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Deathbystarfish
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Ive watched some really hot shemale porn. Id say that if ever became involved with one of them im sure id eventualy go down. But ill say i find the male body absolutely gross. I want nothing to do with a nother man. Shemales are a happy medium (Especially when smokin hot).
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Connoisseur

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Wait so you consider yourself bi but you think men are gross?
Im confused how does that work?
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bloodsheen
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Connoisseur said: Honesty = respect
Im still waiting for blood to tell me where I said that straight men find penis's disgusting
I was drunk when I posted that so I probably just didn't word it properly. I was just expounding on your "finding penises arousing" concept and stretching it to make a point. You are focusing so hard on the physical aspects of gender and orientation that you seemed to be saying that there was no other definition that made any sense.
Like honestly, a huge part of the reason why I never experimented with a guy is because I fucking hate dudes. I hate talking to them, I hate looking at them, they're just fucking assholes. I LOVE spending time with women. One on one with a girl, just watching TV, is the best. It is very much tied into my sexual attraction to them.
I met a dude in college once who had a very serious boyfriend but I considered fooling around with him if he had initiated something because he reminded me so much of a woman. Not in the super flaming way, nor was he extremely effeminant looking, he just had the mannerisms and mindset of a woman.
I think sexuality is just really much more complicated than you are making it
Edit: I do not extend this to transgendered people who are pre-op. I have a very serious doubts its possible that people who are in a relationship with a pre-op trans person got involved with the 100% genuine intention of enjoying an emotional bond. I feel similarly about people who date midgets and triple amputees and such. I don't actually care, its great those people get to experience sex and love like anyone else, but the "normal" person in that relationship always gives me strange vibes.
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Connoisseur

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If a man is aroused by the idea of engaging in sexual acts with another man he is in fact bi or gay.
To take it one step even further if a man is aroused by the act of engaging in sexual activities with another man he is in fact bi or gay.
Sexual acts are not the end all be all of an individuals sexual identity but the topic of this thread is that OP is wondering whether his desire to suck or stroke another mans penis is in fact an indication that he is bisexual.
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Lucis
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Everyone has already said some good stuff throughout this thread, but just be yourself.
People get caught up in trying to label their sexuality, but I say fuck that, just go with how you're feeling at the time. If you wanna suck some dicks, and fuck some chicks, then more power to you brother.
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bloodsheen
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Connoisseur said: If a man is aroused by the idea of engaging in sexual acts with another man he is in fact bi or gay.
To take it one step even further if a man is aroused by the act of engaging in sexual activities with another man he is in fact bi or gay.
Sexual acts are not the end all be all of an individuals sexual identity but the topic of this thread is that OP is wondering whether his desire to suck or stroke another mans penis is in fact an indication that he is bisexual.
Today I was talking to someone about how I've always wanted to make my own corned beef. Its time-consuming and a pain in the ass so I've never actually done it. It could be fun and delicious, it could be a super fucking obnoxious hassle, I don't know because I've never done it. Does that mean part of my identity is being the "corned beef guy"?
Of course not the same intensity, sexuality is far more central to your life than lunch meat. If I had corned beef rolling non-stop, like my fridge had four of them going at four different stages so I had a constant supply, than yeah, I should be "the corned beef guy". It means nothing at all about who I am, its just a silly little thing to think about
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Chakra Shock
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but do we know whether or not terms like "gay" or "straight" have any factual basis to them? They're constructs of our linguistic capabilities, but what if someone were to completely change over the course of their life and find themselves attracted to the opposite form of sexuality from how they began? I guess in your way of thinking, this would be impossible.
Personally, the term bisexual doesn't bother me. If someone wanted to think of me as such then I would be fine with it and would, in a general sense, agree.
However, without the labels of sexual orientation, sexual experiences become a choice rather than a habit of thought. You may still choose only one kind of partner in life, but at least you won't be doing so because of a category you've put yourself into: instead, it will be a natural attraction arising in the present moment. How much more courage it takes to reach out to someone from this state of mind! Everything becomes vulnerable, you are choosing to share your body and soul with someone for a brief moment. Not because you're "straight" or "gay" but because you wish to share yourself and experience another in such a way. It's no longer about the ego, but a merging of two individual's energy into a single, inner space.
just my , may be way off base.
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Deathbystarfish
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Look up pansexuals
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Connoisseur

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I can only speak from personal experience as a straight man knowing that many years before I had ever touched a woman let alone had sex with one that the idea of doing so aroused me.
Although many things in life follow the concept that "you dont know till you try" for me sexual orientation was not one of those things.
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I'm pretty sure I'm bi. Never been with a woman though I think a strong woman is sexy as fuck. Not really interested in giving. Had a boyfriend once. Told him I wanted to be a woman. Loved getting anal and giving head. I think he thought he was getting into something different than he got being with preop me, he bent over and asked for me to give him anal. I just could not get it up, I was so turned off. Honestly the thought of fucking a woman's vag doesn't sound much more appealing to me. I would eat her out though. Best sex I ever had was when my boyfriend pinned me back against the wall and rubbed his d up against my head, it just felt so good, so natural. Can't wait to have a neo vagina.
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bloodsheen
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Yeah, thank you for making my point Shade, I mean wtf would standard definitions of sexuality make of that? You're attracted to men and enjoy being...well, enjoyed by a man, but you don't get an erection from it?
Theres no way you can just jam that into "Gay, Straight, or Bi." Way more to it than that
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ShadeOfDeepPurple


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bloodsheen said: Yeah, thank you for making my point Shade, I mean wtf would standard definitions of sexuality make of that? You're attracted to men and enjoy being...well, enjoyed by a man, but you don't get an erection from it?
Theres no way you can just jam that into "Gay, Straight, or Bi." Way more to it than that
I get erection from being fucked by a man, but the thought of fucking one with my dick does nothing for me(actually turns me off). Which works out quite fine since I want to be a woman.
I'll still have sensitivity post operation.
If I had to classify myself I'd call myself a bi-curious trans-woman.
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