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Rhizohunter
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The tranny and the queen
#23591000 - 08/29/16 05:57 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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So I am in the middle of a decision, a very hard decision. My sexuality is unique, as everyone's is. I am into tranny's, chicks with dicks. I think it is hot. Not so much homosexuality because I am not attracted to the mans body, but a chick with a dick, that turns me on.
I really want this girl though, I want her body more than anything, she is perfect for me in every which way including mind. I love vagina, love eating it, love everything about it. This chick is very important as a whole, important in my story and to me.
I am denying my cravings for this tranny because I wonder how she will feel when I get her that I had sex with a tranny. I am aware of mind, I know minds, I know that it will bother her.
Do I give into sexual cravings?
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Re: The tranny and the queen [Re: Rhizohunter] 1
#23593478 - 08/30/16 12:19 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yes
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Re: The tranny and the queen [Re: Rhizohunter]
#23594766 - 08/30/16 06:34 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Have you considered a relationship with the tranny?
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Rhizohunter
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Well, it is an interesting situation, because I am an interesting situation.
I think I am gonna just hold off till I get my queen. She is the most important thing in my world.
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Re: The tranny and the queen [Re: Rhizohunter] 1
#23604439 - 09/02/16 11:47 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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I mean I guess you just seem like a typical tranny chaser to me. Dime a dozen. I hope you know you're still going to want to bang trannies after you marry your "queen" and probably will cheat on her with one the moment you start to get bored. It won't be what you are hoping for, you'll sobbingly confess to your "queen" that you were duped and seduced by her unnatural wiles. Then, a few months or years later, it will happen again. Happens all the time.
Edited by Anonymous (09/02/16 12:10 PM)
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Chakra Shock
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That's a pretty pessimistic view you've got there. Personally, I'm completely uninterested in whether or not someone is attracted to transgendered women or men. However, I am interested in disputing the prevailing opinion that people have no control over the sexualities, and will break bonds of trust in their relationships simply to fulfill their fantasies.
Do you have any faith in character anymore? You know there are plenty of people out there who can value a relationship more so than fulfilling a sexual fantasy...
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He never even answered my question
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Chakra Shock
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True, it is an individual kind of stance! I guess we'll see, if Rhizo ever gets back to this thread
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It's pretty typical for straight men who are attracted to trans women to treat us like disposable fucktoys. They'll populate their fantasies with us but heaven forbid a real human connection, that would just be so gay.
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which is really too bad. I think love of any kind is beautiful, and what's the point of getting deeply involved with someone, sexually, if there is no love? I mean sure, if two people, a 'straight' man and a trans woman set some rules that it was purely sexual, then no one has to get their feelings hurt.
But if a guy is attracted to trans women yet will not open their heart to a trans woman because of ignorant social stigma... well man, that's just a huge, ugly obstacle.
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The fact that he wouldn't answer that question is indicative, IMO, that he doesn't consider it worth answering. It probably reads like a joke to him.
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Rhizohunter
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No joke at all, I am here with a problem and I wanted to show it to the shroomery. You people I love, you are good people. I have great faith in you people forever and ever more.
Now, I really want this tranny, never had a tranny before, find it hot, but I am legit and I am after this girl. Really want this girls, she just turned 17 a couple days ago.
So, I am obviously gona bang this tranny, I think that is a good ending, but this girl that I really want is acting in another way.
Doesn't matter to me really, but my queen man, she is my queen and this world is gonna see it. So I wrote a book, a good book, something you all will want to see, and here you go.
file:///C:/Users/David/Downloads/The%20Root%20of%20David.pdf
ahh, tried to post it, but it didn't work
Edited by Rhizohunter (09/07/16 12:51 PM)
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Re: The tranny and the queen [Re: Rhizohunter] 2
#23621961 - 09/07/16 01:06 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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SMGDH
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Re: The tranny and the queen [Re: Rhizohunter] 1
#23622564 - 09/07/16 04:16 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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A book,? Did you seriously write a book or is that some sort of reference I don't get?
I'm dating a transgender woman right now, and have before in the past. You know your feelings are complicated and your "queen" is fucking 17. If you want a bang n go then make sure that you clearly express that is your intention. Otherwise don't bother. She's got a lot of shit she's gonna have to deal with and she doesn't need you complicating her life anymore than it already is.
