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Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. *DELETED*
    #23583628 - 08/27/16 01:56 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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“[...]the only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved,
desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!”



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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23583654 - 08/27/16 02:01 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Honestly, I wouldn't be surprised if all this blew up in your face. I don't wanna rain on your parade and I obviously don't know all the details but it seems like every time I've known of something like this happening it goes sideways fast. Even happened to me a couple of times before I got the message. In the end you end up losing the both of them and in my case(s) having a long lasting obsession with the "new one" and realizing how much I actually liked "the old one". It's like getting ripped in half aching for both but having neither of them.

To answer the question, ASAP if you're going to go through with this. Not gonna get any easier and it's a pretty dick thing to do to screw around and string people along waiting for when it's convenient for you to break the news.


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I don’t want to get back up but I have to so it might as well be today.
Nothing appeals to me no one feels like me, I’m too busy being calm to disappear.
I’m in no shape to be alone contrary to the shit that you might hear.


You can't wake up, this is not a dream. You're part of a machine, you are not a human being
With your face all made up, living on a screen. Low on self esteem, so you run on gasoline


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23583695 - 08/27/16 02:16 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Honesty and compassion is the best policy.

This is one of the reasons I truly believe couples should keep their bank accounts, incomes and finances largely seperate.

Break ups are messy and complicated enough without having your economic lives tangled up as well.

I hope things work out we'll for you!

:hug:


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Shroomslip]
    #23583703 - 08/27/16 02:20 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Get it over asap

Every uninformed moment you spend together from this point onward will be a lie. That will hurt her bad when you finally do tell her


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Shroomslip]
    #23583710 - 08/27/16 02:21 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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Shroomslip said:
In the end you end up losing the both of them and in my case(s) having a long lasting obsession with the "new one" and realizing how much I actually liked "the old one". It's like getting ripped in half aching for both but having neither of them.

To answer the question, ASAP if you're going to go through with this. Not gonna get any easier and it's a pretty dick thing to do to screw around and string people along waiting for when it's convenient for you to break the news.




You're absolutely right.

What you mentioned about losing both of them is definitely what's making me the most nervous.

Now, I've been considering just calling her while she's still in Florida, and although I would hate to break up with someone over the phone, she at least has her family and friends there. What do you think about that?

I just got off the phone with her a couple minutes ago and it was on the tip of my tongue but couldn't go through with it.


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“[...]the only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved,
desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!”



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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Tripsurfer]
    #23583720 - 08/27/16 02:24 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Thanks, Moonshoe.

Yea, the idea to put her on my account was so that she would be more responsible with her spending. I did it a month ago. Fortunately she's not one to give a shit about money which is why I put her on the account in the first place.

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Tripsurfer said:
Get it over asap

Every uninformed moment you spend together from this point onward will be a lie. That will hurt her bad when you finally do tell her




Yep. So what do you think about doing it now, while she's away?
It would be on the phone but she's around family and friends. She has no need to come back here, really. It's my house, my furniture, etc...
I just don't want her to suffer alone.


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“[...]the only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved,
desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!”



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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23583745 - 08/27/16 02:31 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

You have been pretty serious with this girl (Hoolahoop girl right?) so I kinda think she deserves face-time for a breakup. I do however see something in your point as well

If she really is mentally unstable the safest would be to let het know now. But women are crazy man, you never know whats going to happen :shrug: She might hightail it outta there


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Tripsurfer]
    #23583761 - 08/27/16 02:41 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Yea, serious relationship going on 1 year and 2 months.

I really appreciate you taking the time to try and help man. Thank you.


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“[...]the only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved,
desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!”



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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Tripsurfer]
    #23583770 - 08/27/16 02:43 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

She could also just as easily go crazy and make your life living hell for awhile. Tread carefully.


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: ReposadoXochipilli]
    #23583780 - 08/27/16 02:45 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

I just had to do this exact same thing kr0n. Still not sure if I made the right decision :sad:


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I'm ugly, Enlil is beautiful.
I'm a loser, Enlil is a winner.
Someday, I hope to be like Enlil but secretly know I never will.


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
    #23583786 - 08/27/16 02:48 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Kroniko maybe you should take her off your bank account before you tell her so she can't do anything vindictive .


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: ReposadoXochipilli]
    #23583788 - 08/27/16 02:48 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Yea, I was talking to my mom about it this morning and her main worry was that she would take a knife to me while sleeping or something along those lines.

