to tell a grown adult, who's daughter u are dating, almost commanding them, that they should not hit their dog?, and in their own home?...
do you think dogs are objects or something
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specialpeopleclub said: id like to hear these other ways
You need to be that way to an animal. I know many who try to be gental, and their animals are terrible
I started with a spray bottle, and they just learned to ignore it
Well, I've heard that you can rub the dogs nose in the poop or pee and just from having the smell stuck on their nose would deture them from going in the house. They have a small kennel she sleeps in, you could use verbal commands and put her in the cage, maybe even after rubbing the dogs nose in the poop or pee. The spray bottle is a good one, what size dog do you have, it might work for a small dog, not sure how long a larger dog would tolerate.
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Burke Dennings said: Does your girlfriend think you did the right thing?
Edit: when you say that your girlfriend's parents "live with her", are you saying that it's her place, her name on the lease/mortgage?
I spoke with her about it afterwards and she said she would talk to her mom about it.
She's the only name on the mortgage and they live with her. They are all from Tiawan, she's been in the states for ten years now, both her parents are over 65 and her dad is the only one that works, sometimes. She takes care of them and pays for most everything.
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zZZz said: i think u said what u really wanted to say and for that u did the right thing.. but was in the grand scheme of things, was it right to tell a grown adult, who's daughter u are dating, almost commanding them, that they should not hit their dog?, and in their own home?...
Again, I care about the dog and when I heard multiple yelps, I decided to say something. You are very correct though, but I felt my opinion needed to be heard in that moment. I feel they respect me enough to at least listen, even though they don't understand English very well. In the grand scheme of things, does it really matter?
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ModestMouse said: How long have you been dating their daughter? I think that would play a small factor but I largely agree with zZ
We have been dating for 14 months. Her parents like me, which from what I hear about Asian culture, that sometimes can be difficult. They always listen and consider my opinions, right or wrong.
Most times I stay quiet and don't say much, but I just felt the need to speak up this time. Thanks for your opinions everyone.
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