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OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? 1
#23516408 - 08/06/16 04:31 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Which ones of you were bullies in school, what did you do and how do you look back on it now? Do you still bully?
From College all the way down to Kindergarten: Which of you were the bullies?
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Asante]
#23516439 - 08/06/16 04:40 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I bullied a few guys in HS. But I was mostly bullied...
Nowadays I am more willing to bully people. Especially store salesmen. It's amazing the kind of deals you get when you're a pain in the ass.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Asante] 1
#23516440 - 08/06/16 04:40 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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i was not a bully, nor did i take shit
rarely did i receive bullying, as i was known to defend myself (even stabbing a friend in the hand with a pencil in the 6th grade cause he wouldn't quit kicking me)
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Asante]
#23516448 - 08/06/16 04:42 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I wonder how many people would actually admit to the true extent they took it to. The ones who never grew up to see it as wrong probably wouldn't really see how bad they were and the ones who did would probably be too embarrassed/shamed to admit to the full the extent of it.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Shroomslip]
#23516458 - 08/06/16 04:46 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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no i would just bully my sisters at home mostly i was kind of a dick in middle school/early high school but the feeling was usual mutual instead of a one-sided bullying situation
i got the fuck bullied outta me in daycare aroundwhen i was in kindergarden and then again during high school by certain groups
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: demiu5]
#23516459 - 08/06/16 04:47 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I used to kind of control a few of my good friends, like i was an intense kid with a lot of ego so when my friends "fell out of line" i'd maybe kick them or wrestle them, but this was only with very close friends and it only lasted a few years, this faded as I matured (still great friends with these dudes) and I have since appologized
I once got bullied in a sort of intimidating african kid who was a big fighter who had problems with everyone. The only thing he ever did was maybe push me once or twice and once he grabbed me from the back and locked my arms which had me pissed this kid got his ass kicked on the regular so he got what was coming, i was just not a fighter
besides that my childhood was 100% dope in that respect
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: ergoticmandala]
#23516468 - 08/06/16 04:50 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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and in high school I sometimes would "bully" people who pissed me off by talking shit about them openly, if that is even considered bullying idk
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: demiu5]
#23516473 - 08/06/16 04:51 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Homeschooled all but the last two years of high school, where I was honestly kinda bullied by this group that pretended to be my friend then just spread mad rumors about me behind my back, but whatever that was years ago.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Asante]
#23516481 - 08/06/16 04:55 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I've had people try to bully me, but I always gave it back to them twice as bad. Ironically, I ended up becoming good friends with all the people who once tried bullying me.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Asante] 1
#23516509 - 08/06/16 05:05 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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The bizarre thing is, is that I did it for my old man...I tortured this poor kid, because I wanted him to think that I was cool. He's always going off about, you know, when he was in school...all the wild things he used to do. And I got the feeling that he was disappointed that I never cut loose on anyone, right...So, I'm...I'm sitting in the locker room, and I'm taping up my knee. And Larry's undressing a couple lockers down from me. Yeah...he's kinda... he's kinda skinny, weak. And I started thinking about my father, and his attitude about weakness. And the next thing I knew, I uh, I jumped on top of him and started wailing on him...And my friends, they just laughed and cheered me on. And afterwards, when I was sittin' in Vernon's office, all I could think about was Larry's father. And Larry havin' to go home and...and explain what happened to him. And the humiliation...fucking humiliation he mustuv felt. It mustuv been unreal...I mean, I mean, how do you apologize for something like that? There's no way...it's all because of me and my old man. Oh God, I fucking hate him! He's like this...he's like this mindless machine that I can't even relate to anymore..."Andrew, you've got to be number one! I won't tolerate any losers in this family...Your intensity is for shit! Win. Win! WIN!!!" You son of a bitch! You know, sometimes, I wish my knee would give...and I wouldn't be able to wrestle anymore. And he could forget all about me...