I think its a bad idea to date teenagers in general, and especially if they have alot of life shit like this they're gonna need to deal with when they're 18, 19, 20.
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Re: The tranny and the queen [Re: Rhizohunter]
#23623273 - 09/07/16 07:04 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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OP important question to sort out your feelings or for me to give you better advice
Were you attracted to transgender women before meeting this "queen" of yours?
If so then what was the circumstances of your fantasy? To what extend was the attraction? Do you want a transgender woman to fuck you in the ass?
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Who doesn't
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Thats in line with my point. It would make it a relatively normal fantasy. Penetration by a woman that can get that intimate level of sexual pleasure out of it? Shit I think the idea is hot too.
But minds matter. Few transgender women I've met want to use their... Equipment... In such a manner. Especially the young and those without prior sexual experience. Which is completely understandable.
Anyway, as a ,"relatively normal" fantasy its not as malicious as you make it sound. Its failure to recognize it for what it is, a fantasy, that makes it a problem. A fantasy that is often off base with realities. OP sounds pretty young too. Or possibly high. Or young and high.
Grains of salt.
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I confess, I might be bitter, but only because it's a pretty typical pattern.
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Rhizohunter
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Quote:
CookieCrumbs said: OP important question to sort out your feelings or for me to give you better advice
Were you attracted to transgender women before meeting this "queen" of yours?
If so then what was the circumstances of your fantasy? To what extend was the attraction? Do you want a transgender woman to fuck you in the ass?
Well, I get into tranny porn, but honestly never came across an actual tranny before. Decided to go down that rode the other day and enjoyed it. Still had a problem with penetration though, not really a fan of anal sex when it comes down to it.
Love it all in porn, but when it comes down to it in physical reality I wasn't really feeling that part of the sex. It was okay and everything though, happy to have experienced it.
Yeah, my queen has a long way to go, probably won't be with her for years to tell you the truth. We both got a lot of growing to do.
I call her my queen because she was a part of something within my fantasy world where I would protect my queens and manifest whatever reality they wanted for them. It was a lot of fun, but as with tranny sex in physical reality, I can see a lot of complications with being with this chick.
It's a strange world, I am just beginning to really explore it.
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Re: The tranny and the queen [Re: Rhizohunter]
#23655131 - 09/18/16 09:41 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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i think it's odd that people care about their partner's past choices to the point of it making them not want to be with them. i suppose there are some extreme cases of past sexual behavior that would be hard for many to overcome. but a same sex/transgender experience, a threesome, a gang bang or whatever - especially if it was a one time (or a few times) deal when the individual was single and finding themselves - just doesn't seem like that big of a deal to me. it's really not any of my business as long as they didn't catch any diseases i should be aware of. that's just me though; as far as gender goes i'm pretty open minded and fairly kinky under the right circumstances.
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Re: The tranny and the queen [Re: millzy]
#23655351 - 09/18/16 11:07 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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I don't fuck cis people anymore
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That's hella cisist
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It's just not worth the psychological harm that could occur as a result of internalizing the sorts of ideas most cis peole share with me in the bedroom. There are some cis people who are worth fucking, but I haven't met very many and I don't think there would be any way to "vet" them either way. It's a fucking minefield. I might go back in if y'all ever decide to clean it up.
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Yeah if you have doubts try watchin a tranny jerk off it really doesn't look the same when it's just the tranny
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Dude, OP, you can't fantasize about 17 year olds, just no. For everyone's sake just forget about her. Sorry to be rude, but come on.
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Re: The tranny and the queen [Re: K-9 Unit]
#23662406 - 09/20/16 05:03 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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But he can in 1 to 365 days?
That's stupid. Admit it.
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I don't think that was a legal principle, but an ethical one. Once you're past a certain age, trying to start a sexual relationship with someone who's really just a kid is fucked up.
Of course there are exceptional young people who are mature beyond their age, but most of them don't have one iota of a cosmic brainfart about what's really going on. Adults should not be trying to start romances with the average young person, and even into the early twenties, because there's just too much room for error and manipulation to take place.
And to Anon#2, what kind of psychological baggage takes place in the bedroom between yourself and cis people?
And do we really have to have all these damn categories like 'trans' and 'cis'? Can't we just be whoever the fuck we want to be without needing endless labels to describe ourselves?
