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tealeaf
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I need some love (a good friend was murdered)
#23592512 - 08/30/16 06:36 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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I found out last night that a good buddy of mine was murdered outside of our favorite bar.
From what Ive gathered, a girl we know was fighting with her new boyfriend and my buddy stepped in and got his throat slit by this insecure/insignificant assfuck. He is in jail right now thankfully.
Ive had plenty of people die in my life from natural causes to drug overdoses but nothing like this. To have a friend murdered in cold blood by someone you know......I'm just at a loss for words.
If anyone has gone through something similar I would appreciate it if you could reach out and tell me how you're coping. Ive been having a tough year already and I'm a complete wreck now because of this. Where's the love in this hateful world people?
Edited by tealeaf (08/30/16 07:01 AM)
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Re: I need some love (a good friend was murdered) [Re: tealeaf]
#23592589 - 08/30/16 07:37 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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That is just plain fucked up. Sorry to hear about such a thing. Nothing anyone can say right now will ease the pain....Just hang in there and try to help his family to cope.
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Re: I need some love (a good friend was murdered) [Re: tealeaf] 2
#23592591 - 08/30/16 07:38 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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There once was a Void, a vast expanse of.. space itself you could say. This Void held no thing but itself, and the dreams of all things were within it. That void was a form of energy and the nature of that energy was attraction, pure attraction without repulsion, pure.. Love, without anything to act against it. This Void loved itself in every possible way and wanted all things to share Eternity with it.
The Void attracted itself and it condensed into a tremendous Big Bang that kicked the ashes of that Bang outward to burn up further until, after many many eons, the Void would remain again. Then, it would contract again, condense and explode again, dissolve again, for all eternity.
All eternity.
And so we have a universe that is a dance of energies but which ultimately is made of one thing, the Void that Loves unconditionally.
You and your friend, you were created by a higher love, given life, and now the twisted love of your friend's murderer took him away.
Your buddy, lost to you, but not lost forever. In this eternal dance of energies you will know your buddy in every possible way, forever, you will even BE him and he will be you, it is THAT close, because you are not the human but the Void itself.
You feel pain so much pain. At times you will feel numb, it will feel unreal to you, that is how humans deal with grief. You will get over this and your friend remains, remains in your heart and mind and eventually you will meet again.
Try to forgive the one who did this, when the time comes. To not forgive only prolongs your anguish.
Where is the love? The love is all around you, in all things with form and the One thing without it. The love is in your heart, radiating outward. The love is in your friends, offline and on, and it is right here, from the Void through my heart through my fingers and the internet, into your eyes, your heart and mind. The Love is here and it cannot be defeated. We are eternal, death is just a phase, its a parting until we meet again.
My heartfelt condolences for your loss, I hope this helps to ease your burden.
If you feel about telling about your friend, anything that is OK sharing, let us know.
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Re: I need some love (a good friend was murdered) [Re: Asante]
#23592810 - 08/30/16 09:03 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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I am really sorry for Your lost Brother! Don´t run from the pain....Face it and it will disapear with time (took 8-9 years for me) All so the anger will vanish with time belive me.
I had similar experience in my life years ago. My parter/wife/Loveofmylife killed her self while I was sleeping in next room....Just had helped her to get of opiates....Twice. Found out that my "friend" had been selling dope to her behind my back. First reaction was MurdaMurdakillakilla.....Luckily I was with my father who would not let me end his life the same day. He gave me advice " my son if you want to do that, wait one year and if after that you still feel that way Do it" Luckily I listened to him. Now days when I see the guy I hug him and tell him it is forgiven, I see from his eyes behind the tears that he learned his lesson.
Take care of yourself, Don´t spend too much time alone. If you want to talk PM me.
This is for the memory of your friend.
With Love LeningradCowboy
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Re: I need some love (a good friend was murdered) [Re: LeningradCowboy] 1
#23595875 - 08/30/16 11:00 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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So many ppl die intervening in fights,unless its a serious miss match I just keep walking,bars r the devils playground,seen so much crazy shit go down,over it...
