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new2shroomzz
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Is it...?
#23569214 - 08/23/16 01:44 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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For those who have endured true legitimate heartbreak in its finest form -
Is it wrong or immoral of me to wish the same heartbreak and emotional pain on the person who caused my own?
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Moonshoe
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Depends what you mean by "caused your own"
How did they cause it ?
It's always best to love your enemies and forgive if you can or at least forget. Resentment and holding a grudge only poisons your own mind.
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The Mycologist
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I would say try to look at the bright side. If this person was going to break your heart at some point, the sooner the better. Now you have the opportunity to find the person who will never break your heart. There are so many people in the world that you can always find someone greater than the last (at least equally as good). Stay Strong good times are on the way.
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OhMrJohnson
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Depends how you look at it I guess
Depending on what they did to you it's certainly understandable but that doesn't really make it right IMO, I personally don't get off on the sorrow and suffering of other people even if they do deserve it, so even if it did happen it wouldn't make me feel any better about my own situation
Hope that makes a bit of sense, I'm kinda speaking from personal experience but that's a whole other story
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The best revenge is living well. Get fit. Get healthy. Get money. Be happy. Forget that past shit, it is baggage that will eat at you.
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something super extreme
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yes many sacred namastes ago big brother buddah boi taught noble Guadalajara that to wish suffering on a fellow celestial yoganaut was to infinitely skew the karmic cycle as it flows fourth from the holey chakra
i recommend purging the fluoride from your water and avoiding imitation rice from china
namaste
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Jokeshopbeard
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new2shroomzz said: For those who have endured true legitimate heartbreak in its finest form -
Is it wrong or immoral of me to wish the same heartbreak and emotional pain on the person who caused my own?
Impossible to say unless you elaborate on exactly what they did to you.
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Camwritesgonzo
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Quote:
MJCS said: Never had a serious heart break, unless recordings where not covered at last two facilities by the military and several other organizations (hollywood seriously, the content is priceless, but possible mission impossible ops took place for interception) but I almost came close to being quartered with cars by a Realian with an infinity necklace followed by tourture poison vegitablelization and reading to me of the realian bible combined with calling me a nigger) (thats all conjecture by me) and Im jewish, I guesse (voice identifying himself as Ra said "youre not jewish, your an Isrealite"), than the recordings got good. Glad we did not have that parrallel universe in which that clinic was the end.
Wow, I think I'm now permanently brain-fucked having read that!
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Easyriding123
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I know you want to crush her bud. Bet thing for you to do is improve your life drastically. Work out get money and channel that pain
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sanchothestoner
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new2shroomzz said: For those who have endured true legitimate heartbreak in its finest form -
Is it wrong or immoral of me to wish the same heartbreak and emotional pain on the person who caused my own?
show them you don't give a fuck. that will drive them nuts.
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shadyy
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Uh..revenge may uh come as a uh natural recourse, however, uh this may not be the uh ..the appropriate response.
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Le_Canard
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something super extreme said: yes many sacred namastes ago big brother buddah boi taught noble Guadalajara that to wish suffering on a fellow celestial yoganaut was to infinitely skew the karmic cycle as it flows fourth from the holey chakra
i recommend purging the fluoride from your water and avoiding imitation rice from china
namaste

Pretty convincing spiel. You should go into business.
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PartoftheSource
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Hurting someone just because they hurt you is one of the most selfish things you could ever do.
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tyrannicalrex
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PartoftheSource said: Hurting someone just because they hurt you is one of the most selfish things you could ever do.
I agree. I have been on the one being hurt because they were hurt side even though I did not intentionally hurt them. It was a huge mind game with this person. They got one last shot in recently to try and hurt me some more but it did not work, only agitated me for the last week. Thank goodness they are leaving the state.
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Bumbaa
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Yea, in theory you want to move on and go on better things in your life. But planning harm, or even thinking to cause pain to an other person that put you such despair is not O.K.
I don't know,I have had a heartbreak, I'm still hearth broken. I realize this, I'm mad sometimes at her, at things, at the events that occurred, but to be honest, I am more sad than anything. I'm living in a sad moment and I understand that it will pass (*Knock on wood*), I am hearth broken and I don't want anything bad for her. I just want to be able to have a good night sleep,wake up in the morning without thinking of her, of what we were.
I don't want to think about her, but it seems impossible not to think of her. I'm using weed to cope with this dealing, but it only grants me with short duration relaxation and taxes my mind and body even more.
I'm sad and it's fine. I was an ecstatic person when I was with her, experience love for the first time. I never believed I would find love, neither did I believe that I would lose when I found it. I have to pay a price for being so happy and riding on the love wave for so long, nothing ain't free in this life.
I'm sad but at least I'm happy to be alive and have the chance to experience what life has to offer.
Cheers, Bumbaa
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Re: Is it...? [Re: Bumbaa] 1
#23573841 - 08/24/16 06:45 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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even at my worst with my x i never wished ill will towards them. all my hatred was self directed. still fighting that battle so choose wisely how you proceed.
this is like 8 years old for me but i don't do well with this emotional stuff.
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