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Being treated like a fetish doll takes a toll after a while. Cis people would treat me that way regardless to what label they fixed to me. They can't help but invalidate me because it's part of their culture, and by and large, they don't seem interested in trying to fix it. The vast majority don't even see the problem, no matter how badly they want to fuck the lies they tell each other about me.
When cis people stop treating me like an exotic novelty to be consumed and discarded, I'll start having sex with cis people again. Until then, cis remains useful to me as a label for people with whom I'd rather just not have any sex at all.
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Anonymous said: Being treated like a fetish doll takes a toll after a while. Cis people would treat me that way regardless to what label they fixed to me. They can't help but invalidate me because it's part of their culture, and by and large, they don't seem interested in trying to fix it. The vast majority don't even see the problem, no matter how badly they want to fuck the lies they tell each other about me.
When cis people stop treating me like an exotic novelty to be consumed and discarded, I'll start having sex with cis people again. Until then, cis remains useful to me as a label for people with whom I'd rather just not have any sex at all.
Eh, my recent first experience dating another trans woman wasn't any different. She just wanted the thing between my legs even though when we started dating I told her that I was sub. I'm starting to think it's people in general. Although I think I established that I don't want to be with a woman from this. Maybe I'll just stick to my porn and cactus right now. I think once I get to a certain point with my HRT I may start dating people again, but I'm going to be very selective if I do. Really make him wait for sex, see how serious he really is.
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Cis people have been very abusive toward me since my transition. I actually wanted to avoid getting this sort of chip on my shoulder when I started but it's been pretty hard to stay chill when such a large and well-defined group of people insists on treating you like a non-human space filler based on their culture. Cis people almost never truly respect my identity, even if their pronouns and PC jargon are immaculate. They will use my insecurity as a psychological weapon against me. They validate me in exchange for my subservience. They do this without seeing any problem, because my identity is false to them, a game of make-believe to be sustained only when convenient. There are so few who have any idea there's something wrong with their perspective, it's pointless to bet with your mental health that somebody you're dating is or could become one of them. It's not worth the risk.
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There was a cis guy I fell for a few years back that is really understanding of me. One of the greatest people I've ever met, pretty sure he'll never be into me because I'm trans, but I still love him. It's completely valid for a cis person not to want to date trans people too. Personally I'm happy if I never find someone, but it could be nice to find someone worth spending my life with. I prefer tripping to sex though.
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i can't imagine living in a world that largely dismisses my identity. but love is a game that you just can't play without getting hurt. and in my experience, falling in love has always been something that happens to me rather than a calculated set of decisions me and another person make about each other. you can set your limits, make your rules, but in the end, it comes for you, often in the form of a challenge to every single limit and rule you've set for yourself. the trick is not letting your own bullshit interfere with letting love into your life. i suppose it boils down to how much of that sort of regret are you truly willing to live with.
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Regardless of what one thinks of another's identity, it is completely inappropriate on many levels to treat someone as an object rather than a being ( unless such a relationship is desired and agreed upon from everyone involved ). On some levels, identity is always an act. Even the way we relate to our own bodies is kind of like mental clothing that we put on and will eventually take off. That's not to say that identity is not incredibly important, but simply that there's no reason to respect some identities more than others simply because of the way someone was born. We can be whoever we want to be, I wish more people understood that instead of flailing around in their own egoic sense of superiority, causing pain for those who happen to be less generally accepted by society as a whole.
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Re: The tranny and the queen [Re: millzy]
#23664489 - 09/21/16 09:29 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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millzy said: i can't imagine living in a world that largely dismisses my identity. but love is a game that you just can't play without getting hurt. and in my experience, falling in love has always been something that happens to me rather than a calculated set of decisions me and another person make about each other. you can set your limits, make your rules, but in the end, it comes for you, often in the form of a challenge to every single limit and rule you've set for yourself. the trick is not letting your own bullshit interfere with letting love into your life. i suppose it boils down to how much of that sort of regret are you truly willing to live with.
Truthfully, if I ever fall in love again, I will follow my heart, as I always have. But right now my heart belongs to this beautiful woman who has come into my life, and I hope she will keep it close to hers for a long time. She's everything to me. Truthfully this isn't about labels, it's about her, my feelings for her and the blissful tenderness we share. It's never been like this for me before.
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sounds lovely. I wish you the best in the unfolding of your love and heart.
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