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Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. *DELETED*
    #23583628 - 08/27/16 01:56 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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“[...]the only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved,
desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!”



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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23583654 - 08/27/16 02:01 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Honestly, I wouldn't be surprised if all this blew up in your face. I don't wanna rain on your parade and I obviously don't know all the details but it seems like every time I've known of something like this happening it goes sideways fast. Even happened to me a couple of times before I got the message. In the end you end up losing the both of them and in my case(s) having a long lasting obsession with the "new one" and realizing how much I actually liked "the old one". It's like getting ripped in half aching for both but having neither of them.

To answer the question, ASAP if you're going to go through with this. Not gonna get any easier and it's a pretty dick thing to do to screw around and string people along waiting for when it's convenient for you to break the news.


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I don’t want to get back up but I have to so it might as well be today.
Nothing appeals to me no one feels like me, I’m too busy being calm to disappear.
I’m in no shape to be alone contrary to the shit that you might hear.


You can't wake up, this is not a dream. You're part of a machine, you are not a human being
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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23583695 - 08/27/16 02:16 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Honesty and compassion is the best policy.

This is one of the reasons I truly believe couples should keep their bank accounts, incomes and finances largely seperate.

Break ups are messy and complicated enough without having your economic lives tangled up as well.

I hope things work out we'll for you!

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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Shroomslip]
    #23583703 - 08/27/16 02:20 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Get it over asap

Every uninformed moment you spend together from this point onward will be a lie. That will hurt her bad when you finally do tell her


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Shroomslip]
    #23583710 - 08/27/16 02:21 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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In the end you end up losing the both of them and in my case(s) having a long lasting obsession with the "new one" and realizing how much I actually liked "the old one". It's like getting ripped in half aching for both but having neither of them.

To answer the question, ASAP if you're going to go through with this. Not gonna get any easier and it's a pretty dick thing to do to screw around and string people along waiting for when it's convenient for you to break the news.




You're absolutely right.

What you mentioned about losing both of them is definitely what's making me the most nervous.

Now, I've been considering just calling her while she's still in Florida, and although I would hate to break up with someone over the phone, she at least has her family and friends there. What do you think about that?

I just got off the phone with her a couple minutes ago and it was on the tip of my tongue but couldn't go through with it.


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“[...]the only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved,
desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!”



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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Tripsurfer]
    #23583720 - 08/27/16 02:24 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Thanks, Moonshoe.

Yea, the idea to put her on my account was so that she would be more responsible with her spending. I did it a month ago. Fortunately she's not one to give a shit about money which is why I put her on the account in the first place.

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Get it over asap

Every uninformed moment you spend together from this point onward will be a lie. That will hurt her bad when you finally do tell her




Yep. So what do you think about doing it now, while she's away?
It would be on the phone but she's around family and friends. She has no need to come back here, really. It's my house, my furniture, etc...
I just don't want her to suffer alone.


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“[...]the only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved,
desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!”



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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23583745 - 08/27/16 02:31 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

You have been pretty serious with this girl (Hoolahoop girl right?) so I kinda think she deserves face-time for a breakup. I do however see something in your point as well

If she really is mentally unstable the safest would be to let het know now. But women are crazy man, you never know whats going to happen :shrug: She might hightail it outta there


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Tripsurfer]
    #23583761 - 08/27/16 02:41 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Yea, serious relationship going on 1 year and 2 months.

I really appreciate you taking the time to try and help man. Thank you.


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“[...]the only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved,
desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!”



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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Tripsurfer]
    #23583770 - 08/27/16 02:43 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

She could also just as easily go crazy and make your life living hell for awhile. Tread carefully.


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: ReposadoXochipilli]
    #23583780 - 08/27/16 02:45 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

I just had to do this exact same thing kr0n. Still not sure if I made the right decision :sad:


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I'm ugly, Enlil is beautiful.
I'm a loser, Enlil is a winner.
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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
    #23583786 - 08/27/16 02:48 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Kroniko maybe you should take her off your bank account before you tell her so she can't do anything vindictive .


