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Re: Which is better , OK Cupid or Plenty of Fish? [Re: desant]
#23527297 - 08/10/16 06:33 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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For the paid version.just use the free one
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So what u do with it is slide and like/unlike birds?
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Re: Which is better , OK Cupid or Plenty of Fish? [Re: desant]
#23527356 - 08/10/16 07:13 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well I'm all out of likes...
How lucky / how long do u have to wait to get some matches??
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Re: Which is better , OK Cupid or Plenty of Fish? [Re: desant]
#23527552 - 08/10/16 08:30 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Those who used PoF or ok Cupid, did u find that muff would also send u requests once in a while or did u just birds yourself and start friendship whatever?
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Re: Which is better , OK Cupid or Plenty of Fish? [Re: desant]
#23527797 - 08/10/16 10:09 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Lol, they call girls "birds" in the UK?
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Re: Which is better , OK Cupid or Plenty of Fish? [Re: Sheekle]
#23527802 - 08/10/16 10:10 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yep sometimes
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Re: Which is better , OK Cupid or Plenty of Fish? [Re: desant]
#23527829 - 08/10/16 10:21 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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POF got me more than OKC
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Re: Which is better , OK Cupid or Plenty of Fish? [Re: desant]
#23527879 - 08/10/16 10:40 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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If your profile sucks you'll get zero matches
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Re: Which is better , OK Cupid or Plenty of Fish? [Re: goop]
#23527889 - 08/10/16 10:44 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Re: Which is better , OK Cupid or Plenty of Fish? [Re: desant]
#23528094 - 08/10/16 12:23 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I've met one person through online shit. It was my current girl, over 3 years and a child now  It was PoF, if it makes a difference.
From what I hear, I got lucky. A lot of people I know have shit luck on those sites... Or perhaps they're just lame when they end up going out with someone.
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Re: Which is better , OK Cupid or Plenty of Fish? [Re: shLong]
#23528100 - 08/10/16 12:25 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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They say one in five relationships starts online?
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Re: Which is better , OK Cupid or Plenty of Fish? [Re: moonrockmushy]
#23528238 - 08/10/16 01:29 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Crystal G said: OkCupid is better for dating, POF is more of a hook-up app I'd say. Your selection will be far higher on POF though because the numbers of matches you get are a LOT more.
OkCupid people tend to be uglier too, it's usually full of gross ugly hipsters and shit. But, they usually are more serious about finding long-term relationships.
I always found the opposite, but I am attracted to gross ugly hipsters.
I've given up on both tho and have started to embrace my aloneness. People suck.

I've not used POF much, but maybe I should, since I'm not really looking for anything more than sex ATM.
I've used OKC a lot and had pretty mixed results with it... Just one really good match and a whole lot of major fucking duds. But I guess that's just how dating tends to play out in the end. I miss being in a relationship.
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Re: Which is better , OK Cupid or Plenty of Fish? [Re: desant]
#23528258 - 08/10/16 01:37 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'd bet it's more than that. If it's not now, then it will be soon. The stigma surrounding online dating is slowly going away. It used to be that "only losers and creeps" use it, now it's being accepted as normal, thankfully.
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Quote:
Sophistic Radiance said:
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moonrockmushy said:
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Crystal G said: OkCupid is better for dating, POF is more of a hook-up app I'd say. Your selection will be far higher on POF though because the numbers of matches you get are a LOT more.
OkCupid people tend to be uglier too, it's usually full of gross ugly hipsters and shit. But, they usually are more serious about finding long-term relationships.
I always found the opposite, but I am attracted to gross ugly hipsters.
I've given up on both tho and have started to embrace my aloneness. People suck.

I've not used POF much, but maybe I should, since I'm not really looking for anything more than sex ATM.
I've used OKC a lot and had pretty mixed results with it... Just one really good match and a whole lot of major fucking duds. But I guess that's just how dating tends to play out in the end. I miss being in a relationship.
If you don't mind me asking, how does that work in your position? Do you put that you're trans on your profile (or is there an option to list that?) or do you tell em after you've met?
Sorry if that seems rude or too forward, but I'm genuinely curious because I don't think I ever came across anybody when I was window shopping ladies on there.
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Re: Which is better , OK Cupid or Plenty of Fish? [Re: shLong]
#23528313 - 08/10/16 01:57 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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My strategy has evolved over time and as I've gotten more confident. I used to put it on my profile, but I stopped a while ago. I get a better variety of people hitting me up that way. I usually tell people after talking for a while and before we meet up. But I'm just now starting a new policy of waiting until we meet up. It's a big problem with people dismissing or over sexualizing trans women, so there's a lot to be said for giving people the chance to get to know you, before disclosing to them.
I'd be much more reluctant to do this with a man. Fortunately, I rarely use online dating to meet men. I don't really need to. But I would have a great deal of anxiety about meeting a guy before disclosing. People get killed over that shit. It's fucked up, but that's just how it is. I honestly wish I didn't have to disclose at all, it can be incredibly painful and it regularly torpedoes promising matchups.
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Right on.
Thanks for the honest reply. Yeah, I don't envy that position and I have no clue what I'd do in your place. Regardless, good luck!
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Re: Which is better , OK Cupid or Plenty of Fish? [Re: desant]
#23528383 - 08/10/16 02:22 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I tend to have way more luck in person than on either of those sites. I've used them before, don't get me wrong, but over the course of my life I've been waaaaay more successful at meeting people in person than online.
Could be my fault of course. Maybe I don't photograph well
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I cant think of a more disrespectful time wasting lie someone could tell me. Oh that girl you've spent your time talking to, then spent even more time meeting up with? Yeah, she has a cock.
Its bad enough when big girls put up pictures from 3 years and 50lbs ago. Or when they take pictures from angles hiding their fat. But to not be honest about having a dick?
Just be honest with who you are. Quit trying to mislead people. Yeah, its misleading people. No, they werent promising matches. They dont want a dick. How could that ever be a promising match?
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Re: Which is better , OK Cupid or Plenty of Fish? [Re: nooneman]
#23528396 - 08/10/16 02:27 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yeah, I don't bother with online dating for guys, it's so straightforward IRL Courting women is so goddamn abstruse, it's easier online. With guys it tends to be very obvious when they want to bang, you can see it in everything they do. It even makes them walk funny
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Re: Which is better , OK Cupid or Plenty of Fish? [Re: danielx] 1
#23528411 - 08/10/16 02:31 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well, yeah, I mean she should be honest, but I dunno on the other hand if the chick was hot and post op... I have to admit I would be a little curious. I don't know if I could actually go through with it, but I had to admit I've always been a little curious about these fancy new surgically created vaginas. What do they feel like? Are they like the real thing? Again though, I don't know if I'd actually have the balls to go through with it.
If the chick still has a cock, then that's an entirely different scenario. I do think it's important for people to know that early on. If you don't mention it in the profile, then hopefully within the first couple messages.
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