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CosmicJoke
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Re: does the way you kill yourself matter? [Re: Crumist]
#23586879 - 08/28/16 12:57 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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The helium exit bag does take a little coordination, was laughingdog's point regarding brain damage.... It's totally effective done right though..... Maybe a mix of an OD of phenobarbital off the DNM and the exit bag is a little safer....
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Re: does the way you kill yourself matter? [Re: CosmicJoke]
#23586967 - 08/28/16 01:27 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Does it matter to the person committing suicide? In the long run, nope.
For the ones left behind, like I said their perception of that individual is different, depending on method. The damage done to the ones left, I dunno that's a funny thing, is someone uses an exit bag could it be more detrimental know it was well thought out and executed. Or possibly a sleight peace of mind that they blew their brains out on an impulsive bought of depression.
Hard to say how people rationalize something that.
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Re: does the way you kill yourself matter? [Re: nuentoter]
#23587072 - 08/28/16 02:10 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Didn't get that last part. Why hide the note?
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Re: does the way you kill yourself matter? [Re: tump]
#23587078 - 08/28/16 02:13 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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tump said: in life there are three things you can't avoid death, taxes, aging. But we believe it matter if we pay our taxes, we judge people as they age. So do we judge people on how they died as well of course suicide brings mixed feeling and bad thoughts to the ones left behind. But if one were to eat a jar of contaminated anthrax for dinner is that so much worst then bleeding to death on the bathroom floor. or hanging, shot to the face. i believe all life is equal therefore all death is equal no matter how it is caused.
Exclusively speaking about the world you leave behind though, yes, how you die absolutely leaves an impression. I heard a story on Dr Phil (was only half listening to it) where a man lit himself on fire to be found, still alive and burning alive, by his wife. That leaves a much more negative effect behind than a number of reclusive and quite ways.
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Re: does the way you kill yourself matter? [Re: CookieCrumbs]
#23587102 - 08/28/16 02:21 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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CookieCrumbs said: Didn't get that last part. Why hide the note?
To obscure the fact it was suicide, but still have a note to be shared in the event the ruse is discovered
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nuentoter
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Re: does the way you kill yourself matter? [Re: CookieCrumbs]
#23587306 - 08/28/16 03:31 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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nuentoter said: Does it matter to the person committing suicide? In the long run, nope.
For the ones left behind, like I said their perception of that individual is different, depending on method. The damage done to the ones left, I dunno that's a funny thing, is someone uses an exit bag could it be more detrimental know it was well thought out and executed. Or possibly a sleight peace of mind that they blew their brains out on an impulsive bought of depression.
Hard to say how people rationalize something that.
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CookieCrumbs said: Didn't get that last part. Why hide the note?
What are you talking about?
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Re: does the way you kill yourself matter? [Re: nuentoter]
#23587572 - 08/28/16 04:51 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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My bad. Quoted the wrong person somehow.
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Re: does the way you kill yourself matter? [Re: CookieCrumbs]
#23587700 - 08/28/16 05:25 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Oh lol, I was quite confused
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MarkostheGnostic
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Re: does the way you kill yourself matter? [Re: tump]
#23595218 - 08/30/16 08:12 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Dr Stan Grof, M.D. has pointed out the one of the four "Basic Perinatal Matrices," that is, one of the four phases of intrauterine life up to actual birth influences much of our life-death struggle outside of the womb. For example, those who were most influenced by the blissful, undisturbed oceanic floating in the womb, when they commit suicide, use drugs that return them to that blissful unconscious, At the other end of the continuum, those people who might put a gun in their mouths and blow the top of their head off amid brains, blood, and cerebrospinal fluid, ar recapitulating the final violent expulsion from the vagina, often amidst blood, cervical mucous, urine or feces.
But the BPM states also have a profound effect on one's sexual behaviors. For example, in the violent contractions of BPM III, the neonate is being crushed, suffocated, terrified, and possibly seized by medical instruments. Sado-Masochistic (S&M) and Bondage and Dominance (B&D), are explained as a recapitulation of these painful and life-threatening intrauterine conditions. Constrictive rubber, latex or leather outfits, air hoses, ball gags, blindfolds, and the application of instruments (or torture!) all serve to replicate the terrors and pain of birth.
i would add that my own revivification of my birth experience on a mega-dose of LSD showed me that the pain, suffocation and mortal terror of my birth was balanced by polymorphous sexuality. That is to say, despite the agony, the ecstasy that got me through the birth canal was in part due to the super-sexual pleasure of my entire body surface (not just my penis) with forward motion out of the womb. Every square inch of my body felt like the surface of a stimulated penis! Now, I had this experience before Dr. Grof published his first book Realms of the Human Unconscious: Observations From LSD Research, but as I later read, this "titanic struggle" between Eros and Thanatos (named after the Greek gods of life/sex and death), is also imprinted on our psyche.
So, if Thanatos seems to be overpowering Eros for you, even though you are currently alive, then your so-called 'Death-Wish' will be operating slightly over your 'Life-Wish,' which is apparently the case. I don't know you, but the fact that you are asking about modes of death instead of modes of life supports my point. I hope you don't waste this unique opportunity to live until you die as some of my peers did in their 20s. There is pain, but there is pleasure. If your pleasure-pain, loss-gain interaction is out of balance, do yourself and your loved ones the favor of getting help with the balance before Thanatos overpowers Eros in you for good and before your time. Believe me, it will be worth it regardless of how your life goes. 
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Re: does the way you kill yourself matter? [Re: tump]
#23598994 - 08/31/16 08:38 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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tump said: in life there are three things you can't avoid death, taxes, aging. But we believe it matter if we pay our taxes, we judge people as they age. So do we judge people on how they died as well of course suicide brings mixed feeling and bad thoughts to the ones left behind. But if one were to eat a jar of contaminated anthrax for dinner is that so much worst then bleeding to death on the bathroom floor. or hanging, shot to the face. i believe all life is equal therefore all death is equal no matter how it is caused.
well the way another dies may effect you and the way you die may effect another so in that sense yes it matters
if one were to isolate to the point that only the effect on you is important then I think individual circumstances play a large part of that story
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Re: does the way you kill yourself matter? [Re: tump]
#23605146 - 09/02/16 03:30 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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tump said:But if one were to eat a jar of contaminated anthrax for dinner is that so much worst then bleeding to death on the bathroom floor. or hanging, shot to the face. i believe all life is equal therefore all death is equal no matter how it is caused.
Contaminated anthrax for dinner sounds a lot worse to me, from a subjective purist point of view, than just regular anthrax. But I don't think it's more lethal. It might be more or less socially acceptable however, who knows?
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Re: does the way you kill yourself matter? [Re: Rhizoid]
#23605634 - 09/02/16 06:15 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Who doesnt have a jar of Anthrex in there home.
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Re: does the way you kill yourself matter? [Re: tump]
#23605714 - 09/02/16 06:38 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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tump said: .... i believe all life is equal therefore all death is equal no matter how it is caused.
all this is, quote: "life is equal" , is a thought
then you proceed to identify with it and proclaim it a belief!
so what?
no experiential or rational experimental evidence is provided.
anyone can pick a random thought
choose to put it on a pedestal
worship it, and become dogmatic...
big deal
PS: it helps even more if terms aren't defined, and the statement is kept so brief as to make it's field of reference ambiguous...
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