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Asante]
#23516539 - 08/06/16 05:12 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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My experiences of this aspect of schooling were very interesting. I didn't know any of this at the time but have analysed on reflection.
I spent the first 5 years in school in Rotterdam. I can recall how before I left, I definitely held the position of 'alpha' male. I had the prettiest girl, and had gone through skirmishes with the other boys to establish my position.
I was then taken to Leicester, where I was no longer the alpha, but became good friends with the boy who was, so held my position of 2nd in command, if you like.
Then, I was moved up to where live now. That was a whole mindfuck. There were loads of older boys, so there was no chance of achieving any dominant position. I can recall with absolute clarity the only time I was ever bullied. A kid followed me out of the school gates with his mate about a week after I'd stated and punched me a few times for no reason. I was so stunned I didn't know what to do and just stood there and took it. I hadn't even so much as looked at the kid before.
I vowed from that day on I would never be bullied again, and gave as good as I got to anyone who even hinted at trying it on.
After that I fell into the gangs and started fighting a lot for the fun of it, but I never gave it to someone who wasn't willing and ready. The deep and profound sense of injustice I felt when that kid hit me for no reason has lived on in me ever since.
What about you Asante?
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#23516581 - 08/06/16 05:25 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I was kind of a bully in middle school But I was also bullied in middle school In neither situations did it come to physical fights.
Aside from that I didn't run into it
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Asante]
#23516607 - 08/06/16 05:37 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I've been on both ends of the spectrum
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: ModestMouse]
#23516623 - 08/06/16 05:44 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
ModestMouse said: I was kind of a bully in middle school But I was also bullied in middle school In neither situations did it come to physical fights.
Aside from that I didn't run into it
This but there were a few fights in there
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: hex_enduction]
#23516638 - 08/06/16 05:49 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Was kind of mean between 6 and 9th grade. Before that i beat up kids who started shit. After that i grew up some and tried to treat people decently.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: ReposadoXochipilli] 2
#23516654 - 08/06/16 05:54 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I was a bully and i still am, just the other day i farted on my mom's head and yelled "direct hit!".
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Nobler Hino]
#23516680 - 08/06/16 06:06 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I was a dick in middle school and high school
I've mellowed out a little but some kid from high school described me as an, "unyielding mental terrorist."
Felt pretty bad about that and made a more conscious effort not to be such a huge dick all the time
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Asante] 1
#23516704 - 08/06/16 06:14 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I was thoroughly bullied.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
#23516715 - 08/06/16 06:19 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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One time in middle school this kid snuck up behind me and knocked all the books out of my hand then took off so I went after him and slammed him up against a locker, then he punched me in the face two times in a row and kinda stunned me so I tackled him to the ground and was just about to start rearranging his face when the damn science teacher pulled me off of him
Nobody really fucked with me to any significant extent after that, people knew I was kinda going off the deep end and I had a reputation as a crazy person who did any drug he could get his hands on which was kinda not too far from the truth for most of high school
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Asante] 1
#23516718 - 08/06/16 06:20 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I was a bully destroyer.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Nobler Hino]
#23516721 - 08/06/16 06:20 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I was bullied somewhat in Middle school, though not as badly as some kids.
I started playing guitar when I was around 13 years old, like obsessively. It was basically my entire life. I got really good at it. Like better than anyone I knew or had ever seen in person. That gave me an enormous amount of self-confidence and even kids who bullied me thought I was cool because they knew I was just really good at the guitar. So I was sort of friends with a lot of the "cool" kids, and also sort of friends with the "uncool" kids, because the 'uncool' kids were real, honest people. I didn't let the bully kids mess with the uncool kids though. They used to actually lock kids in lockers in my middle-school.
Something about me gaining self-worth from being really good at music would just make me feel like, whenever I would run into a kid bullying another kid, "Look. I don't care if you have bigger muscles than me and play football. If you mess with those kids I will fuck you up. It will happen." So that was cool. Nobody fucked with me or my friends.