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: ReposadoXochipilli]
    #23583788 - 08/27/16 02:48 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Yea, I was talking to my mom about it this morning and her main worry was that she would take a knife to me while sleeping or something along those lines.

It's kind of funny to even think that's possible, but it's fucking possible when the jokes are set aside.

As for making my life a living hell, I may be a little blind right now, but I just don't see how if I'm not living with her. She really has no options here... No job, no prospects of one, hasn't put herself out there to make any friends.

The only outcome I see right now is that she goes back home.

Of course, she could become a crazy homeless woman that stalks me around the mountains of Colorado, but let's all hope that doesn't happen.


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“[...]the only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved,
desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!”



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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23583789 - 08/27/16 02:48 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Maybe she will see this thread and you won't have to put in any work..


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
    #23583794 - 08/27/16 02:51 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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Malcolm_Xtasy said:
I just had to do this exact same thing kr0n. Still not sure if I made the right decision :sad:




I just read your post in the other thread.
Did you find someone new, or just felt stagnant in your relationship where you knew it needed to end?

I know I'll be sad as well. That's unavoidable, but do you have any urges to just run out to her and yell "that was a mistake, I'm sorry!" lol


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“[...]the only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved,
desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!”



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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: zZZz]
    #23583800 - 08/27/16 02:52 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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Kroniko maybe you should take her off your bank account before you tell her so she can't do anything vindictive .




Yea, I'm on my Wells Fargo account page right now debating what to do. She'll obviously know something's up if I take any action in that department right now.

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Maybe she will see this thread and you won't have to put in any work..




Right?

One should be so lucky.


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“[...]the only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved,
desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!”



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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23583803 - 08/27/16 02:52 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

One bad blow out fight that leads to cop's being involved could change everything. I would do it while she is in florida if you are going to do it.


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23583839 - 08/27/16 03:05 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

It was a combination of both. She had less time for me after starting pharmacy school and I just started working a full time job. I also started talking to someone else, but the truth is, I never treated her the way she deserved to be treated. It would've been so selfish of me to keep it going si I had to let her go. Wonderful woman, but the timing was just off. Also there was a 5 year age gap that reared its ugly head toward the end. Shes 29 and im 24.

I do wish I could make everything go back to how it was but I know it's not good for either of us. I hope she finds someone that actually deserves her. It sure as hell isn't me.


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I'm ugly, Enlil is beautiful.
I'm a loser, Enlil is a winner.
Someday, I hope to be like Enlil but secretly know I never will.


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23583866 - 08/27/16 03:11 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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Now, I've been considering just calling her while she's still in Florida,



That'd be a tad fucked.


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
    #23583933 - 08/27/16 03:26 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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ReposadoXochipilli said:
One bad blow out fight that leads to cop's being involved could change everything. I would do it while she is in florida if you are going to do it.




I live in an incredibly rural area on the Western Slope of Colorado. My next door neighbor is the County Sheriff, and a friend. There is one only one other local cop and he's also my tomato "dude".

We've gotten into a fight once here before that was serious. It became violent, meaning she hit me. I can't, won't touch a woman... Anyways, I'm pretty sure they're on my side with any shenanigans like this.



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It was a combination of both. She had less time for me after starting pharmacy school and I just started working a full time job. I also started talking to someone else, but the truth is, I never treated her the way she deserved to be treated. It would've been so selfish of me to keep it going si I had to let her go. Wonderful woman, but the timing was just off. Also there was a 5 year age gap that reared its ugly head toward the end. Shes 29 and im 24.

I do wish I could make everything go back to how it was but I know it's not good for either of us. I hope she finds someone that actually deserves her. It sure as hell isn't me.




:hug:

Man, so many coincidences with your situation and mine.
Primarily the age gap which is exactly the same as yours.

