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ModestMouse
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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
#23583950 - 08/27/16 03:30 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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My life isn't changing and I need help. @kron My answer to you is to start shooting smack again, it seems to simplify things down to a binary system. This way either you're fucking up terribly and you know it or you're doing swell.
Women only confuse things
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propensity
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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0] 1
#23583953 - 08/27/16 03:31 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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kr0nik0 said: We share a home, a bank account, a life. We moved to out to Colorado together to essentially start our family even though I always knew it couldn't last forever. Fucking selfish on my part, I know.
You were wearing her like you wore that fake dreads hat when you tried to convince us that you had dreads. Shame on you!
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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: propensity]
#23583990 - 08/27/16 03:39 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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propensity said:
You were wearing her like you wore that fake dreads hat when you tried to convince us that you had dreads. Shame on you!
Yep, but now my real hair is dready and I can no longer lie to her or myself.
Thanks for the obvious advice, you dick. That was over 4 years ago.
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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
#23583999 - 08/27/16 03:42 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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kr0nik0 said: even though I always knew it couldn't last forever. Fucking selfish on my part, I know.
So, what do I do when she gets back? Immediately tell her what's going on and break up with her?
Been there, end it now.
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propensity
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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
#23584009 - 08/27/16 03:43 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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kr0nik0 said:
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propensity said:
You were wearing her like you wore that fake dreads hat when you tried to convince us that you had dreads. Shame on you!
Yep, but now my real hair is dready and I can no longer lie to her or myself.
Thanks for the obvious advice, you dick. That was over 4 years ago. 
And the pattern of deception of self and others continues to devastating consequences.
See what I'm getting at?
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kr0nik0
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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: ModestMouse]
#23584011 - 08/27/16 03:43 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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ModestMouse said: My life isn't changing and I need help. @kron My answer to you is to start shooting smack again, it seems to simplify things down to a binary system. This way either you're fucking up terribly and you know it or you're doing swell.
Women only confuse things
As stupid as this is, it would've made sense at one point in my life. 7 years ago maybe...
I haven't been addicted to opiates in many years, and the few times I slipped up along the way, I didn't enjoy being high which was very disappointing, but great.
Even if becoming a junkie again were enticing to me, I still have a friend moving in in less than a week with two young kids. I would never do that to her or her kids. She needs help and heroin certainly won't do any of us any good.
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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: propensity]
#23584033 - 08/27/16 03:49 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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propensity said:
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kr0nik0 said:
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propensity said:
You were wearing her like you wore that fake dreads hat when you tried to convince us that you had dreads. Shame on you!
Yep, but now my real hair is dready and I can no longer lie to her or myself.
Thanks for the obvious advice, you dick. That was over 4 years ago. 
And the pattern of deception of self and others continues to devastating consequences.
See what I'm getting at?
I do, and you certainly have a point. I had a problem, have a problem being entirely honest.
It's something I've been working extremely hard on for 2 years now.
Even though in the back of my mind I knew that I probably wouldn't be with her for the rest of my life, she knows that. That's why we've had an open relationship since day 1, in case something like this happened. She would be fine with having this new woman in our relationship, but new woman wants a monogamous relationship, and truthfully, so do I.
Open relationships are rather stupid after having been in one. They simply can't work. Polyamory is a joke.
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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
#23584044 - 08/27/16 03:51 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Just read the rest of the thread, personally I would probably end it in person.
There's nothing like waiting for someone to show up, knowing they're extremely pissed with you the whole plane ride. Let her enjoy her vacation and catch some sleep when she arrives. For both your sakes.
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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Repertoire89]
#23584061 - 08/27/16 03:57 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Thanks, Repertoire.
That seems like the most sensible thing to do. It's what I've been imagining since all this started happening.
I'm sorry if I've wasted anyone's time here having already kind of made a decision, and just really looking for reassurance. But I posted this in order to see if there was any other way of going about this. A better way.
Doesn't seem like it.
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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
#23584067 - 08/27/16 03:59 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Life is scary, and you should be scared. But don't be scared.
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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: ModestMouse]
#23584069 - 08/27/16 04:00 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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ModestMouse said: My life isn't changing and I need help. @kron My answer to you is to start shooting smack again, it seems to simplify things down to a binary system. This way either you're fucking up terribly and you know it or you're doing swell.
Women only confuse things
Hahaha I love this dudes posts man
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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: goldcaphunter]
#23584080 - 08/27/16 04:03 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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So many relationships coming to an end around here just lately (including mine) Must be some thing in the air or some shit!
I hope every thing works out for every one. Shit sucks man
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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Bubbles85]
#23584109 - 08/27/16 04:10 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I've always found the following chart interesting and disappointing:

It's supposed to be a chart of when most people in the US break up.
We are at the lowest lull of that chart which means one of two things; The chart is completely skewed, or there's actually something in the air. lol
Shit does suck indeed. I hope we can all become better people from these experiences.
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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
#23584119 - 08/27/16 04:11 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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wtf
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Repertoire89
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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
#23584144 - 08/27/16 04:15 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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How do you break up with someone on April fools day?
"I love you a baby.... not"
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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
#23584344 - 08/27/16 05:02 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Mine actually ended about 5 weeks ago now, so would tie in with the spike in that chart in July
Edited by Bubbles85 (08/27/16 05:03 PM)
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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Repertoire89]
#23584351 - 08/27/16 05:04 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Repertoire89 said: How do you break up with someone on April fools day?
"I love you a baby.... not"

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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Repertoire89]
#23584405 - 08/27/16 05:16 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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There's some stupid damn people in this world. You shouldn't be surprised.
Thanks for making me laugh.
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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
#23584436 - 08/27/16 05:23 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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hi kron
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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Cowb0yNeal00]
#23584475 - 08/27/16 05:32 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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You must be honest wth her and most importantly with yourself. The right decision is never always the easiest and she will get hurt but Its going to happen either way. I'm sure you being honest with her about your feelings towards the relationship will be easier than screwing around or prolonging something you see no future in.. Be strong and face your feelings. In the end it will be easier on both of you. As much as it will hurt now she will appreciate your honesty alot more than having cheated and ending it that way. Not saying that will happen but we are all human and it does happen sometimes.
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