I moved to Birmingham, AL for my last two years of high school and there were basically no cliques or seperated groups of friends at all. There were absolutely no fights and literally everybody was friends with everybody else. It was like a weird little friendly utopia school. It was almost too good. Almost made me want to make some shit happen or fight with someone. But I never did, lol.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: nooneman] 2
#23516723 - 08/06/16 06:22 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I was bullied from elementary to senior year of high school. In elementary and middle school I would stand up for myself and fight for kids who were bullied. Little miss white knight. So in a sense I would be a bully to kids who bullied. Bc I could get really mean if they were a huge dick.
I would get into alot of fights with girls and guys over things thru school. The last time was this kid who suckered punched my brother in the face. I was 18 and he was 16 and my guy friend had to pull me off of him. I'm sure I didn't hurt him that bad tho. I had to be taken away by police but there were no charges against me bc it was stupid on the kids part and he recognized it.
One of my favorite friends in elementary school was this kid who was in a bad fire and had burns all over his body. People would make fun of him and he was cripplingly shy and would tear up about it. I remember him being one of the first people I kissed in front of the other kids and held his hand often. I had an Uber crush on him bc he was so sweet. We would purposefully be excluded from playing dumb kid games like pretend power Rangers so we just did our own thing.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: pachoo] 1
#23516732 - 08/06/16 06:26 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I was a bully for about two weeks, and I only targeted one kid. Oddly enough, the kid was my friend, and I'm not really sure why I started doing it. One day we got in a fight when the kid stood up for himself. After the fight I realized how shitty bullying made me feel, and so I stopped it there. I'm glad it didn't turn into something bigger. That seems like a really shitty path to follow.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: mctaveesh]
#23516742 - 08/06/16 06:30 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Middle school I was a bully but only on the kids nerdier then my group because you had to be a real outcast to be in my group and worse to not be . Then I beat up drug dealers that sold fake drugs or just drugs that cut in to my buisiness and I've been a peaceful passivist since age 17 or so. But I can fight . It's so much easier to apologize to people for not doing anything wrong then to beat up stupid people. Its only when I feel threatened which is really never
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Seriously_trippin]
#23516748 - 08/06/16 06:34 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I moved to Birmingham, AL for my last two years of high school and there were basically no cliques or seperated groups of friends at all. There were absolutely no fights and literally everybody was friends with everybody else. It was like a weird little friendly utopia school. It was almost too good. Almost made me want to make some shit happen or fight with someone. But I never did, lol.
yea i went to a small charter school for a few years of high school similar to this so in those years shit was chill
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: ergoticmandala]
#23516833 - 08/06/16 07:15 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I guess i was picked on sometimes but anytime i was, id dish it right back
most people knew that if they really started something with me, id probly win. i was bigger than most kids in high school and people knew i played sports and could really dish it out
one time a kid in middle school checked me from behind in gym class and i didnt see it coming at all and fell over and pretty much everyone saw it. this kid was a loser and basically the biggest kid in class so right when i got a chance i hit him back and laid him out. like totally uncalled for on my part but i needed revenge. i was keeping it way too real
it was the only time i ever got kicked outta class in middle school
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: LSDeez]
#23517048 - 08/06/16 08:49 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Grew up in England, went to a military type school. There was lots of physicAL fighting, I bullied the weaker kids every day and i also got bullied by the stronger kids.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Asante]
#23517089 - 08/06/16 09:05 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yea, I bullied the bullies.
