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Why do people try to have monogamous relationships
    #23552114 - 08/18/16 02:32 AM (7 years, 5 months ago)

It's not human nature and it's a lot more fun to have a lot of sexual partners. Why can't people get over their possessiveness? Oh well I'm also gay so it's easier. I feel bad for you straight people :V


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Re: Why do people try to have monogamous relationships [Re: micro]
    #23552229 - 08/18/16 04:10 AM (7 years, 5 months ago)

I've done both monogamous and non-monogamous. Truth is, for me in hindsight, neither are satisfying once you've experienced sex that brings you to a point of connection that rivals that of two souls united with the whole universe. That's been excruciatingly rare for me, but I know it. Hedonism is great, which having multiple partners really is IMO. I can look way past possessiveness for the base behaviour it is for the wild abundance of poly.

I could be having as much sex as I want right now, if I went looking for it. But I know the only stuff that counts for shit will find me once I find me. I had a taste of it and anything else since has just been a hollow, rubbing of bodies. I can say that with some certainty cause many occassions we're, in a physical sense ONLY, better than when I'd had the connection I mention above. And it's a fuck to resist, cause I'm a highly sexual being, surrounded by attractive females, but resist right now I must. I wanna grow.

TL;DR - it's easy and fun to have lots of sexual partners (especially these days), but I don't believe it's a path to our highest selves.


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Re: Why do people try to have monogamous relationships [Re: micro] * 3
    #23552234 - 08/18/16 04:15 AM (7 years, 5 months ago)

I find it really stupid that you just assume that someone who wants a mono-relationship is automatically possessive. Ever considered that maybe people find it hard to focus on one person let alone multiple ? A lot of things come into play such as sexual history, upbringing, character and personality...etc

No, having multiple partners is not always fun or more fun, it can be confusing, intimidating, shameful and individuals can get hurt

Coming on here feeling bad for people for simply choosing to be in a mono relation is like me feeling bad for you for being a raging homo.

You are free to choose your sexuality and preferences why should others feel ''inferior'' for simply choosing theirs?

Live and let live man :facepalm3:


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Re: Why do people try to have monogamous relationships [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
    #23552235 - 08/18/16 04:15 AM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Try kinky sex.

It never gets boring.


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Re: Why do people try to have monogamous relationships [Re: micro]
    #23552240 - 08/18/16 04:19 AM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Mate, I've had sex for 23 hours (meth assisted of course). I've tried everything I could think of aside of something up my ass (I had a bad experience with a chick with long fingernails @ 15). I'm no prude about it. I'm talking from my heart here. I don't want this path but I feel life has called me to it. And it's only ever gonna come again, if it ever does, from a monogamous relationship.


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Re: Why do people try to have monogamous relationships [Re: micro] * 1
    #23552245 - 08/18/16 04:28 AM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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It's not human nature and it's a lot more fun to have a lot of sexual partners. Why can't people get over their possessiveness? Oh well I'm also gay so it's easier. I feel bad for you straight people :V




Im lazy and a monogamous relationship is the easiest way to go


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Re: Why do people try to have monogamous relationships [Re: howsyournaggerdoin]
    #23552271 - 08/18/16 05:12 AM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Given. I have an extremely hyperactive libido.

I need to fap or have sex about 14 times a day.


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Re: Why do people try to have monogamous relationships [Re: micro]
    #23552472 - 08/18/16 07:25 AM (7 years, 5 months ago)

I just want one person I can get naked with, fuck, cuddle and kiss. I'm not greedy. I'm bi, and if it's a girl, I want her to be comfortable with a feeldoe.

what I want more than anything else is intimacy. I've had hot n raunchy sex before and it's good fun, but a lot of the time I felt that masturbation is a lot simpler and more satisfying. Intimacy  for me means I can be naked with my erection pressing against them and we can be laughing abotu something and totally relaxed. I'd like to be able to stare into someone's eyes to the point I felt uncomfortable doing so.

If they wanted to go and have sex with someone else, then I to would want to have sex with that person, and if they were attracted to someone that I wasn't attracted to, I'd have to question if they were right for me.


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Re: Why do people try to have monogamous relationships [Re: Visionary Tools]
    #23552586 - 08/18/16 08:26 AM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Makes sense. I've just never had a boyfriend who could satisfy me. This is kind of gross but my ex of four years (open relationship) used to call me "scabbers" because I often fap so much I get friction burns...

I have three people I'm gonna be seeing.


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Re: Why do people try to have monogamous relationships [Re: micro]
    #23553292 - 08/18/16 01:07 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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Makes sense. I've just never had a boyfriend who could satisfy me.




No wonder you think monogamous people are possessive.
You've never had a satisfactory partner who was enough to satiate your thirst for another.


I greatly prefer monogamy. However, it seems my match is a rare breed.
So far I've only met one girl who actually made me happy, and that I was glad to call my partner.

I'm in a sort of polyamorous relationship at the moment.
I wouldn't agree to this kind of relationship if I was seeking a monogamous relationship with the girl, she's simply not my type.
We do have an emotional connection, and the sex is awesome, but that doesn't mean we're compatible.


