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Celestial Traveler
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Children and Hatred
#23558658 - 08/19/16 10:52 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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As a kid in public school, I remember that there were certain kids who everyone unanimously seemed to hate for no reason. Usually these were the same kids that got bullied of course. While I was never a bully, there were some kids that I hated irrationally, although it was usually because other kids hated them too, and I was too young and ignorant to think for myself. Looking back on it makes me feel a little bad, but whatever.
As an adult I don't experience this anymore. But does anyone else recognize the phenomenon I'm talking about? Maybe you either had it in yourself as a kid or you saw it in other kids. It's like there's just something about the way certain kids look that makes other kids hate them.
It makes me wonder if children are more inclined to hatred in general.
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Sheekle
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There was one girl who got socially rejected by literally everybody in Elementary, Middle, High, and post-High School. She smelled bad, was always dirty, and generally didn't know how to take care of herself. It wasn't her fault though, she was raised that way. Her mom was once volunteered to be a chaperone on a field trip and allegedly pulled some kids hair, just loony stuff.
I remember one time the girl touched my white shirt and left a permanent black mark on it, that's how dirty she was. I never had anything against her, me and her would talk and get along in some classes.
I remember in gym everybody high fiving everybody except for her at the end of class, real sad stuff. Last I knew of her was years back on facebook posting about being in a mental hospital.
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Celestial Traveler
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Re: Children and Hatred [Re: Sheekle]
#23558687 - 08/19/16 10:58 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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That's pretty sad, but I remember some kids who were picked on seemed completely normal, as if they were just selected at random.
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blewmeanie



Registered: 10/01/06
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It doesnt go away as an adult. There are people like that in my office. Some people just don't integrate well.
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