I.E.- Other athletes
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Asante]
#23517149 - 08/06/16 09:34 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I don't think I ever bullied anybody, at least not in highschool, who knows what I did in elementary ha
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Ezuma]
#23517288 - 08/06/16 10:33 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Soluminia]
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Bullied a couple kids, but it was a group thing. I was friend with a couple pretty bad bullies, who did way worst then me. The punk/stoner gang. One of my friend would punch rejected in the middle of the classroom for like looking at him shit like that
For my part I wasn't that bad I remember once I threw a hot pocket on a kid face sitting at the rejected table in the cafeteria, things like that
There is one dude in particular we basicly scare him for life, this one it's weird cause he was our "friend" But there is nothing we didn't do to this kid. We would always squat his moms house to smoke weed and chill and some friends would go in the bathroom and piss everywhere, on the walls in the bathtub, then an other friend would come in and do the same, We would spit in his beer. Once we told him we were gonna go chill on the roof, he went first and we took the ladder and left him there for like 3hrs.
There is like 40 other storys like that poor kid. After hs He disappeared for like 4-5 yrs ,saw him recently, he was pretty messed up
I sure regret it today, but I really couldn't do much, plus I was really rarely the initiator.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Asante]
#23517418 - 08/06/16 11:26 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I was never a bully, my school years I wasn't not popular, or popular, I just was, nice to everyone and real quiet.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Lucis]
#23517576 - 08/07/16 01:08 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Got bullied when I was England by my first class (class = grade in England) teacher. Her name was Mrs. Smith. She would get the kids in on it as well, I had a lot of untreated behavioral problems then, lots of acting out and shit way above what normal kids had. One time i remember making one of those fish fases, where you suck in the sides of your cheeks, and she put me on the spot and got the kids to laugh at me for making 'kiss faces'
never fit in during middleschool. one time this kid got up in my face saying "you gonna say shit now?" over and over, don't know why, and i pushed him off and walked the other way, quickly being knocked on the ground by the back of my head and then pummeled and kicked by ten other students. there was another kid that would always fuck with me and get others to as well during those couple of years. too embarrassed to note a particular instance.
highschool was more or less the same, no fights that really stand out but i never fit in anywhere, i was just kind of a tumbleweed that drifted from social group to social group, i didn't really belong anywhere and still don't.
my neighbor down the street was a friend of mine for a while till i completely stopped trusting him. him and other kids would knock on my door and run like hell. one time i caught them doing it and they acted like nothing happened, i was always the weird kid to most people i met.
I don't really like people. recently i've been cutting a lot of ties with people in my town, i only have a couple people i really talk to around here anymore, one's a shroomerite that got me onto the site. there is a couple other social groups but they are spread out and not in my town, and I don't feel like i really fit in there either.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Asante]
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I learned in middle school that bullies won't fuck with you if you stand up for yourself against them the first time they try and mess with you. They respect that and find easier targets. Aside from a few instances where said bullies wanted to me to team up and throw basketballs and dodgeballs at people in PE when coach wasn't around, I didn't really partake in bullying.
There was another time in 7th grade where I befriended a loner kid who didn't have many friends. I tried to be his friend when no one else would. I mean, this kid ate lunch in the bathroom stalls by himself because he was that bullied/outcast and I thought that must suck so I wanted to be nice. We hung out at each others' houses, played video games, etc. for like almost an entire school year and believe me--I was his only friend and never did him wrong at all. But one day out of nowhere he turned into a complete asshole to me. Like, telling me to fuck off and all sorts of shit totally unprovoked. I had never done anything but be this guy's (only) friend and a good one at that. He kept this act up and I realized why no one liked him. After I finally talked to him on the phone, he went off about how much he hates me and I'm like WTF did I do to you man, thought we were friends, etc. The next day I went to a lunch table of known bullies--one of which I'd encountered earlier that year and almost fought before getting broken up by the principle, who then later shook my hand and said he respected me for that--and convinced them all that we should give this once-friend-turned-asshole a swirly in the bathroom at lunch. So we did. Years later the asshole kid apparently went around and vandalized the fuck out of peoples' cars in high school who'd done him wrong all those years ago even though he went to school in a totally different district. He never got me though.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: abltsandwich]
#23517594 - 08/07/16 01:14 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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i heard a story like that in my town. they called him "whiffle bat kid" because he vandalized a bunch of people's cars, probably pissed off from previous social abuse.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: 404] 1
#23517625 - 08/07/16 01:42 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I was a bully as a kid. 