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Re: I need some love (a good friend was murdered) [Re: tealeaf] 1
#23596558 - 08/31/16 07:09 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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rip
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Re: I need some love (a good friend was murdered) [Re: Sheekle]
#23596618 - 08/31/16 07:43 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Im sorry to hear that op just know at the very least you have a whole community here thats got your back
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Re: I need some love (a good friend was murdered) [Re: tealeaf]
#23596632 - 08/31/16 07:52 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sorry to hear that OP, i've never really dealt with something like that and i've dealt with death a few times before. Like pebbles cast into a still pond, as are we to the world around us. The actions, thoughts, and love we make and give ripple out across space-time changing the world in ways we are often unaware of at times. Your friend lives on through you and the people that knew him. Deepest condolences to you man.
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Re: I need some love (a good friend was murdered) [Re: tealeaf]
#23596736 - 08/31/16 08:49 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Quote:
tealeaf said: I found out last night that a good buddy of mine was murdered outside of our favorite bar.
From what Ive gathered, a girl we know was fighting with her new boyfriend and my buddy stepped in and got his throat slit by this insecure/insignificant assfuck. He is in jail right now thankfully.
Ive had plenty of people die in my life from natural causes to drug overdoses but nothing like this. To have a friend murdered in cold blood by someone you know......I'm just at a loss for words.
If anyone has gone through something similar I would appreciate it if you could reach out and tell me how you're coping. Ive been having a tough year already and I'm a complete wreck now because of this. Where's the love in this hateful world people?
I'm so sorry to hear that, tealeaf... I havent, but my brothers friend was once killed by an acquaintance's knife...
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That is so terrible to hear, my friend. My sincere condolences to you.. we got you.
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Re: I need some love (a good friend was murdered) [Re: Turtletotem]
#23598026 - 08/31/16 04:00 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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5150 said: So many ppl die intervening in fights,unless its a serious miss match I just keep walking,bars r the devils playground,seen so much crazy shit go down,over it...
A girl we all know was being beaten by her boyfriend outside of a bar. I would have stepped in too regardless of the dangers.
We had a vigil last night outside the bar (a Grateful Dead themed bar) and every news station showed up. I brought my guitar and played Grateful Dead (his favorite band, mine too) until bar close. Definitely helped being with so many people but it was the most emotionally taxing experience I've ever had in my life.
I really appreciate the love everyone, got a lot of love for the community here
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Re: I need some love (a good friend was murdered) [Re: tealeaf]
#23598378 - 08/31/16 05:55 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: I need some love (a good friend was murdered) [Re: tealeaf]
#23598386 - 08/31/16 05:58 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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The shitty thing about life is
There are no rules Anything goes in the existence of magic
Your story sounds... to say at the last filled with sorrow and disbelief
Time, my friendsl  No words for the injustice
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Re: I need some love (a good friend was murdered) [Re: tealeaf]
#23598389 - 08/31/16 06:00 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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I am so sorry for your loss an the pain and distress this puts you through
I offer my most sincere condolences and sympathies
I hope your period of grief is as gentle and brief as possible
I like to think of death as the merging of a drop of water that was an individual life back into the ocean of divine spirit which is its source.
Like a drop of water falling back into the ocean, merging back into undifferentiated unity .

Such mystical ideas might or might not resonate with you, but regardless I wish you comfort and peace.
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Re: I need some love (a good friend was murdered) [Re: Shroomopotamus]
#23598390 - 08/31/16 06:00 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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That's horrible. Hopefully he gets to rot in prison for murder. Much love in such a tragic time for you!
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Re: I need some love (a good friend was murdered) [Re: tealeaf]
#23598591 - 08/31/16 06:53 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Your friend died a noble death. Rip  
It is one thing to be killed, but to kill someone is just about the worst thing one can do..
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Re: I need some love (a good friend was murdered) [Re: zZZz]
#23598689 - 08/31/16 07:23 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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He was an only child and his Mom is divorced and lives by herself, she's pretty old too. We just found out she was diagnosed with cancer. Some pretty heavy shit for everyone involved, especially my friends that witnessed the crime.
Please be kind, no one should feel the way we do. So much comes from love and nothing comes from hate.
 
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Re: I need some love (a good friend was murdered) [Re: tealeaf]
#23598696 - 08/31/16 07:24 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Ouch man that's just awful. I can't even imagine what she's going through existentially right now... Have you tried reaching out to her? Seriously man that's some shit.
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