It's kind of funny to even think that's possible, but it's fucking possible when the jokes are set aside.

As for making my life a living hell, I may be a little blind right now, but I just don't see how if I'm not living with her. She really has no options here... No job, no prospects of one, hasn't put herself out there to make any friends.

The only outcome I see right now is that she goes back home.

Of course, she could become a crazy homeless woman that stalks me around the mountains of Colorado, but let's all hope that doesn't happen.


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“[...]the only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved,
desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!”



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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23583789 - 08/27/16 02:48 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Maybe she will see this thread and you won't have to put in any work..


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
    #23583794 - 08/27/16 02:51 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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Malcolm_Xtasy said:
I just had to do this exact same thing kr0n. Still not sure if I made the right decision :sad:




I just read your post in the other thread.
Did you find someone new, or just felt stagnant in your relationship where you knew it needed to end?

I know I'll be sad as well. That's unavoidable, but do you have any urges to just run out to her and yell "that was a mistake, I'm sorry!" lol


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“[...]the only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved,
desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!”



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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: zZZz]
    #23583800 - 08/27/16 02:52 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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Moonshoe said:
Kroniko maybe you should take her off your bank account before you tell her so she can't do anything vindictive .




Yea, I'm on my Wells Fargo account page right now debating what to do. She'll obviously know something's up if I take any action in that department right now.

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zZZz said:
Maybe she will see this thread and you won't have to put in any work..




Right?

One should be so lucky.


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“[...]the only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved,
desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!”



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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23583803 - 08/27/16 02:52 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

One bad blow out fight that leads to cop's being involved could change everything. I would do it while she is in florida if you are going to do it.


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23583839 - 08/27/16 03:05 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

It was a combination of both. She had less time for me after starting pharmacy school and I just started working a full time job. I also started talking to someone else, but the truth is, I never treated her the way she deserved to be treated. It would've been so selfish of me to keep it going si I had to let her go. Wonderful woman, but the timing was just off. Also there was a 5 year age gap that reared its ugly head toward the end. Shes 29 and im 24.

I do wish I could make everything go back to how it was but I know it's not good for either of us. I hope she finds someone that actually deserves her. It sure as hell isn't me.


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I'm ugly, Enlil is beautiful.
I'm a loser, Enlil is a winner.
Someday, I hope to be like Enlil but secretly know I never will.


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23583866 - 08/27/16 03:11 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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Now, I've been considering just calling her while she's still in Florida,



That'd be a tad fucked.


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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
    #23583933 - 08/27/16 03:26 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

ReposadoXochipilli said:
One bad blow out fight that leads to cop's being involved could change everything. I would do it while she is in florida if you are going to do it.




I live in an incredibly rural area on the Western Slope of Colorado. My next door neighbor is the County Sheriff, and a friend. There is one only one other local cop and he's also my tomato "dude".

We've gotten into a fight once here before that was serious. It became violent, meaning she hit me. I can't, won't touch a woman... Anyways, I'm pretty sure they're on my side with any shenanigans like this.



Quote:

Malcolm_Xtasy said:
It was a combination of both. She had less time for me after starting pharmacy school and I just started working a full time job. I also started talking to someone else, but the truth is, I never treated her the way she deserved to be treated. It would've been so selfish of me to keep it going si I had to let her go. Wonderful woman, but the timing was just off. Also there was a 5 year age gap that reared its ugly head toward the end. Shes 29 and im 24.

I do wish I could make everything go back to how it was but I know it's not good for either of us. I hope she finds someone that actually deserves her. It sure as hell isn't me.




:hug:

Man, so many coincidences with your situation and mine.
Primarily the age gap which is exactly the same as yours.

I feel the same way as you as far as what I want for her in the future.

I respect you so much for doing the right thing. Hopefully I can as well without fucking everything up. Thanks, Malcolm. I truly wish you all the best in everything you're trying to achieve.


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“[...]the only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved,
desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue centerlight pop and everybody goes “Awww!”



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Re: Life Is Changing, I Need Your Help, Shroomery. [Re: kr0nik0]
    #23583938 - 08/27/16 03:27 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Thanks man. I've been having a rough fucking time but hopefully its for the best.


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I'm ugly, Enlil is beautiful.
I'm a loser, Enlil is a winner.
Someday, I hope to be like Enlil but secretly know I never will.


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