It's honestly one of the things I feel the worst about in my life. I was like 6'0 230 hell on wheels as a 12-year old and had a real nasty temper. I was a target for a lot of abuse which turned me into a really wild and violent kid. My temper was out of control then and I could flip on a dime. When you're that size that young with the brain and mouth I had, no one is going to tell you shit but every male peer is going to try to fight you at some point.
Strangely enough, I credit doing mushrooms for the first time for being the thing that really helped get me on a better path and take some of that intense anger away when I was a kid.
I really try to treat people well now and not have negative energy in me or around me. But I can still get into that aggressive bully mode when dealing with assholes who are asking for it but it's super rare.
That said, I live with the guilt of being a bully to people who didn't deserve it every day.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: StrandedVoyager]
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Strangely enough, I credit doing mushrooms for the first time for being the thing that really helped get me on a better path and take some of that intense anger away when I was a kid.
It was Buddhism which started to turn me around
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Asante] 1
#23517826 - 08/07/16 04:58 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I was a gay looking boy
I was bullied violently for a few long years.. And hen I carried myself poorly and anxiously
Nowadays a bully n I would be fighting, As I carry myself with much more pride nowadays
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: SunnyD]
#23518102 - 08/07/16 08:45 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I bullied a bully in high school. Does that qualify?
This takes place in high school journalism.
I'm probaly around 5'8"-10" and 100 lbs at the time so I'm as scrawny as it gets. This kid was maybe 6' at the time and 190-210lbs (ish) and he was an asshole to everyone he could be.
But he was stupid as shit and all talk so i called his ass out for it. He said something stupid in front of the class (basically he spent 5 minutes talking about how different stations have different gas prices right down the street, he had notes of each gas station's prices from the day before, two of them changed mid day and the rest stayed but all varied)
So he exolains this for five minutes and when he's done i ask him to repeat it so everyone can hear.
Now everybody's listening. After he finishes i say
"So you think we should write an article on the fact that different gas stations have different potential? Damn, i wish i thought of that, that's some front page shit, i can see it now "EXTRA EXTRA READ ALL ABOUT IT, GAS STATIONS CHANGE THEIR PRICES"
He says "Dude, what the fuck is your problem?"
"It's a stupid idea man, is that really the best you can come up with?"
"Dude i could snap you in half like a fucking twig if i wanted too, if teacher weren't in here i totally would"
"You know, i belive you could, hell i hope you could, im pretty fucking not delusional, so i won't pick any fights, but i don't think your gonna do shit about it"
"DUDE, AS SOON AS WE STEP OUT IN THE HALL YOU ARE DEAD"
"THEN FUCKING DO IT, QUIT BEING A PUSSY AND DO IT NOW, hell the teacher isn't gonna stop you (the whole year we fucked with and disrupted the class so much my friend and I, she hated us). Even if you wait for her to leave it's not like it changes whether or not you get caught, either it's gonna happen or not and i bet it's the second option"
"Ho ho, just you wait dude, i am going to crush you into a paste when we leave the classroom"
"AND I AIN'T STOPPING YOU, I'm saying you won't because i already know how this plays out"
I never got my ass kicked and ripped on him the same way for the rest of high school. He works at a gas station now that i pop in sometimes. I see him for the first time in like 3 years a few weeks ago and he's laughing with one of the other cashiers about how we used to hate each other's guts, but we're best buds now. The first i see him in years, and somehow we're best buds.
Anyway i went along with it because i really do feel like kind of an asshole even though he picked on kids regularly, also idgaf who or what you are, bringing past beef to the place someone works at in front of their coworkers is never cool to do. So we are best buds now.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Shroomism]
#23518188 - 08/07/16 09:23 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Shroomism said: I was a bully destroyer.
