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Re: Im terrible about seducing women [Re: Patlal]
#23611682 - 09/04/16 03:08 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Well put, there's nothing really complicated about flirting or asking someone out
"Do you have plans this weekend? I'm going to [], want to come with?"
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Re: Im terrible about seducing women [Re: Repertoire89]
#23613665 - 09/05/16 03:39 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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haha, its really that simple to ask a girl out?
Im guessing u dont ask strangers but girls that u *kinda* know already?
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Re: Im terrible about seducing women [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
#23613677 - 09/05/16 03:48 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Realistically all seduction boils down to "I think you are attractive and I want to rub my genitals against yours" Wait for response and proceed accordingly.
Always worked well for me.
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Don't worry about it. Most of them just want to destroy you anyway. Have fun and see what happens.
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Ulfrick said: Realistically all seduction boils down to "I think you are attractive and I want to rub my genitals against yours"
I always approach from the opposite direction. Casually talk with the woman of my desire, being 100% myself throughout, and then wait for her to want my genitals inside her. Drop a few cues that I would enjoy that also and then proceed accordingly.
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Re: Im terrible about seducing women [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#23613750 - 09/05/16 04:40 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Love is a numbers game
Expect to fail over and over
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howsyournaggerdoin said: Love is a numbers game
I disagree with this statement. Finding a partner is a numbers game. Love (true love, the stuff that expects nothing) is a gift from the gods. All the numbers in the world won't bring it unless you've worked to deserve it.
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Re: Im terrible about seducing women [Re: Jokeshopbeard] 1
#23613821 - 09/05/16 05:59 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Guess we have to agree to disagree
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Re: Im terrible about seducing women [Re: Repertoire89]
#23613914 - 09/05/16 07:13 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Hmmmmm
I liked that fast food employee reference I wonder if I should try and just be that direct. Thing is I'm a total stranger, like no common friends or nothing. Go big or go home I suppose
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Re: Im terrible about seducing women [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
#23613918 - 09/05/16 07:16 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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how long ago did you an the gf breakup LC?
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Re: Im terrible about seducing women [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
#23613957 - 09/05/16 07:30 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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OP just make friends. Think about how comfortable you are around friends, trying too hard to get laid feels uncomfortable. If you get comfortable, they will see you're confident, and as long as your intentions/feelings are clear, things will evolve naturally if they are meant to. I'm not saying to not put in effort, I'm just saying not everyone you want is going to want to fuck you. Half the battle is rejection, but if you present yourself as not only confident and understanding, as well as simply you, you're more likely to entice and wetten the panties you wish to enter. It sounds hecka cheese but just be yourself. And if the body language makes sense.. go for it(but not too aggressively). Nothing to lose. Regret is one of the few emotions you live with forever, right? Embarassment always seems to be funny after a while. I'd rather be potentially embarrassed/awkward and maybe get laid or meet someone cool, than to have regret and have no chance of either.
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Re: Im terrible about seducing women [Re: Sheekle]
#23613992 - 09/05/16 07:47 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sheekle said: how long ago did you an the gf breakup LC?
We are still together in fact, its just im terrible at seducing girls (in general), and i wanted advice on how to seduce girls (in general) in order to help seduce my GF into having more sex with me.
Also, its also past tense, as in the past i was terrible at seducing girls and wanted to know what u guys did to get the girl.
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Re: Im terrible about seducing women [Re: LogicaL Chaos] 1
#23614063 - 09/05/16 08:17 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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LogicaL Chaos said: haha, its really that simple to ask a girl out?
Im guessing u dont ask strangers but girls that u *kinda* know already?
I'll ask out a stranger, in the right environment.
At a show, maybe in a park, whatever. Just need to start a conversation.
Your mileage may vary though, and its always a numbers game. Even if you make a great impression, she could just be taken
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Re: Im terrible about seducing women [Re: LogicaL Chaos] 1
#23657112 - 09/18/16 09:42 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Another female perspective throwing my opinion into the conversation here.
Don't look at it like "seducing a woman". That implies that it's some sort of game that you have to win to get the right girl. That there's some sort of list out there of steps to complete that guarantee a woman will like you and that you just have to do the steps correctly to get the girl. Accept the fact that there are many women out there that you could possibly start a relationship with (be it only a one night stand, a few week or month long fling, or a long term relationship) because there is a mutual attraction and there are many more women out there that you will not be able to because there is lacking connection- on your side or her's.
Like other's have said, try to get out and make friends. Build your general social skills. Build yourself and make yourself an attractive person to be around, and then you will have an easier time appealing to a woman. Have hobbies, interests, a strong sense of self and you will be able to confidently approach a woman you're attracted to, start a conversation, and here's the most important part- if she finds you interesting and attractive and is open to the same type of relationship you're seeking- she will engage with you.
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Re: Im terrible about seducing women [Re: Anonymous #2]
#23657532 - 09/19/16 01:04 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Solid advice Anom. #1.
Thank you.
I guess I made the assumption that all women enjoy being seduced by men
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