I feel the same way as you as far as what I want for her in the future.

I respect you so much for doing the right thing. Hopefully I can as well without fucking everything up. Thanks, Malcolm. I truly wish you all the best in everything you're trying to achieve.


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“[...]the only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved,
desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!”



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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23583938 - 08/27/16 03:27 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Thanks man. I've been having a rough fucking time but hopefully its for the best.


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I'm ugly, Enlil is beautiful.
I'm a loser, Enlil is a winner.
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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
    #23583950 - 08/27/16 03:30 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

My life isn't changing and I need help.
@kron
My answer to you is to start shooting smack again, it seems to simplify things down to a binary system. This way either you're fucking up terribly and you know it or you're doing swell.

Women only confuse things


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0] * 1
    #23583953 - 08/27/16 03:31 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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We share a home, a bank account, a life. We moved to out to Colorado together to essentially start our family even though I always knew it couldn't last forever. Fucking selfish on my part, I know.





You were wearing her like you wore that fake dreads hat when you tried to convince us that you had dreads. Shame on you!


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: propensity]
    #23583990 - 08/27/16 03:39 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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You were wearing her like you wore that fake dreads hat when you tried to convince us that you had dreads. Shame on you!




Yep, but now my real hair is dready and I can no longer lie to her or myself.

Thanks for the obvious advice, you dick. That was over 4 years ago. :facepalm:


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“[...]the only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved,
desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!”



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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23583999 - 08/27/16 03:42 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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even though I always knew it couldn't last forever. Fucking selfish on my part, I know.

So, what do I do when she gets back? Immediately tell her what's going on and break up with her?




Been there, end it now.


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23584009 - 08/27/16 03:43 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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You were wearing her like you wore that fake dreads hat when you tried to convince us that you had dreads. Shame on you!




Yep, but now my real hair is dready and I can no longer lie to her or myself.

Thanks for the obvious advice, you dick. That was over 4 years ago. :facepalm:




And the pattern of deception of self and others continues to devastating consequences.

See what I'm getting at?


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: ModestMouse]
    #23584011 - 08/27/16 03:43 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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My life isn't changing and I need help.
@kron
My answer to you is to start shooting smack again, it seems to simplify things down to a binary system. This way either you're fucking up terribly and you know it or you're doing swell.

Women only confuse things




As stupid as this is, it would've made sense at one point in my life. 7 years ago maybe...

I haven't been addicted to opiates in many years, and the few times I slipped up along the way, I didn't enjoy being high which was very disappointing, but great.

Even if becoming a junkie again were enticing to me, I still have a friend moving in in less than a week with two young kids. I would never do that to her or her kids. She needs help and heroin certainly won't do any of us any good.


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“[...]the only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved,
desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!”



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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: propensity]
    #23584033 - 08/27/16 03:49 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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You were wearing her like you wore that fake dreads hat when you tried to convince us that you had dreads. Shame on you!




Yep, but now my real hair is dready and I can no longer lie to her or myself.

Thanks for the obvious advice, you dick. That was over 4 years ago. :facepalm:




And the pattern of deception of self and others continues to devastating consequences.

See what I'm getting at?




I do, and you certainly have a point.
I had a problem, have a problem being entirely honest.

It's something I've been working extremely hard on for 2 years now.

Even though in the back of my mind I knew that I probably wouldn't be with her for the rest of my life, she knows that. That's why we've had an open relationship since day 1, in case something like this happened. She would be fine with having this new woman in our relationship, but new woman wants a monogamous relationship, and truthfully, so do I.

Open relationships are rather stupid after having been in one. They simply can't work. Polyamory is a joke.


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the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved,
desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!”



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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23584044 - 08/27/16 03:51 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Just read the rest of the thread, personally I would probably end it in person.

There's nothing like waiting for someone to show up, knowing they're extremely pissed with you the whole plane ride. Let her enjoy her vacation and catch some sleep when she arrives. For both your sakes.