Me too man. I go vigilante on their asses. The only fights ive ever been in have been defending someone being bullied. I was never bullied myself, but i have no tolerance for the shit.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Universaleyeni]
#23518199 - 08/07/16 09:27 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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All through my elementary school years I was the prime target for bullying in my school.
I was a bit odd because of having been sexually abused at a very young age and being raised by a mentally deranged single mother, and of course that could not go unpunished.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Asante]
#23518354 - 08/07/16 10:26 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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i never bullied in school, save, i think one case, where i made fun of a kid who thought he was really smart and had a superiority complex, but i think he was like brought up to think his dad was like some kind of kingshit developer at Google, like he built the damn thing; either that or he was lying and delusional. either way, i made fun of him alot, because he was funny as hell and it was so easy to manipulate him into conniptions.
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#23519643 - 08/07/16 05:44 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Nobler Hino said: I was a bully and i still am, just the other day i farted on my mom's head and yelled "direct hit!".
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Niffla] 1
#23520577 - 08/07/16 10:28 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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How'd I miss that post?
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: pachoo] 1
#23520588 - 08/07/16 10:37 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I guess I could have been considered a bully by some in middle school but I was bullied a lot more than I did anything that was mean to other people. I just fucked with kids that annoyed the hell out of me. And back then being a stupid kid I really cared what others thought so I would make fun of other kids to look cool in front of the kids that bullied me. I hate that I ever did that though and I feel pretty bad about it now.
And to you guys who fuck with people at there jobs to get better deals. Fuck you! Youre a piece of shit. Some people like myself hate people that come in and try to make us foodworkers have a bad day because they themselves have shitty lives. @patlal If you ever come in to my job and try to get free shit by acting like an asshole Ill whoop your ass cause I deal with assholes like you all the time and you honestly don't deserve to have people serve you even if you pay them. People who work at food places like myself have to work their asses off for shit pay and we don't deserve the shit kinds of people like you that we have to deal with. Id happily lose my job to hurt you and teach you a lesson
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: trvptamine]
#23520597 - 08/07/16 10:41 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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trvptamine said: And to you guys who fuck with people at there jobs to get better deals. Fuck you! Youre a piece of shit. Some people like myself hate people that come in and try to make us foodworkers have a bad day because they themselves have shitty lives.
Wow where did that come from man? You've completely lost me. Who does what now?
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#23520604 - 08/07/16 10:44 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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trvptamine said: And to you guys who fuck with people at there jobs to get better deals. Fuck you! Youre a piece of shit. Some people like myself hate people that come in and try to make us foodworkers have a bad day because they themselves have shitty lives.
Wow where did that come from man? You've completely lost me. Who does what now?
That was specifically aimed at patlal. He said he fucks with people at their jobs to get better deals. Im not about that and if I ever met him and he tried to do that to me at my job Id happily lose my job to whoop his ass
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: trvptamine]
#23522045 - 08/08/16 01:37 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Ever seen a bully get taken over by the bullied? It's pretty awesome.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: trvptamine] 2
#23522840 - 08/08/16 07:02 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Patlal says a lot of dumb ignorant shit on here. Try not to let him rustle your jimmies too much.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Acaterpillar]
#23522984 - 08/08/16 07:57 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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In 6th grade I fell out of favor with the popular girls and came back in 7th grade listening to siouxsie and the banshees and NIN and in full goth mode(..minus the colorful tights) and I caught shit over it a few times because my middle school was super preppy(hah I feel so lame just saying that), but was never really bullied.
Never was a bully, but one time as a really little kid I was apart of a mob of children that beat up the poor 16 year old kid who was in the Chuckie Cheese costume at Chuckie Cheeses. man that job must suck so bad.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Asante]
#23522998 - 08/08/16 08:01 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Asante said: All through my elementary school years I was the prime target for bullying in my school.
I was a bit odd because of having been sexually abused at a very young age and being raised by a mentally deranged single mother, and of course that could not go unpunished.
