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Anonymous #1
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21 yo guy and 17 yo girl
#23589093 - 08/29/16 05:14 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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So there's this girl I've started having some kind of feelings for. Anyway I told her how I feel and she feels the same. We smoke weed together, we chill together. I know I could easily escalate things with her, but I'm scared of hurting her and she's a very clever girl and gets good grades and is responsible. But I just feel weird, should I wait for her to be 18? Or should I just go with the flow and let things just happen? She's tried to kiss me, and she's tried to make a move touch me, but I've rejected her, I just feel like she doesn't understand and is just trying to "impress" me. And I duno if the next time she tries something I won't be able to help myself.
I care about her but I also I want to be with her. Experience life with her, learn new things, teach her a few things you just be chilled.
I checked on google if a 17 and 21 yo is fine, but everything I found was pretty much it's not right, and that I am damaged for falling for a girl that young. I'm so confused, I want to expierence love either in a friendship way or whatever, but I'm scared of hurting her or myself.
Edited by Anonymous (08/29/16 05:18 AM)
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Anonymous #2
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Not a huge deal, got a friend who's 26 dating an 18 year old - we give him shit but I doubt anyone actually judges him. When I was 21 I couldn't stand to hang out with anyone that young but if you find her mature enough go with your instincts. A few months of aging isn't going to matter one way or the other. If she were like 14 that's obviously way off and you'd be more apt to speak of damage or taking advantage but you're pretty close to that (age/2)+7 rule of thumb
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Anonymous #3
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Legal age where i am is 16, i left home at age 17 and moved in with my bf who was 23 or 24 at the time, and we lived together quite a while happily, can work if she is a mature girl, all comes down to the maturity i guess
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Anonymous #4
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Personally, I would fuck anything with three or less legs right about now. go for it.
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Anonymous #5
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Next time she makes a move on you, you damn well let her. Don't grow up regretting it, don't over think it. Just do, and have some fucking fun.
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Anonymous #6
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I dated a 16yo when I was 22. Wanted to marry her, she told me she thought she was too young. I fucked up the relationship with alcoholism.
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Anonymous #7
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Anonymous #4 said: Personally, I would fuck anything with three or less legs right about now. go for it.
Poor flamingos.
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Anonymous #8
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Just do it. Seriously, the laws in US is stupid, the "Should I wait till she is 18" is nonsense. In my country, the legal age is 15, which is perfect, because then people won't have that kind of thoughts
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Anonymous #9
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Anonymous #6 said: I dated a 16yo when I was 22. Wanted to marry her, she told me she thought she was too young. I fucked up the relationship with alcoholism.
What 16 year old girl in her right mind would marry a 22 year old alcoholic? Are you kidding me haha of course the relationship ended. Did you go to her Junior prom?
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Anonymous #4 said: Personally, I would fuck anything with three or less legs right about now. go for it.
three or fewer*
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Anonymous #6
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Anonymous #6 said: I dated a 16yo when I was 22. Wanted to marry her, she told me she thought she was too young. I fucked up the relationship with alcoholism.
What 16 year old girl in her right mind would marry a 22 year old alcoholic? Are you kidding me haha of course the relationship ended. Did you go to her Junior prom?
It wasn't heavy alcoholism at the time, just a six pack every other day or so. It was the foray into liquor that blew things up. She was an alcoholic in high school. I had a steady full time job and guaranteed apartment. We were together for three years. No I didn't go to her junior prom, I did go to her high school graduation. Her mother loves me and told me that she was shocked we broke up and had always seen us getting married.
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Anonymous #10
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i banged a 17 year old when i was 29. its legal in NY believe it or not. Love was not in the equation though.
When I was 17 i dated a 15 year old, and when I turned 18 she was still 15 for a couple weeks until she turned 16. I felt very uncomfortable about that at the time.
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Anonymous #11
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If it's legal then go for it! You never know what will happen. If it's not legal then PLEASE just wait until she's 18. It's not worth it...
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Anonymous #12
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Anonymous #10 said: When I was 17 i dated a 15 year old, and when I turned 18 she was still 15 for a couple weeks until she turned 16. I felt very uncomfortable about that at the time.
I went through the same situation. Got really fucking paranoid about it one night after eating some hash cakes.
It's fucking retarded. I loved the girl and we were together 4 years. We broke up because she out-matured me. But the fact that the law is out there made me feel like shit for a few months.
Thanks lawmakers.
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Anonymous #10
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Anonymous #12 said:
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Anonymous #10 said: When I was 17 i dated a 15 year old, and when I turned 18 she was still 15 for a couple weeks until she turned 16. I felt very uncomfortable about that at the time.
I went through the same situation. Got really fucking paranoid about it one night after eating some hash cakes.
It's fucking retarded. I loved the girl and we were together 4 years. We broke up because she out-matured me. But the fact that the law is out there made me feel like shit for a few months.
Thanks lawmakers.
Well mine turned 18 graduated and took off out of state for a better life with her ex BF... Now shes married to him and lives here again with him and their 2 kids. But she still manages to find time for me to pick her up and let her blow me in my car whenever I damn well please. LOL worked out well
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Anonymous #1
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Thanks to all the replies I appreciate them. So fast forward to the present, I've confessed I love her, she's opened up to me more and i have to.. And we in a just talking a lot more and getting to know each other.
We've sorted out a date for her to come mine to make space cakes .. Should I fuck her? It's legal where I am. But I'm worried she'll make a lie that I drugged her and raped her.
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Anonymous #6
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Don't fuck on the first date. That should be a rule no matter what ages are in question.
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Anonymous #13
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Anonymous #6 said: Don't fuck on the first date. That should be a rule no matter what ages are in question.
Yeah that is what anal fisting and puke-gag bj's are for, be gent and fuck on the 2nd date, the following afternoon.
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Anonymous #10
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If shes coming over to your house to make "space cakes", shes already decided to fuck you
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Anonymous #14
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My wife was 17 when I was 21. Eight years later we are married and have a beautiful one year old son. In the long run it worked out. But I wouldn't recommend it. I put her through hell with my depression. She's always been the mature one, but I'd say I exposed her to life too soon. Let her keep her innocence. If you all want to fool around like kids that's one thing, but don't go steady with her. That's for her sake, not yours.
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