One day you may find someone who matches you so well that they make you forget about all the other lovers you've ever had and have ever wanted.
Consider yourself blessed if you do.


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Re: Why do people try to have monogamous relationships [Re: micro]
    #23553317 - 08/18/16 01:21 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

I know the feeling, it feels way easier to have multiple partners for fun as a gay boi. I am too =P.  I actually had a three way relationship full once.... did not end well though..


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Re: Why do people try to have monogamous relationships [Re: Acaterpillar]
    #23553328 - 08/18/16 01:27 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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Makes sense. I've just never had a boyfriend who could satisfy me.




No wonder you think monogamous people are possessive.
You've never had a satisfactory partner who was enough to satiate your thirst for another.


I greatly prefer monogamy. However, it seems my match is a rare breed.
So far I've only met one girl who actually made me happy, and that I was glad to call my partner.

I'm in a sort of polyamorous relationship at the moment.
I wouldn't agree to this kind of relationship if I was seeking a monogamous relationship with the girl, she's simply not my type.
We do have an emotional connection, and the sex is awesome, but that doesn't mean we're compatible.


One day you may find someone who matches you so well that they make you forget about all the other lovers you've ever had and have ever wanted.
Consider yourself blessed if you do.




I know some people who might, but we'd probably both want an open relationship. I mean.. why limit your options?


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Re: Why do people try to have monogamous relationships [Re: micro]
    #23553350 - 08/18/16 01:37 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

I guess you don't mind getting sick. If I was fucking a bunch of random guys with a scabby dick I'd consider taking Truveda.


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Re: Why do people try to have monogamous relationships [Re: Love_spirit]
    #23553400 - 08/18/16 02:00 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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I guess you don't mind getting sick. If I was fucking a bunch of random guys with a scabby dick I'd consider taking Truveda.




That's why I only fuck furries. It's a tight enough community people would know if someone had HIV. I'd fuck someone with HIV anyway if they were on antiretrovirals. There's like a one in ten thousand chance you'd get it and that's with no protection. The one time I fucked some random guy he purposely tried to give me HIV but he didn't know that. Lol what an ass

I don't think I can get herpes and I've already had the type of HPV that goes away so it's unlikely I'd catch the bad type. The only thing you have to watch out for is people who fuck around and don't get tested.


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Re: Why do people try to have monogamous relationships [Re: micro] * 1
    #23553404 - 08/18/16 02:03 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

With that mentality you're really putting yourself at risk to catch something serious :facepalm:

You likely have herpes and simply don't show symptoms...


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Re: Why do people try to have monogamous relationships [Re: Acaterpillar]
    #23553423 - 08/18/16 02:11 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

I thought about that but then I'd likely have given it to someone and that hasn't happened. But yeah 16% of people have it and 80% don't show any symptoms. Then again, it's also pretty hard to give it if you don't cause the virus mostly sheds through sores. I think it's like a 4% chance per year with a steady partner of giving it.


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Re: Why do people try to have monogamous relationships [Re: micro]
    #23553435 - 08/18/16 02:14 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

True. You're still at risk of catching the cancerous forms of HPV though. I caught the harmless kind and got the vaccine against the cancer causing types because there isn't a cross-tolerance/immunity or whatever.


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Re: Why do people try to have monogamous relationships [Re: Acaterpillar]
    #23553456 - 08/18/16 02:21 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

There is but not always. It depends on the antibodies formed. It would be less likely. Vaccine is a good idea but it's really not nessecary. One of the boys I'm going to see is a virgin, the other is a rather notorious Christian Fundamentalist who spoke out against homosexuality. It was fun corrupting him. The third has been in a steady relationship since high school.

Lol, I'm so going to Hell if there is one x3


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Re: Why do people try to have monogamous relationships [Re: micro] * 1
    #23553809 - 08/18/16 04:04 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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There is but not always. It depends on the antibodies formed. It would be less likely. Vaccine is a good idea but it's really not nessecary. One of the boys I'm going to see is a virgin, the other is a rather notorious Christian Fundamentalist who spoke out against homosexuality. It was fun corrupting him. The third has been in a steady relationship since high school.

Lol, I'm so going to Hell if there is one x3



Its interesting to me that you would have the fucking cajones to actually make a thread asking a totally legitimate question, then spend the entire time talking about how much of a disguisting slut you are. Everyone else was trying to have an intelligent conversation about monogamy and you just wanted to talk to the other gay members of this community about how much fun it is to be a man-whore.

You sound like a fucking fool talking about safe sex the way you do. You're irresponsible and its people like you that fuck it up for people who are actually always safe


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Re: Why do people try to have monogamous relationships [Re: bloodsheen]
    #23553842 - 08/18/16 04:11 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

If they are always safe how would I fuck it up? I'd just not be interested if someone insisted on being safe. Nobody has actually turned me down yet though B)

Also it was more introspection on my part why I feel this way and others dont. Well, not everyone. I just don't understand the point of monogamy. You can still have intimate relationships and not be monogamous.


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