I've noticed that those types of kids who came from unfortunate situations(one kid I remember was in the foster system and a bunch of kids spread a bunch of crazy rumors about how he stabbed his mom in the chest with a knife and that's why he was in foster care) were the ones who were most likely to be bullied in and around the elementary school ages. I'm sorry you went through that, kids can be really cruel.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: pirate-blues]
#23523010 - 08/08/16 08:05 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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pirate-blues said: one time as a really little kid I was apart of a mob of children that beat up the poor 16 year old kid who was in the Chuckie Cheese costume at Chuckie Cheeses. man that job must suck so bad.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: pirate-blues]
#23523019 - 08/08/16 08:08 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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pirate-blues said: I've noticed that those types of kids who came from unfortunate situations(one kid I remember was in the foster system and a bunch of kids spread a bunch of crazy rumors about how he stabbed his mom in the chest with a knife and that's why he was in foster care) were the ones who were most likely to be bullied in and around the elementary school ages. I'm sorry you went through that, kids can be really cruel.
in my town there's this one girl almost everyone unanimously hated throughout all of school just cuz she smelled bad n picked her nose n had a deep voice cuz her mom never taught her to shower or sumthin
one time her mom was a chaparone for a field trip and apparently pulled some 4th graders hair wtf?
i was always nice to the ol gal tho n she had a crush on me. one time she touched my shirt and it left a permanent black mark from how dirty she was tho. hella sux 4 her. last i heard of her was on facebook like 3 years ago she was in a mental hospital
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Sheekle]
#23523328 - 08/08/16 09:37 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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n she had a crush on me.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: ergoticmandala]
#23523334 - 08/08/16 09:39 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I was a bully.
I'd like to say that I was at the bottom of the totem poll, but I wasn't. I was just very close. And I would never let the folks beneath me forget it. I got bullied a lot myself, but I feel really regretful when I remember some of the stuff I said and did to others.
Bullying sucks.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Asante]
#23523335 - 08/08/16 09:40 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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The reliving of the stress response apart from any threat becomes hellish.
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#23523379 - 08/08/16 09:53 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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i hate liz said: The bizarre thing is, is that I did it for my old man...I tortured this poor kid, because I wanted him to think that I was cool. He's always going off about, you know, when he was in school...all the wild things he used to do. And I got the feeling that he was disappointed that I never cut loose on anyone, right...So, I'm...I'm sitting in the locker room, and I'm taping up my knee. And Larry's undressing a couple lockers down from me. Yeah...he's kinda... he's kinda skinny, weak. And I started thinking about my father, and his attitude about weakness. And the next thing I knew, I uh, I jumped on top of him and started wailing on him...And my friends, they just laughed and cheered me on. And afterwards, when I was sittin' in Vernon's office, all I could think about was Larry's father. And Larry havin' to go home and...and explain what happened to him. And the humiliation...fucking humiliation he mustuv felt. It mustuv been unreal...I mean, I mean, how do you apologize for something like that? There's no way...it's all because of me and my old man. Oh God, I fucking hate him! He's like this...he's like this mindless machine that I can't even relate to anymore..."Andrew, you've got to be number one! I won't tolerate any losers in this family...Your intensity is for shit! Win. Win! WIN!!!" You son of a bitch! You know, sometimes, I wish my knee would give...and I wouldn't be able to wrestle anymore. And he could forget all about me...
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: pirate-blues]
#23523383 - 08/08/16 09:55 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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pirate-blues said: Never was a bully, but one time as a really little kid I was apart of a mob of children that beat up the poor 16 year old kid who was in the Chuckie Cheese costume at Chuckie Cheeses. man that job must suck so bad.
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#23523443 - 08/08/16 10:11 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Sophistic Radiance said: I was a bully.
I'd like to say that I was at the bottom of the totem poll, but I wasn't. I was just very close. And I would never let the folks beneath me forget it.
No surprise here, just saying
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