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Repertoire89]
    #23584061 - 08/27/16 03:57 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Thanks, Repertoire.

That seems like the most sensible thing to do.
It's what I've been imagining since all this started happening.

I'm sorry if I've wasted anyone's time here having already kind of made a decision, and just really looking for reassurance. But I posted this in order to see if there was any other way of going about this. A better way.

Doesn't seem like it.


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desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!”



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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23584067 - 08/27/16 03:59 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Life is scary, and you should be scared.
But don't be scared.


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: ModestMouse]
    #23584069 - 08/27/16 04:00 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

ModestMouse said:
My life isn't changing and I need help.
@kron
My answer to you is to start shooting smack again, it seems to simplify things down to a binary system. This way either you're fucking up terribly and you know it or you're doing swell.

Women only confuse things




Hahaha I love this dudes posts man

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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: goldcaphunter]
    #23584080 - 08/27/16 04:03 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

So many relationships coming to an end around here just lately (including mine) Must be some thing in the air or some shit!

I hope every thing works out for every one. Shit sucks man :sad:


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Bubbles85]
    #23584109 - 08/27/16 04:10 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

I've always found the following chart interesting and disappointing:



It's supposed to be a chart of when most people in the US break up.

We are at the lowest lull of that chart which means one of two things; The chart is completely skewed, or there's actually something in the air. lol

Shit does suck indeed. I hope we can all become better people from these experiences.


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the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved,
desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!”



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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23584119 - 08/27/16 04:11 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

wtf


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23584144 - 08/27/16 04:15 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

How do you break up with someone on April fools day?

"I love you a baby.... not"
:borat:


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23584344 - 08/27/16 05:02 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Mine actually ended about 5 weeks ago now, so would tie in with the spike in that chart in July :shocked:


Edited by Bubbles85 (08/27/16 05:03 PM)


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Repertoire89]
    #23584351 - 08/27/16 05:04 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

Repertoire89 said:
How do you break up with someone on April fools day?

"I love you a baby.... not"
:borat:



:lolsy:


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Repertoire89]
    #23584405 - 08/27/16 05:16 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

:rofl:

There's some stupid damn people in this world.
You shouldn't be surprised.

Thanks for making me laugh.


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the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved,
desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!”



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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23584436 - 08/27/16 05:23 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

hi kron


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Cowb0yNeal00]
    #23584475 - 08/27/16 05:32 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

You must be honest wth her and most importantly with yourself. The right decision is never always the easiest and she will get hurt but Its going to happen either way.
I'm sure you being honest with her about your feelings towards the relationship will be easier than screwing around or prolonging something you see no future in.. Be strong and face your feelings. In the end it will be easier on both of you. As much as it will hurt now she will appreciate your honesty alot more than having cheated and ending it that way. Not saying that will happen but we are all human and it does happen sometimes.


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23584486 - 08/27/16 05:35 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Break up with her when she gets back, but soon.  Do it in public.


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Burke Dennings]
    #23584499 - 08/27/16 05:39 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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Break up with her when she gets back, but soon.  Do it in public.




Now that is some damn good advice. Thank you.


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the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved,
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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Cowb0yNeal00]
    #23584501 - 08/27/16 05:40 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

hi neal


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the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved,
desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!”



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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23584616 - 08/27/16 06:05 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

You should just lead her on like you did for the past year. Tell her you love her and all the other bullshit then out of the blue you tell her to get lost because your gonna get married to the other girl you think you want.

You should lead a double life man. Get two apartments and tell your main squeeze your gonna go away for work then tell the crazy one you can only see her when your in town but always lead her on.

Don't break up over the phone just do it in public like Burke recommended but also have all her stuff already in a storage location so she has no reason to go back to your place and start a fire or slight her wrists in the bathroom or overdose and say you did it when she was trying to break up with you.


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