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ruaware
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Othyem



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Re: Positive people and Negative people [Personal Problem] [Re: ruaware] 1
#23551878 - 08/18/16 12:07 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Sounds like you are already doing the best thing. Avoiding them. I guess you could just be a cunt back to them, but what is that going to accomplish?
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Jokeshopbeard
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Re: Positive people and Negative people [Personal Problem] [Re: Othyem] 1
#23551918 - 08/18/16 12:20 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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The way I see it, I have a very limited amount of free time to dedicate to people. So it's up to me to make the distinction, as quickly as possible, if a person is worth spending what time I have to spare with.
Some people are just nasty man. 'twas always such.
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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Jokeshopbeard
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Re: Positive people and Negative people [Personal Problem] [Re: ruaware] 1
#23551959 - 08/18/16 12:34 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Step by step bullying cure:
1. Go to the gym 2. Eat lots 3. Get tattooed 4. Stare menacingly at people when they start to jibe you
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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nice1returns
I am the Holy Shit



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Re: Positive people and Negative people [Personal Problem] [Re: ruaware]
#23552295 - 08/18/16 05:34 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I generally avoid all people the majority of the time and I circulate my friends/family visitations regularly else any one person starts to project negativity onto me.
Basically I believe we're seeing a reflection of our selfs and so I try to spread positivity as much as possible and avoid negative people if they can't be convinced to become positive with some logic. Usually someone will present a problem and I will explain that its a first world problem and doesn't matter but if they want to continue to spray negativity I will certainly just avoid them.
Some people run off negativity. These are the types you so on Jeremy Kyle on TV shouting and mocking others. They are projecting negative energy and spraying onto others. Some of these guys are like leeches, the "psycich vampire" they will just verbally assault you with negative energy until you are completely drained.
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Re: Positive people and Negative people [Personal Problem] [Re: nice1returns]
#23554248 - 08/18/16 05:57 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I wonder that too yo.
Like family who are negative, I can only imagine e the answer a monk would give you is be more compassionate.
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